Who created this myth that men don’t gossip, cause…have y’all ever been to a barbershop? lol. Rhetorical ques, we know who and the source. Gossiping is viewed as an effeminate quality associated with women and queer men. And we live in a society where negative traits are often associated with femininity. But gossiping, which is negative, is a basic human trait. All genders backbite. Just because us men have interludes or intermissions of discussing sports, video games and “manly things” don’t make that shit any different, essentially we all “spill tea”.
All men do on the brothers side of the mosque and barbershops is gossip, lol miss me with that shit. When u slut shaming that girl, its gossip. When you talking about another niggas rep compared to yours, its gossip. And the amount of het men that pass shit that’s unconfirmed and not true about other men is mad pervasive.