interesting different opinion

Frankly, the best part of our truscum discord is that we’re not ~trans~ people only talking about our ~transness~.

We’re people who talk about the difficulties we are or have experienced, we help each other out, and we have fun shitposting and joking around. We’re not trans first, and people second; we’re people who happen to have a condition, and who have all sorts of different opinions, interests, and views beyond it.

I never wanted to get into a trans group in real life because I always felt like it was just going to be all about calling attention to my condition. But this group is just a bunch of friends trying to live normal lives, and occasionally asking how to get out of a binder.

things i have observed about different fandoms

Harry Potter

  • your hogwarts house is more important than your name
  • so vast?? so old??? scary, kind of.
  • really old classic fics
  • used to have ship wars like all hell, and kind of still does??? but not really??? it’s better now
  • every other fandom has a harry potter au.
  • split into different sects that are practically whole different fandoms. there’s the marauders fandom, the golden trio/canon era fandom, the fantastic beasts fandom, the next gen fandom – they’re all like little umbrella fandoms under one great big potter net.
  • no one’s favorite character is harry potter.
  • they don’t talk about the cursed child.
  • will never die.


  • holy shIT this fandom is a minefield
  • a lot of teenagers??? like??? a lot???
  • an alarming amount of smut fic
  • i dont know a lot of this fandom is really immature and there are so many ship wars?? like??? 
  • ignoring actual historical material in favor of coddling your favorite character
  • the dub is one of the most quotable things i’ve ever seen
  • hetalia is very much a starter anime. a lot of people get into this anime as like a gateway drug and grow out of the fandom later on.
  • lots of bad fic, with rare absolute GEMS thrown in.
  • some fics are beautifully researched, intricate, historically accurate, and amazing. so much potential for fic in this fandom.
  • george devalier.

Les Miserables

  • frENCH
  • the main character is jean valjean
  • much of the fandom does not realize this.
  • les amis are love, les amis are life. jean valjean?? who??? javert??? who’s that?? fantine????? WHO THE FC U K
  • emerges from the deep once every few years when a movie or something else comes out.
  • The Movie Musical shot the fandom to new heights and launched a new era, but now has mostly calmed down???
  • also will never die. been around since 1862 and still going strong.
  • used to be eponine stans (eppyboppers) who hated cosette??? and usually shipped eponine with marius or enjolras. thank god that’s over.
  • literally everyone ships E/R.
  • even the actors ship E/R.


  • no
  • nOOOO
  • dying??? (hopefully)


  • oikawa tooru is universally adored
  • pretty much everyone ships the same things?? like obviously not, and there are so many great character dynamics and rarepairs, but ships like bokuaka, iwaoi, kagehina, etc. are so ingrained in the actual canon that everyone ships them a LITTLE bit, even if you ship the character different ways too.
  • you can ship anyone with anyone. literally. go fuckin wild.
  • everyone has normal hair except for the one owl guy.
  • incredible aus.

Yuri!! on Ice

  • at this point 90% of the fandom is just screaming over any new content they get b/c it’s all so great.
  • everyone under 20 gets shipped with yurio, and every one of these ships is somehow controversial.
  • fandom swings back and forth between wanting JJ to die in a fire or being ready to protect him to the ends of the earth.
  • sala or sara??? nobody can decide??? (spoiler alert: it’s sara, that’s a real italian name, sala is the word for living room.)
  • even the people who despise the dub can’t hate it THAT much
  • at one point the fandom hated chris, but now he’s just kind of the weird overly sexual uncle at the family barbecue
  • giaCOMEtti
  • kubo-sensei is a goddess

anonymous asked:

I'm not the same anon but I agree with the other anon!! I just think a lot of the lyrics on his past albums have been more ~meaningful~. Also I love his slower songs, which the other two albums seemed to have more of... but don't get me wrong!! I like divide too (it's a good get-up-and-dance album)! Just not as much as his last albums, I don't think...

Hi! It’s funny, because personally I feel the opposite! It seems to me like this album is more variegated and the lyrics are more personal and deep. Not that + or x didn’t have very serious lyrics or didn’t paint heartfelt sketches of everyday life, but Divide just comes off as …more to me? I’m thinking about Eraser, Perfect, Supermarket Flowers, Nancy Mulligan, Save Myself, Castle on the hill. And even the tracks that don’t come straight from his personal experience, or at least not his current situation, sound so very incisive to me. Of course it’s absolutely ok not to like this album as much as the other two (I mean, they were amazing albums, let’s be honest, both of them, they have songs I still listen to years later), I just didn’t think it could be because of the meaningful lyrics or variety of the tunes? But music is like literature, it does speak to us all differently, doesn’t it? :)

I know there is a lot of discourse in the Phandom over whether or not Dan and Phil are together romantically. As a person who has been a casual viewer of Dan and Phil for years now, I understand the urge to apply romantic infatuation to them. They’re two people who are obviously very close, and their story is a beautiful, comforting one that has brought happiness and admiration to the hearts of many, many people. And I think that’s what we should focus on here, not ‘Phan’ as a romantic concept, but rather the steady and loving relationship of Dan and Phil that is consistently displayed and has been for quite a long time. Whether or not they’re together romantically, I think there’s beauty there. I think there’s comfort in realizing that they’ve found a connection. Dan and Phil are a reminder that you have a person, whether that be a romantic or platonic one. Seeing them together all of these years has reminded me that that kind of connection is possible and that loneliness is not inevitable. They’re best friends, lovers, soulmates - whatever you’d like to call them - and they’ve built up a community of passionate, hilarious people who are endlessly creative, sometimes in strange ways, but otherwise beautifully. Please remember that platonic love is just as prominent and overwhelmingly fantastic as romantic love. Remember to be kind to the other people in your fandom, even if they differ from you. And most importantly, remember that Dan and Phil are people who love each other, in whatever way they want to or need to. It’s a personal decision. A precise, emotional feeling that belongs to them and them only. Please, acknowledge the love between them, perceive it how you want to, but remember it’s not yours to manipulate. And either way, I believe you should be happy because there are two people out there who sit on a couch together, surrounded by nerdy items in complete comfort because they’re together. That’s all that matters in the long run, I think. Appreciate them. Respect them. Do the same to each other. Have a nice day!! 

I can talk to a lot of people about superficial things, but you’re the person I think of when I want to talk about something interesting or important to me.

And I think that says a lot about us.
And about how much I want you to be in my life.


—  Love advices and schtuff #6 // lily rose.
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2) Narumayo : 30689
3) Mitsumei : 18936
4) Narumitsu : 17896  + Mitsunaru : 18172 (I suppose with Edgeworth as the dominant since his name “Mitsurugi” came first)
5) Klapollo : 13683
6) Blackbright : 11036
7) Kayworth : 10097
8) Hobopollo : 9839
9) Miego :  9447
10) Klema : 8757
11) Junipollo : 7813
12) Feenris : 6734
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14) Simollo : 5571
15) Justicykes : 4375
16) Trupollo : 3943

josabethincorporation  asked:

Sirius and Remus in HP? (don't throw my ship awaaaay)

Ngl, I actually really like the idea of them together. A lot. But for whatever reason, despite reading the books, I actually didn’t start to “ship” them until I watched the movies!

I think, like I already mentioned, the idea of them being together is so interesting. It would’ve been a great twist for both of their characters and it would’ve developed their relationship a lot more. Of course, I still think Remus and Tonks are pretty cute too, but my Wolfstar heart still aches for them. I’ve never felt super intense about them, but all I can really say is that I truly wish that they had ended up together!!!


that’s right, ships are happening! so let’s lay down some rules/guidelines before we set sail to this ship (see what I did there 😏). 

you don’t have to be following me, but it would be cool if you did. I understand that interests/opinions do differ so I won’t be offended if you don’t follow. 

reblog this post. (liking this post is okay too, reblogs will have a higher priority). 

send in a description of yourself, your personality, your hobbies, likes/dislikes, etc. and if you would like a male or female ship. if you have a face page or an about me page, feel free to include that too! if you need to send in multiple asks when sending in your ship request, no big deal! I talk a lot so I understand. side note: you can always send in your request on anonymous if you are more comfortable with that 

ships will be for X-Men, Star Wars, Riverdale and Avengers. no more than two please!

I’ll be tagging all of the ships as #sierra ships because I can’t think of a witty pun at the moment. 

if you want to see my previous ships, feel free to go here (the tag is #pocketfullofships if you’re on mobile)

format for ships is under the cut 

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  • fanfic writer: *writing* Oh wow, they are going to love this. This is by far my best work!
  • fic: *witty lines* *perfect love making* *fluffy enough to kill us all* *a dash of angst, a smidgen of hurt/comfort*
  • fanfic writer: Oh man. This is it. This will be my legacy! *sweats into fic* *bleeds into fic* *cries into fic* *spends days perfecting the grammar and verbage and sex scenes* *has 15 betas look over it*
  • fanfic writer: Okay. It is finally time to release my baby on the world. Here you go fandom. You're welcome.
  • fandom: Ha, cute. *like* *kudos*
  • fanfic writer: :/
  • * * *
  • same fanfic writer: *writing* Whatever. This is shit, I don't even care right now. A singing squirrel? Sure, let's do it. Haha, cheesy lines that make no sense, sure. Grammatical errors out the wazoo? Why not. No one's going to read this piece of crap anyway, I literally wrote it on a scrap of 1 ply toilet paper with a broken yellow crayon.
  • fanfic writer: LOL *post*
  • fanfic writer: *sigh*

So, I’m kicking off Reborn Day with a little fandom meme! The meme used is here and I hope you enjoy the little thoughts - I’d love to hear anyone’s opinions on who’d they have chosen for these questions as well! It’s so interesting to hear the differing opinions on characters in the fandom, especially since the fandom in large has gotten really good about accepting different views of the characters!

  • which character is the most punctual

Lal Mirch is always early and always by at least ten minutes. Not only was it something she learned was desirable from an early age but her military training definitely drilled the need for punctuality into her. She refuses to not only be late but demands to be a bit early, just in case. Being late is almost a fear to her, honestly, because she’s learned and seen, through her time with the military, the repercussions and harm being late or not meeting a scheduled deadline can bring about.

  • which character is the most political

Oregano surprisingly is very political. She has strong political opinions and beliefs, leaning a bit to the left. Tsuyoshi, as well, is rather political, though mostly on issues he really cares about. However, neither one of them are the type to be loudly political or to really discuss politics in polite company. They have to really feel strongly about an issue or a politician to discuss them in public with someone they’re not close to.

  • which character is the most likely to want children

Haru, unsurprisingly, wants a big family someday. She loves children and would like several of her own. Even if she ends up with a large family though, she’ll be that parent who always invites other people’s kids over as well and always spoils every child on the block and treats them all like her own. Adelheid, as well, would really like children someday, though she’d prefer a smaller family, only one or two children. As far as males go, Ryohei would also really want kids. He does love children, which is definitely a factor in his decision, but he also feels like it’s expected and something he should be striving to attain as an adult - get married, get a great job, have children, live happily. He feels that’s the game plan he should be trying to achieve ideally.

  • which character likes pineapple on their pizza

M.M. Ken will eat her pizza (he’ll really eat anything), though no one else in the Kokuyo Gang will. They all firmly believe that pineapple doesn’t belong on pizza or just dislike pineapple. It’s actually one of the main reasons she grew so fond of Hawaiian pizza - most people don’t like it and won’t eat it on her.

  • which character drives too fast

This is a difficult question as it’s not only a matter of who drives the fastest - quite a few of the characters do. Dino and Skull both drive fast, always at least twenty miles above the posted speed limit, but both of them are also extremely good and safe drivers. Lussuria and Zakuro both also drive really fast - however, those two are rather poor drivers, either not paying enough attention to the road (Lussuria) and talking on their phones or putting on makeup while driving or falling prey to road rage (Zakuro). They’re definitely hazardous to not only their health but others health while on the road.

  • which character is the most likely to be a smoker

Aside from the obvious - Gokudera and G., who both have been shown smoking - I feel like Shamal smokes when he drinks too much. Gamma and Lancia both have the occasional smoke, though neither are heavy smokers - it’s more a casual thing, when they drink or when they get really stressed or need to unwind and think.

  • which character would go vegan

Shitt P. would have no issues with going vegan. The only reason she doesn’t is because Adelheid objects so strongly, refusing to believe Shitt P. can have a healthy, balanced diet while being a vegan. Aria also went through a vegan phase and Lambo could easily be convinced into becoming a temporary vegan, if the person talking about it seemed convincing enough. He’d be quick to abandon veganism though since it’s rather difficult to follow.

  • which character is a pop music fan

Kyoko and Haru definitely love pop music and have definitely made fans out of I-Pin and Chrome. Tsunayoshi, Yamamoto, Reborn, Skull, and Dino are also secret fans of pop music and most of the characters are likely to sing along with something really catchy, with very few exceptions.

  • which character is a showoff

Lambo and Skull tie for the spot of biggest show-off. They need to be the center of attention, they need to have everyone paying attention to them and seeing their accomplishments. That’s how they seek validation, often without realizing that that’s what they’re doing. Lussuria often is accused of being a show-off, though he’s actually not. People just often mistake his flashy personality for being a show-off, when he actually doesn’t care about whether people acknowledge his strength and talents or not. Levi A. Than, on the other hand, does have a tendency to show off and does it for the attention. He needs recognition, craves it like a drug. Bluebell and Nosaru both tend to be show-offs when they’re children, though Nosaru grows out of it as he ages and Bluebell mostly grows out of it as well, only acting like a show-off around Byakuran, because of a bit of a crush she has on him.

  • which character is the most religious/spiritual

Giotto was very religious, as was Knuckle, quite obviously. Kikyo is very spiritual, though he doesn’t make a big deal about it and Gamma’s a very lax though practicing Catholic. Timoteo really enjoys the idea of god and religion but at the same time, often finds himself doubting, so he tries to avoid church and religious pondries.

  • which character skips/skipped classes often

If we’re going with a character currently in school, it’s a tie between Julie and Gokudera. Julie simply has no interest in school and often only goes because Adelheid makes him. Gokudera usually does his best to attend, if only because it means he can spend more time with Tsuna and his other family members but honestly, he’d rather be anywhere other than class and sees no issue with leaving school early or showing up late. It’s actually pretty funny because Gokudera’s mentor, Shamal, skipped a lot of classes back when he was in school too because he simply found school too boring and not enough fun to really be troubled about attending.

  • which character is the meanest

Fran is definitely the meanest character. He’s deliberately mean sometimes but the scariest and meanest thing about him is that he’s just so casually, carelessly cruel almost all the time. He’s mean without ever meaning to be. He just has not only no filter but Fran simply doesn’t give a fuck about getting a filter. He says whatever he thinks or wants to say and he really doesn’t care if it hurts the other person or not. He actually enjoys riling people up a lot of the time.

  • which character can’t swallow pills

Bianchi and Gokudera both have this issue, one of the few things they do share in common. Bianchi refuses to just take anything, believing that sickness can just be overcome through solid willpower and healthy habits, while Gokudera either drinks his medication in a liquid form or chews up the pills, with something close at hand to immediately wash away the bitter taste.

  • which character takes the scenic route more often than the most direct route

Iemitsu is almost always guilty of this. He has no concept of time, not unless someone is right over his shoulder constantly reminding him. And even if he does remember the time, he really doesn’t worry too much about it. Life’s too short to hurry through it. He’ll only really take the direct route if the matter is of the utmost importance. 

  • which character has the most irrational fears

I-Pin has the strangest, oddest fears. Broccoli monsters, odd supernatural creatures, heights, public speaking, falling off a cliff, being eaten by a giant turtle, public embarrassment, stepping on a crack and accidentally hurting her ‘mother’, getting lost at night. Honestly, she’s got so many fears it’s hard for most of them not to be irrational. She tends to become less afraid of things as she grows older or, at least, she learns to laugh off her fears as irrational and deal with them better than she did as a child.

  • which character has the most sexual experience

Surprising no one, Shamal definitely has the most sexual experience. It’s not surprising since he hits on so many people that he’ll have to succeed more than he fails. I feel like G. had quite a bit of sexual experience and that, as they grow older and throughout their lives, Verde and Mukuro would both rack up quite a bit in terms of sexual experience since they’re both very open-minded and sexually adventurous, with little to no shame about seeking new sexual partners or experiences. 

  • which character is the most fearful of commitment

Oh boy! It feels like it would almost be easier to list off the characters who would have no issues with commitment. There’s so many of them that fear commitment to some degree - most of them will, actually, considering their lifestyle and directions in life. To point out the obvious though, all the Cloud characters have solid issues with commitment. Hibari has an aversion to commitment period. He doesn’t want to be weighed down to one person or place, doesn’t want to be chained down. He wants to make sure that he can leave or stay as he sees fit and doesn’t have to make life decisions with anyone but himself in mind. Skull also has commitment issues. He’s flightly and restless and always worries about whether something better is going to come along, both romantically and with life in general. He doesn’t want to be involved deeply in something with no way out only to have something better, more fulfilling, more exciting, come his way and for him to miss out on it. Kikyo is another one who has the ‘always something better’ syndrome, though his commitment issues are almost always romantic.

Some Oiyama headcanons because why not:

  • When they first started dating - the whole Seijoh knew about Oikawa’s “cute freckled boyfriend from Karasuno” for the very next day because Oikawa won’t stop bragging about him and kept mentioning him whenever he had a chance. On the other hand Yamaguchi taken the fact that he is in a relationship now more personal and the only person who he told about it is Tsukishima (but eventually Hinata found out anyway and the whole Karasuno knew about it like instantly)
  • Oikawa likes to give Yamaguchi nicknames/pet names and the more embarrassing they are to call him in public the better
  • They are always up to get to know each other’s interests and opinion on different subjects and they both do everything they possibly can to learn all the things there is about to know. The feeling is completely mutual and the more they learn about one another, the more they curious about
  • Oikawa absolutely loves to snapchat and sends all kinds of things to Yamaguchi. And he is doing so all the time he got his phone in his hands and ends up sending Yamaguchi the silliest and completely unimportant/uninteresting stuff, like the way how neatly and adorable he tied his shoelaces in the morning
  • Oikawa has a quite big space obsession and even though Yamaguchi doesn’t find the subject all that interesting he doesn’t have a heart to not support and not to listen to whatever Oikawa finds exciting on the subject of the matter. Of course Tooru knows about it and he fully uses it at his own advantage and bullies Yamaguchi into three hours long space documentaries and all nighters near the telescope in waiting for some comet to appear for a split second and then disappear for another ten thousand years, so they just absolutely have to see it
  • Yamaguchi is shy to voice his opinion on his own and often just keeps it for himself, so Oikawa always asks Tadashi’s opinion on whatever decision he needs to make- important or not- just to show him that his point of view is valuable and counts
  • Once Oikawa asked Yamaguchi to trace constellations out of freckles on the latter face but ended up drawing a dick on his cheek with a permanent marker instead. They haven’t talked for a week after that
  • Tooru absolutely loves it when Yamaguchi wears his clothes. They are not really oversized but he still thinks Tadashi looks absolutely adorable wearing them
  • Yamaguchi is really good at baking and his favorite things to bake are cakes and animal shaped cookies. Despite not having a sweet tooth, Oikawa genuinely enjoys everything Tadashi does and always makes sure he knows about it. However it doesn’t stop Oikawa from taking some of the best things Yamaguchi made to his own teammates and telling them he baked it all by himself. Nobody believes him though. Except for Kindaichi
  • Oikawa is that one person who texts Yamaguchi all night long if he can’t fall asleep and Yamaguchi always tries to answer every text even if it means being really tired for the next day. Also even in the dark of the night Oikawa still snapchat things
  • Oikawa likes to “borrow” Yamaguchi’s phone and send all kinds of idiotic messages to everybody he may or may not know. His favorite victim is Kageyama who genuinely doesn’t understand why sometimes he receives embarrassing messages from Yamaguchi’s number and why he calls him “Tobio-chan”. When Yamaguchi get to know about everything he had set some heavy passwords on his phone but Oikawa keeps hacking them somehow
  • Even though Oikawa established that he is in a relationship with Yamaguchi, he still gets a lot of attention from his fangirls and just from random people who found him attractive (and there are a lot of those), but it doesn’t really make Yamaguchi jealous because he trusts Oikawa completely and wholeheartedly believes that jealousy is a bad thing for a healthy and perfectly working relationship. Oikawa is a little bit more prone to jealousy, even though he is very subtle about it and just leaves little hints that Yamaguchi is taken (like leaves hickeys on places Yamaguchi has hard times to cover or making him wear matching necklaces/bracelets)
  • Yamaguchi loves to surprise Oikawa with little gifts on random occasions. Nothing really serious or expensive - just some little charms or silly toys. Oikawa, however, is really sentimental about those little gifts – he remember every single thing Yamaguchi ever gave to him and freaks out if he thinks that he had lost something
  • Oikawa messages Yamaguchi so often during the day that if the latter doesn’t receive a single message for longer than 10 hours he seriously starts to be worried and call Oikawa’s number to ask if he is feeling well. In case Oikawa doesn’t pick his phone he starts to panic and calls Iwaizumi to ask if Oikawa is dead
  • They both are really supportive and are good at comforting if the other has some sort of problem or just feeling anxious. Yamaguchi knows when it’s best to talk and when is to stay silent and even if he can’t give a proper advice he always makes Oikawa know that he will be there for him no matter what. And Oikawa is very good at giving motivational speeches, giving good advices or simply giving a shoulder to cry on
  • Yamaguchi loves to cuddle. And the fact that Oikawa’s hair and skin are really soft and he smells good makes Yamaguchi extra cuddly and clingy
  • Oikawa is very tidy and always makes sure his belongings lays on the place where they supposed to be. He is not a complete clean freak but he likes when everything is in order and on its own place and actually can get angry if Yamaguchi takes something and never returns it on place
  • Both Oikawa and Yamaguchi are really cold sensitive and they spent most of their free time in winter (or any cold day of the year at that matter) in each-other houses, wrapped in a blankets with a cup of tea/hot chocolate and watching space movies (gdi oikawa) or playing video games. Effortless attempts of Iwaizumi and/or Tsukishima to drag them out in the cold ensures
  • Oikawa loves to get Yamaguchi embarrassed out in the public (especially around his friends) so he often leans close to his ear and whispers dirty things to him, which results in Yamaguchi being a blushing stuttering mess
  • Yamaguchi likes memes and puns and he absolutely loves to terrorize Oikawa with them, because he gets only like half of the whole stuff Yamaguchi is saying and barely can come up with some smart or funny response and not make a complete fool out of himself
  • Oikawa is a big spender and loves to buy new things all of the time not only for himself but for Yamaguchi too. If they are in the store and Tadashi says that he likes something - Oikawa will buy it to him no matter what (even if he doesn’t get enough money at the moment, he will make sure to come back when he’ll get some). However Yamaguchi doesn’t like to take advantage of this and feels bad about Oikawa wasting his money on something Yamaguchi may or may not even need

Honestly I’m so sick of ship wars. Why can’t everyone just keep to themselves and respect one another? There is no need for all this hate. If we want to be a mature and well functioning society we all have to learn to get past our differences and accept one another for their different interests and opinions. How about we all keep it nice and happy for once?

Here’s a crazy fact: just because someone’s a girl doesn’t mean they automatically know what other girls like/dislike. Girls have different interests and opinions because they are all unique. How shocking!