is there anything you cannot do

FRIENDLY REMINDER

JUGHEAD JONES IS ASEXUAL CANONICALLY. A S E X U A L.

THAT MEANS WHEN YOU WRITE ABOUT HIM, YOU CANNOT:

- MAKE HIM HAVE SEX IF YOU DO NOT MENTION HE IS ONLY DOING IT FOR THE PLEASURE OF THE OTHER PERSON

YOU CAN, HOWEVER:

- MAKEOUT SESSIONS
- HOLDING HANDS
- LITERALLY ANYTHING ROMANTIC BUT SEX OKAY

anonymous asked:

i cannot focus on anything! i want to study but it is really difficult for me. what would you advise me to do to focus more.

i’m sorry to hear that ur struggling a little bub!! is there anything causing u to be so distracted?? if there is then maybe if u try and solve it it’ll help u focus more?? if not, ur going to just have to force urself to work through it by making studying into a habit. turn ur phone on do not disturb mode or airplane mode, and try to finish ur tasks one at a time. make sure u take plenty of breaks (working non-stop is not fun + won’t help with ur focusing issue). i find that when i’m a bit antsy, what works for me is to set small goals along the way. eg. if i’m writing up notes and there’s 70 slides, i’ll say to myself “ok write up to 20 slides and then and only then can u take a break”, and then i’ll reward myself with some time on my phone/a snack for reaching my target. idk if this will work for everyone but pls give it a try!! i hope it helps u 💗

anonymous asked:

Can you explain to me libra moons? I have so many people in my life that have that placement but its the one thing idont get. Also congrats on your followers you deserve it!!!

Thank you, thank you so much!

This is from what I have observed with those who’ve had Libra moons in my life…

They are fair minded. They can be quite indecisive in their live, especially when growing up. They also are not very confrontational. They may play stupid sometimes or act like nothing is wrong to keep the peace. They are very good at just letting things go and they want to be liked by everyone. Conflict is just something they cannot stand. They will do anything to keep the peace. However, if they do feel strongly for something that they feel is unfair or involves injustice then they will throw you the facts, they will be real about it. They are also very romantic though. They fantasize about love and loving someone and being loved by that someone. 

Hope this helps!
XXX lunarpsyche 

When your sign stops being in love:

Aries: not fighting or cute fighting with you anymore even though they really are annoyed.
Taurus: starts to feel uncomfortable around you.
Gemini: Leaves you
Cancer: nothing you do can hurt them anymore
Leo: stop showering you with love, grows bitter.
Virgo: they start questioning whether they were in love to begin with.
Libra: fights you all the time
Scorpio: literally cannot trust you for anything.
Sagittarius: top including you to things, forgetting you, basically.
Capricorn: Wont have time for you
Aquarius: closes off physically.
Pisces: closes off emotionally.

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please watch officially if you can!!! i understand in some situations you legitimately Cannot (i mean hey i’m not american and dont live there and also am a student without a tv license or anything to provide channels) but if you’re able to provide official views, please do!!! 

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Please read.

And I thought my life couldn’t get any worse. More trauma. My mother was arrested and she’s the only person I have (the only person who does not abuse me). I’m old enough to live by myself but I’m only 17 and extremely mentally ill and cannot go into work unless it is sex work, which will deteriorate my health further. She did not do anything wrong, she has a morphine pump for broken disks in her back and she was charged with a DUI. I know it’s not a “big deal” but this week I’ve been admitted to a psychiatric hospital, my moms been arrested, I’ve been assaulted. If you could reblog this and please donate I would be grateful. I have no medicine, which is my cymbalta, humalog, klonopin, and lamictal. I am a type one diabetic and I will die without it. I need to try to get money for SOMETHING. ANYTHING. I cannot live like this and I don’t know when she’ll be getting out, and when she does we will have No. Money.
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Well-run libraries are filled with people because what a good library offers cannot be easily found elsewhere: an indoor public space in which you do not have to buy anything in order to stay. In the modern state there are very few sites where this is possible. The only others that come readily to my mind require belief in an omnipotent creator as a condition for membership. It would seem the most obvious thing in the world to say that the reason why the market is not an efficient solution to libraries is because the market has no use for a library. But it seems we need, right now, to keep re-stating the obvious. There aren’t many institutions left that fit so precisely Keynes’ definition of things that no one else but the state is willing to take on. Nor can the experience of library life be recreated online. It’s not just a matter of free books. A library is a different kind of social reality (of the three dimensional kind), which by its very existence teaches a system of values beyond the fiscal.
—  Zadie Smith
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“you cannot do anything with skills like that.”

“I KNOW THAT ALREADY! yes, we should have been switched. then you would have revived our family. i only like looking at the stars, and following girls around. i am bad in sword-fighting and martial arts… i am inferior IN EVERYTHING! but what can i do? WHAT CAN I DO? THIS IS WHO I AM!”

  • Sir Arthur Conan Doyle: "You can murder him, marry him, do whatever the fuck you want with him, Sherlock Holmes can suck my balls."
  • Steven Moffat: "Read you loud and clear."
  • Mark Gatiss: *Winks*
  • Randos: "They canNOT make Sherlock Holmes gay that was nOT in the BOOKS If the author wanted **that** he would've WRITTEN EXPLICITLY GAY SEX in his VICTORIAN book how DARE they slander the beautiful manuscript in such a way WHAT the fUCK isn't anything Sacred anyMORE?!?!"
Your right to ship what you want doesn’t supersede someone else’s right to express their discomfort with your shipping habits.

Part of being a responsible member of fandom means understanding that people may have issue with your media consumption. Especially when your chosen ship is triggering to others. It doesn’t matter if it’s a coping mechanism; it doesn’t matter if you do your best to hammer whatever you think are the problematic elements out of it, people still have the right to express, on their personal blogs, how uncomfortable your ship makes them. 

You cannot shout down people expressing their discomfort with fandom trends as “spreading drama” or “encouraging hate.” You cannot uncritically advocate that people blindly and silently accept every fandom trend, trope, and ship without saying anything about. 

I’m not talking about sending hate to creators; not only is that useless, but it makes things more personal than necessary. But people have the right to express their discomfort with fictional pairings and fandom trends without every shipper responding with an essay as to why they’re being personally attacked. Responsibility is a two way street; yes, people have the responsibility to avoid content that upsets them, but shippers of problematic ships have a responsibility to not normalize a culture of blind acquiescence, or hound people for posting untagged opinions about your ship. They have a responsibility to understand that what they’re doing may make people uncomfortable and not throw a tantrum when someone points out their problematic ship is problematic. 

You cannot silence people who are triggered by your ship. 

You cannot create a culture where any impersonal dissent is immediately shouted down under the guise of “not spreading drama”. 

You cannot create a culture where people’s fictional pairings matter more than people’s right to express their discomfort with fictional pairings. 

Most importantly, you need to be okay with the fact that people are going to find your ship unsavory. Your right to ship what you want doesn’t supersede someone else’s right to express their discomfort with your shipping habits.

you know that bit in the film adaption of prisoner of azkaban where the full moon comes out and sirius gets so Extra and desperate and also like really Gay 

sirius: [rushes over to remus WHO IS LITERALLY TURNING!!!!!]

sirius: remus, my old friend!!!!!! have you taken your potion tonight?

remus, inwardly: WHAT DO YOU THINK, DUMBASS

remus, outwardly: [literally cannot do anything but Turn]

sirius: [grabs remus, wraps his arms around him, their chests flush against each other] YOU KNOW THE MAN YOU TRULY ARE 

remus: [obviously knows the man he is, obviously cannot respond to sirius’ ridiculous rambling because he IS TURNING] 

sirius: THIS HEART IS WHERE YOU TRULY LIVE [pushes his hand against remus’ chest desperately as if the power of his love can somehow stop all of this from happening] THIS HEART HERE 

remus: [is now a foot taller than sirius and is Struggling not to hurt him]

sirius: THIS!!! FLESH!!!! IS!!! ONLY!!!! FLESH!!!!!! [continues to keep his arms wrapped around remus as he keeps turning] REMUS!!!! 

remus: [howls, turns completely into The Wolf, flings sirius high into the air] 

me: hello 911 yes sirius black is a Gay Fool 

#ok i wanna talk about bellamy blake in this scene #look at his little smile #and his shock #the time it took to process and accept that someone #THANKED HIM #bellamy blake cannot believe that someone thanked him #cause he never once in his life got that #he thought it was his responsibility #to take care of his sister #of his people #and he gave #and he gave #and he gave #till there was nothing left #and never expected anything #and here comes clarke #who always sees him #and she thanks him #and do you see his face #he is trying to accept this thanks #cause he thinks he doesn’t deserve it #BUT MAYBE FOR A MOMENT THERE #for just a tiny moment #bellamy blake thought he deserved it #cause for once he managed to keep someone alive #this smol, fierce, as broken as he is girl #that always manages to get under his armor

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New Wands in the Shop & Major Changes

This is not the same sort of update as I normally do. Just letting all of you know there are going to be some HUGE changes to my shop. I got a notice from Warner Brothers last night that I cannot use anything with ‘Harry Potter’ or content of the book in my work. It was a little discouraging, but I mulled it over and will continue to make wands and just list them a little differently. In a way, this works out better so people can choose a wand specific to their personality rather than anything pre-sorted and I can expand on things more inspired by other books like Lord of the Rings and Magician: Apprentice. I am having to redo all my listings to reflect these changes, but do not worry! I will still continue to do custom orders to your specifications and will have everything re-listed this week.

16 QUOTES OF 2016

hey everyone!!! here are 16 quotes that i’ve loved in the year of 2016 !! enjoy : ))

  1. “the most complicated thing is to be simple” –  d.stojanovic
  2. “if you ever get the chance to treat them the way they treat you, no matter how painful it was, i hope you choose to walk away and do better” – najwa zebian
  3. “have some fire. be unstoppable. be a force of nature.” – cristina yang from grey’s anatomy
  4. “sometimes it’s the very people who no one imagines anything of who do the things no one can imagine” –  christopher morcom from the imitation game
  5. “courage is like a muscle. we strengthen by use.”  – ruth gordo
  6. “you have to be able to accept failure to get better.”  – lebron james
  7. “we cannot love anyone with half of our heart and expect a connection to grow to its full potential.”  – alex elle
  8. “don’t think. it complicates things. just feel, and if it feels like home, then follow it’s path.”  – r.m drake
  9. “detach from what destroys you.”  – r.h sin
  10. “sometimes you gotta burn some bridges to create some distance.” – olivia o’brien 
  11. “there is no way around the hard work. embrace it.”  – roger federer 
  12. “we all have battle scars.”  – raven reyes from the 100
  13. “you did a terrible thing, but it doesn’t mean you’re a terrible person.”  – miranda bailey from grey’s anatomy
  14. “one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do is to stop loving someone because they’ve stopped loving you.”  – kendall jenner
  15. “never take a learning opportunity away from another student. no matter how smart you need everyone to think you are.”  – annalise keating from how to get away with murder
  16. “understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery.” – j.k rowling

If you honestly think that social injustices or inequalities are only valid if enforced by systemic oppression then really you don’t actually give a shit about social justice.

If you cannot imagine a scenario in which social injustice occurs without forcing a “oppressor vs oppressed” dichotomy onto the situation you are far to simple minded to do anything useful to further social justice.

If you do not consider a victim valid unless you believe that they belong to a larger group of perpetual victims then you don’t actually fucking care about helping victims.

If the only social injustice that concerns you is that committed by the straight white man you clearly care more about demonizing them than you do about actually working towards a world free of social injustices.

  • James: prepare your "why i'm still single" speech to give to the fam while you can
  • Sirius: how about "Well you see, Aunt Druella, I just value my academic studies and my future higher than finding a relationship. All the half-boods only want sex. And you know, as a righteous pure-blood, I cannot condone this behavior. I'd rather just shag my cousin to keep the bloodline clean."
  • Sirius: they won't suspect anything until i devour Remus for dessert
  • James: if for some reason your sexuality slips, do yourself a favor and don't mention the fact that your boyfriend is a half-blood werewolf
  • Sirius: will do

anyway we need some OCD positivity posts

shoutout to people with OCD whose compulsions interfere with their daily lives

shoutout to those whose compulsions are more thought based than action based

shoutout to those whose intrusive thoughts take up so much in their head that they cant think clearly 

shoutout to those whose intrusive thoughts can get so bad that they think they’re a bad person because of them

shoutout to those who are trying so hard to break their rituals but no matter what they do, they just cant

shoutout to those who have to have everything symmetrical or in a specific position in general in order to feel comfortable

shoutout to those who cant make it to anything on time because they have to check things over & over until they finally can get out of the house

shoutout to those who have trichotillomania &/or dermatillomania & cannot hide it

shoutout to everyone who has OCD. you’re doing your best. you’re not wrong. you’re not weird. you’ll be okay.

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(( OOC: Okay…. Charlie Rowe and Lee Pace as Remus Lupin. I have never had stronger feelings for any fancast in my life. 

I mean look at this kid…

He has the sweetest face I’ve ever seen… AND the sad puppy eyes!? WHAT!?

AND LET’S TALK ABOUT LEE-

WTF EVEN IS THIS!?

WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE!? 

REMUS FREAKIN’ LUPIN, THAT’S WHO!!! 

HAVE YOU EVER SEEN ANYTHING SO REMUS IN YOUR LIFE!?

I rest my case. *drops megaphone* ))