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anonymous asked:

thoughts on phanthony collab? i thought it was so good and they worked well together. i'll admit i was kind of nervous because phil's chemistry can be hit or miss with people but this was so nice and calm i loved it

yessss omg these american youtubers are the only ppl who apparently truly understand fan service and keep giving the people what we actually want!!!!!!! this vid was just 10 mins of phil being soft and fawning over a cute dog and also a cute boy :( i love it so much. their sense of humor actually rly did blend so well, and anthony was so receptive to phil being his quirky self and phil was so calm and gentle and not over-performing!!! plus like just the aesthetics alone are top-notch, the way anthony colors his videos is gorgeous, and they’re both beautiful humans, and phil in that jacket is nearly painfully lovely hahaha. i just wrote out thoughts on my fav moments while watching so i’ll paste those: 

  • lmao @ anthony smooching the drawing of phil right on the mouth. why is he so flirtatious with both dan and phil it’s genuinely so funny 
  • phil sounds .. so good …. over the phone
  • ‘phil, i was trying out a new nickname for you. phil .. me up’ damn anthony is relentless, i need to take notes
  • that firm hug when phil first arrives, wow what a man
  • at 3:48 when they’re figuring out how they’re going to make the sweater and phil just starts barking and tickles anthony’s neck .. i love that he is just so phil and doesn’t rly try to filter that, like he is so unique and somehow mixes that in w being touchy and cute whenever he’s around people and it’s so fun to watch how other ppl react to it tbh. i love that anthony just rolls with it and giggles and plays along. this + all the flirting is why the chemistry is There people
  • i love that the first things phil thinks of for how to make the sweater special are glitter and sparkles
  • phil can’t whistle. did we know that? i don’t think i knew that
  • phil’s shaky hands :( he’s always had shaky hands when he’s slightly under pressure and you can see it in videos sometimes and i think it was so cute that he kind of pointed it out himself here and then just laughed and brushed it off :((( i love him 
  • 4:26 instantly iconic moment of phil almost calling anthony ‘dan’ but cutting himself off at the last moment hahahaha tragic
  • ‘pet me anthony’ ok i can’t fault my mans for availing himself of this opportunity to just go all out and flirt w a pretty boy in his distinctly phil style
  • anthony joins the legions of men before him who have touched phil’s skin and instantly commented on how soft it is. phil immediately offers up that he moisturizes in the same proud tone as always and i am more in love than ever before and more bitter too bc when will phil do an actual comprehensive run-down of his skincare routine
  • ‘let me phil you in’ … apparently he crossed a line with that one anthony looks disgusted ahahaha .. same tbh
  • 5:53 phil listening to anthony talk with his hands pressed to his cheeks is maybe cuter than anything in this video 
  • phil refusing to even write the word bitch and anthony nearly crying with laughter bc of it is a Big Mood
  • phil adding a doodle of some lips to the ‘chic bitch’ is an even bigger mood he’s so fucking funny and good omg
  • phil saying ‘helloooo’ to the pup :(((( end me :( 
  • the cute high pitched voice he uses when he says ‘we made you a little sweater’!!!!!!!!!!!! fuck!!!!!!!!!! little sweater!!!!!!!!!! there are tears in my eyes!!!!!!!!
  • phil’s assessment: roux hates the sweater bc it has foul language and no glitter, and it’s made out of something anthony’s crotch has pressed against djfksdfjskdfj his  mind is a marvel. this video is a marvel

i loved everything so much it was so soft and good :( feelin nothing but grateful to anthony for including dnp in such nice lil videos :((( truly a talent i owe him my life now

a personal list of symptoms i have that fall under the fantasy living aspects of avpd (avoidant personality disorder). maybe you’ll resonate with some of these as well.

  • over consuming media. whether its anime, manga, dramas, or video games. an example: i finished s1 of a 24ep show in two days while playing animal crossing the entire time. when i take a break, i insert myself into the world of the media i’m partaking in. this could manifest as a simple self insert, imagining what i’d do in certain situations, to a complete thought out fantasy world that takes my consciousness out of reality. it can be jarring when i’m dragged back into the real world by force (sometimes, i can have conversations with people without knowing it, and come out of it during). 
  • creating personas / ideal personalities. i don’t like how i portray myself in the real world most of the time. my personality, as i see it, is basically just a bunch of symptoms from disorders. so when i’m in these fantasies i’ve created, i give myself better traits and make myself look the way i want. these visions of myself are often times carried into dreams and, when i’m not paying attention, sometimes through conversation in real life. i lack a thought to mouth filter when this happens. 
  • uncertain reality. because of the dissociating and the constant back and forth between fantasies, reality can seem totally unreal. people and relationships can seem fake, forced, or dishonest. especially when a person you’re close to is sucked into your fantasy. they can say or do something in your made up world, but in the real world — they’d never do or say something like that, which sends mixed signals to your brain. “maybe they would actually do that.”, “maybe they have thought those things before.”, “maybe they do feel that way.”, etc. 
  • if i don’t think about it, it doesn’t exist / didn’t happen. have you ever experienced a dream so vivid of every day life that you have to stop and think, did that really happen or was that a dream? it’s the same concept as that but reversed. if i tell myself something didn’t happen, i start to believe it. example: an acquaintance sets off alarms of potential abandonment. i leave them before they can leave me. i tell myself i never knew them. i start forgetting things about them. eventually, i don’t even remember their name. they’ve been cut from my memory. they don’t exist in my reality. 

where a superhero gets dumped by their long time significant other (for the usual reasons - the lies/the secrets/the late nights/the excessive use of their sewing machine/never telling them when the day resets/breaking the sink/etc) and is just in a funk and their superhero disguise has suffered

they’re wearing sweatpants and a mask, they forgot to add the grease paint over their eyes and the hood is actually a hoodie, they are really rocking the post-break up look 

a lot of the villains decided to give them a grace period. but what the hero really wants is to get back into the swing of things - yet half the villains are MIA and yeah, so what if they showed up to a bank heist in crocs and a band t-shirt. ppl still knew who they were - they drew their logo with a sharpie on the shirt - the ex got the sewing machine in the break-up along with the washing machine

enter their main nemesis who is just upset with the lack of professionalism and also on the other hand - secretly pleased they’re single now - not that the supervillain was hoping for that or anything (they have a sewing machine they wouldn’t mind sharing, tbh)

wanna one as youtubers

yoon jisung

  • started a rlly popular tag but doesnt get any credit for it
  • if someone recognizes him, he always gives them a big hug
  • known for being super genuine
  • feels awkward vlogging in public even tho hes had his channel for yrs
  • makes monthly favorites videos and includes things tht ppl said to him that made him happy

ha sungwoon

  • somehow at every single major event ever
  • red carpet? he was there. movie premier? there. magic show? there. ur moms book club? there too
  • tried to cook once and set his stove on fire so he changed his icon to a crying chef hat for a month afterwards
  • does random impersonations that always make everyone laugh
  • bursts into song in the middle of silent car rides

hwang minhyun

  • befriends smaller youtubers and gives them shoutouts
  • wrote a book and made it on the new york times bestseller list
  • never changes his icon or header pics
  • invites other youtubers over for dinner or games and acts like a wine mom
  • hates editing his videos bc he thinks every sec is interesting

ong seongwoo

  • clickbait titles just to mess w people
  • roasts himself but gets mad if anyone agrees
  • shameless plugs for his merch all day every day
  • everything he does is Iconic tbh
  • meets another youtuber for the first time and becomes their best friend in an hour flat

kim jaehwan

  • 99% of his content is just full of memes
  • he didnt tell anyone he could sing until he randomly dropped a single and everyone lost their mind
  • collabs w ur fave and makes them laugh more than anyone else could
  • tries to post more music-related vids but he keeps laughing midway thru bc one of his friends will do smthn dumb behind the camera
  • proud whenever someone makes a meme of him

kang daniel

  • u can always see at least 3 cats in the background at any given time
  • prob sells bug spray in his online store
  • a rlly genuinely kind and positive person
  • posts vids at random times so everyone always worries abt his sleeping habits
  • had a grwm where he had gummy bears for breakfast and his subscribers threw a fit

park jihoon

  • a vid of him when he was 4 went viral yrs ago and none of his subscribers let him live it down
  • they make him reenact it on the daily bc his toddler-cuteness was unreal
  • friends w everyone but doesnt hang out w other people much
  • hosts giveaways where the prizes r just old used things of his but ppl still enter by the hundreds
  • super high quality editing

park woojin

  • posts anything from dance covers to diys to rants
  • zooms in on everything
  • half his stuff is edited like a crack video even tho hes serious
  • had a secret old youtube channel when he was a kid that he thought no one knew about
  • (everyone knows)

bae jinyoung

  • his first vid probably trended on yt
  • bumps into celebrities in grocery stores
  • made a parody mv of smthn that got more views than the original just bc he looks That Good
  • half his vids are shot on his phone but no one can tell
  • both loves and hates doing q+as with a burning passion but refuses to explain why

lee daehwi

  • so many vlogs
  • always visiting somewhere new
  • grwm always changes bc hes always trying new things and forming new habits
  • king of change honestly
  • opinionated but rlly soft and full of love

lai guanlin

  • shocked whenever someone recognizes him even tho he has thousands of subs
  • always giving tips and recommendations
  • gets a shoutout from one of his fav youtubers so he posts a video the next day of him screaming for 10 min straight
  • shows off his friends and hypes them up
  • plays basketball but cuts the parts where he scores and everyone loses 20 yrs of their life

(more w1 social media imagines here)

anonymous asked:

1/3 i love your clexa writing and ive got a topic that isnt the nicest but im hoping youll still discuss it. lets not gloss over clarkes faults just cause shes the other half of our ship. we all know shes manipulative, cunning and stubborn. she has manipulated and used lexa more than once. i think these incidents all happened early on tho? so ok not so bad i guess? i dont like how she acted so hypocritically later on(killing Emerson), even tho she did come around. still, she went there. but my

biggest issue is when she proposed blood must not have blood. i have no doubt lexa made the choice cause its something shes always wanted as well. but did clarke fully know that? did clarke even consider the further risk to the grounders(more villages attacked) and to lexas very life this would bring? she seemed to be having a one track mind and only considering the well being of her people, not the grounders, not lexa. when titus out right tells her lexas life is at risk, she doesnt offer up anything. doesnt ask if theres anything that can be done to lessen the risk, doesnt propose a new compromise, doesnt seem concerned with anything other than making sure not one of her ppl are harmed. ‘including’(one must assume) the killers as well. it bothers me that she didnt seem too concerned with the risks this huge thing lexa was doing(cause she seemed shocked when lexa agreed, i dont think she knew how much lexa also wanted peace) was going to bring about upon lexa and her people

Ok um. I wouldn’t say she ever “used” Lexa. Tried to manipulate, yeah, but she never downright used her. And you’re right, the most memorable incidents happen early on, see Clarke’s bluff about being able to cure the Reapers, twisting and omitting certain events in regards to Anya’s death, trying (and failing) to convince Lexa to spare Finn. Clarke is good with words, she’s always been. She’s extremely clever and her power of persuasion is impressive. Think about all the characters she convinced to do something she wanted at least once by using the right words, from Bellamy to Nia the list could be endless.

You’re not the only one who has issues with how they handled “blood must not have blood”, so I’m not going to defend what happened 100%. But it’s pointless to criticize poor writing now, so I’m only going to focus on what we got in the show, not the what-ifs. Yes, Clarke definitely reflected on what to say to Lexa; as I said, she’s masterful at understanding what to say and how to say it depending on the circumstances. Her main concern when she first makes that proposition to Lexa is that her people survive. Clarke doesn’t want the people she loves and many other innocents to pay for the actions of a few. So she makes that shocking suggestion. But how shocking is it, really? How shocking is it for Lexa?

First, I want to focus on this brief exchange between Lexa and Indra. (x)

They are discussing about the best way to proceed, and as it’s clear from their grave voices and faces, the answer isn’t as simple as it appears. “In a day’s time we lay waste to Arkadia,” Lexa said right after finding out what happened. She was furious in that moment, and had the right to be. She found 300 of her people slaughtered for no reason, and Indra, one of her most trusted people, told her that Skaikru reject peace and demand land. So she calls for blood. But when her initial rage settles down and she starts thinking more logically about what her next move should be, we get this moment with Indra, and we see that she’s incredibly worried about what is supposed to be the obvious “solution” too. War. Because that’s not a simple solution at all, and the outcome is not at all certain. They have the numbers, sure, but Skaikru has guns. This never ending issue is even brought up again by Clarke in the latest ep of the show, when she’s negotiating with Roan.

It’s not as easy as it seems, Lexa knows that. That’s why she is so concerned. Not to mention that we have been told repeatedly in the show just how different Lexa is. It has been established that she is a visionary, that she doesn’t take joy in violence, that unlike her predecessors she doesn’t want war, she wants unity and peace.

Now, why am I saying all this? To show that Clarke’s proposition and Lexa’s subsequent decision don’t come out of the blue. Clarke doesn’t have to make her way in Lexa’s head and warp her thoughts: those thoughts are already there. I feel the need to bring up the script, because it makes what I’m trying to say even more evident.

See what I mean? Even if they come out on top, Lexa is well aware that there can be no winners in a clash of this kind. No matter who prevails, it will be a bloodbath anyway. And that’s when Clarke comes in. She gets there and suggests that Lexa changes things. Indra is quick to remind Clarke that blood must have blood, to which Clarke replies “Really? Because from where I stand the only way that ends is with everyone dead.” If you look at the script, that’s exactly what Lexa was thinking too, BEFORE Clarke said anything.

If we talk about attempts at manipulation, I actually would like to compare this scene to the conversation Clarke and Lexa have in 2x08, when Clarke is trying to convince Lexa to spare Finn. They start in a similar way.

  • 2x08

LEXA: You bleed for nothing. You can’t stop this.
CLARKE: No. Only you can.

  • 3x05

LEXA: Tell us, Clarke. How does this end? Have you come up with a way to save your people yet again?
CLARKE: No. Only you can do that.

Albeit extremely similar, note the difference there is already between these two exchanges. Yes, there is bitterness in Lexa’s voice, and maybe even the hint of sarcasm, but still, she is open to listening to what Clarke has to say, whereas in 2x08 she tells Clarke there’s no point in discussing (and bleeding). And then we get to the way Clarke tries to approach Lexa, which is strikingly different. (x)

Let’s focus on 2x08. Clarke goes for Lexa’s psyche. She takes that little information she received about Lexa, mixes it with her assumptions about how Grounders are, and she tries to use all that to influence Lexa and make her do what she wants, which is release Finn. What does she tell Lexa?

  1. To give a proof of her power. She is flattering Lexa, telling her she is powerful, hoping Lexa will be more easily convinced if she appreciates her strength.
  2. To show that she is merciful. She has already had proof of Lexa being a merciful person, and Lincoln confirmed it as well. So she shows Lexa she recognizes this characteristic that she has come to realize is important to Lexa, and encourages her to do something that will make other people consider her merciful too.
  3. To not act like a savage. She’s telling Lexa that that’s how her people will see her if she does this, not as the merciful leader, but as a barbarian basically. She is telling her to prove them wrong.

Clarke’s words fall flat, though. She is trying to influence Lexa’s decision, yes, with a speech that sounds very much like Clarke is saying Lexa can elevate herself from the “status” of savage that the Sky People have applied to the majority of the grounders. It all sounds too much like Lexa has to prove something to the Sky People, like it is important that Lexa impresses them positively, almost like she has to prove the good guys that she isn’t a bad guy. But Lexa doesn’t care about impressing them, definitely doesn’t care about the Sky People considering her a bad guy or a savage. “We are what we are.” She sees what Clarke is trying to do and she doesn’t fall for it. It’s not accidental that when Clarke stops trying to manipulate her and instead uses more personal arguments, Lexa doesn’t shut her down as coldly as she did at first but instead replies to her, “But Finn is guilty […] Then he dies for you.” and eventually even lets Clarke say goodbye.

So here you have the failed attempt at manipulation. Instead let’s look at 3x05 now.

There is no beating around the bush here. Clarke tells it like is. Her people did something horrible. And Clarke doesn’t even think about trying to justify them. She’s past that mentality of Sky People being better than Grounders that was still in place in 2x08 (even if progress had been made already). Here, she knows her people are in the wrong and what they did was awful. So no, I don’t think that she is trying to manipulate Lexa, even if only because she knows that Lexa is right in wanting justice. Of course Clarke is not going to say “Go ahead, kill them all.” There are people she loves in Arkadia, people she knows have nothing to do with what Pike and his group did. She talks to Lexa, she suggests an alternative to war (which we already saw it’s not what Lexa wants) and she argues her position with powerful words, because we’ve seen that Clarke is very good at doing that. But it’s all in Lexa’s hands really. Clarke never tries to insinuate her thoughts into Lexa’s mind. 

You know, I’m thinking about 2x08, about how Clarke told Lexa to prove herself, and I’m thinking about manipulation techniques. The events of Hakeldama take place a few days after Lexa bowed before Clarke and swore fealty to her. Now imagine if during her conversation with Lexa in 3x05, Clarke had said something like “Show me your words weren’t empty. Show me your vow is real.

THAT would have been a true attempt at manipulating Lexa. But it never happens. She doesn’t manipulate Lexa, she reasons with her. I think it’s important to notice that Clarke tried to reason with her people too in this same episode, and she failed. Her discussion with Bellamy was a complete disaster, and she couldn’t even get to Pike. Look at what she tells Lexa. (x)

Maybe it’s just me, but I’ve always considered this line right here pretty big. Clarke is placing her trust in Lexa here, she is trusting Lexa to do what her people didn’t, to be better than them. I don’t know, I’ve always found that a pretty huge deal. So no, I can’t really bring myself to say Clarke manipulated Lexa here.

As for what you said about not listening to Titus, I think it’s important to remember that their conversation takes place in 3x06, the episode that features the return of Emerson, who is the personification of Clarke’s demons. She is upset for the majority of the episode, she is so desperate to run away from what she did that she doesn’t think twice about agreeing with Titus that Emerson deserves death, basically going against everything she and Lexa discussed at the end of 3x05 and the beginning of 3x06. Is she being an hypocrite? Yes. And we’re supposed to see her as such, because we’re supposed to perceive how deeply her guilt is conditioning her. The narrative makes sure we see her hypocrisy, via Lexa’s words, “So blood must not have blood applies only when it is my people who bleed”, and Clarke’s reply to that sounds very much like a justification. So it’s not a surprise that she doesn’t listen to Titus when he comes talk to her in her room, she’s not in the right state of mind to do that. Also I would like to point out that this is Clarke’s face when Titus tells her Lexa’s life could be in danger. (x)

Even as upset as she is about Emerson, you can still see that she is worried for Lexa. Definitely not indifferent. 

Also, I would advise reading this analysis by @spacewalkeravenreyes in regards to the connection between 3x06 and 3x12, the episode in which Clarke kills Emerson, but what she did wasn’t hypocritical. Her killing him doesn’t deny the importance of her sparing him in 3x06.

Anyway, this got far too long. TL;DR I don’t think Clarke manipulated Lexa with “Blood Must Not Have Blood”. Clarke is smart and cunning and yes, she can be manipulative too when she wants to, but she is not the devious, evil snake sometimes the fandom takes her for. 

akara1504  asked:

So I'm just a humble follower of every bts blog may it be all about pics, edits, imagines, crack ( which is you, I love u for that) and all that jazz. 2 of the blogs(kimtrain and btssmutgalore) that im following are pissed right now because of people reposting from them which they did not have permission so I checked out the site I may have seen some of your works so uh yeah

Russian sites translating things..this is golden :DD idk if they reposted mine things and frankly I don’t care…as someone who started to ‘stan’ ppl when I was 12ish I depended on these sites that would translate things cause I knew nothing in english…I understand that ppl who do art are mad when their stuff gets constantly reposted. I understand that reposting is shitty but on the other hand im not really that hyped about ppl writing memberxreader imagines and things like that so i can’t really feel for them as much (also i think anyone with at least a little knowledge of what ppl will like can write shit like that…same as anyone could learn how to do fake dont have to be genius for that:D except for bang-tan..but yeah) 

I’m not super excited about reposts when I see them but I mostly just make fun of it…but I do what I do to make ppl laugh and when someone reposts I try to think of it as my work fullfilling its purpose even more…(DOES NOT APLY TO FAN ART, EDITS AND FANFICTIONS YOU FUCKERS)

“Tea?” Baze asked.

Chirrut turned his head in surprise, orienting to the sound of his friend’s voice.

“It’s chav,” Baze said. “Not that wretched Tarine stuff.”

For a second, Chirrut found himself at an utter loss for words. He hadn’t heard Baze’s approach, and Baze was not, generally, a man who did things quietly.

More, he hadn’t sensed Baze’s approach, nor even his presence, and if there was a presence that Chirrut Îmwe knew in the Force more than any other - more, perhaps, than his own place in it - it was that of Baze Malbus.

“Well, if it’s Chav,” Chirrut said, “I can hardly refuse, can I?”


anonymous asked:

I say a lot of negative things in my daily life. I try to play it off as a joke, like I'm ripping on myself. "This is never gonna get better," "it's not like it matters if it gets done right now." I hadn't actually thought anything about my saying that to myself on a near daily basis until you reblogged that badge. My saying those things is hurting my attitude and mental health and the way I work my job. I've got to do better. I've got to feel better

!! it’s really true!! I fell into that mindset too without meaning to bc it really snuck up on me, and before I knew it I was really believing that I’d never get better. When I first found out that there were people like me who felt the same way, I was really happy, because I felt like I wasn’t alone, but finding other ppl with the same illness isn’t the same as finding other ppl with like, a shared obscure interest. Mental illness isn’t normal and it isn’t harmless either, and you can’t just say “hey there’s other ppl like me! Loads of ppl feel the same way so I don’t need to explain myself to anybody anymore or try to get better, this is who I am” because you’re never going to get better ever with that attitude. When I started seeing a new wave of positivity posts looking down on an anti-recovery attitude, it really was a wake-up call for me, because I hadnt even realized that I had fallen into the pessimistic outlook of “this is just who I am and I’m doomed to be scared forever”. Because it’s NOT who I am. Mental illness doesn’t define who you are, and it might feel like you’re being optimistic by accepting that you feel like shit and always will, but you’re really not. Accept that you have issues that make your life difficult, yes, but they can’t hold on to you forever.

Because you CAN get better. It’s not going to be easy, it might take a really long time, but it’s a slow process yknow?? it’s ok if you have a hard time doing things but just because you have a hard time doesn’t mean you’re never going to be able to have a better time. you CAN put in effort to get better, starting with the little things like reaching out to a friend even though it’s scary to be the first one to talk, or forcing yourself to finish a small task you keep putting off, or even doing some research on counselors in your area so one day you can phone one and get some professional help.

I’ve been dealing with anxiety my ENTIRE life, and it manifests in many ways, but I’m doing a lot better with it now than I was years ago, and that’s because I started making more efforts to face my fears. I’m scared of doing some things that other people find really easy, and sometimes I ask someone else to do it for me, but I found that avoiding doing something just made me more afraid of it, so I forced myself to do it anyway even though I was scared and it didn’t cure me the first time, or the second time, or even the tenth time, but every time I did it, it got a LITTLE bit easier, and that’s a good thing. You don’t need to jump in to doing things headfirst, and it’s definitely ok to still take time for yourself and ask others for help, but refusing to get better because you’re convinced it won’t happen is bad. It is. You gotta have faith in yourself that you can recover one day, and try little things one step at a time, and years from now you’re gonna be soooo glad you did

i am going to explain to you, right here right now, why fullmetal alchemist: conqueror of shamballa is a fucking decent-ass movie

  1. “kelas (let’s dance)” is a song written in romanes by a sinti songwriter
  2. ed is at the center of a narrative which is not all about him, which is a SUPER achievement; take sacred star of milos, for example. that movie Fucking Sux like let’s be real, and it is because they took something that had nothing to do with the boys and tried to make ed and al main characters despite that. but it just didn’t work, and we didn’t know the characters so it was boring (and when they tried to put roy mustang in there for us, it just came up looking like ???? why is he There ???? because he had nothing to do with the plot)

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anonymous asked:

It's good to see you being positive about EA's content ! Maybe you didn't knew it but your negative comments tend to just, well, kill the fun for others players. You're just so popular even people who don't follow you have your stuff and words on their dash, mostly by reblogs and recommandation. That's not a bad stuff to voice critics on the game but I thought it was weird that you've something to say when you don't actually play the game but just took pictures.

You know.. everything was right on point, well written.. well explained and all UNTIL you managed to butt in some shade on your last sentence. 

Mind you, as shocking as it might sound to you, taking pictures is MY GAMEPLAY. It’s how i enjoy the game. Just as how many enjoy building or CAS or even machinimas. Does that forbid them (us) to voice what we expect or think about the game? How interesting! The answer is no. I’m going to say the things i like and the things i dislike where it is due. Whenever i want to. Because it’s my page and that’s how i run my page. 

“ Maybe you didn’t knew it but your negative comments tend to just, well, kill the fun for others players. “ For who exactly? I’ve never received that from anyone but you, just now. And it’s not my fault, if they feel that way then maybe they agree to one extent and know that sometimes EA doesn’t deliver quite the things we players want. If you feel that i’m “ruining your game” then why do you still follow me?

“ even people who don’t follow you have your stuff and words on their dash, mostly by reblogs and recommendation “ If ppl reblog my opinions it means that they agree with me. So are you going to complain with them too? did i force those ppl to reblog?

Also, for your information, i’ve played sims 2 AND sims 3 the “regular/normal” way. I’ve started playing that way with sims 4 but i got BORED pretty quick for the lack of things to do. Even now 2 years-ish later, i still find a lack of things to do. That’s why i started creating my OWN world, my own gameplay to meet my needs.

gayfloralbabe  asked:

ok so like,, completely random but i just wanted to screm some headcanons!!!!!! mostly im just loving the idea of femme nonbinary hunk bc like,,, thats me!!!!!! the big chubby nb gal!!!!! what a good kid!!! also!!!! i love lance!!! so much!!! genderfluid lance is my fave thing!!!!! lance in crop tops!!!! is the best!!!! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok but like:

  • hunk coming out to lance at the garrison n lance being The Best n gives them hugs n says that their valid n still amazing
  • hunk crying bc they was so anxious abt the whole thing even tho they knew lance was a rad guy
  • lance using hunks pronouns straight away n he compliments her “hunk ur such a cute girl !!!” n “wow u kno i have this friend called hunk n theyre super rad” 
  • the two just sit there all night talking n laughing n painting each others nails , so basically a normal night for them
  • hunk being too scared to correct ppl on her pronouns but lance corrects them as soon as someone gets them wrong
  • “oh hunk is the engineer, hes-” 
  • “oh gosh im sorry hunk, theyre rlly good at that stuff, u should ask them” 
  • n hunk just beams n lance looks at them grinning bc “wow i love them sm”
  • lance coming to hunk one day n being like “hey how did u kno u wasnt cis ????”
  • hunk helping lance !!!! n telling them its ok to not kno n to b confused
  • lance figuring out theyre genderfluid n goes between boy n agender 
  • hunk doing the exact same as what lance did n compliment lance using their pronouns 
  • “i love lance, theyre super rad” n “lance, ur a super handsome person” 

ok but concept that I really do like: annamis getting to Know each other post s3 in the way that ppl who live together really do

like obvs they Knew the Essence of each other’s characters before which is why they FELL in LOVE!!! But like. Anne learns that Aramis talks in his sleep. Aramis learns what Anne looks like when she has the hiccups

things like that

& I really want Anne to sometimes be like WHAT KIND OF HABIT IS THIS and go to Porthos and be like “listen I am asking u this in confidence bc it is the summer time and VERY HOT ….. he koalas in his sleep” and Porthos sighs with the wisdom of experience and is like “listen ur majesty …. U really just have to kick him off the bed that’s the only solution”

Building your exposure

ta*****n said :

Hello~I’m so sorry for came here to ask these things for you, but I’m so sad with my work…So… How you start to post on Tumblr or Instagram? In your beginning how it was? You receive a lot of likes or not (like me)? How did you spread your arts? Please help me if you can…Sorry again.     

Answer :

Really sorry for late reply of this q.

I started posting fanarts in Twitter and Tumblr (and in IG later), all of it work differently in case of exposure.

For Tumblr I used hashtags, a lot of it, I think if you just starting building exposure for your blog, you need to be specific with hashtags, such as “Minseok fanart” instead of “Minseok” (it sounds silly but imo it works). My exposure here is really gradual, I keep posting fanarts and more ppl discover it thru hashtags, and at some point I think it becomes easier to discover my fanarts thru other’s reblogs. Sometimes I noticed a jump in followers, I just think maybe some big blog out there reblog one of my post, or other things happened. I can’t deny it’s really random, and you can’t predict which fanart will get a lot of attention.

For Twitter, imo twitter supports more interactions. I started there with basically knew no one. And again I used hashtags when posting fanarts. Other than that I tried to say hi to other EXO-Ls and dropped comments on other’s fanarts. I found it really difficult at first since I am not talkative person, and my English skill was basically zero. If you’re a talkative person, I think it’s an advantage to build exposure thru twitter, interact there, gain friends, RTs and exposure will come gradually.

Random thing, I remember my first fanart that got attentions is the one w/ Beagle line as Harry, Ron, and Hermione, I guess AU fanart can gain more attentions.

For IG, I still feel clueless until now since I use IG basically to reduce the amount of my fanarts being reposted there. But I remember I got a jump in followers when I posted that Icons for Jongdae’s bday because ppl keep link it back to my ig acc.

I suggest you to make accs in different platforms and keep posting in all of it since we never know which platform will work better and give you more exposure. Remember to give link to other platforms, so your followers will know you have other platform accs.

Ah also, pay attention @ time you post your fanart. Choose the highest traffic time. For Twitter I notice the highest traffic is around 10-12 PM KST.  For tumblr and IG I post in same time w/ Twitter. It will be pointless if you want ppl to notice the fanart but you post it when most of your mutuals/followers are sleeping.

That’s my experience. I am sure it will work differently for you. I know it will feel discouraging if you think you got little appreciation for fanarts you created with hardworks, but like ppl said starting is always the hardest part. Keep doing what you like and enjoy it, at some point, exposure will come when you’re not really waiting for it.

I hope it helps!

anonymous asked:

Re: The lack of smut in the TDDK tags. TBH I'm so freaking jazzed about it tho? It kind of feels like the whole fandom agreed that they're in this ace relationship built on trust and mutual love and it's such a gift to me because even if one or the other /isn't/ ace, /it's never mentioned/, so their aceness isn't a relationship breaking black cloud (which I've seen in other fic, and have also experienced because sometimes people are assholes), it's just a /thing/. (And if they're not ace, 1/2

that’s cool too?) Idk, I guess this whole thing boils down (for me specifically) to being happy that I can headcanon that characters are like myself, and don’t have to comb through ten different tags to find a fic that doesn’t use asexuality (headcanoned or otherwise) as a dramatic prop or as something someone just has to get over for their s/o as if there’s no other way to have a relationship if you’re not banging. That’s my unrequested 2 centa, least. 2/2

honestly the smut i’m mostly complaining about here is when the two characters act like fucking porn stars or some shit like holy fuck it’s impossible to find the kind of smut that’s emotional and awkward and plays at your heartstrings in the worst ways and is more than smut and actually a consummation of love like jeez.

considering i’ve walked in and out of archives where literally ever. other. fic. was just outright smut ((not even with a decent plot)) the tddk tag is my safe haven and i would like to keep it that way.

yeah i honestly don’t see a point in mentioning if a character is ace and whatnot–nowadays we barely address if a character is homosexual in fanfics (because  homosexuality should be considered normal, not weird or some bs), and the same should be said for other sexuality, which, mind you, is not just homosexual and heterosexual i thought ppl knew about this already.

the thing about asexuality being used as a dramatic prop is just. stupid. like. dude. if you really really love someone you’re not gonna give a fuck about the finer aspects of them, because the emotional attachment (and, idk, the relationship) will (or should) always mean more. you might have urges but u sure as heck can keep your dick (or whatever variant) in your pants if it means not making your partner uncomfortable. 

anonymous asked:

Gambit (X-Men) all of them?

1. Made the first move:
– Remy did, and he was a smooth talking fellow as always.

2. The big spoon:
– Remy likes to spoon you, and you like to spoon him whenever he gives you the chance. You like running your fingers through his soft hair.

3. The little spoon:
– switches up from time to time!

4. The cuddler:
– Remy is totally the cuddler. “Y/N……..” “What, Remy?” He would stick his arms out towards you and be like, “I need some lovin’, baby cakes.”

5. Cries during movies:
– you both cry together. I mean, I’m just saying, but how can you NOT CRY OVER MUFASA’S DEATH??

6. More affectionate:
– you both are. You’re big on pda and love to piss off the X fam whenever the two of you are around each other.

7. Their favorite non-sexual activity:
– the two of you like hustling people when playing cards, since cards are remy’s strong suit and favorite thing in, like, the entire world ever. Second to you, of course.

8. More nervous to meet the parents:
– Remy had to legit psych himself out to get to meeting your parents. He was a wreck.

9. More protective/jealous:
– you both are pretty protective over each other, and, boy, do you make it known. Like, Remy will start swearing expletives left and right in this thick Cajun accent at people who flirt with you or are rude to you, while you subtly use your abilities to mess with people who get wrapped up in Remy’s charm.

10. Sneaks into the shower with the other in the mornings:
– switches on and off between the both of you. Sometimes he’ll do it, other times you’ll do it.

11. Initiates sexy times the most:
– Remy does, because he’s such a fucking tease.

12. Fuck or make love:
– both. You love it when the two of you fuck, because those are the times when the two of you can indulge your kinks with one another, but you also love it when he makes love to you and just worships your body and everything about you.

13. Behind the wheel more often during road trips:
– you like to equally take turns driving during particularly long road trips, but if it’s a fairly short distant road trip, Remy will do it.

14. Gives the silent treatment when they’re mad at each other:
– you do, and then you start flirting with other guys just to purposely piss him off. Needless to say, Remy goes ballistic and basically makes a fool out of all of the guys who are enraptured by you when they come around to play cards with him. Once the people are humiliated, he practically kisses you to an oblivion and comes very, very close to hooking up with you right in the bar or casino or wherever the two of you are. You forgive him pretty quickly after that.

15. Reaches for the other’s hand first:
– Remy does, because he likes to always be connected to you in some way or another.

16. Whispers inappropriate things in the other’s ear at inappropriate times:
– Remy is so guilty of this, entirely because he likes seeing you all hot and bothered during important meetings and other things of importance. He likes the way that you squirm around in your seat uncomfortably, knowing that he’s the one that caused you to get like that. You get back at him for his little show later by denying him after teasing him for the next few hours.

17. Comes up with cheesy pick-up lines:
– Neither of you do!

this scene tho:

like, what kind of sad things even happened to her???

the only time she’s shown to be upset is:

  • when chari revealed he’s both the king and the kind chris in ep11
  • when chari rejected her at the party in ep19

when mugaro got taken in ep8, she was even not as upset as she was in those occasions with chari

her father’s trauma? got magically cured with a kiss in ep17

all this time, nothing really happened to her; all these sad things happened to the ppl around her and she was around for the ride but even then she was not shown to be upset or show any consideration.

compared to what happened to jeanne and especially azazel, what exactly happened to her???

compared to what happened to kaisar and favaro in genesis, what exactly happened to her???

this scene really annoys me so much

esp since all she cared about for most of the show was her crush on someone whom she knew caused the sufferings for her so called friends.

tell me then, what kind of sad things actually happened to her, other than being rejected by her crush?

also, if chari didn’t actually reject her in ep19, would she still react to mugaro’s death this way?

Wanna One When Their GF makes a Anniversary Video for them

hi! Sorry this took so long! School just started for me so I’ve already been bombarded with homework ;-; but anyways! I hope you like this reaction! i feel bad because I ran out of ideas towards the end bhfhgf


I think Jisung would get very emotional over it. Like once he opens the message you sent him and starts watching the video he would get so close to tears because he would think about all the times that you have helped him get through the incredibly touch times he has had. He would just sit there and hold back the tears while also being happy that it’s already been one year with you! 

“This is so sweet of her I wouldn’t never thought that she would do this.”

Originally posted by hitoritabi


I think Sungwoon would just start smiling! Like since you are the one in the relationship that doesn’t say affectionate things (you were more of a “actions speak louder than words” type) he would be over the moon to see that you have prepared a mini anniversary video to talk about how much you care for him! 

“This makes up for all the times that she got embarrassed when I said I love you!” 

Originally posted by sungwoah


You would probably send him the video clip when he’s talking to you (like straight up interrupt) and he would just start watching the video and smile a little because he finds it so sweet! but he can’t show too much emotion though bc he doesn’t want the other members to tease him.

“I can’t believe Y/N prepared this.”

Originally posted by nu-blessed


Since you both are very extra you would probably get the members to play your video on the TV at the dorm when you aren’t there just so you can get that surprise and dramatic affect (it does work tho refer to gif FHDKLFH ) and Seongwoo’s jaw would just DROP. like you already celebrated your anniversary earlier but you went out of your way to say how much you love him?! and in front of other people too?! he was just overflowing with happiness in the form of looking shocked FJHLSD 

“You guys are seeing Y/N talk about how much she loves me right?”

Originally posted by moxiepoints


You would probably email him the video with the title of “chain mail letter don’t open or cursed” and text him like “i dare you to open it, I dare you.” and he would just open it bc its from you so ofc its important and your anniversary video would just pop up and i bet he would just watch it with the sweetest gaze on his face. Like he would just have no words while watching it because he appreciates you going out of your way to talk about how much you love him!

“We both don’t say i love you a lot but hearing it this time makes it feel so much more special!”

Originally posted by songnayoongifs


Daniel would totally be a giggling mess once he opens the video message you sent him! like he would even show it to the other members to show how much he is enjoying one of the rare times that you will say how much you love him out of your own mouth! 

“Do you guys see that?! Y/N said she loves me! She’s said it before but every time she says it I fall in love a little more!”

Originally posted by kngniel


Once he opens that video up on his computer he’ll get super shy and embarrassed bc like he shares a room with 4 other ppl and his computer volume was on loud so ofc they got interested and crowded around him. You would probably say the cheesiest things on purpose just to make him even more embarrassed (you knew he wouldn’t put headphones on to listen to the video so why not make him embarrassed while also saying how much you love him?) 

“She’s so cute but can I watch the video without you guys embarrassing me?” 

Originally posted by iqueenforever


Honestly Woojin would not care if the others saw, he’d be too happy and in his own world seeing you on the screen talking about how amazing he is to you and how you appreciate how he has dealt with you for the past year. His signature snaggletooth smile would come out right at the part that you mention it at and he would just smile even more because you’re making him fall in love with you more 

“I didn’t think that Y/N could get me to fall in love with her even more.”

Originally posted by forwoojin


So you asked (more like told Daehwi to do this favor for you bc since wanna one is hella busy you gotta pass on your message to jinyoung in the most extra way possible) Daehwi to put your video to Jinyoung on the TV and when it does Appear Jinyoung will literally stand up from his seat (rmber that time from pd101 where his audition popped up and he literally screamed? like that but without screaming) and move closer to thetv just to hear you and see you.

“That’s my girlfriend talking about how much she loves me on TV right now!”

Originally posted by winkdeep


Daehwi would be also a giggling mess when you make a video for your anniversary together! Like he is always super affectionate with you and just seeing you being equally as affectionate through your first anniversary will make him even happier!

“I can’t believe she would do this for our first anniversary i feel so blessed!”

Originally posted by idaehwi


Guanlin would know already, why? Bc you are terribly bad at keeping secrets so once your video pops up on the email you sent him he would just exclaim and instantly press play just to see you talk and then watch it again to actually hear what you said.

“She’s so pretty and caring and even though she isn’t as affectionate as I would hope she’s everything i could hope for” 

Originally posted by woojinnies

anonymous asked:

What do you say to people that try to invalidate your relationship because you are in a long distance relationship

i honestly didn’t really know what to say to people when syena and i had only been long distance for 2 years when we were so incredibly in love and knew we were in it for life but people don’t understand how you can know things like that for sure while only meeting in person a few times. you just have to remember that what you have in your relationship is worth it and it really only matters how you feel about it. it’s actually pretty funny because a lot of those same ppl who would invalidate me and syena’s relationship for being long distance went long distance for college and told us that we “were so lucky” to be near each other and they constantly told us how cute our relationship was when they could finally see it and conceptualize it for themselves, even though our relationship was that strong and important the whole time. people are going to be assholes about things they don’t understand but you know how much your own relationship means and i do truly think that’s all that matters

"i act like idc it's just to protect myself cuz I learnt that however I try. No ones gonna stay in my life forever anyway. ppl come n go, i've seen too much of it. u think it's fun for me breaking up with ppl who care abut u the most? "

He was my boyfriend, I was so in love with him. He’s Chinese, I’m French, and we met in China. he’s now living in Canada. We had known each other for one month. 

I knew from the start the relationship wasn’t viable, but I decided to follow my heart and visited him. It was the best week of my life, we did amazing things, he was so proud to present me as his girlfriend to his closest friends. But facing the reality when coming back home is awful. He began to take some distance so I decided to break up to protect myself. I think he didn’t realize what I’ve done for our relationship. 

 I miss him and cry everyday. I can’t even focus on school and I know he’s gonna get over me, even if he told me I was the nicest girl he has ever dated. Distance is shit. 

anonymous asked:

when u get a new SpIn n u talk abt it non stop to ur friend bc u love it sm+want everyone to know how great it is n instead of getting annoyed like other ppl bc "god youve been talking abt that FOREVER" she gets super excited WITH ME!!!! even if she has no idea what im talking abt and i know she doesnt, she at least pretends n says things like "i should watch that show it sounds awesome!!!!!" or "i didnt know we knew all that abt jupiter!!! tell me more/send links" n it makes me feel Valid™ 👽🌎