laceypantsu-deactivated20140104 asked:

How do you feel about the stereotype that nice guys finish last?

not always true. it is just something that some guys say to make up for their unluckiness. Actually those are the nice guys who go after the “hot douche girls.” If you stick with the nerdy type and let me tell you the nerdy ladies of tumblr are amazing and attractive, then i think that you can actually find a good girl and have them be amazing. Douches take in a lot of ladies but they do not last long before they realize he is a douche because women are damn smart. Everyone can finish fine.

People had already started to dig in. Half of the people were too scared to try it and the other half loved it. I made a sign so I didn’t have to spend the whole night explaining what it was, but I ended up doing just that anyways XD Had a great time and raised a bunch of money for PFLAG. I really hope my church reconciles. Everyone is pretty welcoming and the LGBT group has never had a problem with the congregation, but it would be awesome if the church made it official and became a Reconciling Ministry. All means ALL, Methodists! 

dailymika replied to your postSo today my Aunt came in from Queensland, and…

guuurl, you’re right, if the little shit won’t be educated by his parents then you have the right to yell at him…

Thanks. I held my temper the first time he did it, but this was the second time and there was no way in hell I was gonna let there be a third. My Aunt claims she would have disciplined him herself but she wasn’t fucking there to do it, was she? Because she never watches her fucking kids. She gets me to do it or my Mum to do it and just lets them run around completely destroying other peoples property, then never hosts a family event herself because she ‘doesn’t want people messing up her house’. Ugh. Sorry. Anyway, again, thank you. <3 I think I did the right thing. 

inkaoopa replied to your postSo today my Aunt came in from Queensland, and…

I would yell at his parents about how to better discipline their children.

I was very tempted to yell at my Aunt, but she’s incredibly stubborn and I already knew it would have been a lost cause. She never accepts criticism of any kind. Ever. My Uncle would have listened but I didn’t want to yell at him..