My opinion on second chances…
I firmly believe in second chances. The caveat being there are of course exceptions (child rapist? You used up all your chances), and in the more personal sense, it depends on how well you know someone. If you have a first date and the guy/woman is a total shit, is it even worth investing a second chance? I’m always willing to assume someone just had a bad time or blew it, or was just a fuckup, but it isn’t always worth finding out. If I care about you, though, yeah. Second chances are a given and a guarantee.