is anyone even on right now

anonymous asked:

Ok but what if instead of Harry being the "commitment phobe", y/n is? Like, he really likes her, but she never has serious relatioships and she's a natural flirt? I've seen it around a lot with Harry playing the womanizer, but never seeing anyone talking about the other way round

Me: feeling severely @ed right now, lmao. (Except I’m not a natural flirt – I can’t flirt very well, although I might know the theory.)

ANYWAY.

This would probably frustrate him to no end. And his frustration would frustrate him even more, cause most of the time he probably tries to play it cool, and there he is trying to figure out how to lock this down and it’s giving him more difficulty than usual. He’s probably used to being able to charm his way into any situation, and it isn’t that he ISN’T charming to her – he is, he knows he is – but he’s not getting that attention. He’d likely have a limit – as we all do – but I could see him taking it as a challenge and trying to employ different strategies if he really likes her and really wants a shot with her. 

Side note: I feel like some of our resident astrology experts around here could have some interesting insight into how he could react to this based on his general himness and any potential facets his chart could bring into play – regardless of whether or not you believe in that, it offers interesting interpretations and fleshes out things in a different way than usual! x

ugh, I’m in pretty severe pain and I need to complain but I don’t really have anyone to complain directly to; the abyss of Tumblr doesn’t really cut it right now!

But in the absence of a sympathetic ear, I’ll go on: there’s a sort of searing numbness in my upper back; there’s no position that makes it better; I’ve taken 7 aspirin today (i know, i KNOW) and they haven’t touched it; the heat pack I have a. sucks and b. isn’t doing any good; work is slow so I don’t even have any distractions; and even if I did, I wouldn’t be able to focus on them.

SWCV in LA

okay! since I got slightly better seats more near the center, I now have 2 P2 tickets to sell. I’ll be selling them at face value so message me if anyone is interested :D The section is Loge Right, row 2 so it’s right at the front of the balcony meaning no obstructions in view. Seats are 82, 84 (the venue is separated by odd and even seats so these two seats are right next to each other) send me a pm if you’re interested!

I am feeling better and better about myself
By each passing day I feel like I have made the right choices for myself
Because I have made choices for myself that were not based on anyone else’s opinion

My family have pointed out that I look so much more alive and happy now

And I agree
Because I feel a lot better
Even if I still have bad days
I feel better about the fact that it’s all gonna be okay

anonymous asked:

i don't think anyone is ready for annoying positivity right now, but i feel like we learned so much today. it was another excellent test run for twitter engagement + organization, and i realllllly don't think we would have gotten that pike fic (which might be the craziest one yet) without the prompting of norbury part ii. bond air is still go

i agree. today needed to happen, and they’re rewarding us for it by making us feel even more insane

at this point idk what i expected because it’s the same feeling every time

perhaps i should just surrender to the insanity

P.S.A.

I’m going to make this clear to everyone right here and now, because lately I’ve been seeing a lot of posts about how ‘overly aesthetic-based blogs are considered annoying’– I am just as invested in the writing I do on this blog as I am in the character development/aesthetic posts. If I see something that seems like Sumizome, I’m going to reblog it. Even if it’s several posts at a time. 

I’m sorry, like genuinely sorry, if that bothers anyone, but being able to imagine Sumizome clearly– or any of my other ocs, tbh– is extremely important to me and it helps me write him better. Not only that, but I enjoy it. I enjoy his aesthetic. That being said, it isn’t more important to me than actually writing him.

What I’m trying to say is, don’t take one look at my blog and write it off as aestheticy-bullshit. It isn’t fair. That goes for ALL blogs. ALL people who enjoy getting into the aesthetic portion of their muse, which they worked hard on. 

So I was thinking about everything all night and all morning and like yes I DO want to be with him so much but I do understand that why he might feel it’s a lot of pressure or whatever right now even though he does want to be with me so I feel like I can be okay with it if he just wants to keep things as they have been for the last few weeks because that’s been going really well, I just can’t handle the thought of him having feelings for anyone else or doing anything with anyone else and I don’t want to do that either I’d die so uGhhehdhdhshshjfkkdkfkskkf

Sorry for always posting all this stuff on here guys it’s just helpful for me to talk about it like this 🤷🏼‍♀️

anonymous asked:

How is anyone even know about her Snapchat? She hasn't really loaded it yet, but your anons are there already. It's ridiculous! And why we always talk about her? The more we talk, the more so wanted attention she gets. We get to the point, where every CC shipper talks and talks and talks about her. It's like we are not CCers, but the M-haters. :(

To me right now it’s more about exposing the truth. Forcing her fans to see.  I think it’s what’s required to set Darren free.

anonymous asked:

Hi! So I think I'm bi. But even though I feel like this is who I am, I'm kinda in this weird stage where I feel like I am it but at the same time I'm not? Because I've pretty much considered myself straight my whole life. It's not really denial or anything just trying to wrap my head around it. When sometimes I say it to myself it feels right and other times it feels different? Has anyone else gone through this? Not a question just something more like I need to get off my chest, really. Thanks!

Hi anon

I feel like I know what you’re talking about. I thought I was straight until my 20s. And it’s not even that I was in denial, it’s just that I didn’t allow my mind to entertain the idea of same sex attraction. Until I did. And then I found that I was into it. Maybe the potential was always there, who knows. I identify as bi now but it took me quite a journey to get here, and for a long while I was basically straight, and then I was confused, and now I’m satisfied. But sexuality is fluid for some people and I accept that mine is always shifting. I’m comfortable enough to ID as bi all the time now, no matter my shifting and fluid sexuality, because I recognise within myself the potential to be attracted to more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time or in the same way. That’s me paraphrasing Robyn Ochs, bisexual activist.

- Max

PSA

this is the second fuckin time this has happened and its bullshit. Please stop hating on people for the portrayal of their characters. It’s a god damn fucking AU not a fucking cannon character. The mun has the right to portray a character however the fuck they want. If you don’t like it, there is this thing called an unfollow button, or if you even so feel the need there is also a block button as well. Who would have guessed??! now please, if you don’t like a character, keep yo god damn thoughts to yourself and stop hating people for it. Didn’t anyone ever tell you if you don’t have anything nice to say, dont fucking say it.

that is all

ah im following the national dva association/전디협 right now and they’re organizing an all woman ow tournament (even the commentators will be all female!!)

and they specifically said anyone who self-identifies as female should join and that the tournament is not limited to cis women only and it’s so great that they explicitly stated their inclusivity i love this 전디협 is so pure

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Today I found out that as a fanartist I was probably given too much power

(14/2 is Yamagata’s birthday and 15/2 is Kinoshita’s and I was drawing them for it and then I wondered)

IDK IF ANYONE HAS POINTED THIS OUT BUT

not only did Yuuri have a billion posters of Viktor on his room, he also kept a picture of Viktor FRAMED ON HIS DESK RIGHT WHERE HE COULD ALWAYS SEE IT

and unless it’s merely an animation error not only did he keep a framed picture of Viktor, he also took the time to swap said picture from time to time

AND EVEN AFTER HIS PANIC WHERE HE REMOVED ALL THE POSTERS AFTER VIKTOR’S ARRIVAL HE STILL KEPT THE FRAME

however it’s impossible to tell EXACTLY WHAT is in the frame right now so maybe it’s not Viktor anymore, but instead Vicchan (my poor heart if that’s the case) bUT WHO KNOWS maybe he did keep one picture 

please protect this pure boy at all cost he makes my heart melt he’s so adorable and loved Viktor for so long 

There are a lot of things that seem like the end of the world. Like when the person you like stops talking to you once you sleep together. Or when you have to watch a person you’re supposed to be over date someone else and you realize that sharp pain in your chest probably means you’re not actually over them.

But what’s even harder is losing someone without getting to say goodbye and not having anyone to talk to about it. Or having to hurt someone you care about because you know what’s best for them and it’s not you.

There are so many times in our lives that our hearts will break. And the bad news is, one of those times will be worse than all the others. But the good news is, it’s probably not what you’re going through right now.
I find it incredibly sad how some fans can get so greedy with awards to the point where they'd want to take away an award from a group who has worked so hard to get their first daesang 😧

Okay so I know that everyone and their mother already analyzed this scene but I’d also like to take a moment to notice something.

When Mari told Yuuri about Maccachin’s condition, he held his breath

And the first word that traveled on that first breath was none other than:

Followed shortly by:

And may I note that in Japanese, this isn’t just “right now”, it’s more like “right this instant”.

Everyone praises the communication aspect here and that indeed is amazing, but can we talk about the fact that Yuuri doesn’t even hesitate.

He doesn’t even take two seconds to think about himself and how he’ll do without Victor, because he knows that this isn’t about him. Having gone through the terrible experience of losing a dog (basically a family member to anyone who’s ever had a pet) and not being able to say goodbye, the first thing he thinks about is Victor and how he will feel.

And let me reaffirm Yuuri is not an impulsive person. He thinks and considers all aspects of a situation, which is also most likely why he gets so anxious before big events, why he flubs his jumps when he’s got something on his mind, why it took him so long to get used to Victor, why he needs to prepare himself mentally before every time he skates in public. Everything that Yuuri does, he does intentionally.

And so he does in this scene as well. It takes him only a moment to think it through and then he knows. And I’m certain he knows that he’ll be stressed before his Free Skate. But regardless of that he consciously prioritizes Victor and his feelings.

And I think that’s what contributes to the impact of the scene - the fact that Yuuri, of all people, acts immediately. It’s not just a sympathetic decision made in the heat of the moment, it’s a deliberate self-less act. And that’s beautiful.

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#But look at how Simon immediately adverts his gaze to Luke #How he becomes unsure of himself and frightened and he looks at Luke for support #Obviously we don’t see Luke’s expression but you know he’s looking Simon right in the eyes perhaps has small smile on his face or a nod #He’s reassuring Simon letting him now that it’s okay, he’s there for him, clary’s there for him, he’s not alone #And Simon is still scared you can see his hesitance even after but he takes the bravery that Luke offers and he gives a small smile to Jocelyn #Anyways I just wanted to cry over how much these two love each other, how supportive Luke Garroway is and how he provides comfort to anyone without even using words 

I gotta say

Natsu is such a sweetheart. I don’t care what anyone says, that is sentimental and romantic (double-whammy straight to the heart). What’s more, is he did both so earnestly *swoon*

Even I couldn’t resist. 

Lucy, you’re lucky I ship you two so much. The man’s a keeper. ;)

Natsu never does things in half measures. Most guys send flowers, Natsu sends a tree. Enough said.