I’ve been doing a lot…a lot of research on various spiritualities for reasons, mostly because in order to Do anything for others I must gird my inherent skill with a language of intellect and validity that others find agreeable…
but it brings me back to something I’ve lamented before and really didn’t have the context to place:
Spirituality as diaspora is complicated, painful and often inherently exclusive and I’m tired of engaging with it this way.
Specifically, what of those who are called to spiritual practice/healing/seeing/shamanism: all forms of spiritual work on behalf of others rather than the self, but cannot identify their roots? In general I feel like we’re often denied the right to claim our calling due to being permanently locked out of shamanic lineage.
Many witches like to choose what their wand is made of by their birth tree, or have seeds/the actual tree nearby for strength/guidance. So here you go
Dec 23 to Jan 01 | Apple Tree
Jan 02 to Jan 11 | Fir Tree Jan 12 to Jan 24 | Elm Tree Jan 25 to Feb 03 | Cypress Tree
Feb 04 to Feb 08 | Poplar Tree Feb 09 to Feb 18 | Cedar Tree Feb 19 to Feb 28 | Pine Tree Feb 29 | Poplar Tree
Mar 01 to Mar 10 | Weeping Willow Tree Mar 11 to Mar 20 | Lime Tree Mar 21 | Oak Tree Mar 22 to Mar 31 | Hazelnut Tree
Apr 01 to Apr 10 | Rowan Tree Apr 11 to Apr 20 | Maple Tree Apr 21 to Apr 30 | Walnut Tree
May 01 to May 14 | Poplar Tree May 15 to May 24 | Chestnut Tree May 25 to Jun 03 | Ash Tree
Jun 04 to Jun 13 | Hornbeam Tree Jun 14 to Jun 23 | Fig Tree Jun 24 | Birch Tree Jun 25 to Jul 04 | Apple Tree
Jul 05 to Jul 14 | Fir Tree Jul 15 to Jul 25 | Elm Tree Jul 26 to Aug 04 | Cypress Tree
Aug 05 to Aug 13 | Poplar Tree Aug 14 to Aug 23 | Cedar Tree Aug 24 to Sep 02 | Pine Tree
Sep 03 to Sep 12 | Weeping Willow Tree Sep 13 to Sep 22 | Lime Tree Sep 23 | Olive Tree Sep 24 to Oct 03 | Hazelnut Tree
Oct 04 to Oct 13 | Rowan Tree Oct 14 to Oct 23 | Maple Tree Oct 24 to Nov 11 | Walnut Tree
Nov 12 to Nov 21 | Chestnut Tree Nov 22 to Dec 01 | Ash Tree
Dec 02 to Dec 11 | Hornbeam Tree Dec 12 to Dec 21 | Fig Tree Dec 22 | Beech Tree
Apple Tree | Love | of slight build, lots of charm, appeal, and attraction, pleasant aura, flirtatious, adventurous, sensitive, always in love, wants to love and be loved, faithful and tender partner, very generous, scientific talents, lives for today, a carefree philosopher with imagination.
Ash Tree | Ambition| uncommonly attractive, vivacious, impulsive, demanding, does not care for criticism, ambitious, intelligent, talented, likes to play with fate, can be egotistic, very reliable and trustworthy, faithful and prudent lover, sometimes brains rule over the heart, but takes partnership very seriously.
Beech Tree | Creative| has good taste, concerned about its looks, materialistic, good organization of life and career, economical, good leader, takes no unnecessary risks, reasonable, splendid lifetime companion, keen on keeping fit (diets, sports, etc.)
Birch Tree | Inspiration| vivacious, attractive, elegant, friendly, unpretentious, modest, does not like anything in excess, abhors the vulgar, loves life in nature and in calm, not very passionate, full of imagination, little ambition, creates a calm and content atmosphere.
Cedar Tree | Confidence| of rare beauty, knows how to adapt, likes luxury, of good health, not in the least shy, tends to look down on others, self-confident, determined, impatient, likes to impress others, many talents, industrious, healthy optimism, waiting for the one true love, able to make quick decisions.
Chestnut Tree|Honesty| of unusual beauty, does not want to impress, well-developed sense of justice, vivacious, interested, a born diplomat, but irritates easily and sensitive in company, often due to a lack of self confidence, acts sometimes superior, feels not understood loves only once, has difficulties in finding a partner.
Cypress Tree | Faithfulness | strong, muscular, adaptable, takes what life has to give, content, optimistic, craves money and acknowledgment, hates loneliness, passionate lover which cannot be satisfied, faithful, quick-tempered, unruly, pedantic, and careless.
Elm Tree | Noble-mindedness | pleasant shape, tasteful clothes, modest demands, tends not to forgive mistakes, cheerful, likes to lead but not to obey, honest and faithful partner, likes making decisions for others, noble-minded, generous, good sense of humor, practical.
Fig Tree | Sensibility| very strong, a bit self-willed, independent, does not allow contradiction or arguments, loves life, its family, children and animals, a bit of a social butterfly, good sense of humor, likes idleness and laziness, of practical talent and intelligence.
Fir Tree | Mysterious | extraordinary taste, dignity, sophisticated, loves anything beautiful, moody, stubborn, tends to egoism but cares for those close to them, rather modest, very ambitious, talented, industrious, un-contented lover, many friends, many foes, very reliable.
Hazelnut Tree | Extraordinary | charming, undemanding, very understanding, knows how to make an impression, active fighter for social cause, popular, moody, and capricious lover, honest, and tolerant partner, precise sense of judgment.
Hornbeam Tree |Good Taste | of cool beauty, cares for its looks and condition, good taste, is not egoistic, makes life as comfortable as possible, leads a reasonable and disciplined life, looks for kindness and acknowledgement in an emotional partner, dreams of unusual lovers, is seldom happy with its feelings, mistrusts most people, is never sure of its decisions, very conscientious.
Lime Tree | Doubt | accepts what life dishes out in a composed way, hates fighting, stress, and labor, dislikes laziness and idleness, soft and relenting, makes sacrifices for friends, many talents but not tenacious enough to make them blossom, often wailing and complaining, very jealous but loyal.
Maple Tree | Independence of Mind |no ordinary person, full of imagination and originality, shy and reserved, ambitious, proud, self-confident, hungers for new experiences, sometimes nervous, has many complexities, good memory, learns easily, complicated love life, wants to impress.
Oak Tree | Brave | robust nature, courageous, strong, unrelenting, independent, sensible, does not like change, keeps its feet on the ground, person of action.
Olive Tree | Wisdom | loves sun, warmth and kind feelings, reasonable, balanced, avoids aggression and violence, tolerant, cheerful, calm, well-developed sense of justice, sensitive, empathetic, free of jealousy, loves to read and the company of sophisticated people.
Pine Tree | Particular | loves agreeable company, very robust, knows how to make life comfortable, very active, natural, good companion, but seldom friendly, falls easily in love but its passion burns out quickly, gives up easily, everything disappointments until it finds its ideal, trustworthy, practical.
Poplar Tree | Uncertainty | looks very decorative, not very self-confident, only courageous if necessary, needs goodwill and pleasant surroundings, very choosy, often lonely, great animosity, artistic nature, good organizer, tends to lean toward philosophy, reliable in any situation, takes partnership seriously.
Rowan Tree | Sensitivity | full of charm, cheerful, gifted without egoism, likes to draw attention, loves life, motion, unrest, and even complications, is both dependent and independent, good taste, artistic, passionate, emotional, good company, does not forgive.
Walnut Tree | Passion | unrelenting, strange and full of contrasts, often egotistic, aggressive, noble, broad horizon, unexpected reactions, spontaneous, unlimited ambition, no flexibility, difficult and uncommon partner, not always liked but often admired, ingenious strategist, very jealous and passionate, no compromise.
Weeping Willow | Melancholy | beautiful but full of melancholy, attractive, very empathetic, loves anything beautiful and tasteful, loves to travel, dreamer, restless, capricious, honest, can be influenced but is not easy to live with, demanding, good intuition, suffers in love but finds sometimes an anchoring partner.
I know this nose art is for the Bad Batch, but I can’t help but imagine another Clone Unit with a stronger claim on the Senator as a mascot. (And how much Anakin would FLIP THE FUCK OUT)
… And it looks like the paneling repair will have to wait, as his General’s boots appear next to his head beside the transport’s landing gear. He pushes himself out from under the machine on a dolly, flat on his back.
“What is THAT?!” his fearless leader yelps, pointing dramatically, emphatically upwards and towards the nose.
He scoots out farther, past General Skywalker’s legs, and props himself up on his elbows to take in the three-quarters-finished pinup Hardcase has been taking such pains with for the last four hours.
“Morale booster, sir. Couldn’t do something clever like the 104th and their Plo’s Bros or anything, so–”
“So you chose SENATOR AMIDALA?!” Did his voice just crack? It did.
He shrugs. “Sure. She’s been through enough hell and high water with us.”
“She’s a SENATOR!”
“And she’s a keen eye with that blaster,” he reasons, jerking his head up to the painting, and the flawlessly detailed replica of the Senator’s favored sidearm, primed to fire and held at a jaunty, confident angle. He even got the chipped paint over the trigger guard right.
“Got the looks for it too!” Hardcase yells down from where he’s shading in a long bare stretch of thigh, pausing to vigorously shake his can of spray paint. “We might finally be able to give the 327th a run for their money, with General Secura and all.”
“GENERAL SECURA is half naked on the nose of a transport?!”
“What? No!” Of course not, that’s just tasteless.
There’s a clatter from up above as Hardcase puts his paints down and leans over the scaffolding, a hand wobbling skeptically. “Well… Technically…”
“She’s in her usual outfit, y’know, with the–” Rex explains, and zig-zags a finger down from his head, mimicking the General’s lekku straps. “–and the leather pants.”
“It’s just a little leg, Anakin, I don’t see what you’re so upset about.”
Oh thank all the stars and little planets. Backup. General Kenobi steps up beside his former Padawan to admire the paint job himself. “Excellent work on her hair, Hardcase,” Kenobi continues, tilting his head.
“Thank you, sir. Run a probe with some white and a little metallic gold through the wet paint, gets it to streak so the shine looks real.”
General Skywalker is starting to do that thing where he puffs up like an angry coppi lizard and splutters furiously while he tries to think of something else to be upset about. He can hear Fives rolling his eyes from the opposite side of the transport. General. Honestly. If you’re trying to keep a relationship secret, openly displaying your klik-wide jealous streak is not how you do it.
“The 212’s is worse, anyway,” Kenobi muses idly, as Hardcase carefully adds the supposedly “very distinctive” freckle high on the Senator’s hip, just below the split in her modified favorite Council dress. Skywalker starts to go wide-eyed at that, because his sabacc face out of genuine combat is complete sleenshit, and startles when his master continues.
“She’s on the 212th transport too?!”
“Of course not, don’t be ridiculous. We can’t have duplicates, that defeats the purpose,” Kenobi says, in that too-reasonable tone he takes on when he’s deliberately fucking with his former Padawan.
“'Cept Master Ti,” Echo yells, from somewhere inside the paneling he and Rex had been working on.
“Except Master Ti, yes,” Kenobi agrees, and shrugs. “But that’s to be expected. Rather like how so many people have that arm tattoo of a heart with the ribbon that says ‘Mom’.”
Rex personally knew of at least eight other clones that had that exact tattoo, though the ribbon was usually striped like Master Ti’s headtails, and nods agreeably. That seems to have sufficiently diverted Skywalker, or at least confused him.
“Then how is it worse?” Skywalker asks, a little desperately, then his face lights up completely with slightly malicious anticipation. “Is it the Duchess?!”
Oh boy. Rex looks up at Hardcase, who is biting down on his paint-splattered fist to keep from laughing, as General Kenobi gets that look.
“Certainly not,” Kenobi says sternly, and waits a full beat to drop his bombshell. “It’s me.”
Skywalker just stares.
“Though I’m reasonably certain Duchess Kryze had something to do with it, given the way I’m half falling out of my robes.”
Now he looks vaguely green.
“Or it’s some perverse joke of Master Windu’s. It seems his style. Cody refuses to tell me.”
And before Skywalker can come up with anything else to protest, Kenobi adds:
“Besides, Senator Amidala loves it. Hers, I mean. I haven’t asked her about mine.”
Apparently even Jedi can choke on air when sufficiently surprised. But really, where did he think they’d gotten the preliminary sketches from?
Jack Zimmermann was accustomed to dealing with difficult situations;
he was captain of the Samwell Men’s
Hockey team after all, but this? Thiswas never in the job description.
“Can I tell you a secret?” Bitty whispered into the side of
Jack’s neck, breath hot and sweet against his skin. The kegster ended a while
ago but Bitty was still feeling the effects. When he fell off the coffee table
attempting to dance to All the Single Ladies, Jack swept in ready to piggyback
him to bed.
“Alright,” Jack said, mouthing I got this in Lardo’s direction before heading to the stairs.
“I don’t wanna be a single lady anymore,” His voice faltered
and Jack became acutely aware of Bitty’s thighs around his hips. “I want a
person. Everybody else has got a person.”
“With moves like that I don’t think you’ll have to wait
long,” Jack said, supressing a chuckle.
“Mmhmm,” Bitty mumbled, fighting a losing war against sleep.
Jack pushed open the door to Bitty’s room with his foot and ducked inside.
Sam has been growing up with that
since he’s able to remember and though his mighty weapon, the
powerful puppy dog look, proved to be successful occasionally, Dean’s
an insistent pighead more often than not. It’s a beloved Winchester
trait he liked to nurse for a very long time.
But, thankfully, somewhere along the
way Castiel showed up and turned Dean into a compliant puddle of goo
Because his dear big brother is
obviously incapable of saying no to those big, blue angel eyes.
A very helpful turn of events,
that’s for sure.
So when Sam finds himself in need of
an agreeable Dean, he just goes straight to Castiel.
“Cas, I need your help,” he says
one day. “I have a favor to ask of Dean and, well …”
“I see.” Castiel grabs a cup of
coffee and studies Sam intently. “How can I be of assistance?”
Sam smiles relieved. Castiel’s easy
acceptance is always something to cherish. “Well, it’s kinda big,
I’ve gotta confess –”
Castiel nods like he totally
understands. “You want a dog.”
Sam blinks a few times, staring at
the angel. “Uh …”
Actually he just wanted to borrow
the Impala for about a week (or maybe a bit longer) to visit some
libraries high up north, but this … this is way too
important to simply wave it off. “Why … why would you think
Castiel tilts his head. “Because
of the way you always look at dog owners playing with their pets in
the park. It’s the same face Dean makes when he’s seeing a pie he
Sam ducks his head. He’s apparently
been way to obvious if even an angel still learning human mannerisms
is able to call him out.
“Well, yeah …” he mumbles.
Castiel straightens his back. “I
will talk to Dean.”
Sam casts him an incredulous look.
“You … you seriously think you could get me a dog?”
“Of course,” Castiel states
simply, sipping his coffee and looking freaking confident.
Sam snorts at that. “Sorry, man,”
he counters. “But even you can’t bring Dean to get us a
Castiel raises an eyebrow, the “Is
that a challenge?” clear as day.
“Okay, fine,” Sam concedes,
chuckling. “Show me what you got! Perform a fucking miracle!”
Castiel takes a last gulp and then
marches out of the room like a man on a mission, calling Dean’s name.
And just five minutes later Dean
drops onto the chair across from Sam, looking a bit rumpled and
dazed, before eventually clearing his throat in a very melodramatic
fashion. “Okay, bitch, listen up!” he announces in his bossy
you’re-not-allowed-to-contradict-me voice. “There are a
lot of things to discuss before we’re getting that stupid dog,
you hear me?”
And while Dean keeps talking about
rules and restrictions, Sam can’t do anything else than gape at
Castiel who is standing just behind Dean, smirking and mouthing
“The Body Issue, Bits. You can’t turn this down, and if I did it for you, you have to do it for me.”
Actually, a three-hour naked photoshoot on ice is definitely something he can turn down, but he promised Jack he would participate if asked. Granted, it was a sleep-deprived, post-coital promise, but a promise just the same.
A copy of the spread from Jack’s issue is already tastefully hung in the master bathroom of his townhouse. Eric will have to get his framed to match.
It’s not about the nudity, except, maybe it is a little bit, but he’s worked hard to get his body to look this good. His ass may never be in the same arena as Jack’s magnificent backside, but hell, if the whole world got to ogle Jack, why can’t Eric get some love, too?
The house your Venus is in represents what you find beautiful, what you value/seek in relationships, and how you relate to others.
Venus in 1st house: You are naturally charming, diplomatic, and friendly. People are drawn to you, and you seem very easy to talk to. You appreciate and value art and beauty. You look for the beauty in everything you experience. In relationships, you value harmony and balance. You are attracted to those who are polite and sociable.
Venus in 2nd house: You may be slow to start in relationships, and you don’t like to jump into things. You have strong values and morals and you aren’t easy to persuade in those areas. You appreciate and value your possessions. You have a taste for luxury and money, but you are also known for being generous. In relationships, you value security and safety. You like to be comfortable. You may show your love to others through gifts.
Venus in 3rd house: You are verbally expressive and like to keep the peace and settle arguments. You appreciate and value communication and thinking. You like to be admired in your relationship. You like to compliment others and you have a graceful way with words. You are likely to be good at poetry or writing. In relationships, you value mental stimulation and you like to change things up every once in a while.
Venus in 4th house: You seek harmony and beauty in your home or home life. You are a very sentimental person and you like comforting items, and may have a lot of things that have memories or emotional value to you. You appreciate and value your home and comfort. In relationships, you show your love through sympathy and nurturing.
Venus in 5th house: You enjoy romance and flirting, and you like to entertain. You like to surround yourself with beauty and things that make you happy. You value creativity and excitement. You have a very playful flirting style and you love to have fun. In relationships, you are warm and loyal.
Venus in 6th house: You like to be helpful and useful in your relationships. You are a bit more subtle when it comes to showing love or affection. You appreciate and value little things and actions in relationships. You like to feel appreciated and show your loved ones how much you appreciate them often. In relationships, you are subtle and understanding. You are very friendly and pleasant in work situations, and tend to get along with your co workers easily.
Venus in 7th house: You are a peacemaker and like to be balanced. You are agreeable and charming, and people are naturally drawn and attracted to you. You have a tendency to enter relationships too quickly, but you value your relationships. You value and appreciate harmony and romance. In relationships, you are delightful and affectionate.
Venus in 8th house: You are intense and love wholeheartedly. You are very devoted and passionate, although afraid of vulnerability. You dislike mundane, everyday things, and you are attracted to all things taboo and enjoy deeper topics. You value and appreciate passion and loyalty, and you find beauty in secrecy. In relationships, you are loving and real.
Venus in 9th house: You are attracted to adventure and like to see the big picture of things. You like to learn and be educated, especially about the world or philosophies. You may enjoy travelling and like long journeys. You value and appreciate enthusiasm and knowledge. In relationships, you are idealistic and independent.
Venus in 10th house: You are very aware and conscious of your appearance and impression to other people. You are likely to be popular in your career. You like to be recognized for your talents and are likely to be attracted to authority. You value and appreciate inspiring and helping others, and your career. In relationships, you are respected and respectful.
Venus in 11th house: You like to make friends and be friends before starting a relationship. You bring your friends together and are attracted to unique qualities or talents. You have a soothing effect on people. You value and appreciate creativity and fairness. In relationships, you are fair and free.
Venus in 12th house: You have a tendency to hide your artistic side and like to be alone. You are very compassionate, but being affectionate or trusting isn’t easy for you. You tend to hide your emotions and romantic needs. You value and appreciate peace and solitude. In relationships, you are mysterious and giving.
There’s so much positivity from people who don’t even follow me on here because so much of what I say is agreeable on paper. Everyone says “I support victims of abuse” because you can’t say that you hate children or something. But the minute someone meets my parents or hears what my abuse was like or hears me say spanking is abuse or sees my grand piano they bought just for me they start criticizing me and telling I’m making things up or that’s not REALLY abuse. When you hear about me coughing blood and the “tickle game” and the poem my dad wrote about my conception and the being whipped with a belt and the getting locked in the basement you’ll say it’s bad but once you meet my parents you think they’re nice. I think that says a lot about how little people give a shit about child abuse.
i super didn’t mean to write this tonight but the idea was SO GOOD and i’ve really been jonesing to write
the weeks following what they’re calling The Battle of New York,
Bruce settles into the Tower with an incredible ease.
floor Tony designed for him is shockingly well-suited to his tastes
and needs considering how Tony likes to claim he’s not a team-player.
suspects each floor is equally well-designed and perhaps that’s why
they’re all able to slip into a routine so quickly.
feels like something missing has slotted into place and Bruce can
tell just by looking at the others’ faintly bewildered expressions
when they look around at the space they share that they feel the
So, I am becoming more and more convinced that each personality type has at least one mental block. By this I mean that there’s something that it’s really, really difficult for you to understand simply because of how your brain works. It’s probably possible for you to overcome this, but it’s going to be a difficult road. And people might have more than one, but it seems to me that various types seem to have the same ones. At any rate, lets see.
ESFJ: Being able to separate feelings from people. ESFJs are Fe dominant, which means that they would have a hard time making decisions based completely on logic, especially as regard other people. They’re not at all dumb; on the contrary, ESFJs are extremely people-smart. But this is a mind-block if you’re dealing with people who need logical rather than emotional support.
ISFJ: Being unkind to others. ISFJs tend to be naturally kind and gracious people. Obviously, everyone has bad days, but to them, that’s not a great excuse for failing to be a sweet person, and while they are so sweet themselves that they’d probably not even be able to tell you what they think of you being such a jerk, they’re definitely going to have a hard time understanding it.
ESTJ: Complaining with no solution. Why would you do this? ESTJs don’t know. And, frankly, I might have an ESTJ-ish streak in my INTP self, because I don’t always know why people do this, either.
ISTJ: Not following instructions. It’s really hard for an ISTJ to figure out why someone would not do something the prescribed way, especially if the instructions are provided. There is a certain way to do things. Why would you deviate from that way? It doesn’t make sense.
ENFJ: Distrusting people. Well, they do understand how people might not trust other people. But they do have a hard time understanding how someone could mistake their niceness for anything but exactly what it is on the surface. People aren’t used to someone friendly, outgoing, and ulterior motive-free, but the ENFJ generally has that sort of personality, and it’s a bit disappointing that not everyone can get that they really are the friendly people they seem to be.
INFJ: Insensitivity. INFJs are pretty aware of everything that’s going on, and they don’t understand how some people can be such dunderheads as to blunder on through a situation leaving a trail of carnage behind them, so to speak. They have a hard time being nice to people who don’t seem to “get it.”
ENTJ: Inefficiency. People ought to be able to do what they’re supposed to do without getting distracted. There is literally no excuse for not doing this. Unless maybe you break your leg. And even then, they might ask just how bad the break was. ENTJs really can’t see why people have to be so frustratingly slow to complete perfectly simple tasks. Procrastination is not something upon which they look with tolerance.
INTJ: Not being able to grasp big concepts. INTJs have big brains and can get big thoughts easily. So, why can’t everyone else? This mental block makes it hard for them to have patience with people they deem less intelligent than themselves.
ESFP: Arguing. ESFPs are natural peacemakers. They just want everyone to get along, and they can be genuinely concerned at the tendency of some of the types to argue, even in a fun way. They might try to calm people down, not always realizing that what looks like an heated debate is really just friendly banter in the eyes of the debaters.
ISFP: The desire to control others. Why can’t people just leave everyone alone to live their own lives as they choose? ISFPs, with their auxiliary Se, have a strong desire to be individual, and it’s really hard for them to understand why others have such a hard time accepting them for who they are.
Alone time. Well, they can give people their space. But they have a really hard time getting just why some people need so much space. ESTPs don’t see why everyone doesn’t want to have just as good a time as they do. But if not, well, those boring people are just missing out.
ISTP: Not taking the time to understand ideas. ISTPs want to know how a thing works. They aren’t always sure why someone would be okay with just using a system or tool without knowing the why of it.
ENFP: Always being in a hurry. ENFPs love to stop and ponder the wonderful world around them. They love to pause and talk to people and are pretty much always wonderful and agreeable. It’s hard for them to understand how some people are always rushing around, but they probably aren’t going to berate you for it, even if they don’t necessarily agree that you should be in such a hurry.
INFP: Separating fantasy from reality. It’s not that they don’t know that the real world exists. It’s just that they don’t understand how everyone else can have such a limited view of it. The problem is, half of this “big picture” is really filled in with a wild imagination. It’s cool, but it’s not necessarily accurate. This kind of mental block means that it’s easy for INFPs (and any NP type, really) to be a bit on the snobbish side about their broad perspective. Not cool.
ENTP: No sense of humour. How are there people in the world who don’t get sarcasm? Obviously, they exist, but the ENTP mind doesn’t see a good reason for it. Of course, ENTPs are also surprisingly empathetic, so they might actually say this out loud. But you never can tell when an ENTP will be just a tad bit annoyed at a person for not being able to laugh at themselves.
INTP: The need to chat. Some people enjoy talking about daily stuff, the weather, etc. INTPs don’t tend to be these people, and it’s very hard for them to understand just why folks want to talk. If it’s not about a subject of great interest to them, the INTP is generally more than happy to just remain silent.
One example of how an exchange with a spirit works for mutual benefit
a spirit worker of some years of experience, this is how I would
personally go through contacting a spirit in order to receive help
from the spirit world.
AND PAPER For
a serious working I will take a piece of paper and write things down
and organize them just as if I was planning them for a spell. What I
want to happen, what I would not
like to happen, and so on. Then I will also plan my offerings to the
spirit. This does not always mean physical items like candles,
incense, or bread. This can regularly mean offerings of service. For
example some nature spirits may request you spend a certain number of
hours doing litter removal or conservation work. Another type of
spirit may request that you make a post about it, to increase its
fame so it may work with more humans. An important part of this step
is what you are not
willing to give.
If I am in a more informal setting or doing a less
serious act of magic I will often do this phase of planning in my
Depending on the type of spirit being called there must be certain
preparations in place. For a certain type of ritual (which you can
find under my articles tag called “spirit worker’s spell”) I will
call the quarters and see which spirit of the elements is best suited
for the job. To prepare for that I would want my ritual tools to
represent the quarters as well as a simple offering to thank the
spirits for showing up. If it were a Goetic demon there would be very
formal preparations, for example. Just be prepared for your guest.
In general: Work in nature or a clean space
(clean space = respectful of your guest). Incense is nice because it
is pleasing, especially if you can determine a scent your guest might
like. In my path it is polite to have a simple offering of incense to
thank a guest just for arriving. Then if you anticipate the spirit
will require other physical offerings, have them close at hand. Also
have things you regularly rely on such as your grimoire, tarot deck
for communication, and so on.
Safety: Work within magic circles. Cast one around yourself with the
specific intent to keep out all negative energies and any spirit
which wishes you harm or ill-intent. Then, summon the spirit in to a
second protected circle, from which it may return home but otherwise
cannot leave. (This is assuming the spirit is summoned, as opposed to
walking up to it in nature and saying hello). Besides your magic
circle have with you a strong amulet of protection (excellent
practice if you don’t have one yet!!) and special banishing and
“emergency” tools like banishing powders, flying devil oil, salt,
and highly uplifting and banishing incenses such as frankincense,
rosemary, and bay leaf.
I am doing a very serious spell I will take a full purifying bath. In
general I make sure to never go in to spirit communication with too
much “gunk” on me and I often do small or large purifying rituals
before spirit work. If your spirit contact made you feel uneasy in
way, consider a purifying and protective bath afterwords (try
rosemary, bay leaf, and a heap of basil in salt water!).
If I am seeking the help of a specific nature spirit I will go to
that place and simply say hello and initiate conversation. Another
way to work with nature spirits is having a piece of that natural
thing, like some bark, a stone from a mountain, or a jar of water.
Use this smaller element to contact the larger spirit! The way I
perceive spirits is through the platform of my imagination. A being
will appear in my mind’s eye, and I will speak to it through words,
visions, and feelings. Other people will have different experiences.
“Seeing spirits” is a Golden Standard ™ that distracts people
from real communication. A big hint for me is that the energy changes
around me when a “real” spirit is near. I really recommend just talking with plants and stones and trees to learn what spirit communication is for you. Don’t compare your experiences to that of others. Don’t you want your own beautiful and unique way speaking with spirits, true to you and your true nature?
I am instead summoning a spirit I will go through the steps to do
that. Usually I can feel the energy change around me before I
perceive the spirit. Nature spirits can still be dangerous but especially if summoning ensure you have the proper protective steps such as those mentioned in italics above.
I don’t go straight to business unless I am working with an entity
who is known for not liking small talk. I don’t sit down and have a
cup of coffee with a spirit and catch up about the kids, but I
introduce myself with my magical name, say why I have asked them to
come, and ask them if they are agreeable to continue. Sometimes
spirits will have certain questions, such as, “why am I in this
circle?” I will answer honestly (don’t
lie!!!!) and say, “this
circle is for my personal protection.” Often, spirits congratulate
my forethought on safety. Another spirit may ask if they may first
have a glass of water, which is alright by me. I do consider it a red
flag if a spirit asks for a big offering right away, as this is not
proper protocol. Just as we treat them with etiquette, they should
treat us with etiquette.
this time I also begin reading this spirit in a polite way (not
trying to force my way in to their mind; like reading body language).
I want to know if the spirit is uncomfortable or gives of bad vibes,
or if they seem pleasant and helpful. To do this I pay special
attention to my emotions and “back of the mind” thoughts that
often slip by unnoticed.
general once the spirit has finished asking questions, if they even
have any, most seem willing to get right down to work. This is after
all a business meeting.
CONTRACT I will state plainly
what I wish to be done. There is no need to say why; I don’t think
it’s the spirit’s business, and I don’t think most would care! “I
need to ensure my credit card is paid off by June.” “I need my
friend’s day at work to go smoothly and quickly.” “I need a
teacher in meditation.” Whatever it is I have to say I am clear
about it, using carefully thought out language so I am not confusing
or vague in the slightest.
a caveat I put in, somewhere, along the line. It sounds like this:
“If you are able to accomplish this task for me, then…” You
want to make sure you actually state that you expect RESULTS. Anyway,
away, without pause, I roll in to what I have to offer the spirit. If
I am working with a certain spirit or type of spirit I have worked
with before and I know what they usually like I will come out and
say, “I have prepared for you the best wine and cakes” or
whatever. Otherwise I will say, “I wish to know what I may pay you
in return for this great service.”
is the moment the spirit may reject this contract. If they have heard
what you want and aren’t interested in helping, they’ll make it known
to you and either leave immediately or wait for you to say goodbye.
Sometimes your first offering wasn’t what they were looking for and
that “hold up” feeling you are experiencing could just be the
spirit looking for something else. If you get this “woah pause”
feeling, try asking the spirit if it prefers a different payment and
go from there.
are sometimes quite clear in what they want in terms of offerings and
will tell me immediately, perhaps through a vision of what they want
to occur, or maybe through words. Other spirits are a little more
reserved and want to know their options; obviously I can’t offer
everything, so what’s on the table?
In general we settle what the
payment is quite quickly. Then comes the negotiation! You are in a
Unless you’re working with some high level systems that tell you
otherwise, never give
the entire payment up front. If I expect this task to be performed
quickly, in a matter of days or a week or two, I say I will give a
small offering now to thank them for their arrival, and the full
payment will be delivered when the task has been complete. Spirits so
far have not had a problem with this. Sometimes I feel reservation as
the spirit thinks it through. Don’t worry if you get “pause”
emotions or messages like this. You are communicating with another
being. Give them space to think.
you’re asking for something that will take a while to manifest, work
out a payment plan. “I propose that I will give you a portion of
this payment every time I see X manifest. Is that agreeable to you?”
and let them respond. Most spirits I work with tend to prefer simpler
arrangements. They will tell you what they can deliver, and expect
fair pay for it. A spirit may request payment on a time table (such
as partial payment once a week) and I find this to be an alright deal
as long as I see results
manifesting. Like put
your foot down. You are expecting something out of this… you are
paying for a job to be done.
about what might happen if the job is not done. In general I just
consider all terms to be broken and we walk away. Don’t go in to
punishment land. If the spirit fails to uphold their end of the job,
their payment is denied. Walk away. On the other hand, if they do the
job and you don’t pay…. that’s a whole other ball game. PAY THE
SPIRITS. Like omg don’t even go there.
the payment has been agreed on, and the payment method has been
agreed on, I proceed to the “handshake deal.”
THE DEAL No need to sign
contracts in blood. You can, however, have a written contract which I
think is a great idea, especially for longer “jobs”. Write out
the terms clearly. Sign your magical name, then ask the spirit to put
its energetic imprint on the page as a symbol of your deal. I rarely
bother to do this but it may be preferable for some people.
I just say, “I am Crann, offering you X and Y payment to help me
get my credit card paid by June. I will pay you in full once the job
is complete in June. Do you accept this agreement?”
will then get a word of “yes” or “I agree”, or a vision of a
handshake or some other symbol which means “we are in a contract”,
or an emotion of acceptance.
GOODBYE Once the deal is done I
often light a candle and incense in honor of the deal agreed upon. I
ask the spirit to stay and enjoy the incense as long as it wishes to,
which usually is not long. I usually ground out right away by
cooking, watching television, and talking to friends.
THE DEAL I will keep an eye on
things and make sure it all seems to be going according to plan. If
it’s an “easy” deal I generally expect to see results
immediately; within the day or so. If it’s a big working with big
goals I would not be surprised if I had to wait many days or even a
period of weeks before I see the results I desire. However, in my
opinion there should be signs
your spirit agreement is working out. If you make an agreement with a
spirit and within a week or two nothing is really happening, there is
a possibility that spirit was taking advantage of you or something in
your contract imploded.
THE SPIRIT When the correct
time(s) come I will do a small ritual to give payment, partial
(according to a ‘payment plan’) or whole, to the spirit. I will
typically use a candle as a monument to the occasion as well as
pleasing incense. If it is a physical offering I will present it and
call the spirit and ask it to partake of its payment. If it is a
nonphysical offering I will contact the spirit and tell them I am
going to begin my end of the payment, and they can expect to see my
end of the deal be performed shortly.
you believe you have fully paid the spirit, contact the spirit again
and ensure that everything is even-Steven. If it is a physical
offering ask them, “are you satisfied and pleased with this agreed
upon payment?” Don’t let a spirit weasel you in to even greater
payments; if you provided what you agreed upon, you are good. If it
is a nonphysical offering I believe it’s good to check in just to
make sure there is no misunderstanding of what you are supposed to
provide, and to ensure that you are carrying out your payment as you
a word of advice: Don’t forget to pay them. If you are neuroatypical
like me, if you forget things, if you get distracted, if you cannot
GUARANTEE you will give the payment, don’t enter in to contracts. Use
alerts on your phone, journals, calendars, written contracts,
whatever you need to do to remember. But if you are at risk of not
remembering, don’t make deals.
AND BOBS There is a fine line
when it comes to working with spirits that make you feel
uncomfortable. Sometimes a being is just so powerful that our little
instincts go AHHHHHH and that’s not necessarily negative. But then
sometimes, the spirit does mean us malicious intent and the feelings
can be similar. In general I would just advise people to work with
spirits that do not give them any feelings of discomfort; many of
these spirits exists, and there are times to work with more
intimidating spirits up ahead :)
do not need the MOST POWERFUL ULTRA MEGA SPIRIT to get the job done.
The more powerful a spirit is, the more you will have to pay it, and
the more experience you will need to manage your encounters with it
so you remain safe (this doesn’t even mean negative entities…
encountering a huge power wave from a positive entity is something
you have to know how to control and handle. I have almost passed out
from encountering powerful, positive
about nature. Do you need a problem swept away? Ask a stream spirit.
Do you need something burned away? Ask a fire elemental. Do you need
something glamoured? Ask a fae. Don’t start with encyclopedias of
powerful, named spirits. Start small and local :)
If you need magic done, make a deal. But in general it’s really polite and positive and just a good thing to befriend spirits before you ask them for help. This is in my opinion only!!!! For example I have good connections with many species of magical plant spirits. I am known to them and they are known to me, and in the past some have state they will help me when I need it. If you are a stranger knocking on a door a spirit may help you for pay, but if you are knocking on a friend’s door in need, imagine how much better they may care for you and see your needs are met. This is also why it’s important to give back as much as you can. Take care of the spirit world and nature when you can, and be polite and respectful as often as you can. The spirit world really does take notice.