intimate very personal

So what if Zoras wipe/clean their mate’s headfins and it’s like someone brushing the hair of their partner/s.o. Anyway, it’s very intimate and personal between them. One day, Link and Sidon are relaxing against each other–maybe Sidon’s resting his head on Link’s lap–and Link just starts idly running his fingers along Sidon’s tail. Sidon perks up and almost immediately just wags his fin out of sheer happiness. 

Maybe it’s the equivalent of Zora kissing? >w>

Karmic Meanings of Retrograde Planets in the Natal Chart

I found this on and I just wanted to share it with you because it is great information

When a  planet is retrograde, its energies are turned inward and becomes more  subjective. The energy is slower  manifesting in the external world, partly because the individual with  retrograde planets tends to think more deeply about the energies involved.  Many geniuses and leaders have retrograde   planets.

         According to Martin Schulman, in his Karmic  Astrology:  Retrogrades &  Reincarnation, Vol. II, retrograde planets tend to break the time  barrier.  The individual brings memories  of prior lifetimes into the present incarnation.  There  may be feelings of a “blending of lifetimes” characterized by the person  attempting to resolve issues that still appear to be unfinished.  The memories can be so vivid that the person   does not recognize them as “memories.” In Schulman’s words:  “He is living in a dulled phase of another  time zone whose irresistible magnetism seems even more important than his  current life.”  The individual keeps  re-living the experiences that relate to the particular retrograde planet.  

        Retrogrades operate through multiple  dimensions at the same time.   Thus, the  person may “be either behind or ahead of himself in this life while still  another part of self is not yet in this life at all.  In addition to this lack of synchronization  with chronological time, which in itself would be enough to upset most  individuals, he also experiences on still another plane, a rather unique  orientation in space.”  (Schulman)

         Schulman’s definition of a “Retrograde individual” refers to  having either:  1) 3 or more retrogrades  in the natal chart, 2) any one of the personal planets Retrograde, or 3) even  one single Retrograde planet near the Ascendant or Midheaven (the 10th house cusp is called the Midheaven).

        Again quoting Schulman:  “The Retrograde planet, with its powerful   karmic lessons being brought forward in this life tends to emphasize the matter  or form side of life, throwing man into the more primitive parts of himself  where his struggle for survival amidst the conditions and people around him  becomes predominant over the fulfillment of his Soul.  This becomes even more heightened in the case  of the inner [personal] Retrogrades (Mercury, Venus, & Mars) through which  man deals with the very same intimate, personal, and private parts of himself  which he has been struggling with since his beginning in time.”  

         It  is comforting and encouraging to know “that soul and spirit are above the laws  of karma” and all difficulties can be resolved.   Much spiritual growth can take place through the overcoming of the   difficulties involved with Retrograde planets.


The SUN and MOON  do not go retrograde.

MERCURY RETROGRADE – turns the mind inward, giving a  tendency to repeatedly go back over prior events and lessons.  The thought process is based in the   subconscious rather than the conscious mind.   This means the learning process  is more Right Brain than Left Brain; you absorb the essence rather than the  details.  For this reason, you are likely  to score lower on standardized and/or facts-oriented tests than those students  not having MERCURY RETROGRADE.  

         PARENTS,  BE ALERT – The child with MERCURY RETROGRADE is likely to be made to feel  and told that he/she is less intelligent than he/she really is.  This  child’s learning process is different, not less intelligent.

        The MERCURY RETROGRADE individual is  capable of tapping into the collective unconscious and of perceiving knowledge  from prior times.   This process is  unconscious.  Because you know more than  you can consciously communicate, frustration may set in.  You may become preoccupied with the form of  your ideas, creating barriers to the essence of your knowledge.

         Creative  outlets that require non-verbal communication, such as music and painting, are  an excellent means of expression for MERCURY RETROGRADE.  Many of our musical geniuses have MERCURY  RETROGRADE.  History is also a natural  outlet.

         MERCURY  RETROGRADE KARMA:  Relationships – with a tendency to  react to others “as if” they symbolize persons from the past.

VENUS RETROGRADE – indicates difficulty in  expressing freely your love and affection for others.  You may feel that you lack emotional  fulfillment and tend to interpret life’s events through the lens of “how much  am I loved or deprived of love?”   Emotionally based relationships can be difficult because you tend to  internalize and thereby exaggerate hurts.

         VENUS  RETROGRADE KARMA:  Relationships – reveals that your soul  carries memories of past life painful relationships and a great  misunderstanding about the nature of love.   The prior life intense emotional pain may result in a present tendency   to cut yourself off from fully experiencing the richness of love—out of fear of  being hurt once more.  You will tend to  react to the present as if it is the past, thereby pre-programming your present  love relationships.  You tend to block yourself  from happiness by trying too hard to achieve it.

         PARENTS:  Encourage your VENUS RETROGRADE child to engage in all activities that add beauty,  art, and love to his/her daily life.  VENUS  is the planet of beauty; teach your child to think and create in terms that  focus on enhancing life’s situations.   Loving an animal may be helpful; just make sure the child is also   learning to love people freely and within the present context.

MARS RETROGRADE – shifts the outward thrust of energy  characteristic of MARS and directs it inward.   You will tend to expend a lot of energy reliving internally your past  experiences.  Because you are constantly  to the past, you may inflict past life roles upon the persons in your present   life’s environment.  There is a strong tendency to place priority upon  fulfilling your spiritual desires, resulting in neglect of the physical body’s  needs.   An intentional focus on holistic  growth is needed.  Sexual experiences  can be less fulfilling because your energy is turned inward.  However, sex that is deeply rooted in love   between two partners and that strives for a mutual spiritual orgasm can be a  much more natural expression for MARS RETROGRADE.  

         MARS  RETROGRADE KARMA – indicates your actions  tend to be an effort to recreate situations from your prior lifetimes. You may expend energy in attempting to find people  in the present who can symbolize those who fulfilled you in the past.  You may try to act out all that you could not  express in prior lifetimes.  You may   over-react when your efforts fail to produce your desired results.  This over-reaction can result in “coming on”  too strongly, only to have people pull back.


Rules the Eternal  Self, the Planet of Wisdom

Jupiter is a source of enthusiasm, optimism, and the urge to seize the  opportunities offered to you in life.

JUPITER RETROGRADE turns its energy of expansion  inward, so that much inner growth takes place, often through spiritually  oriented studies.  JUPITER RETROGRADE tends to procrastinate and to plan, then  re-plan, to the point of failing to get anywhere with the thoroughly planned  project.  JUPITER RETROGRADE offers the opportunity for a highly spiritual  incarnation. You must seek your own Truth; for, the mundane and status quo is  likely to leave you feeling discontent.    You are a free-spirit and  cannot follow happily in the footsteps of others.  Great wisdom and prophetic ability can be  present, especially as you attain spiritual maturity.  JUPITER RETROGRADE can bring many déjà-vu   experiences; you can feel at home anywhere on the planet. 


The planet of self-discipline,  SATURN’s goal for you is perfection.

SATURN helps us  bear our karma and successfully pass our tests.  Until we willingly accept  self-discipline, we experience SATURN as feelings of limitation, deprivation,  delay, and disappointment.  SATURN’s  true desire is to grant us wisdom and compassion.

SATURN RETROGRADE is your signal that you are re-doing a lifetime.  This incarnation is your 2nd chance; thus, you will feel the burden of dealing with two lifetimes at  once.  You can, therefore, experience  inner doubts about your self-worth and your ability to overcome  difficulties.  The good news is that your  soul knows you have achieved the spiritual maturity required to re-do  successfully a lifetime.  You have in  prior lifetimes advanced through great personal struggles and sacrifices.  Now, as you learn to flow with SATURN’s  discipline, you will be rewarded with enormous wisdom.  SATURN is comfortable in RETROGRADE motion, and  as you flow with it, you develop the capacity to tap into all of your past life  wisdom and talents.  SATURN RETROGRADE is a sign of an old Soul who has advanced far on the  spiritual path.  Now, you have incarnated to perfect what you have learned. 

         SATURN  RETROGRADE KARMAthe re-doing of a  lifetime, with the extra weight that entails.  SATURN RETROGRADE will be serious about  getting it right this time.


URANUS RETROGRADE – creates difficulty in being  aware of and expressing your inner individuality.   There can be a rediscovery of ideas from  previous lifetimes.  URANUS RETROGRADE  gives you a compelling sense of responsibility toward personal growth because  you sense that human progress as a whole is enhanced as well.  You  are a forerunner of the future, very tapped into the richness of life.  You must be original; you must explore the  new; you must share your ideas with others.   You are a free spirit and  cannot be bound by seeking to have others understand what you are about.  Your path may be long and crooked, but you  can know extreme happiness while traveling it.

         URANUS  RETROGRADE KARMA – relates to karmic  family and societal difficulties. In  your efforts to both relate to others and to reform, your unconscious mind can  be transformed.  URANUS RETROGRADE can  play havoc with relationships because of your changeability, which can make you   appear hypocritical.  Your mental and  emotional bodies may struggle with each other, as you know you need to do one  thing while feeling that you need to do another.  URANUS RETROGRADE would have you lift your  consciousness above the emotional/mental bodies and focus on the intuitive  body.

NEPTUNE RETROGRADE – gives the desire to unveil mysteries and to expose religious shams.   You will have an intuitive awareness of  your subconscious mind, but may have difficulty making conscious  attunement.  NEPTUNE RETROGRADE attunes  much easier to the subconscious/unconscious when the focus is diverted by the  use of a tool, such as astrology, or while the conscious mind is occupied with  the task at hand.  It is, therefore, important to listen to and heed insights  that appear to come to you from “out of the blue.”

         NEPTUNE  RETROGRADE indicates the urge to view the material world in terms of its  significance to the Soul and its growth.   Thus, NEPTUNE RETROGRADE offers you the opportunity to achieve a very  advanced stage of spiritual evolution during this incarnation.  NEPTUNE RETROGRADE requires that you live in   the material world while remaining separate from it.  To  others, you will seem to lack the common sense that motivates the behavior of  others.  Instead, you vibrate to a  higher music, possessing a direct attunement with your Soul.  You are much more in touch with the cosmos  than the material world and know far more than you can express in words.

         NEPTUNE  RETROGRADE KARMA – You are living through a karma of learning how to distinguish between the dreams that will  bring true fulfillment and those that simply appear to do so.  This learning process can mean that you  attempt living one dream after the other.   Because NEPTUNE RETROGRADE, functioning on the personality-centered  level, can be confusing, you may tend not to trust your intuition—even though  you are highly intuitive

PLUTO RETROGRADEturns its transformative energy even more deeply into the   superconsciousness, bringing about an inner illumination long before you are  able to give it expression in the outer world.  PLUTO RETROGRADE indicates a carry-over of psychic powers from  previous lifetimes. These powers are  to be used in constructive ways only.   You will feel the struggle humanity is going through within yourself—humanity’s struggle is your struggle. You are aware of and feel responsible for  lifting your conscious awareness so that the consciousness of humanity can be  thereby lifted.

         PLUTO  RETROGRADE KARMA – A karmic debt is  owned to humanity stemming from the age indicated by the sign in which PLUTO is  located.  This debt is to be paid  through selfless service to humanity.  Tremendous spiritual growth is possible;  you have the opportunity to rise above the karma of the human race and step off  the wheel of rebirth.  PLUTO RETROGRADE  joins NEPTUNE RETROGRADE in asking that you live in the world, while remaining   separate from it.

I did not write this but you can message me if you have any questions :)

“No, no, I didn’t rape her. A person has to be conscious to be raped. She was still unconscious. I made love to her.

Then I held her close to me. For the longest time, I held her close to me. It was as if the two of us were having a very personal, intimate experience. You need to understand, at that moment, she was the person I had made love to so many hundreds of times in fantasy. All of the time I was physically with her, I was also with her in my fantasy. Half fantasy, half reality. But this time it was with an actual body. Not just an image. This fantasy with an actual body was more real than any intimate moment I had ever experienced. I didn’t know her name yet I felt I loved her deeply. I held her in my arms and gently rocked her back and forth. Again and again I told her that everything would be all right.

[…]As I held this girl, she began to come around. I knew that if she did live she would have serious damage to her brain. I couldn’t allow that so I put my hands around her neck and ended any more suffering that she would have to go through.”

- Excerpt from Dr. Al Carlisle’s “I’m Not Guilty.” Notice how Bundy cruelly justifies the acts of rape and subsequent murder.

In several interviews with Dr. Carlisle, Bundy expresses an aberrant need for affection. Bundy admits that, in an attempt to satisfy such desires, he would often indulge in vivid fantasy.

EDIT: it has come to my attention that the above excerpts come from speculative interviews written by dr. carlisle, rather than actual interviews with bundy. i apologize for the misinformation and carelessness on my part.
No Inhibitions

I wanna follow where she goes, I think 
about her and she knows it.
Oh, I’ve been shaking, I love it when you go
crazy. You take all my inhibitions. 
You take me places that tear up
my reputation, manipulate my decisions.
Cause if we lost our minds and we took it way too far. 
I know we’d be alright. If you were by my side and we 
stumbled in the dark, I know we’d be alright.

Tom had been lucky enough to meet [Y/N]. It had been at a party in downtown San Francisco, everyone under the sun was invited to that party. It was wild. People were stumbling through rooms, slurring their words, crawling down the stairs, slinging liquor around, and the music had been so loud, Tom could feel it in his bones every time his heart would beat. 

After some drinks were in his system, he came across the pretty singer lounging on the balcony. With all the liquid courage he had consumed, it was easy to talk to her and when they decided to meet up days later on sober accords, it was even better. 

She had shown him around her home. Took him to places he would have never seen or even bothered to go to. [Y/N] was a different kind of person with a different kind of life, and he enjoyed every bit of it. She was a singer, someone who took great pride in music and made it her life. [Y/N] knew all the best places to go for someone who had never experienced that kind of thing. He had a fun ride that week he stayed in San Francisco. Part of him, never wanting to leave and the other part wanting to take her with him back to London. Take her to his home, show her his kind of life. But with her about to embark on her first ever world tour, he knew he couldn’t. 

It had been a months since the two of them had last seen each other but it had only been a few days since they last spoke. They kept in touch, him finding parts of him he never knew about when he was talking with her. [Y/N] was a wild child and he loved it. She had no limitations and saw the world as her oyster. Tom really liked that about her, her ability to just do what she wanted because no one could tell her otherwise. She wasn’t afraid of anything.

[Y/N] didn’t care what the media thought of her or what kind of consequences her actions would have. She lived in the now. It was exhilarating to be involved with someone like that. All she did care about were her fans and what they thought of her. [Y/N] never wanted to disappoint her fans but just like Tom, they loved that she was carefree and erratic. 

“Very convenient that you live so close to home.” [Y/N] commented as Tom led her into his apartment. She looked around, chuckling to herself. It was obvious that a guy lived here. Not that it was messy but the lack of decor and reason gave it away. 

Tom gave a nervous chuckle, “Yeah, mum found it and I thought why the hell not.” He walked towards his kitchen, “Want a beer? I was actually going to move to Los Angeles.”  

[Y/N] gave him a dazzling smile, the kind of smile that would cause him to lose his train of thought if he were to be in the middle of a conversation with someone else. “You know I do.” Following him, she thanked him when he gave her a bottle. “And that would have been easier than a ten hour flight. We could meet in less than two hours by plane.” 

Sipping on his own, he smiled. “I know but London’s my home, you know? Speaking of which how are you liking London?” Tom was ecstatic that she was finally done with her ninety-four day tour. And he was especially happy that she decided to fly out to London to give it a chance. He had talked it up so much and [Y/N] had only spent a few days in it during her tour that she wanted to experience it more. So, she enlisted in the best tour guide there was. 

Shrugging, she took a sip. “It’s alright.” Flashing him another one of those smiles, she followed him to his couch. Taking a seat on the opposite end, she pivoted towards him. “But, I can see the appeal.” 

Tom pretended to feel offended, “London is the best, way better than your San Francisco.” 

“We will see about that.” She laughed.

Tom was about to respond but received multiple text messages. Reaching into his pocket, he juggled his beer and his phone. Opening the texts, he internally groaned at them. Just before they had gone to his apartment, he had stopped by his parents home to introduce [Y/N], really to Tessa, but also his family. They ended up staying for dinner even though he had tried to stress that he was going to take [Y/N] to his favorite pub. 

[Y/N] quirked a brow, “You okay? Look like you’re reading something bad.” 

Tom gave a nervous chuckle, “What? Oh, no. Nothing bad.” Shoving his phone back into his pocket, he shook his head, “It’s nothing, not bad. Uh, just my family texting me…about you, that’s all.” 

Smirking, “About me? Should I run for the hills?” [Y/N] wouldn’t deny that how she was portrayed in the media was a wild child. If she was on the outside looking at herself, she’d be a little weary. But, she always held herself to be respectful and kind. 

He shook his head, laughing. Looking at his beer bottle, he sighed. “Actually, no. Quite the opposite.” 

This time, her brow quirked in curiosity. “The opposite? Most people think I’m reckless.” 

Sucking in air, he debated if he should reveal what the messages were saying. Tilting his head back and forth, he just went for it. “Nah, my mum really likes you. I think she likes that you’re determined and spontaneous.” Looking back down at his bottle, he started to peel the label. “She told me that I should take you on a date…..” 

“A date, hm?” [Y/N] murmured with a bit of humor in her words. 

“Yeah,” he chuckled. “And dad agrees.” 

Sipping on her beer some more, she chuckled. “The dreaded what are we to each other conversation hasn’t even come up and I’m already pre-approved.” She winked. [Y/N] wouldn’t lie about it but she did find Tom to be rather desirable. Far from the kind that she usually gravitated towards, usually the bad boys that used her. [Y/N] had a thing for bad boys, accents, and brains. Tom wasn’t necessarily a bad boy but he was an actor, it wouldn’t surprise her to find him in that kind of role eventually and her to go crazy. But, he had an accent and from what she had learned from their friendship was that he was incredibly smart as well. 

“That’s rare, you know.” Tom pointed out. “Usually my parents find at least one thing that they don’t like about the girls I’ve brought home.” 

“Give them time, I’m a book of flaws.” She muttered. 

“I don’t know,” Tom answered, “You’re pretty popular out here in London. It wouldn’t surprise me in the least bit if my parents knew all about you.” 

“Yikes.” [Y/N] chuckled. Bringing the bottle to her lips, she shrugged. “Although, dating you wouldn’t be bad.” 

This surprised him, “What?” 

“Come on, Tom.” She breathed, giving him a smirk. “You’re hot.” She laughed at his facial expression “But let’s be honest, you couldn’t handle me.” 

He rose a brow, “You don’t think I can handle you? I spent four nights in a row drinking myself into oblivion with you.” 

“Oh, Tom.” She sighed, shaking her head. “That’s not what I meant.” Pursing her lips, [Y/N] thought about if she should go into detail. Running her tongue over her teeth, she leaned forward. “What I mean is that, I’m a very intimate person.” Tilting her head, she smirked a little. “Out in public, I might be a little out of control but typically reserved but behind close doors,” leaning back, she snickered. “it’s a whole different world. That is what you couldn’t handle.” 

Tom could feel his insides burning at the thought of what she could be like behind closed doors. Deciding to be a little brave, he shot back with, “How do you know if you haven’t tried?” 

“A little bold, aren’t we?” She commented. 

He shrugged, “You said I couldn’t handle you but I think you’re wrong.” 

“Wrong, huh?” She mused. Taking another swig of her beer, “Alright.” She set down the bottle on his side table before climbing over and sitting in his lap.

“Wha? What are you doing?” Tom stammered.

Smirking a smirk that sent chills down his back, she leaned forward. “I’m about to prove you wrong.”  Without giving Tom a second to register what she meant, she pressed her lips against his. Rocking forward, she nipped his lips before he finally kissed back. It didn’t take long for the heat to build up in their bodies.

Her nails were digging into his shoulders while his were digging into her hips. Tom had never felt a kiss be so exhilarating before. It was a different kind of feeling that he had never felt and it was already too late because he was addicted. A feeling of a grand euphoria pouring out of her lips and into his. He’d bet that kissing [Y/N] was just like taking ecstasy all night. 

Pulling from him, she nipped down his neck and all over his collarbone before going back to where it started. Kissing him for a few more seconds, she chuckled against his lips and pulled away completely. She tore herself away from him and stood up. Walking back to where her beer sat, she snatched it up and took a good swig. “I’ll admit, Holland. I’m a bit impressed by your kissing skills. Who have you been snogging?” 

Tom gave her an amused look, “Ha, ha.” He was still in a bit of a high to really concentrate on scolding her for mocking him. Shaking his head, he tried to clear his fuzzy thoughts. Running a hand over his hair, he muttered out, “Bloody Hell.” 

Plopping down next to him, she leaned her head back. “Too much?” 

Tom rubbed his jaw, glancing over at her. “Not enough, actually.” 

She gave a loose laugh, quirking a brow. “I’m warning you.” Sitting up straight, she looked at him sincerely. “You do not want to get involved with me.” 

“I think I do.” Tom whispered, staring into her eyes. Getting lost in them, wondering what kind of things they’d get themselves into. He wasn’t nervous like he had been with his previous girl friends. Something about [Y/N] was calming with a bit of lust for adventure. 

[Y/N] shook her head, “You really don’t. I’m a mess, Tom. I’m indecisive, a work-a-holic, impulsive, irresponsible, irrational, and slightly neurotic.” She smiled lightly, shaking her head again. “Those aren’t good qualities to have to be worthy of your affection.” 

Tom smiled sincerely, turning, he brought his hands to her face, cradling her worried expression in his hands. “When I’m with you, I feel like I can take over the world. All my insecurities and everything I’ve ever thought badly of myself just disappears. I don’t care if you’re indecisive, impulsive, or irrational. That just makes you, you. And I’m a work-a-holic too, I love my job. Acting is something I want to do forever. And the whole neurotic thing? Well, that can be easily medicated.” Tom smirked, winking after his medicated joke. 

She laughed, “You are insane to justify my bad traits.” 

Tom dropped his hands and pressed his lips together. “I like you, [Y/N]. I do. Life with you sounds great, amazing actually. You’re saying no without giving it a chance.” 

[Y/N] grabbed his hand, “Because I’m trying to spare you from my crazy, chaotic life.” 

“I don’t need sparing, love. I can handle my own. I promise.” 

[Y/N] stared at him for a few minutes, pressing her lips together as well. She couldn’t lie that the connection she had with the Brit was amazing, she missed being with him during her crazy tour days. [Y/N] spent her nights singing, dancing, and drinking. And every single time, she’d have a moment of clarity and miss the one person she told herself not to catch feelings for. 

She lived a fast paced life, it was what she always wanted. [Y/N] wasn’t sure if she had room for a relationship. But, it didn’t mean she didn’t crave it. She wanted both. She wanted him. Sucking in air, she set down her beer, “Fine.” 

“Fine?” Tom questioned. 

Nodding, “Yup. Fine.” She smirked, “You don’t want to heed my warning, Tom. Then okay. Buckle up, love. Loving me will be one hell of a joyride.” Moving in close, she grabbed his chin and crashed her lips against his. Enjoying the moment and relishing that for once aside from pursuing her dream that making this decision would be the best one yet. Pulling apart just long enough for her to whisper against his lips, “Because there’s nothing holding me back.” 

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So we all know that after episode 2x07 that Malec had sex. And sex for anyone is a very intimate, personal, trusting kind of thing that can make or break a relationship, depending on how strong the relationship already was. I was wondering if we were going to see anything different in their interactions with each other in 8. Sadly there wasn’t much difference, but one thing that definitely caught my eye is that we all know that Magnus was never the one to go and touch Alec or instigate anything. And I don’t mean a kiss I mean just casual touching, in 8 Magnus did touch Alec in a casual manner. The little chest touch and the head touch on the roof. I wish we got more but I know we’re in store for 2b. Malec is going to be beautiful (as usual ) and give us intimate moment that I think we’re all craving for.

t-omlinstar  asked:

I really like your input about H's songwriting. It usually calms me down cause I tend to overreact, but you help me see the reason. So thank you!!!!!

no problem! like the thing is that there is so much imagery in harry’s lyrics and he’s soooo clever and talented. he’s a storyteller. and i feel like sometimes people want to take every single lyric as literal when he’s said numerous times that his songs really aren’t literal and even though he is /honest/ in his writing, it doesn’t mean that the songs are always about his life or his pov either. i just wish people would actually /listen/ to him when he talks about songwriting because i find him fascinating and his brain is fucking genius.

like for example, yeah i do think a lot of the very personal, intimate love songs (especially ones that reference things that i can see being about louis) are about his relationship. because i’m someone who believes he has been with louis for however many years now. but that doesn’t mean that i think every lyric in the song is literal either. he uses tons of metaphors and personification of feelings and emotions.

but even if i thought from the dining table was about his own relationship, i believe that he and louis are fine so i would take the lyrics as a story created out of a particular moment in time or emotion he may have been feeling. i also think it could easily be a song about his parents with a title like that. 

people are going to interpret songs the way they want. if they want to believe that he is singing about an actual woman he banged in “Woman” and not look deeper into it, then that’s good for them. personally, i think harry is way more talented and clever than people give him credit for. and i think he can tell a story about a nameless woman without he himself being the actually voice of the song.

 International Achievement Jarvis Cocker and Steve Mackey present: “Big up to independent labels who often put people like Pulp and Florence on these stages.”

Florence Welch receives the Ivor Novello Award for International Achievement – ”I’m incredibly nervous as I find singing a lot easier than public speaking. I would really like to dedicate this award to my dad who is here. As it’s the International Award, our first international tour was supporting MGMT- we didn’t have any money so my dad drove us round the whole of Europe in his camper van.”

“When I’m writing a song I never think about the fact other people will hear it. It feels like a very intimate and personal thing. As it turns out that’s a very international language and I’m proud to be part of that so thank you.”

im uncomf with the “bi women who prioritize women vs. bi women who prioritize men” shit for so many reasons and ive tried to put them into a coherent post for ages but i cant so here’s a list of Feelings i have about it

  • the only concrete definition of “bi woman who prioritizes women” that i’ve come across is “bi women who dates women primarily or exclusively (exclusively is better) and definitely is not dating a man at this exact moment in time”
  • and look:
  • if i was going to repress all attraction to all genders except for one i’d probably take the path of least resistance and “decide” to only act on my attraction to men because do you know how much easier my life would be if i “acted straight”? do you know how many people have implicitly or explicitly suggested i do so? do you know how many “gay celibate mormon” ~inspirational articles have been posted to my facebook feed since i came out? 
  • so like, if that were at all an option for me i think!!! i would’ve done it by now, i even heavily considered it at one point!!! but it feels like going back into the closet, like hiding part of yourself away so other people can ignore it. it’s incredibly damaging to my mental health, and that’s just when i’m attracted to women generally, if i actually fell for a specific woman and wanted to be with her?? it would kill me.
  • and people act like this is different because it’s coming from a different direction, it’s Radical but it’s the same thing, it’s just asking me to hide away a different part of myself because it happens to make you uncomfortable
  • its just political lesbianism by another name because bi women aren’t allowed to call themselves lesbians now but we’re still expected to act like them
  • and that’s the thing, the whole thing relies on the idea that your attraction is political, that who you date and sleep with and love is a political statement, and it’s not!! my entire life is not dictated by politics, i’m allowed to do things because i want to and not in service of The Cause. 
  • people act like asking us to “prioritize women” is so easy, like we’re boycotting men the same way we’d boycott a racist movie, instead of asking us to prioritize their politics over our own personal, intimate romantic and sexual desires
  • like i Get if you’re not attracted to men you think that that attraction is trivial (esp if you’ve experienced compulsory heteronormativity and were once convinced that you were attracted to men but realized that attraction was false) but it’s not, it’s as real and strong as my attraction to women
  • and you don’t have to understand that, you just have to respect it
  • the whole thing feels like some kind of violation, like a stranger walked into my home and demanded i started decorating differently, except it’s not my home, it’s my head and my heart but they’re so casual about it it’s like THEY think it’s my home, like an external representation of how i live my life instead of a very personal, intimate representation of my own thoughts and feelings
  • and ALSO i hate the idea that i need to “prioritize” women or men, that i need to frame my attraction in terms of social classes instead of in terms of individuals. 
  • if i date a man, and i prioritize him over random women i don’t know, i’m not prioritizing men over women, i am prioritizing a loved one over strangers???
  • similarly, if i date a woman, and i prioritize her over random men i don’t know, that’s not a political statement, that’s just…me being a human being and considering the feelings of someone i know and love over someone who has no connection to me?? oh my god
  • also what’s with the equation between prioritization and romantic relationships…the person im dating may or may not be more important to me than my platonic friends but if they are it’ll be because of my specific relationships with those people, not because romantic relationships are by default the most important relationships in any given person’s life
  • also what’s with the assumption that all bis are monogamous. if a bi woman is dating a man and a woman at the same time, what’s her status?? who is she prioritizing?? We Just Don’t Know
  • AND what about people who identify as neither a man nor a woman? what about people who identify as both? where does this leave us?
  • anyway my point is i don’t prioritize women over men OR men over women, i prioritize the people i know and love and my relationships with them over people i don’t know but happen to share a social class with. 
  • which goes back to the politicizing. you can prioritize certain groups in your activism (there’s cases where you shouldn’t, but like, it’s a thing that happens) but someone’s dating life isn’t activism and they’re not obligated to bring their activism into the bedroom. 

I didn’t notice this until now but this gif shows Barney saying his vows and Robin smiling so brightly and laughing at whatever he’s saying. This, is so cute I hate, absolutely hate that they didn’t show their ceremony and them saying their vows but I think part of the vows was what Robin said to him “if I ask you to change too much about yourself you’re not going to be the man I fell in love with.” And, you know the rest of what she said to him during this scene.

I think Barney and Robin not only made each other happy I think their vows would represent their relationship and how much they love each other. Whatever it was they told each other on their wedding day I can guaranty that it was something very sweet, intimate, personal, loving and no doubt funny because they both equally make each other laugh on a daily basis. Not joking, they make each other incredibly happy and I can see them laughing together every single day as a married couple. I CAN never see them miserable being married because they constantly make each other laugh and smile even when they aren’t happy or sad for whatever reason. They, always had fun but they also can make each other laugh even in the more serious times in their relationship. They, love each other so much I can never see them unhappy being together in a loving, respectable, honest, caring, fun and funny marriage.

You guys know how with hugs its honestly just the tiniest movement that makes it something else? Like, every hug is just one small action away from suddenly being very intimate or personal. I’ve had a few where it’s just the way someone relaxs against you and turns their face into your shoulder, something small and suddenly its not just a hug, you know? And equally as simply, it takes less than a fraction of a second to rebuff the movement or accept it, whether by tensing or relaxing too. Even if you just tense in surprise it can end the moment instantly, but i like to think about someone reacting by instinct and suddenly its an embrace, way more intimate than either of them intended it and they’re both wildly unsure what it means now, and the issue is complicated but neither of them know what to say. Because they both just acknowledged that they are okay with it, while also both being surprised and startled by it

i’m having Adrinino feelings, is what im saying

anonymous asked:

Would Jeff be the type of boyfriend to leave hickeys on his gf? Would he do this so everyone knows she is his or...?

I definitely think Jeff is the kind of boyfriend to leave hickies, but he would ask like everytime. I’m not saying guys who don’t do this everytime are bad. He would be the kind of guy, like when they were making out, he’d have his lips on her neck or collar bone, but before doing anything, he’d quietly ask if she was sure it was okay, before, you know, going to town.

He would definitely love marking her, but he wouldn’t be in a “claiming” sort of way, it would just be so he and her would know how close they were, because it was a very personal intimate thing for both of them, that’s why he would never do it in a place where someone could easily see, he would only do it somewhere someone could (neck, collar bones, etc) when he was unbelievably jealous, because in the moment he wouldn’t care about anything, other than making sure everyone knew she was with him. Afterwards, he’d feel bad about it though, before she told him it was okay.

anonymous asked:

J I K O for Taehyung Suga et Jin ?? For the headcanon game ! :^)


J=Jack Off: Once when the two of you were just roommates, Taehyung came home earlier than he said and found you in the shower with the door wide open. He’d never admit this, but he goes back to that memory to his advantage whenever he was sexually frustrated.

I=Intimacy: Taehyung loved to be intimate, but only occasionally. He likes to save the romantic nights for special events and occasions like anniversaries and birthdays.  

K=Kink: Overstimulation and Orgasm Denial.Taehyung loves to have you begging for him, and when he finally complies, he likes to make you cum as many times at he made you wait. 

O=Oral: Taehyung loves giving oral more than he likes receiving it. When he goes down on you, expect constant teasing and praise. When he is on the receiving end, he would like to take control and set the pace. 


J=Jack Off: About a week after the two of you moved in together, Yoongi came home to find you sprawled out on the bed naked. You weren’t doing anything except laying there, but sometimes when Yoongi is alone, he’ll close his eyes and imagine what you could’ve been doing. 

I=Intimacy: Yoongi isn’t a very intimate person in general, so he would only be intimate when you specifically asked for it or if it was a special day; like your wedding night or an anniversary. 

K=Kink: Oral. See below.

O=Oral: Yoongi loves giving and receiving equally. When he goes down on you, he likes to make you cum multiple times without breaks, and when he is receiving he gets really dominant. He’ll hold your hair in a tight grip and force you to take at much of him as you can. There would be lots of dirty talk and praise involved.


J=Jack Off: You guys had jus started dating, so neither you or he were ready to take the next step and have sex, but Jin was frustrated, so whenever he needs to let go of some of the tension, he’ll use memories of a certain dream he had about you not too long ago. 

I=Intimacy: Seokjin lives for intimacy. Even on the days when you two were rougher with each other, he would always find a way to make things intimate. His favourite things to do are intertwining your hands or looking at you straight in the eyes. 

K=Kink: Bondage. it wouldn;t happen too often, but sometimes Jin would love to tie you up and have you begging for him.

O=Oral: Seokjin is more of a fan or receiving than giving. Not that he wouldn’t give, it just isn’t his favourite thing. However, when he does give, he is constant. He doesn’t let up until you’re writhing beneath him. When he is receiving, he likes to sit back and let you take control, unless you tease him too much.  


Originally posted by xstardusts

Cheryl x reader

Request: Could you do Cherylxfemale reader where the reader is super cuddly and it takes Cheryl a bit to get used to it?

Cheryl had never been a very intimate person.

When you two first started dating it was odd to her that you were always touching her in some way.

Whether it was cuddling on her bed, having your arm around her waist in public or just holding her hand, it was all new to her.

It’s not that she didn’t like the affection, it just wasn’t something she was used to.

But as time went on, she grew fond of the closeness that you showed her.

She was the one that now initiated hand holding and she would actually relax into your embrace when you put your arm around her.

She would even pull you into her lap and kiss your cheek no matter who was around.  

The first time it happened it took you by surprise at a crowded party.

“Well this is new,” you laughed into the crook of her neck.

“I guess I just have a soft spot you,” she blushed.

“Cheryl Blossom going soft? Say it ain’t so,” you teased her.

“Hey, I said I have soft spot for you and you only, it doesn’t mean I’m going soft,” she told you confidently.

“Whatever you say,” you smiled resting your hand on her cheek pulling her in for a smug kiss.

people are making up these big, ridiculous theories as to why the homeworld gems don’t dance when they fuse, and pulling up shit like “the budget!” and “the crew is just lazy :/” which may be true in cases like sardonyx’s next few appearances and smokey (but i think smokey’s fusion was also done for the impact anyway so) when the answer is literally as simple as

Fusion Dancing was created by Ruby and Sapphire and is a Very intimate, personal thing that is very much apart of the Crystal Gems.

Because, remember, fusion between two different gems didn’t happen until ruby and sapphire. so fusion was just, usually, between rubies (and now i suppose topazes). it was coded into their make up as gems that This was how to fuse. 

the dancing is wholly unnecessary but it’s what made Sapphire and Ruby happy in the first place, it’s what finally cemented their relationship and brought Garnet to life again, and even in their first fusion as garnet it was graceful with the turn as ruby came up to protect sapphire, pulling her into a spin in the process.

that’s what separates the crystal gems from homeworld. they see fusion Very differently, and i know it’s hard to forget that considering we never get any damn plot episodes anymore but fusion is very much a big part of the plot itself, and a big part of the conflict. it’s important to remember why homeworld gems Don’t dance when they fuse, and it’s more important to remember why the crystal gems DO.

Ah yes, the SARS outbreak of 2002. I remember it well.

Lin-Manuel Miranda’s Final Bows in ‘Hamilton’ on Broadway (NYT):

Lin-Manuel Miranda’s final bows for his farewell performance in “Hamilton” on Saturday night seemed routine, if overly humble for the departure of the show’s star and mastermind. He even shared his bows with the other cast members also exiting the show, including Phillipa Soo and the Tony winner Leslie Odom Jr.

But then the theme song to “The West Wing” kicked in from the orchestra pit.

Mr. Miranda giggled and took a couple of shy bows, only to turn around and be embraced then pushed back to the front of the stage by Christopher Jackson, who plays George Washington, for a proper bow.

Still, the curtain call lasted no more than two and a half minutes, despite fervent applause, which had been consistent throughout the night. The opening number received multiple standing ovations, as did many others. But Mr. Miranda and other performers would pause for only a minute each time before moving the show forward.

Afterward, in the pouring rain, hundreds and hundreds of fans filled West 46th Street, waiting for Mr. Miranda to emerge from the stage door at the Richard Rodgers Theater.

Instead, Mr. Miranda appeared, “Evita”-like, on a balcony atop the theater’s marquee. Holding an umbrella and waving to fans, he paced from one side of the marquee to the other, occasionally stopping to hold his left hand over his heart to show gratitude.

Then he was gone.

“It’s over, folks,” a police officer yelled as he tried to keep the crowd out of the street. “There’s no more.”

anonymous asked:

Could you do the Imperials saying "I love you" for the first time, please? (It would made my day ^_^ ) Also: love your page and headcanons <3


tarkin: You enter his quarters one night to find that the furniture has been pushed against the wall and a stereo sits on a table, playing exquisite classical music. Tarkin doesn’t say anything, simply smiling as he takes your hands, slowly leading you into the open space. The two of you waltz elegantly around his modest quarters, not saying anything until you finally ask what the occasion is. “Why, nothing at all, my dear. Except, perhaps…” He dips you, looking into your eyes with adoration. “That I have fallen in love with you. I thought you’d like to know.” Cheeky bastard.

krennic: The two of you are lying in bed, refusing to get out of bed for the morning. It’s such a warm bed, why should you ever leave? You roll over to face Krennic, sighing as you try to drift back into sleep. You feel fingers trace your cheekbones, hear him whisper, “This is perfect.” Suddenly, he wraps his arms around you. “You are perfect. And I love you.” You jolt awake, only to find that he has fallen back asleep. Oh hell no, he does not get to do that. Krennic is going to get a bucket of water dumped on him for sure.

hux: It’s been a rough day, and you nearly lost your life on a mission. Hux is furious with you, demanding a reason for your recklessness. You yell back at him, arguing that the mission was a success regardless of the risk—why is he so angry at you? Before you can continue, he shouts, “Because I love you, damn it!”. Hux takes a few seconds to register what he just said, eyes watering when the realization hits him. “If it came between orders and your life, I….” He doesn’t need to say any more.

phasma: She spends over a month planning it: first this will happen, and then that, and when the sun hits the window just right…. Phasma has it all worked out, but we all know it won’t happen that way. During one of your makeout sessions, she moans, “Stars, I love you…..” not realizing it slipped out until ten seconds later. She jumps up, screaming about how everything is ruined (punctuating her sentences with plenty of f-bombs) until she sees the bewildered look on your face. Oh, screw it. Phasma kneels down and kisses you, letting her body language do all the talking.

yularen: It happens when the two of you are sitting outside, looking at the stars and talking about this and that. You are just enjoying each other’s company, hands locked together while your free hands point out distant planets. During a pause in the conversation, Yularen turns to you with a solemn look on his face. “I’ve lived a long life…seen many parts of the galaxy, hundreds of worlds. And yet, no matter where I go… my favorite place will always be where you are.” He holds your hand, looking at you with his beautiful blue eyes. “I love you, my dear. I want you to know that in case….we never see these stars again.”

thrawn: You walk in on him in one of his “intellectual pondering” sessions when he turns to look at you, glowing eyes staring straight into yours. After an awkward silence of just staring at you, he blurts out, “I love you.” All you can do is gape at him in shock while Thrawn continues to speak. “I don’t understand. Why is such a simple phrase so important in this part of the galaxy?” You manage to stutter an explanation, to which Thrawn shakes his head. “No, that is absurd. Anyone can say those words. Come here.” He holds your hands and spouts a long string of Cheunh words. You have no idea what Thrawn is saying, but the expression on his face tells you it’s something very intimate and personal. So much better than “I love you”.

kallus: The two of you are in a fighting simulation, having the time of your lives. You decide to show off a bit, pulling off a slick move to finish off the final opponent. Kallus runs up to you, smiling in awe. Did that seriously just happen? You grin back, shrugging nonchalantly. He shakes his head, muttering, “It’s things like this that make me love you, you know?” Your jaw drops to the floor, and Kallus looks at you with a confused expression on his face. “What’s with that look? What did I—oh kriff.” Damn it, that was the lamest way to confess. He runs his hands through his hair, cursing silently to himself. After a moment, he sheepishly turns to you. “Well, it’s…it’s true.”

eli: He hasn’t planned anything at all, never really thought about formally confessing. Eli is clueless as to how to even say it. Maybe he doesn’t need to say it—it’s not like there’s any doubt of his feelings for you. No, that’s total krayt spit. He has to do something. One day you open the door to find Eli sitting nervously with a guitar. Kriff, he hasn’t played in a long time. He’s totally off key, but you love his singing nonetheless. It’s some Wild Space folk song, complete with the strong accent that Eli tries so desperately to hide (he doesn’t care around you). He ends his song with those three words, looking at you expectantly. You throw his guitar to the side (“Hey, that was my grandfather’s!—”) and fall into his arms.

anonymous asked:

i have a personal headcanon that zoras dont know what kissing is but their equivalent is to press the front of their teeth against their partner and breath in their scent (i also headcanon that the have scent glands on the roof of their mouths and their sence of smell is super strong)


OOOOOOH I LIKE THIS IDEA A LOT!!!! All poor Link can smell is just a fishy scent, but Sidon….Sidon can pick up every single nuance in Link’s body. All his hormones, if he’s too hot or cold, the last thing he ate. I imagine it’s very intimate and personal! So it could very well be the equivalent of their kissus ;D

anonymous asked:

Hi I liked what you said about the cover “ship argument” and agree it should have been just Sarah or the Scoobies, so sad tony wasn’t there too, but i’m wondering your opinion on how Spuffy fans treat Sarah on twitter, she’s spoken about it before and mentioned it during the reunion. I know it’s not everyone but it seems when she posts anything either with David or pro Bangel a lot of them attack her and can be quite vile and disgusting towards her. She stays respectful but they go in everytime.

Thanks for understanding, and before I answer your question I’ll try to make myself clear again because I feel some people have misunderstood the point I was trying to make.

I wasn’t making a “ship argument”. My saying I didn’t dig the Bangel cover wasn’t a jab at that ship. I definitely acknowledge it was a relevant pairing in the show. I wasn’t implying Spuffy should’ve been on the cover instead. 100% NO. I think to have a ship on the cover was basically missing the point (and a waste of an opportunity) of the show. Buffy was the title character. She made the show. She was the show. She alone will stand. The ships - either one of them - were merely an ingredient of the million things that made the show great. This wasn’t Dawson’s Creek or 90210 or any other teen drama. This was about one girl fighting the forces of darkness, who on occasion happened to indulge in smoochies with a couple of vampires. I wish that girl had stood alone on the cover, that’s all.

Okay, point made. Now to your question.

I think that’s bullshit. I think that’s the worst and darkest side of fandom, one that I don’t want to be part of or condone in any way. I feel ashamed of those people, and I hate that they give a bad name to shippers. I hate that because of them I have to take the blame and be pointed out as part of the “Internet loudmouths and ass-kissers of unpopular, ignored comics“ just because I happen to ship the same ship some moronic internet trolls do.  I think anyone who dares insult or threaten an actor for being outspoken about their shipping preferences is an ill-intentioned douchebag at best, and a worthless piece of human garbage at worst. 

Shipping is personal, by definition. That’s true for us as fans as it is true for the actors as people who have every right to have personal preferences. 

There’s this irrational idea that if an actor supports your ship, they are somehow validating it or making it more canon or more important than the rest. That’s idiotic. Like, I kind of get that people want others to like the same things they do, especially if that person is someone you admire. But shipping should be about how the relationship between two characters makes you feel on a very personal, intimate level. That’s why we ship. We ship because we find something in those two people that makes us feel something very personal, whatever that maybe. We don’t choose ships based on how actors or other people perceived them. So why should be angry about how others feel or not feel about our ships? It’s stupid and senseless and anyone who attacks someone else because of shipping preferences, whether they are an actor or a fellow fan, is a fucking jerk. 

Ship and let ship.