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Oh, I agree, I always thought grrm presents us with all those different versions of different 'archetypes', including failed romantics. Jaime and Sansa deep down still hold onto it while trying to be realistic/cynic, while Cercei and Baelish have become proud of the fact that they stamped out their inner romantics and fairytale lovers. And yeah, Brienne f.e. is still actively looking for romance in the world... It makes it more exciting to see how they respond differently to all the misery.