You have to be willing to work. I mean, really work your ass off, not work like you do in the job you hate and not work where you think you’ll get away with slacking off. It is called the grind for a reason, machines don’t stop until the outcome is reached. Goals are not easy to accomplish, they are going to take it out of you, but when you reach them, there is one hell of a view.
There is no such thing as an ‘easy life.’ Everyone experiences different struggles; whether it’s emotional or physical, personal or social, controllable or uncontrollable. We all go through rough patches, battles, and moments when darkness seems to be the only way. However, we each have each other. We have constant support. These are the times when we must come together and help fight through the darkness that may be present. So look to your neighbours when needed, and reciprocate unconditional love. You are never alone, and will forever be protected by those around you.
The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward.