is it too late to post this idk

fandomhavenskittles  asked:

Have fun at prom! (Well, if I didn't send this in too late. If I did, I hope you had fun! Idk, I've barely been on Tumblr today so I have no idea when you posted you were going ๐Ÿ˜…) My cousin recently went to prom and he and his girlfriend had a blast! I'm sure you will too! Have fun!

Thank you!! Yes, I’m back from it already but it was really fun!😊

Oh my god, in last night’s Bob’s Burgers, Bob takes Gene to a laser light rock show at the planetarium (super important to Bob, because it was his favorite when he was a teenager, and this is the last night before they’re closing the exhibit because it’s old and no one goes anymore, also it’s Bob’s birthday), and Gene has no idea what he’s in for, but he gets pumped for it anyway ‘cause Bob’s so excited about it, and finally they get in there and they’re watching it, and Gene has a sensory overload and kinda starts freaking out ‘cause he can’t handle it, so Bob takes him out and they sit in the car for a bit.  Gene’s angry because Bob didn’t tell him it would be so loud and scary, so Bob offers to play the album for Gene at a normal volume, and Gene starts to enjoy it, so he reclines the seats, takes out the cigarette lighter, tells Gene to pretend it’s a laser, and starts drawing in the air, explaining the plot to him (it’s like a full on Pink Floyd or Rush-esque rock opera about a bunch of robot overlords telling rockers that they can’t play music anymore, and one Rebel rising against them).  Gene gets really into it and decides he wants to see the finale of the laser show (which Bob regards as a life-changing experience), so they sneak back into the planetarium (there’s no re-entry allowed) with a few tricks that parallel the story from the album, and watch the climax of the show together (Bob fashions some earplugs for Gene out of a napkin).  On the way home, Bob’s asking Gene how he liked it, and Gene says “I loved it!”, Bob asks him to speak louder ‘cause his ear’s are shot, and Gene yells, “I LOVED IT, DAD”.  Bob yells back “I love you too, Gene”.

I FUCKING!!! CAN’T!!! DEAL!!!! WITH HOW GOOD THIS SHOW IS!!! I know i don’t talk about Bob’s Burgers a lot but this show is flawless and charming and gross and funny all at the same time, the characters are written like people with actual fears and anxieties, and unlike a lot of comparable shows, the comedy doesn’t come from the family being pitted against each other, it’s always the family against the world… I love it, I love it, it’s so pure and refreshing and still somehow manages to be funny without sacrificing it’s heart, and I fuckin’ love it, please watch Bob’s Burgers holy CRAP okay I’m done.

sometimes I see stupid comments in different places of this fandom about adding lipstick on (mostly male ofc) characters, so it inspires me to draw/sketch this kind of stuff, hehe.. ( @marinette-buginette omg, sorry hahah)

Adrien had so fab (fight me if pink doesnt suit him) lipstick after one photo shoot, so lately he couldnt stop himself to share with his friends.. in his way, pff  idk what am i doing

(no worries, Chloe will get this too lmao) 

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🌱hello! I’m roro, your local free-range latina 🌿this is my first “bujo” post • idk why i choose to finally be organized in the end of april but you know, late is better than never •

• i’m a junior (grade 11) in the usa and i’m in a few AP classes • i hate my school and all of the people there but i’m tryna graduate so i still put effort in this bullshit •

hobbies • dancing, drawing, listening to music, writing curse words in pretty font, animals are fun, eating too much • vegan life ✌🏽 •

• i have like 500 mental disorders (related to anxiety) • so you will probably see a lot of things here that will make you say “same” • it’s tumblr, we’re all fuck-ups • 🌱i hope you like my new bujo🌿

Sealioning in the Witchy Community

See this comic by David Malki? If you’ve never heard of the term “sealioning” before, this is what it refers to. It’s the origin of the phrase. And it’s really, really annoying. It’s basically aggressive cluelessness masquerading as a sincere desire to understand. They put the responsibility all on you to explain things. (And if you’re a minority, then it gets really, REALLY frustrating.)

It doesn’t just happen in the witchy community, obviously, but it’s something I’ve seen lately and I wanna talk about it, because honestly, it’s just plain annoying.

Say you make a post about how cultural appropriation is bad. Lo and behold, a sea lion shows up and says “well where exactly is your evidence that cultural appropriation is even real to begin with?” “You made this statement publicly you should expect some criticism!” “Why are you being so rude about it I just want to have a civil conversation and explain to me why you think cultural appropriation is bad!” 

And there’s just. No winning against a sea lion because they’re constantly demanding proof. The burden of proof is always on you. “I’m just trying to have a civil conversation!” “If you had just had a civil conversation with me then maybe I wouldn’t have been so rude/mean/blocked you.” 

So if you’re getting harassed by a sea lion, it’s okay to block them. You’re not doing anything wrong or mean by refusing to engage. Hell, I’ve seen people who genuinely do have a civil conversation with someone sealioning and that person STILL acts aggressively clueless. 

No one is ever under any obligation to engage with you if you do this. 

So for those of you dealing with this, best of luck. You’re not a bad person to protect yourself and your sanity by blocking or refusing to engage. This isn’t someone who is trying to learn, it’s a form of aggression and harassment by forcing you to do all of the work of educating with none of the actual learning. 

“I’m willing to listen if you actually say it nicely!” 

Nope. Nine times out of ten that person is a sea lion and is willfully ignoring the information presented. Also, no minority group is ever obligated to be “nice” to their oppressors. That’s respectability politics and it’s also okay to block/ignore someone trying to force you to explain/justify your race/culture/sexuality/gender/religion. 

Cultural appropriation is bad. G*psy is a slur. Nazi’s aren’t welcome. Don’t be a jerk about other people’s practices, especially if they’re trying to reclaim their roots. White people trying to practice Hoodoo/Voodoo is not okay. There’s enough resources out there about all these topics that you shouldn’t have to go demand information if you refuse to listen. This isn’t to scare anyone off from trying to learn, but the whole attitude of being entitled to civility when you’re being an asshole needs to stop. 

That is all.