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The 5 Worst Things About Being Asexual

It’s hard for me to gauge how much being asexual has impacted my life - I have never known what it’s like to not be asexual, and I never will. It’s something I’m still learning to navigate. But there are a couple of obvious ways that my asexuality has impacted my life for the worse. My experiences aren’t universal at all - nor would I expect them to be - but over the course of my life, I’ve struggled with five major things:

1. Our whole society is built on sexuality

Sexuality is everywhere. From a young age, you’re taught that the expected life path is to fall in love with someone and have sex and kids with them. As soon as kids are old enough to talk, we ask them about crushes and marriage. Our ideas of romantic love and sex are so deeply intertwined, we have no concept of love without sex as anything but sad. The world is built for couples. “Losing your virginity” is an important rite of passage. We sell everything from music to hamburgers with sex. Finding out that you’re asexual and can’t buy into any of that is like finding out that everyone else can see a color that you can’t. 

2. You have to figure everything out for yourself

I went to a pretty progressive school, and we learned about heterosexual sex, homosexual sex, and trans people. No asexuals. I took classes on gender theory and sexuality in university, and we learned about gender identity, queer people, homosexuality and intersex people. No asexuals. I took training in how to counsel queer kids, and we learned about two-spirits, nonbinary kids, genderfluid kids, gay kids and trans kids. No asexuals. Every asexual I know had to figure out their sexuality by themselves, as an adult, with help from the internet. In mainstream sex and gender education, we don’t exist.

3. There’s virtually no ace representation out there

There are almost no ace characters in mainstream television shows, movies, video games or books. Having representation in media matters; it helps kids figure out their identity, it helps educate people, and it helps show the world that, hey, we exist, and we’re pretty cool people. The few ace characters that do exist almost inevitably go through a “redemption” arc, where we find out that, deep down, they really do like sex and they were just too shy and awkward to admit it! That just perpetuates stereotypes about asexuals being repressed and damaged, and leaves us worse off than before.

4. It’s hard to “come out” as something people don’t understand

People have a really, really hard time wrapping their heads around asexuality. Older people, for the most part, have never heard of asexuality and don’t understand it. A lot of people just assume you’re traumatized or have some kind of hormone imbalance. Some people assume you’re repressed, uptight, or deeply religious. Many “out” asexual activists are told that they haven’t met the right person yet, that they haven’t had the right sex yet, or most horrifyingly of all, that they need to be “corrected”, often with forced sex. The public at large does not understand asexuality as a valid sexual orientation, and navigating romantic relationships and dating as a romantic asexual is an endless minefield. 

5. The LGBTQ+ community doesn’t want us

I grew up confused and panicked about my sexuality. Like many asexuals, I spent a lot of years quietly repressed, enduring sexual experiences I didn’t want in an effort to blend in. I can’t be honest about my sexuality with family and friends. I’ve had friends cut off contact after finding out about me. I was forcibly outed by a “friend” in high school, and bullied relentlessly for it. I thought I found a group of people with some common experiences - not all, by any stretch, but some - in the LGBTQ+ community. And yet some of the harshest things I’ve ever heard about asexuals have come from that community. I’ve seen LGBTQ+ blogs tear into asexuals as “fake”, “a fad”, “people with medical problems” or “straight people looking for attention”. I have been told several times that the A in LGBTQIA should stand for ‘Ally’ and not ‘Asexual’. I am too ashamed to wear or carry an asexual flag at Pride, and I’m too nervous to volunteer my services as a trained asexual mental health worker to local LGBTQ+ organizations, for fear that they don’t want asexuals around. I understand that this is nowhere near the level of oppression and shame that other queer identities face, but it still leaves me feeling a little bit adrift, without anyone to connect to. 

anonymous asked:

if you look at the top comments on skams website for the first couple of episodes of s3, a lot of them are quite negative. people were saying "i think julie is going to show the reality of being gay and have Isak fall in love with Even & then be heartbroken" or "Even is totally playing Isak" etc. But honestly, it has been so obvious to me since the start that Even and Isak were going to end up together. You could tell Even was just as desperate as Isak. Kudos to Henriks acting for that!

Oh gosh! This!! THIS!!!!! Henrik and Tarjei knew that Even and Isak were going to end up together. *lies down*
Episode 2 crushed me because I thought so too for a second. Then if you go down my archive, you can see that I rewatched the eps and that I DIED because “EVEN LOOKS GENUINE THERE’S NO WAY HE’S PLAYING ISAK”.
I’m so glad I was right. So glad Julie chose to give them a happy ending and to write this beautiful love story that inspired and touched SO MANY instead of the cliche sad crap that we always get in other tv shows with lgbt characters constantly in pain. We deserve to see them being happy. We deserve this.
Forever grateful 💛

I missed you; Hansol.

Request: “Angsty but happy ending scenario with Hansol?( im so Hansol deprived)”

Genre: Angst & Fluff.

Warnings: None.

A/N: (◕‿◕✿)


“Hansol? Are you okay?” You said as you interrumpted in your boyfriend’s way. You placed your hands in his chin, cupping his face softly as you made your worriedness obvious in your facial expressions.

His eyes softened when he felt your caresses in his skin one more time. They would never fail to make him feel loved and special, and even if he tried really hard to take a break of them, he would always come back to your arms. And today was that day. He couldn’t do it any longer without you.

He wasn’t feeling like himself lately. He seem more distracted and silent. And, normally, you don’t like to put pressure on him to tell you about his feelings, but it has been like this for weeks now. And in the small conversations that you could only had with him about it he would only give you the same empty lies. “I’m just a bit tired” or “It’s nothing. No need to be worried”. Even the other members that tried to talk with him got the same answer.

“Yes, I am, Y/N.” But after that he let go a loud sigh at the same time he runned his fingers trough his hair. His eyes were closed in that moment, but when he opened them again and looked at you, his gaze was completly different. It seem more honest and his eyes were warmer. It was like if he took those seconds to make a decision. “I was going to rest a little to my room.”

“Can I go with you?” You asked with some doubts as you slowly moved the tip of your fingers to his shoulders.

“To cuddle?” He asked with the smallest smile on his face.

“To talk.”

He looked down, think about his decision one more time before acting. Then, you felt one of his hand grabbing yours, and a second later his lips were placed on top of your knuckles, leaving sweet kisses one for one.

“Sure, Y/N.”

He intertwined his fingers with yours and started walking towards his room with slow yet big steps. You could tell how he was thinking internally about the words he was going to say to you in every step he was giving, making sure that he uses the correct ones and to don’t forget any important parts of the story.

Talking about his feelings has always been something hard for him. Whenever he need confort his actions would talk instead. You would knew instantly because of how cuddly and needy he would get in a really silent and sudden way. From this past weeks the most memorable things, appart from his deadly silence and tired sighs, were his arms around your figure and the backhugs that accompanied your sleepless nights. And not only the nights were you were too worried about him to even get a five hour sleep but also those days pretending to be fully rested and happy that you faked even if you knew that he was a hundred percent aware of how false your attitude was.

And he couldn’t be more grateful for all the little efforts you always made for him. You hated to fake that smile very sigle day, and he knew that so perfectly, and the fact that he was hurting you so much was breaking his heart. He was proud of himself for finally being strong enough to talk with you.


“So many things are happening to me now, Y/N.” He started. His voice was insecure and low. He hugged you instantly, so he can avoid facing you but still feeling your comfort in someway. “So many changes are happening and I don’t feel like I’m prepared to deal with all of them now.”

You listened to his voice for hours and hours that rewarded all his silence from this last days. From time to time that cozy and unique voice of him was accompanied with sighs, that everytime were more peaceful and soft, letting you know how well this talk was making him feel. The only moment when he obligated himself to face you was when he was talking about every single thing that was making feel so homesick and worried lately, including you in his list.

“I’m so sorry for making you feel like this, Y/N.” You could feel his body getting closer to yours, and for once you felt back home. It wasn’t an empty hug or sad kisses, but an actual loving act of afection.

“I missed you, Hansol.” You finally said. Because, no, it wasn’t him this last days. It wasn’t the shy and romantic Hansol that you fell in love with, and you could confirm it when you saw that wide smile of him again after he heard your words.

He placed his forehead against yours after giving you the most passionate yet sweetest kiss ever and kept smiling widely as he started to blush.

“I missed you too.”

anonymous asked:

Have you guys seen thescreenshots of the gillovny chat where they're saying really rude and nasty things about Gillian and Peter? Kind of pathetic. Their new insult for Peter is 'Turtle Pants.' They're so bitter about Gillian being in love, I almost feel sorry for them.

Thanks for stopping by, sailor. We have heard whispers about these screenshots but we have no desire to dig any further. The ramblings of a handful of people who are only fans of Captain Anderson so long as she is dating someone of their choosing, holds little interest for us. 

However, ‘Turtle Pants’ is something that we are interested in. Insult you say? We at HMS Gilligan view it as a term of endearment. After all turtles are majestic and gentle creatures. Not to mention, we love it when people state the obvious, it avoids unnecessary confusion - Peter most certainly does have a turtle on his pants. Captain Morgan is so on board with our nautical theme it warms the cockles of our hearts. Who would have thought it, eh? Please draw your eyes to exhibit A:

How lovely. Our captains enjoying their vacation and Gillian capturing the moment for posterity, Turtle pants and all. Those turtle pants have been on a journey this year: Costa Rica, Greece, Italy - and who knows what other exotic destinations they’ll visit soon. We dare say they’ll get another outing in Vancouver this coming August. Splendid, if you ask us.

When you were finally drowning in my Oblivion,
You decided to revive.
You decided to torment my life one more time.
I thought I triumphed in erasing you.
But when I looked into your eyes,
When I traced your smile,
When I thought about your fingertips touching mine,
Oh! The Fool in me trembled.

The truth was very obvious
And it drove me crazy.
‘Insanity?’ Sparsely.
Every moment I laid my eyes on you,
Every breath I shared with you,
Every laugh I harmonized with you,
Every word I sang with you
Was merely the restart of intoxication,
Obsession, want and need.
Maybe Love is just another word for Greed.

Resentment, anger, pain-
I journeyed through them all.
But you repossessed me once again
Like a compulsive drug:
An addiction I couldn’t let go.
A longing I couldn’t ignore.

I pondered with the stars and Moon
Whether I should lean on you.
I yearned for you, I pained for you.
What is it that bewitched me again?

After all this time,
I look at you as if you painted my world,
With colours that had been bleached before.

—  // when I wasn’t over You //
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So uh, I finally did this…

Here’s basically how I answered them:

1. If you could properly house one species of fish right now, what species would you pick? What is your current dream fish? (Could be realistic or unrealistic.)
      Nanobagrus armatus is forever top of my wishlist, but I’ve been really liking Parosphromenus spp. lately. If I had a spare huge tank to set up I might do Bagroides melapterus cause I keep seeing them and being jealous.

2. If you could only keep fish from one continent, which one would it be?
    Pretty obvious, I love Asian fish. That’s why I’m going to school to become an ichthyologist and study them? Though I do like and keep fish from other continents too.

3. What kind of music do you listen to? Name some of your favorite songs or artists!
  Rock music mostly, with most of my favorites being grunge and alternative. My favorite band right now is Highly Suspect, but I also love the Arctic Monkeys, Cage to Elephant, Alice in Chains, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Chevelle, The Offspring, the Beatles, Metallica, Twenty One Pilots…probably missing a ton.

4. What’s something exciting that’s happened to you recently? (Could be fish related or not.)
   I got ENGAGED!!! But that was after I made and posted this list originally, I definitely did not put this question on here just so I could say that. I put this question here so I could gush about how much fun I had at a big music festival, but uh…that happened.

5. What do you like about the fishblr community and what content/discussions would you like to see in the future?
    I did a bad job explaining this one. Basically you guys are really nice and I love you all and how much you all actually want to learn and grow and improve your care because you love your fish so much. Because that’s how it should be. Also I want people to talk to me about fish as much as possible since that’s basically my whole life and all.

And here’s a link to the original post with the questions!

Sorry this took so long, I’m terrible. But also a cute nerd, so there you go, check that out.

anonymous asked:

I like Hero Academia, but I also think it's so-so. I keep investing my time on it because I've come to enjoy the characters and have a thing for the hero subgenre, but the story still lacks something imo... Maybe a bigger conflict that sets the plot into motion for real. Anyway, is there any seinen you're particularly a fan of?

Yeah, it’s not bad, but not great either. The appeal of Jump and the Jump system (for me) is that the conditions Jump artists are put under force them to produce works that might not always be super coherent but have the power and appeal to just drag the audience along with it… while I called Hero Academia “a Sunday manga” because Sunday is way more low-key and coherent and less extreme, for the most part. And I’m not really a Sunday fan in general.

Hmm, I’m a pretty big fan of Iwaaki Hitoshi! Parasyte is an obvious choice but I also love Tanabata no kuni and Historie (even though the military strategy route the plot has taken leaves me a bit cold). I always read Shinya shokudo when a new volume comes out. I was also a big fan of Kokkoku when it was running and I’m picking up Golden Gold in tankobon. I read a thriller the other day called Unagi oni which was okay. I could re-read Sasaki Noriko’s seinen forever, like Otanko nurse or Channel wa sonomama! I really need to re-read and finish Hitsuji no ki one of these days. I also read a lot of random essay manga that ran in seinen magazines, like Matsumoto Eiko’s Arakokyu. I also read Hoshino Yukinobu and Morohoshi Daijiro and Kaitani Shinobu and… basically I read a lot of seinen that I randomly pick up, there’s a lot of hit and miss but it’s probably my favorite demographic. Although I realize this will probably come as a surprise!

Signs and Crushes

Aries: Pretty upfront about it, always on the lookout for someone and when they find that perfect someone they cling on. You’ll know if they like you by the measure of inside jokes you have, the amount of touching and eye contact. Pay attention next time their around. Give it some time and eventually they’ll tell you.

Taurus: Timid about it. They’re very fun people and love to just go with you anywhere. Very vexing and charming signs, so they might feel unattainable to you. In nature they doubt themselves, so they might feel the same about you. That being said, they most likely will go to their grave simply crushing on you. Maybe it’s best you make the first move with this sign.

Gemini: Like Taurus, this sign is timid about liking you. They want you to make the first move and tell them you like them. When it comes to crushes, this sign might do the most discreet things like tagging you in a post or remembering your pet’s name. Loves to laugh at memes with you. Wants to take you to new places but doesn’t know how to ask. Very gentle. Probably best you make the first move.

Cancer: Very lovey-dovey. Loves to compliment you in small ways and it might be pretty obvious they like you. Compliment them back, you’ll notice how they blush and smile. Very cute. You might also notice how they want to invite you in with their own friends. It is either-or with this sign when it comes to crushes. Depending on the person, you might want to tell them yourself.

Leo: A very fierce sign. They get what they want because of their strong demeanor. They’ll charm you into their lives and never let you go. When this sign likes you, they’ll be fairly shy at first, but pay attention to body language. Do they laugh a lot? Focus all of their attention on you? Once they’re comfortable with you, they don’t hold anything back.

Virgo: This sign needs to know that you mutually like them. They don’t go off on a limb and assume things. They don’t ask you on a date out of nowhere, even if they do suspect you like them back. They’re a logical sign, and they just need to know that the feelings are reciprocated. Therefore, it might not be that obvious that they have a crush on you. They want to get to know you better and understand your intentions. Once they do, they’ll open up to you and be very obvious when it comes to liking you.

Libra: A truly kind sign. Once you get close enough to them, they’re willing to do anything for that special someone. They love to brag about you to their friends and you might find yourself on their social media frequently. Eventually, they may come around to telling you how they truly feel.

Scorpio: Now you and I both know a Scorpio will tell you, your family, your neighbors, and your friends that they like you. They don’t hold much back. It takes a while to crack that hard shell of theirs, but once you do there is no going back. It might be overbearing at times, but Scorpio only has the best intentions at heart. You know they like you if they put you above anyone else.

Sagittarius: Very withdrawn when it comes to having crushes. They feel like they fail at love and so, when they do have a crush, they hold back completely. They love to laugh with you and adventure with you. Give them some time, and they’ll come around. Do not bombard them by confronting them instantly.

Capricorn: Similar to sagittarius, this sign is very withdrawn. They have a rather passive personality and will play it off as if you’re not much in their life. You might take notice to this. However, they think the world of you. Have some late-night mushy conversations with them and you’ll know they think the world of you. They’re a sweet sign, but they can break your heart in an instant.

Aquarius: This sign is bubbly when they like you. Very kind and smiley. They love the finer things in life and they aren’t afraid of showing you. Beautiful people both inside and out and you definitely don’t want to lose them. They make it obvious when they like you. It’s the little things in life that mean the most of them. So if they show you things like little places around town and beautiful, hidden scenery then you should just know.

Pisces: A reserved sign, or at least they try to be. When it comes to them liking you, honey, you’ll know. Compliments out the wazoo. Tries to make you laugh as much as possible. They always think about you, always. They worry for you, get excited for you, and will love you unconditionally. They have an obsessive personality and when they have a crush on you, all that obsession is pointed to you. They get so scared that they’ll mess up somehow. They make amazing lovers, but they will leave if something feels wrong.

i’m not gonna shut up about all these beautiful dark skinned women in black panther for a while okay? do you know how easy it would’ve been for them to pull a Classic Hollywood Maneuver and cast a bunch of light-medium brown skinned women in this movie and have darker skinned black women just sprinkle the background or be a part of the obvious enemy group? or to just conveniently place a light skinned black woman in the role of the eventual love interest or as ramonda, who is t'challa’s mother, an obvious role of power, like they could’ve easily shown us one of the 6 light skinned flavors of the year and they didn’t and i’m so fucking grateful, we are seeing dark skinned black women in a bunch of different roles, all serving different purposes and all obviously powerful and i’m living for it and this is all from a 2 minute TEASER trailer like this is amazing

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A subtle reminder that Rob is the father in real life [for added effect]

Robin was a good man, a loving husband, and a great father. He may not have been harry and gemma’s biological dad, but he was way more than that. He was so supportive throughout the years he has spent with the styles/twist family. It was obvious how much he made their family happy, always considering them his very own. Life will always be unfair, to take away the people who mean so much, but at the same time it’s a reminder of the goodness and the love he has given their family. I hope through this hard time people respect their family and give them all the time they need; they are all strong, but at the moment, broken. Though gone too early, may you always rest in peace, Robin.

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  • we open with sana reciting this surah, which i see as an effort from sana to try and regain focus on her faith (but you should ask the muslims in the fandom <3)
  • very violent online abuse flashes before her eyes, apparently from when she was in middle school (here’s a detailing of the abuse)
  • once again, sana’s prayer is interrupted (it’s always interrupted either by an external character, or by her own thoughts…at the end of the series we’ll see her pray uninterrupted and it will be gorgeous)
  • we get this beautiful shot of literal and metaphorical self reflection. sana is broken after the latest events and she is now trying to pick herself back up (so, of course, she tries to go back to the beginning: the sana we first saw on the show, before it all started)
  • adding the above piece of art for reasons (like to charge/reblog to cast)
  • we’ve seen sana wear very loose hijabs this season, i remember people commenting on it. here, she tightens the fabric around her neck. i see it as her trying to protect herself. she needs all the extra strength she can get. all the extra fabric between her and the world.
  • she tries to reach out for the only friend (we know of) she could have left: jamilla. but we see they never got closure on the “sharmutta incident” and, when sana scrolls up, she is reminded of how much her and jamilla differ from one another. and she gives up.
  • quick note: i am not too happy too see jamilla painted as this hating muslimah but i’ll wait until the end of the series. her comment “i was just trying to protect you” reminds me a lot of sonja, who i hated really badly when she confronted isak during the hotel scene. but who redeemed herself and explained her behaviour in the end.
  • we see their last messages are from january 2016, so just after season 1 if i’m not mistaken? the tension started then and that’s probably why sana and her were already at war during season 2.
  • anyone knows what game the norwegians are playing at the school? it looks like a dance of some sorts: the way they’re placed and the couple is running in between the two groups…
  • isak is wearing a dandelion. from twitter: løvetannbarn (dandelion child) means person that has survived almost impossible upbringing.
  • this time, the lyrics are so on the nose even the beautiful subbers decided to translate some of them: an even song. to me, reminiscent of all the rumours spread about him paralleling the rumours spread about sana right now.
  • we see the pictures from the teaser: isak’s eye, sara (same jacket), noora…
    we’re missing the brown hair with a hand ruffling them and the carrot munching (but i feel like the carrot bit was more symbolic than anything)
  • sana is back to the beginning (see above) except, this time, it’s reversed: she’s not joining the girl squad and the russbuss. she’s leaving both.
  • liar liar pants on fire
  • and she’s not trying to show, like in her first clip where she sassed vilde and told her being a russ was punished by stoning, that she can and will become a russ. she’s instead using her faith as a reason for why she doesn’t want to be a russ. very flippening, much reversal.
  • sana goes to class and…
  • the book is open on a page about dandelions.
  • which brings me to the symbolism of the dandelion. according to google, dandelion translates to “dent de lion” in french which means “lion’s tooth” (i can vouch for that), summoning the symbolic meaning of lions: courage, pride, family (connection/communication). the dandelion is also a sun symbol (#sanasol).
  • we get this exchange that i LOVE but that, unfortunately, is getting misunderstood: sana and isak are awkward around each other but both really want to talk to each other. sana, after looking at isak’s very obvious blackeye, glances at the dandelion in his hair. isak scoffs and takes it off.
    you can’t take a black eye off. you can’t get rid of that barrier between two people. but you can take a flower off. i feel like the flower, here, is a perfect way for them to (in the sweetest way) break the ice. our attention is briefly redirected from the (devastating) black eye to the (hopeful) flower and, for a moment, everything is OK.

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I don’t know why you’d want it but here you go, my very boring self for you 

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anonymous asked:

What all instances of flirting, like I missed so many lmao

yOU ASKED SO I DELIVERED HERE U GO (AND I WAS EXTREMELY SELF-INDULGENT W SCREENSHOTS SO APOLOGIES FOR THIS POST BEING LONG AS F): 

  • :16 dan is acting out what they’re like in these bomb videos and immediately seizes the opportunity to playfully punch phil’s arm repeatedly. phil, for his part, just sits there and looks adorably bemused while dan is yelling. love it
  • :33 dan does some sort of sketchy fist gesture, phil immediately reacts to it even though it was generally benign, in a blatant subversion of their normal roles w making innuendos/sexual jokes. they both giggle
  • :47 phil goes into a whiny voice to say how he really wanted to do an exotic bomb and then hums the generic vlog music they always use. dan tries to look annoyed but just giggles some more
  • :56 dan’s like ‘so i reckon we need to actually beat more than one in this section’ and leans in all close to phil and phil’s like ‘alright! okay!’ in the flirtiest voice ever i wanna die
  • 1:16 ‘so I’m gonna bomb first, i think you should read first,’ says phil and the ensuing exchange where he’s just cheekily giggling while dan is acting all exasperated is just so cute … and uh, i can’t be the only one who thought there was a pretty blatant sexual undertone to phil saying ‘just tell me what to do. i’m your putty. mold me into whatever shape you want.’ … and dan’s eyes go momentarily wide while he says it. nice
  • 1:52 dan calling phil ‘felipe’ lmao what even
  • 5:32 when they’re epically failing and they’re about to lose, phil does his instinctual pat of dan’s arm to tell him they have fifteen seconds left and it’s cute
  • 5:50 the look they share immediately upon losing, before phil just breaks into giggles
  • 6:14 phil going ‘what is something that flops like more than anything else in the world’ with an utterly impassive poker face purely to wind dan up and see him laugh is one of the most simultaneously adorable, hilarious, and impressive things i have ever witnessed
  • 6:36 thIS WHOL E EXCHANGE w dan asking if phil thinks it’s his (dan’s) fault that they didn’t do well that round and saying ‘you can be honest’ with wide puppy eyes, and then phil saying yes, he thinks dan was pretty bad that time, and then dan trying to look shocked n appalled while still grinning:
  • and then screeching that phil is supposed to lie!!!!! and phil just consolingly being like ‘well you were flustered …’ like trying to be a bit reassuring,, honestly fucking end me, that was one of the cutest bits in this whole vid, they’re just so comfortable w each other and I’m dying
  • 9:33 onwards when dan is retaliating by telling phil he should be able to decode this morse code thing just bc he litro can’t let phil’s criticism go. he is a child. i love it
  • 9:53 when phil says it’s too hard, dan’s all ‘NO WE CAN DO THIS PHIL’ and slams his hands on the table and leans into phil’s space just to grab the manual and its all v cute
  • 10:27 ‘shut up rat’ omg i lost it at this. and then a few seconds later ‘shut up turd.’ dan is really top notch at verbally abusing his partner
  • 10:53 phil v abruptly shush-ing dan in order to cut off what was sure to be a long and hysteric rant about how unfair the last round was. i love how instinctual that was for phil, like he just knows dan’s about to go off and neither of them have time for it, and then dan immediately complies when phil tells him to shush hahah
  • 13:25ish during the really stressful new one that they didn’t really understand i noticed that they kept bumping arms until they just decided to keep their arms touching for basically the rest of the time until the bomb goes off and it struck me as maybe being a way for them to subtly kinda be like ‘we’re all right it’s all good’ and ground each other. cute
  • 14:04 the look they share AGAIN when they lose
  • and the whole exchange up until like 14:35 where they’re debriefing and just talking to each other, sort of forgetting the camera exists. I LOVED watching that even though the v obvious jumpcut suggests they cut a bunch of it out bc it was just dan walking phil through the instructions for the new module and phil just leans in all close and lets dan guide him and i loved their facial expressions during that part AHHH it was just so comfy n GOOD
  • 15:35 dan telling phil about the new module they’ve never done before by singing it, i felt like this was yet another example of him trying to keep the energy light and non-stressful so that phil would stay calm and it’s cute that these videos have so many instances of them trying to look out for each other like that (but then dan is actually kind of bad at this and spends a lot of time screaming when he’s doing the bomb and i cried laughing at the bit at 18:11 when he’s jst high pitched squealing for a few seconds)
  • 18:26 the looks they share!!! YET!!! AGAIN!!!!!!!!! when they lose!!!!! (partially obscured by the explosion effect lol):
  • 18:51 dan proudly proclaiming that they probs have above average communication skills when they’re not stressed or trying to be entertaining bc apparently they are unable to do one of these vids without mentioning or alluding to their psychic connection and best friend mind meld

ahhhh watching them work together in this game is the fucking best and they were just so happy in this one, it was so palpable and hilarious and fun to watch, as though all the fun they have together is actually contagious. i love them and this video series so fuckin much :((

(keep talking and no one explodes #3

anonymous asked:

So I was re-watching Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows p 2, and there's a scene where Harry, Ron, and Hermione all show up unexpectedly to Ginny, who is Harry's love interest. And what is the first thing Ginny says? "Harry" of course because that's characters do when they love each other. While Ron, Ginnys brother is standing right there like what am I chopped suey? Comparing destiel to any romantic pairing is really quite easy now.

source: @wildcas 

It’s great how they are nice and obvious about adhering to standard romance tropes :D

Sam is like I AM ALSO RIGHT HERE, but anyway, we don’t have time for you two to be all pissy or romantic or whatever like last time, we have to get on with the case at hand, Lucifer is probably right behind us! 

Mary isn’t even surprised. She thinks they’re a thing anyway, I mean every interaction she’s had with them they’ve behaved like husbands so what else would she think… 

I love it.

Pride Month ! <3

Geez, I spent two weeks thinking about what I would do for this, but… augh ! Why ?! The answer is OBVIOUS ! I just love these two so much and they bring happiness in my life everyday !

(but still, thanks @great-nini, my brain was very slow yesterday and your machine is full of ideas, it helped me quite well =w=)

Then, have two gay cuties for June, and remember to spread tolerance and love, guys <3

Error belongs to @loverofpiggies
Inky belongs to @comyet / @myebi

I’m a new dm for a group of relatively new players, running a short campaign ‘cause I wanted to try my hand at dming and they wanted to play. 

Long story short, the players have to convince the ghost of an ancient king to give them the password to open a secret vault and get the treasure as they were hired to do. I’ve decided to play the king, Caul, as a semi-genocidal and extremely lonely old man who doesn’t want the conversation to end. I’d been having fun distracting them talking about skee ball, murder, and Caul’s beautiful wife whom he loved very much, but they finally got out of him some important info. 

Ollie, the party warlock: So, you’re waiting for the “chosen ones,” and you’ll tell them the password? 

Caul: Yes, that’s right. Oh, I’ve been down here for so LONG, you have no IDEA- 

Ollie, OOC: Can I just, like, convince him we’re the chosen ones? 

Me, OOC: Sure, roll persuasion.  

I was going to make something that obvious a tough roll, as this conversation was meant to be akin to a boss fight in difficulty. I figured they’d have to get a 20 to successfully convince him with just one roll. I wanted them to test their roleplaying capabilities and have a little fun with it instead, and Ollie hadn’t rolled above a 10 all evening so I wasn’t worried. 

Ollie: *rolls 19, +3 to get 22* HAHA 

Me, OOC: Oh shit, okay. Um, so what do you say?

Ollie, OOC: I convince him we’re the chosen ones?

Me, OOC: Yeah, but how? What do you say to convince him? 

Ollie, after much deliberation: We are the chosen ones. 

Caul: Wow, I suddenly believe you, I guess. 

anonymous asked:

I saw you were writing a FanFiction, what I do is read other ones to get inspired. A few good ones are "you'll never know the psychopath sitting next to you", "drink responsively" and who can forget "dirty laundry" which is a great classic. I'd love to see lance talking in group chat about FanFiction. Net and like pidge searches him up and finds out he's written docs about Keith and him under different names but like they are super obvious??

lmao i read other fics to get inspired too!! i’ve read dirty laundry of course but omg i looked up the other two and omfg i’m adding them to my reading list :D

(anyway, i hope this fits your request the way you wanted lmao 💜)

now pidge just randomly comes into the chat at all hours of the day and spams their favorite quotes from lance’s fanfic and he’s just like ,,,,,,,,,, w h y