Okay like. In canon, it is repeatedly stressed that Holmes does not have romantic feelings for women and is incapable of it. It’s an essential part of his character template. He doesn’t feel that way about women. Saying, Oh wait but he could be bi or pan or something! might sound open-minded and flexible, but you’re just insisting that a man who repeatedly said he is not attracted to women MUST be attracted to women. That’s homophobic. Got it? Some men are not attracted to women. It’s just that simple.
Why do you think so many Kylo haters love Anakin? I mean the guy literally choked his wife. Padme and Anakin's relationship is canonically abusive. It seems so hypocritical. Shouldn't Anakin be incapable of being redeemed?