I don’t get involved with the shipping preferences of others, I ship and let ship.
However, I’ve found the aggressiveness of the Jonsa shippers quite befuddling. You do realize your shipping a crack ship, right? Which is perfectly fine, we all have them but we are aware of it and ship the for the fun of it. The Jonsa ship has no textual evidence and no real show evidence. Kit and Sophie had good chemistry together, that doesn’t make it a ship. And it most certainly does not make it canon.
The meltdown going on right now over the reddit leaks is kinda crazy. The leaks themselves for the most part are a load of crap but they are not wrong in their pointing out of the emanate paring of Jon and Daenerys. That’s a ship with a shit load of textual evidence and series evidence. Now, that’s my preferred ship but I know it’s not canon until it happens.
Martin is a very methodical writer, non of the twist we have seen have come out of nowhere, if you go back you can find all the clues for Ned’s death, the Red Wedding, Jeffrey’s death, etc. If something is going to happen you better believe he’s laid down the bricks for it. And so have Dan and Dave, who have referred to Daenerys and Jon as ice and fire.
“A blue flower grew from a chink in a wall of ice, and filled the air with sweetness. …mother of dragons, bride of fire …”