in which i will probably get a lot of hate

THEY ARE TELLING A DIFFERENT STORY WITH MALEC. HOLY SHIT. YES, WE GOT JACE BEING VERY HETEROSEXUAL AND WITH LOTS OF GIRLS THIS EPISODE, BUT UM, WAS THERE EMOTION? NO?? LIKE WHY IS EVERYONE LOSING THEIR SHIT OVER JACE SLEEPING WITH AND HANGING OUT AT A BAR WITH RANDOM WOMEN? I GENUINELY DON’T GET IT. WTF DOES JACE HAVE TO DO WITH MALEC? WE HAD THREE MALEC KISSES AND AN ALMOST KISS, WHICH FOLLOWED A REALLY BEAUTIFUL MOMENT BETWEEN THE TWO. WE HAD BOTH MAGNUS AND ALEC TALKING ABOUT THE OTHER TO SOMEONE THEY TRUST. WE HAD MAGNUS ADMITTING THAT HE IS VULNERABLE AND AFRAID OF LOSING ALEC. THE ONE THING WE DIDN’T GET WAS AN EXPLICIT SEX SCENE. SO YOU GUYS ARE COMPARING THAT TO JACE??? I AM LITERALLY IN AWE RIGHT NOW, BECAUSE I SEE ZERO CONNECTION BETWEEN THE TWO. JACE WAS AN EMOTIONLESS SHELL THIS ENTIRE EPISODE, AND SOMEHOW YOU’RE ANGRY THAT MALEC DIDN’T GET ENOUGH COMPARED TO HIM? “MALEC-MANIA” DOESN’T JUST MEAN THEM IN BED TOGETHER. WE DON’T EVEN KNOW IF THEY HAD SEX OR NOT. I CAN’T HONESTLY BELIEVE PEOPLE ARE COMPLAINING AND COMPARING THESE TWO VERY UNRELATED ASPECTS OF THE EPISODE. WTF. I’M ALREADY SO TIRED OF SEEING THIS BS ON MY DASH. I’VE TRIED TO BE CALM AND HAPPY AND NICE AND POSITIVE. BUT SERIOUSLY, CAN WE STOP ALREADY?

Remember when the Shadowhunters fandom was positive and happy and filled with love? Yeah, I miss that fandom.

(I’m not saying people can’t be upset that they were tricked into thinking there’d be a sex scene, but I don’t understand how people can relate this to Jace as if Jace wasn’t a mess this entire episode.)

Why furries should be added to lgbt!

1. We are totally oppressed. We are hated by a so many and being added to this could really help out our community.
2. Furry is a gender. Many people think we are a fandom but I personally identify as a fire duck.
3. So little people are uncultured about furries. We often get asked “what are furries” which shows that not many people are aware of what they are. Being added to lgbt would be good to help understand what we are.
4. Lgbt is for all genders and sexualities yet us furries are not in there.
5. People hate us furries but are super supportive of lgbt+ and other genders. Adding us too lgbt could bring a lot of support and would probably help us furries feel more secure about coming out.

hey, i hate to do this again but we’re super poor and need about £11; we can probably refund it on friday because that’s when we get paid, but until then we’ve gotta buy the basics to make meals and feed the cats and have electric, and we only have £2 right now (which is only enough to buy milk)

any donations are really appreciated here: paypal.me/tinycap and if you donate anything i’d be happy to write you anything or make icons etc !

and if you can’t give anything reblogging helps a lot

This is an interesting concept. Amethyst has low self-esteem, and when she’s berated by Pearl, or, probably more commonly, herself, she internalises that, which makes her feel even worse. The Purple Puma is a heel, and is meant to be hated, to be shouted at, but that’s the point. No-one in the crowd hates Amethyst when she acts as the Puma.

“And people… like that?”

“Like it? They love it! Well, they hate it, but it’s all part of the fun, y’know? Everybody here gets that!”

I struggle with self-esteem a lot, as do a lot of people. Viewing yourself as a heel is a very interesting way of going about it.

I really like Amethyst as a character. I’m interested in seeing where her story goes.

abigailsdomain  asked:

To be honest, Sucker for Pain didn't seem to have any explicit consent from what I could tell. Maybe I missed it or something, Something else I noticed, no hate or malice meant toward you, but in some of your comics, there seems to be a lot of suggestive stuff that could come off as being non-consensual. For example, in that comic with the red haired MC and Seven, MC pushes Seven down and it looks like she forces herself onto him, which would be non-consensual. (Continued)

Of course, if that wasn’t your intent, then I understand and it’s probably just me and others nick pitting, but I’m the type to get a “Yes, I want this” from my partner before I push forward, I also expect to be given that respect as well. Not to defend what that guy did, just pointing out that in your comics some stuff is left up to the reader to infer and sometimes people infer bad things that may not be what you mean. 

Again, no malice or hate meant to you, just thought I’d point that out. If this is an old conversation, or I’m jumping in a little too late, or if I do sound mean, I apologize. I hope you have great days!


Hi, don’t worry you don’t sound mean at all!!! :D Thanks for your contribution.

 As a comic author I know each person interprets differently and I dont really mind that, because thats why its so interesting. For sucker for pain actually I did mentioned from the first page that she said “Yes” before she swallowed the drug and she’s full aware of what its happening. I tried my best to put it out (ad even in the capture for the comic I said clearly that I DON”T DRAW RAPE) but oh well, because the setting for it is heavy S&M, so I get it that some people might misunderstand. But even in the game, where in 707 bad ending 1MC was abducted by Saeran, MC doesn’t sound very concious at all and that was even more distubing. So it leaves many spaces to our imagination.

Yes for the red hair and 707 I admit that was not my intention but to some people it might seem too much. I totally get that, but I was trying to make it funny and thats the result of it. Perhaps I should put a panel where 707 said ok? 

Anyway, after Sucker for Pain incident it’s just really bugging me about the content I should do, I swear I will do only nsfw comic but yeah I don’t want my work to be judged because of misinterpretation. I mean 50 shades of Grey is out there why mine got reported?

anonymous asked:

I know you probably get this ask a lot but I have no friends, literally I have people that I talk to from time to times but no real friends, why do most entps have trouble staying with people and not pushing them away????

Hm. WHY. We hate vulnerability. We like control. We have to learn how to allow ourselves feel our emotions and trust people. Which sucks and is hard because people do nothing but let you down. 

But hey! I didn’t make a real friend until I was about maybe 19… and that experience taught me how to trust more/pick better people to trust/be pickier/be cooler with being on my lonesome/knowing exactly how much I want to give away to each person so that I can control the depth of each of the relationships. So clearly I’m still struggling from what your question is entailing. Uhm. 

The main idea that I was trying to get to at some point in this: if you truly want to, you’ll make close friends. It takes time, and you should be picky about it. It’s ok that ENTPs are picky. And in high school it’s like the zombie apocalypse… you’re stuck with people who you’re just eh about, but you gotta stick it out for 4 years and then peace out of there. College can be a bit like this too… But you don’t want to be friends with just anyone. If you’re pushing someone away it’s for a reason… you don’t like them or you’re uncomfortable with them. There will be people where you don’t have such a strong urge to do this, or someone who will fight to be with you anyway. And after you’ve made those few close ones, no one else really matters anyway. 

my tumblr is just progressively turning into an alteration between shitposting, crying about my ocs, and posting about hating myself, so here’s all three at once:

-I gave my Ryder a tool hairstyle and I love him so much
-I hate myself especially a lot today (mostly body image and future-me shit)
-Cody bought a ring sizer and made me test out how big my left ring finger was so that was !!!!


If I’m not responding to you on messenger/asks I’m kind of in that bad anti-social funk right now but know that i love you all

anonymous asked:

Lemme guess, Shut Up & Think is for people who just constantly attack without re-thinking anything, Listen is for people who'll ignore anyones attempt of talking about something and Maybe is to get people to open up to the possibility that they're wrong or what they're thinking is completely different. Of which you were/(are?) probably dealing with alot.

Well youre right with the “currently dealing with” bc these commercials are based off of real things that have happened to me

The STOP video had a lot of effort into it because i wanted to convey a message to just stop

Shut Up & Think is basically like “hey watch what you say” or “maybe stop fucking talking about it”

Think what you will of me but i hate when people wont shut the fuck up

Listen is basically like “would you listen to other people or be stuck up your own ass?”

Maybe are the possibilites to one or more parties participating in certain things

hi pals!! i’m holly; i go by she/her pronouns and i live in the worst timezone ever. if you ever rp-ed with me you’d probably notice that i stress on my timezone a lot and it’s lit because of how much i hate it and how i’m usually the only one awake while yall are asleep and the only one asleep when yall are awake. anyway, moving on!! here is sophia!! she’s actually an old character of mine who i miss very badly; and i’m just so happy that i get to play her again. i have a (overly and unnecessary) detailed bullet list about her here, which basically speaks about her as a whole but it’s pretty lengthy. i’ve broke it down into categories so feel free to skip whatever information you’d like to. below are v v v messy bullet points about her personality and what makes her her.

anyway, i’d really love to plot with each and every one of you!! i’m literally open for anything tbh im always just down for plots (major points if they’re super angsty!!!) i have a plot ideas page here if you’d like to take a look; but yeah, message me if you’d like to plot!!! or like this and i’ll come to you!! (chances are i’ll probably message everyone lmao)

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anonymous asked:

People calling Peridot an "annoying gremlin" seem to forget some of the speeches she's given. Barn Mates and Gem Harvest particularly. I think there's a 3rd huge one but it's escaping me right now??

:O

How can anyone call her that?!  Holy shit that’s actually incredibly sad.  I think it’s probably the old “some people can’t handle a complex and multi-layered character” thing all over again (which is one of the reasons why Pearl and Lapis get a lot of hate, for instance). 

Peridot is best Gem and I’ll literally fight anyone and everyone over that :p  No, but really - people are free to like and dislike whichever characters they want to, so long as they’re not putting any hate where the fans of these characters can see it (such as in the main tags). 

Reminders

(Don’t Reblog/Share/Repost)

1.

I recently got a new laptop, which runs faster than my old one and makes typing much easier. This means I can write posts much more easily and it shouldn’t be as much of a pain. This also means I can be on the computer more and on mobile less, which is good because I am not as good at typing and tagging things on mobile. 

However, this does mean that I have to spend time customizing my computer to my preferences, transferring files from one laptop to the other, getting XKit and other Tumblr extensions set up, etc. That means spending a lot of time off of Tumblr. 

I hate to say it, but I am probably going to be busy for a long time with this. I’ve gotten quite a bit done, but the process is slow because I am so preoccupied with so many other things and because my flash drive can only hold so many files at once, which means I can only transfer a few files at a time.

2.

I’ve said this before, but it needs to be restated: I am such a busy college student this semester and have a shitton of big homework assignments to work on in only a short amount of time. This means I can’t spend the kind of time here that I want.

I have a long list of things I want to do here (adding a FAQ page and ‘about my blog’ page to all of my blogs, for one), but I don’t know when I will be able to and if I will ever have time.

Summer is getting closer, so hopefully in May I can be far more active on Tumblr. Until then, though, I am not sure I can be.

3.

I changed the URL of “lovesick-feminist” to “feminist-mayhem” and am making that where more of my ace discourse type of stuff will go. However, it is 18+ because the blog deals with a lot of mature topics like sexual education, abortion, etc., so that means many of you cannot see it. 

4.

I have around 400 drafts saved here, 200 saved at @apocalyptic-feminist, maybe 200 saved at @lfeminist-mayhem, and perhaps 300 saved at @voluptuousvampire. That means I have a lot of posts I will be writing and posting in the future, which means I’ll be focused on that and might not have the time to answer messages. This, of course, won’t happen until I am done with all that homework, which honestly I don’t know I ever will be!

So it might not even be til summer until I have time to actually put effort into my Tumblr blogs.

I am going to try to put in a little effort into things today, but I make no promises. I’m really sick and in a lot of pain, and I don’t really feel up to being very active online right now.

5.

I have a lot of drafts saved to this blog that I actually want to post to my other blogs instead. That means I will be posting things here, only to delete them immediately after saving them as a draft elsewhere. So if you see me posting a lot and are wondering what’s happening and why posts are disappearing, that’s the reason. There’s a method to my madness; I’m not just randomly reblogging shit and changing my mind.

6.

Some of the drafts I have saved are nearly a year old, because it’s taken me that long to get to the posts. So if you’re wondering why I am reblogging old crap from you, it’s because I’ve had it in my drafts for a while and still consider it to be important and relevant.

I know there is this stigma against reblogging old posts, but sometimes old posts are really good and really important!

7.

I have a lot of untagged posts on @voluptuousvampire. I swear, I will go through and tag those when I have the time. I’m sorry for that. I don’t mean to leave everything untagged. It’s hard to tag on mobile and I haven’t been able to get on my computer much lately, so I swear I’m not being careless on purpose.

8.

I apologize for all the posts on my blog lately that are irrelevant and are taking up space. 

I have made yet another blog (as if I don’t have enough) for personal posts, random images, venting, that kind of thing. As of right now, it is mostly a depression blog with sad pictures and such things. I apologize for that, but that is really how I feel. The blog, @love-bites-but-so-do-i, is really becoming a place for me to just be lost in my mental illness, but I enjoy having it. 

Now, this blog can be dedicated to it’s purpose: nerd culture and analyzing media. This is my main blog, but it’s not meant to be a personal blog. So I apologize for the ramblings and random posts that have nothing to do with anything. I know that’s not why you follow me and you probably find me annoying.

9.

For some reason, I’ve been getting a lot of new followers. I’d like you to go here to make sure you actually know what this blog is for and whether or not you really want to follow. Don’t worry, you can access this on mobile no problem!


To summarize:

I am a busy person. And I am sorry for that, really. I wish I could dedicate more time to you all, but I just can’t. And I hope you won’t hold that against me. I love you all a lot, and I have big plans for this blog and the others I run. It’s just hard dedicating my time to something like this when I have so little time in the first place.

💖 The Nerdy, Curvy Feminist 💖

moonsweets  asked:

rwby for the fandom ask!

  • How I entered/learned about the said game/show/movie/etc of that fandom
    i think i originally found out about rt when the slender rage quit was going around and then found out about rwby through that
  • Fave character
    qrow! which is… probs blaringly obvious
  • Least fave character
    adam. i love him as a villain, but he’s a garbage person
  • OTP(s)
    i… have quite a few of those, so sticking to my absolute favorites; taiqrowin, sunny bees, seamonkeys, arkos, and renora
  • Pairing that everyone likes but I don’t get
    wh/it/er/os/e
    even aside from that i headcanon ruby aro i just?? don’t see any romantic interest between them???
  • Fave thing about the fandom
    the cosplay probably, there are a lot of amazing rwby cosplays
  • The most despised thing
    i guess the jaune hate? he’s doing his best leave my son alone
  • If there is something I would change from said game/show/movie/etc., what would it be.
    this is a pretty minor thing but you know when qrow saves ruby from tyrian? i would’ve had him say “didja miss me?” instead of “hey”

So, I started reading Archie Comics when I was about 6 - 24 years ago. That and (Batman/X-Men/Spiderman/TMNT): The Animated Series got me into reading comics and the like.

Naturally, this has me intrigued about Riverdale but I’m currently being led to believe that my absurd woman-hating chowhound Jughead “Sir Eats-a-Lot presents Burgers Got Back” Jones has… a romantic interest??? That is… betty????????

Which is probably the most absurd thing I have ever heard in my life lmfao like come on Forsythe, we all know betty’s busy dating Archie whenever he can’t get veronica because she’s dating Reggie who’s only settling for Ronnie because Moose is in town and he can’t get Midge to go out with him.

I mean yeah he and betty are homies and he does say that if he had to kiss a girl it’d be her but he’s super apathetic to chicks idk.

and so I’m really torn on whether I should watch this because it sounds like it’s 100% not made for fans of the comics but rather just using character likenesses for a teen drama?

Idk someone who’s watched it gimme to lowdown. Scale of 1-10 if I’ve spent 24 years loving the comic character, how disappointed am I gonna be by these interpretations?

altrxisme  asked:

☁ & ❣

ask sage stuff → accepting.

☁ ━ What is your opinion on cereal?

( shoves a massive spoonful in my mouth ) hate the stuff

❣ ━ If you could marry one fictional character, which one and why?

i’ve already answered one and said lunafreya,  but if i had to pick someone else i’d probably say josephine montilyet from dragon age: inquisition.  not only is she completely stunning,  she’s a brilliant diplomat and such a sweetheart and,  like me,  i’m pretty sure she’s ace.  so we’d get to have lots of cuddles with no pressure.  i’d happily live that kind of life.

Also, vaguely related to recent posts and also Alpha’s discussion of shipping attractive characters:
It’s been bugging me for a while (and I’ve talked about it briefly before) that the treatment of the most prominent “on the side of Good but does not always have actions that should be condoned” characters in my two most recent fandoms are so very different, and I think a lot of it is how attractive each are?

Pearl from Steven Universe is, uh, not conventionally attractive. I think she’s very cute, but not someone to swoon over. She also presents femme and uses female pronouns, which I also think is relevant.
And people hate her. Not everyone, true, but a lot of people. She’s probably the character I’ve seen the most Discourse about and the most angry posts.
She doesn’t always do the right thing! She gets angry. She hides things, and runs from her problems. She projects her own insecurities onto Connie and she doesn’t always distinguish between Steven as Steven and Steven as Rose Quartz’s son. And I know “abusive” is the buzzword of choice in fandom these days, but she’s called abusive an awful lot.

And then there’s Dazai from Bungou Stray Dogs. I love him dearly, but gosh is he morally gray. He’s manipulative and occasionally cruel and very self-absorbed and “does good” not necessarily because he wants to or it’s natural to him, but because he was told to. He was also decidedly on the side of the Bad Guys for longer than he was on the side of the Good Guys.
I definitely don’t see him as cis, but unlike Pearl he’s not canonically a femme nonbinary. Apparently he’s also hot. Idk.
He has also (and I can say this with certainty) been genuinely abusive, and not in the casual way the word is thrown around. He completely and thoroughly destroyed Akutagawa’s ability to feel good about himself without​ the explicit and constant acknowledgement of Dazai, and the “senpai notice me” jokes are endless. He shoots Akutagawa and doesn’t seem to care whether or not he survives. I have only rarely seen people say, “Wow that was messed up.”
And everyone adores him. Everyone. Most BSD fanworks are about him in some way.

I’m not saying that any of these interpretations of these characters are bad, per se, but two neurodivergent coded characters (Pearl is definitely, definitely coded autistic, and nobody who attempts suicide constantly is NT) from two different fandoms are thought of incredibly differently, and the one who (in my strong opinion) has done far fewer Bad Things is treated so much worse than the other, and it bugs the heck out of me.

Okay, so I’m not a huge fan of Steven Universe, but I got into it lately and there’s a thing I’ve been thinking a lot about lately. I may be wrong, and I probably will get hate for this, but I have this theory, that the opals found on Mars could be male gems (now I’ll be attacked with “gems don’t have genders but prefer to be feminine” shit, which is really dumb, because if they prefer to be feminine, that could mean that there are gems who like to be masculine).

Mars = masculinity, so the gems from there could have male-like bodies and male voices.
“We just popped out of the ground this way and didn’t want to change it in any way. We’re happy to be ourselves.”

I imagine them as tall, mysterious, hooded men who are protecting some gates or some treasure. (They would be taller than our Opal, because I think she is defective, because Amethyst is.)

I suck at drawing, I wish I could show you what I mean. :/

I hope you can understand what I mean, because this thing has been on my mind since like forever and it won’t let me sleep at night ;-;

I also hope that this post won’t be messed up, because I’m on mobile.

Odd Dog?

So lately our family dog has been acting strangely. A few months ago he developed a sensitivity to loud noises (for instance, the sound a fork makes on a plate, or unloading the dishwasher) and runs away to another floor of the house if he’s near it. In the past few days though, he’s gotten much weirder. He sits and cries at us for no reason, he has been waking up screaming and inconsolable for minutes and we have no clue what his problem is. Another odd thing is that he wants to spend time in my room, which he has hated ever since we moved in here, he will sit and cry at the door if he gets stuck in here. He’s rather old too, which probably has a lot to do with his personality change. I don’t know, have any of you guys had your dog act weird once they start getting old? he’s about 15-16 years old, he’s rather large for a small dog and I just don’t know what any of this means? He’s sitting here crying at me as I type this, in my room that he hates and I’m just so confused.

alwaysinnarnia  asked:

I don't know if you take requests, but if you do, could you consider writing a Peter x Reader imagine? Taking place in Narnia, Peter and the Reader really dislike each other and argue a lot. But when the reader is about to get seriously injured (kind of like how Susan nearly falls from the ledge in Prince Caspian) Peter saves her and realizes that he doesn't hate her all that much. Maybe ends with a kiss? "I hate you, you know?" "I hate you too."

i love this!! i’m currently working on another peter x reader which falls along the lines of the reader duelling miraz instead of peter and then peter gets super worried and i’m kinda just gonna work from there probably. but after i do that (which will hopefully be tomorrow or by monday) i will definitely work on this!! thanks for requesting, zebra! 💙

anonymous asked:

I am no longer strong.... We are starting to go over WWII in class. It is bringing a lot of rather unpleasant memories for me...And it does not help that I get panic attacks upon hearing gunshots. It is a good thing that I know how to have them silently. Oh how I wish I could avoid this....With my luck, I'll probably stumble upon RusGer, which will make me feel more like shit. And, I hate how I get panic attacks based off of my old memories of war. I feel like I'm mocking war veterans....-Russia