in which i do what i want

For the last few years, I’ve been making extra money petsitting (taking care of people’s animals when they’re out of town). Both of these stories are kind of old but mostly because I know better now.

The first one was a woman with a dog and a cat. She needed me to come by twice a day for a week to feed the animals and walk the dog, plus stuff like cleaning the catbox, watering plants, and collecting the mail. When I was getting the details of the job from her, I asked where she kept her cleaning supplies, in case the dog had an accident in the house.

She told me that I wouldn’t need them, because the dog never had accidents.

I said I believed her, but I’d like to know just in case.

She said that it didn’t matter, because I wouldn’t use them, because her dog had never had an accident in the house.

This went on for an embarrassingly long time until she finally told me her cleaning stuff was in a hall closet. I thanked her, confirmed the dates, and left without checking it because I didn’t want to risk making her more upset.

Well, the second day I come in the dog had made a huge mess all over the dining room floor. I have to clean it up, so I go to the hall closet and there is no cleaning stuff. I look in the other closet. I look under the sink. I look in the laundry room. If she owns any cleaning supplies they are extremely well hidden, so I clean it as well as I can with dish soap and paper towels.

The next time I bring my own cleaning stuff so I can actually do something, and the dog’s made another mess. I clean them both up, feed and walk the dog, and try to figure out what to do about this. I end up having to come and walk the dog three times a day instead of twice, which sucks because I only charged for twice a day but it’s better than having to clean up dog mess every morning.

The second one were a husband and wife who wanted me to actually stay at their house, overnights and all. They had four dogs who needed a lot of attention (one was blind) and agreed to pay extra for it, so I was willing to do it.

The problem was that the husband collected guns. Historical guns mostly, like pistols from the Civil War or whatever, which is pretty cool except I’m very uncomfortable around guns and these guns weren’t in a safe or anything, they were displayed around the house. I mentioned that I wasn’t comfortable around them and they told me that they always put the guns in a safe when they went out of town so there shouldn’t be any out when I was there.

Anyway, they didn’t. There were maybe one or two empty displays but practically all of the guns were still out: hanging on the wall, in a case on a table, propped up in the corner of the fucking bedroom. I got zero sleep the first night because, as it turns out, it’s hard to rest with a fucking rifle staring at you from directly beside the bed. I ended up sleeping at home and coming in real early for the rest of that job (thankfully just a weekend). I know it was dishonest since I said I’d stay overnight but I honestly did not care. The dogs were fine, the mail was brought in, it made no difference.

Tl;dr: When hiring a petsitter, tell them where your cleaning stuff is, or if you don’t have any then let them know so they can bring their own and not have to clean your carpet with dish soap. Also, put away your guns.

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Pairing: Gabriel x Reader
Word count: 1,081
Warnings: Smut. Oral sex (female).
Request: ( Anonymous ) Could you please do a Gabriel (or Balthazar) x reader fic where the reader tells them that she has never cum from oral sex - and that nowadays she just stop guys from going down on her because so many has become annoyed in the past because they couldn’t get her to cum, and the angel in question is like “humans!” and proceed to show her how much better an angel lover is? I think Gabe or Balth are the ones that enjoy giving oral most :) 

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Wow, it’s Wednesday already? Holy crap. How’s everybody doing? I hope you’re ready for some sloths today, cause you’re about to get slothed!

Manchester chief says police are investigating ‘a network’ of suspects following British bomb attack

Britain’s domestic security chief said Wednesday it was “likely” that the bomber who killed 22 people at a concert venue was not acting alone, underscoring the need for expanded security measures as the nation’s threat level was raised to its highest point.


President Trump holds ‘fantastic meeting’ with Pope Francis at the Vatican


How Trump’s Budget Would Affect Every Part of Government ▼

Yikes:

Trump budget could turn off his voters and sink his approval rating

I doubt it, but who knows anything anymore.


Sean Hannity done talking about Seth Rich and WikiLeaks ‘for now’ as Fox News retracts story

“I want to say this to you, my loyal audience, which is very important: Please do not interpret what I’m saying tonight to mean anything,” Hannity said. “Don’t read into this. I promise you I am not doing — going to stop doing my job to the extent of my ability.”

Sean Hannity, everybody.


Trump may have revealed the location of 'nuclear submarines’ on phone call to Philippine’s Duterte

What the hell, man. 


Wait… Wait… Did you see?

[Variety]

Okay.


Breaking News: Just look at this freakin’ thing


My internet just went down and I was sad but then it came back and now I’m more thankful than ever for a working connection. Thank you for listening to my story.

I hope you guys have a nice day and try to be thankful for the stupid things. Examples: Working internet, sloth gifs, a semi-functioning democracy based on the rule of law.

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Pineapples

Based off of #36 prompt found here

Shawn Master List found HERE


Finals week; the week where all students are strung out on coffee, sleep deprived and cramming a whole semester’s worth of information —which is not a sufficient way of studying, at least, that is what psychology taught you.

After almost four years of college, you still have not managed to adequately find a successful way to deal with the week of horror. It just gets worse and worse each year, and the week feels as though it gets longer and longer, almost neverending.

You groan heavily, your eyes burning as they stare at your notes and your Chemistry text that seems to have sticky notes and highlighter all through it. The information is just getting soaked up in your eyes and not adhering, which could be due to the lack of sleep and the coffee now shrinking thin. Your attention is driven away from the study notes and the study guide, Shawn stepping into the bedroom of your apartment, your keys getting thrown to the bed.

“You know, you should really start paying attention to the oil in your car.” He comments with a small grin as he shrugs his coat off of lengthy arms.

“I have been a tad busy,” You gesture towards the notes scattered across your bed, your pen now aimlessly tapping against one of the pages.

He steps closer to you, leaning down and kissing your lips, “I know, I thought we could maybe get some take out and watch a movie?” He suggests, sitting down beside you, “And before you whine about finals week, you need to eat and to have a break.” He immediately prevents you from disputing his requests of a movie and some food. You nod, your eyes scanning the presumptuous statements in the book, Shawn’s soft hums distracting you as his fingers trace small gatherings on your back.

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anonymous asked:

I'm curious why you won't post pictures of dogs with prong collars? I just would like to hear your opinion on them

Because no one wants to see a dog wearing a prong collar. I will allow some pass through if they are flush with the fur, but most images will be angled to where you see all the prongs in the dog’s neck and it just makes me uncomfortable. After all, this is just a blog for dog pictures. You don’t have to include what training methods you use. When you do, it just creates over the top threats and backlash. I’d rather everyone just appreciate the photos instead of over analyzing them (which people love to do!)  I have my thoughts on aversives in my dog faqs

I’m rewatching 10.18, and some of the things Metatron says to Cas seem entirely relevant again after 12.23.

Metatron: ‘What is the maddest thing a man can do?’

(Cas’s grace was hidden in a copy of Don Quixote… and the maddest thing a man can do is let himself die. At which point Cas takes on his own grace…)

CASTIEL: What we did back there was unfortunate. No more of our brothers and sisters should die.
METATRON: Brothers and sisters? Listen to you. Still spitting out the company line like anyone cares. Like we’re actually a family? When what we really are – are a bunch of glowing lights filled with self-loathing or delusions of grandeur. Or both.
CASTIEL: You shut up!
METATRON: No! If I’m gonna die, I want answers. Like, who are you now? Like, you’re obviously not an angel of the Lord. And what about all of this walking the earth like Caine from “Kung Fu” crap? Cleaning up Heaven’s messes. How many more rogue angels are there out there? And, what are you gonna do once you’re done with all that? Go back to Heaven? Please. The angel formerly known as Hannah has restored order up top. Smoothest it’s run since God cut the ribbon on the pearly gates. So tell me, Castiel, truly, what is your mission now?

And then we have this bit between Dean and Cas, as “Behind Blue Eyes” plays in…

DEAN: Hey, look who decided to show. So? You’re back? 100%? How did that happen?
CASTIEL: Um, it was Hannah. She managed to get the location of the remainder of my Grace out of Metatron.
DEAN: Awesome. I told you we were due for a win. Good to have you back, pal.

In other words, he lies. He was “due for a win” and ended up metaphorically dying. All the while convincing himself it it was the right thing…

[Ask RPedia] Writing Too Much, and When It’s a Problem?

Anonymous asked RPedia: Hi! I was browsing online for random stuff about roleplaying and I found a post about what people find annoying, and one of the points was ‘replies that are too long’ and as a person who writes a lot it kinda made me paranoid? Their point was that it is useless and you should just get to the important parts, especially if you repeat yourself or are too wordy. Is it true that people find it annoying? I never thought of it, I always write long replies to explain what is going on on my OC’s head :/ 

Yep, this is actually a problem, but it’s not a problem for the reasons you’ve listed! Look, I’m gonna give you two sample posts, you tell me which one is more fun and we’ll dissect why. This is actually a very common problem, because a lot of kids really, really, want to impress their partners, but just don’t have the skills (or possibly the ability to frame new details/information) to do so yet. Your content and presentation, essentially, has to mean something, and relate to what you’re talking about in your post. Your wording should add to the story in some way; be that to elicit a response, or explain an idea you want to get across in some way so the other author knows about it. Squish unimportant things together to make them more important bullet points, or don’t say them if at all they don’t add something to the pot. That’s the major concept here. 

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revolutionaryduelist  asked:

Since I know you dig Vriska I ought to tell you I'm pretty sure the Class system like, textually backs up the way she was emulating Mindfang like...mechanically? I don't want to bore you if you're uninterested but the bottom line is Vriska is linked to fairies during Act 5 which is a motif exclusively associated with Sylphs and Maids outside of her (including Jane), and during that period she tries to emulate mechanically what Aranea is able to do effortlessly re: Pages

oh yeah, the parallels between vriska’s and aranea’s reaction to finding out their relations to mindfang are definitely solid. i also don’t think the Page’s god tier outfit being visually similar to peter pan’s is a coincidence, either; there’s a deliberate link between pages and youth, immaturity, and a struggle to realize themselves, making theirs the most arduous and lengthy of all the classpects’ journey of maturity. 

vriska’s is also a unique journey in terms of thieves; while the thief class sets up the player for a journey of learning to be altruistic instead of selfish, vriska has to go through the additional step of learning that she is a thief in the first place. she frames all of her self-centered choices as selfless ones, done either for the good of another person (tavros, john) or for the general group. she wants to paint herself as a sylph, working for the good of others, even though most of the time, her choices are rooted in altruism only insofar as that altruism can come back to benefit her. i.e., she wants to be a hero, but only so that she can ultimately profit from it.

this comes back in the Dream Bubbles, when she meets another thief and starts dating her. (vriska) is a demonstration of Vriska at her most ‘thief-y,’ totally absorbed in her own world and her own relationships, and willing to give up on altruism entirely. the problem is that although this is technically progress in the right direction, it’s not the thief’s ideal endpoint; ideally, she would come to terms with her own nature and start working towards genuine selflessness. this doesn’t happen, not in the least because she’s dead, and has a dearth of opportunities. 

aranea, on the other hand, is a sylph through and through. what she does is for the “good” of others, she’s just very bad at realizing what the good of others is; and she’s too utilitarian (mind-controlling people, killing others, desperately making a power grab) about it. aranea has a vision for the greater good of all people, but the brutal methods she’s willing to use to get to that vision damn both her and the attempt.

i really, honestly don’t know what to say? how do you sum up two years? honestly, i made this blog on a whim with the full expectation that i would have moved on in a month, as that was as long as most of my tumblr muses had lasted. obviously, i didn’t leave after a month. i even hit three months, which was the longest i’d had any muse on tumblr, and went beyond that. now two years later, i’m here, and so appreciative of everyone i’ve interacted with along the way. i just want to take a minute to thank all of my followers, but also the following people in particular for having made such a significant impact on my time here or for having simply been a joy to follow. if i have forgotten anyone, i deeply apologize!

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anonymous asked:

Hi Julia. Do u know what happened to Jess today? Re the snakes? I've no idea but want to kick some but for her....👊🥊🤺🗡💣

Yes I do. All I’ll say is that people in this fandom have a tendency to treat Jess like shit, shippers included, despite all the crap she takes for all of us and has taken for years. Sometimes people have different opinions and that should be allowed without making someone feel like a pariah, which is exactly what’s happened unfortunately. And they know who they are. :)

zoenightshaded  asked:

hey i was just wondering what type of engineer you are and what led you to choose it (i want to be a super kickass engineer/writer like you when i grow up)

Okay so what I got my degree in, what I tell people I do, and what I actually do are three different things so bear with me.

I got a bachelors in mechanical engineering with minors in biomedical engineering and applied mathematics. That basically qualifies me to go everything and anything. I chose that whole mess because I knew that I wanted to do something related to the medical field but wasn’t sure exactly what. The mechanical background sets you up to be the jack of all trades, which is a pro because you can do anything but there’s a thousand mechanical engineers and it’s not specialized.

That’s the point of the biomedical minor, to help me specialize and be a better candidate for medical jobs. The applied math minor is because I could.

I tell people that I’m a biomedical engineer because I pretty much am. I work for a medical company doing things on medical devices.

Now technically my job title is process engineer. Day to day I monitor and improve a manufacturing process. Now the stuff that is made goes into medical devices but really I’m responsible for the parts of the whole device. My company is really cool in that I get to work with the teams that actually design the final products. 

I got into process engineering because all of my coursework was very theoretical and not very hands on. So one summer I got an internship at this place that makes seals around doors and windows for airplanes and while I did not like the company I loved the work. 

Process engineering is very busy and at my company always interesting. We get to work on new products, improvements, design work, getting new equipment, and upgrading the stuff we have. 

I hope that kind of explains everything. If not you can always ask more questions!

I’m seeing people say that was a good episode? Oh my God, I clearly watched something completely different.

Robert’s sexuality being slighted “pick a side” (which incidentally is what I’m always told).

Robert flirting with a woman who took advantage of him sexually (at the very least, there’s an argument for sexual assault), just so Robert’s husband doesn’t find out about the incident.

My skin wants to crawl off, and I’m shaking over here. So uncomfortable, more so because I don’t think Emmerdale are aware of what they’re doing wrong.

anonymous asked:

Hi! I'm in high school right now, but I really want to be a psychologist or counselor or something and work with kids, and I was wondering if you had any advice for helping kids who don't like their body and how I could let them know they're perfect? Sorry if this seems weird it's really late and I've just stalked your blog for an hour. Thanks!

Hi anon!

Well, a large part of this depends on your psychological orientation.

Different psychologists have different orientations, which are basically like different approaches to doing psychology. What orientation you are will determine how you help your clients, and will lead you to take certain paths to exploring their problems that other psychologists might not take.

For example, a cognitive behavioral therapist will focus on changing thought patterns and behavior. So, you might work with your client to counteract negative thoughts they have about their body or ask them to change certain behaviors that cause them negative feelings about their bodies and replace them with new behaviors, like standing in front of a mirror and complimenting themselves. The goal would be to teach them to think in a way where they see themselves as attractive and worthwhile and don’t let other people’s negative opinions cloud their judgment of themselves.

Psychotherapy, on the other hand, is more about just talking about their problems. Clients would simply vent to you about how they feel, and you would educate them about the issue they’re having and have them set goals for themselves. Your focus might not be specifically about changing thoughts and behavior; it would likely be broader. But it would be similar to CBT except more talking based. 

If you’d like an extensive list of types of therapy and psychological orientations, go here

Your orientation will likely depend on your education as a psychologist; for most people, if their professors leaned towards a certain kind of therapy, that’s how they’ll lean too. Most of my professors have been cognitive behavioralists. So I’ve been taught a lot that focusing on thoughts and behavior is the most important thing. However, I personally am not sure I agree with that. I still have some thinking to do. Hopefully, when I get to graduate school, I’ll have a better idea.

Right now, I’m interested in learning more about feminist therapy and systems therapy, because both of these types of therapy focus not only on the individual but at the different levels of society in which a person might interact. Systems therapy would allow me to talk to a client about themselves, their home life, their life in school and work, and discuss the different institutions in which they are a part. Feminist therapy would allow me to discuss the ways they’ve been marginalized by society and how that affects their mental health. Both of these are of interest to me as a feminist and a sociology nerd. I’ve always been of the opinion that one can’t just look at the individual, because internal processes aren’t the only things that shape people. I’ve had professors who downplay the importance of society on shaping people, but as someone studying sociology and women and gender studies as well as psychology, I feel society’s influence matters.

For me personally, I had a lot of reasons I could have developed depression. Poor hormone regulation due to a thyroid problem, the fact it runs in my family, etc. But the thing that pushed me over the edge and helped all those factors matter? Bullying. And why was I bullied? Fatphobia. In a society where fatphobia wasn’t an issue, that bullying wouldn’t have occurred, and despite the fact I had genetic factors that could lead to depression, I might not have developed it. So to me, society matters. It influences people’s behaviors and thoughts. So I don’t want to ignore it in my therapy. My clients deserve to know that marginalization isn’t their fault. Because I sure as hell didn’t know that when I was struggling. 

So, your orientation as a psychologist will do a lot to determine how you go about helping your clients feel beautiful and worthwhile. Knowing what your orientation will be will probably be a huge step into knowing how you can help your clients, and you might not know that until graduate school. 

My advice to you would be to study different approaches to psychology as much as you can, to learn how each approach would allow you to address this issue and what advice other psychologists give to their clients about loving their bodies. I also think it’s worth asking, “What message do I want to give my client?” Do you want to tell them they’re beautiful as they are? Or do you want to tell them that beauty doesn’t matter? Do you want to tell them that not everyone can see their beauty, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t beautiful? Or do you want to tell them that whether or not they are beautiful, they have value and being beautiful isn’t everything? Do you want to tell them all of that? Maybe something else? 

I’d give these questions some thought.

I hope you find this helpful, and if not, feel free to come talk to us some more and ask us more questions!

-Mod Bella 

anonymous asked:

Assalamualaikum! I had a doubt about a hadith on friday, which says Allah will answer any duaa on friday, so seek the hour after asr. Can you elaborate on what an hour after asr means? Does it mean the hour before maghrib begins? I have been having doubts about this, sorry lol Im kinda dumb. Jazakallah khair!

Wa Alaikum Salam, Sister ♥

You are smart for asking this question, for now that you did, you will in shaa Allah know the answer, and be more educated and therefore wiser!
It is the ones who do not seek the knowledge or who do not want to know who are intellectually at loss.

May Allah SWT increase our knowledge and not make us lazy or ashamed to ask, Ameen ♥

The Hadith which you may be referring to is the following one:

“On Friday there is an hour when, if a Muslims happens to pray at that time and ask Allah for something good, He will give it to him.”
(Narrated from Abu-Hurayrah: [Al-Bukhaari (5295) and Muslim (852)])

There are many views about when this hour is, let us explore them ♥

1. Between the time when the imam sits down, until the end of prayer ♥

Specifying Hadith:
Abu Burdah ibn Abi Moosa al-Ash’ari who said: 
‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Umar said to me: 
Did you hear your father narrating from the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) concerning the (special) hour on Friday? 
I said: Yes 
I heard him say: I heard the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) say: 
“It is between the time when the imam sits down, until the prayer is over.”
(Saheeh Muslim)

2. When the Iqaamah for prayer is given, until the prayer ends ♥


Specifying Hadith:
Al-Tirmidhi (490) and Ibn Maajah (1138) narrated from Katheer ibn ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr ibn ‘Awf al-Muzani from his father from his grandfather that the Prophet (pbuh) said: 
“On Friday there is an hour of the day during which no person asks Allah for something but He will give it to him.” 
It was said: “When is that time?”
He said, “When the iqaamah for prayer is given, until the prayer ends.”
(Shaykh al-Albaani said: It is da’eef jiddan [very weak])

3. After Asr (an hour before Magrib) ♥

Specifying Hadith A:
Abu Dawood (1048) and al-Nasaa’i (1389) narrated from Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah that the Messenger ofAllah (pbuh) said:
“Friday is twelve hours in which there is no Muslim who asks Allah for something but He will give it to him, so seek the last hour after ‘Asr.”
(Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani)

Specifying Hadith B:
‘Abd-Allah said:
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) pointed to me, saying,
“Or some part of an hour.”
I said: You are right, or some part of an hour.
I said: What time is that?
He said: “It is the last hours of the day.”
I said: It is not the time of the prayer?
He said, “Indeed, when a believing slave prays and then sits with nothing but the prayer keeping him, he is still in a state of prayer.”
(Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani)

So how do we understand when these times are?
The first hadith and second hadith are self-explanatory in the times of which it is said to be the hour. The 3rd hadith is a little bit more confusing to understand due to our minds being programmed to evaluate time via the Gregorian Calendar methods.

In Islam, a new day begins with the Wakt of Magrib (not Fajr), therefore when the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) talks about the ‘last hour of the day’, he is referring to the last hour before the wakt of Magrib.
So, if you live in a country where the adthaan for Magrib goes off at 6:30, deduct one hour from that, and that hour till Magrib is the probable hour which the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is referring to. Therefore in the example, the hour starts from 5:30 to 6:30 ♥

The actual hour in this case will depend on you time-zone and season ♥

Why are there so many hours? Why can’t there just a specific one?
Maybe it is about hunting the hour down, and praying at all the hour stations, or just one, with the intention of getting closer to Allah SWT and having our prayers answered by Him ♥ Maybe waiting so sincerely for the hour and praying with such devotion at that time, is what will cause Allah SWT to feel mercy towards us and give us our Dua’s in shaa Allah ♥
If you really want your Dua to be answered, you would act accordingly, right? ♥
Maybe it may just be that time which, when a Muslim in the correct conditions and the correct mind-frame prayers, will have his/her prayers answered, in shaa Allah ♥

I hope I have answered your question in shaa Allah, if you are confused about something in the answer above, would like something explained again, or would like to ask another question, please do not hesitate in shaa Allah ♥

In the US, I got professional help, which was really important for me. Just learning to put words to feelings and thus be able to set limits and do not push me too much, which I found easy. I wanted all the time so much more than I could perform, or could be. The downside is that you will never be completely satisfied. But quite negative, it’s not for this also applies to want to evolve and do my best. And that is what drives me to help Sweden.
—  Crown Princess Victoria talks about her eating disorder and how she got through it in a 2 part interview in celebration of her upcoming 40th birthday with TV4. The first part of the Crown Princess’s interview will air on May 25th, 2017 at 20:00. 
What I got from today’s clip:

Carrots: They aren’t going away any time soon. Personally, I can’t do raw vegetables. It just isn’t happening.
That being said, it was incredibly symbolic, as usual. Yesterday we had Yousef eating carrots, which for me is a representation of what he and Sana shared, what was blossoming between them. So Noora eating carrots is her “destroying” or “consuming” that special thing, that seed that she[Sana] and Yousef had planted. OR, if you want to get literal and petty, reminiscent of her eating Yousef’s face.

Eva: Her eyes say a lot in every scene, she seems really empathetic or concerned and yet she’s been really…meh so far. Is her only job to hang around looking like a wounded puppy? Give the girl something to do!

Isak: He’s basically Sana’s inner voice. He’s saying what she knows and might not want to admit to herself. Right now Sana is angry so she’s pushing everyone away. It’s easier to go on the defensive than admit that her friends might actually not want her anymore. That isn’t the case of course, Vilde notwithstanding, but when you’re angry and hurt and not talking to anyone it’s easy to misinterpret things and feel like the world is out to get you or everyone is against you.
Sara isn’t stealing her friends but it might feel that way, especially given the dissonance between her faith and her peers’ values. Looking out the window, she sees how easily they get along, how alike they look. No one stands out the way she does. They’re all “normal”.

But then Isak reminds her of just how much of a snake Sara is and even though she’s angry with Vilde, you could see the concern in her expression. She doesn’t want Vilde to get hurt again, especially not by Sara. And I don’t think it’s a coincidence that Isak mentioned all the chats he and Sara had about everyone. I wouldn’t be surprised if those chats suddenly became public(or if Sana just blatantly throws it in all of their faces). If the Pepsi Max girls knew what Sara really thought of them, she’d be ruined once and for all. And Vilde…well, she’d be hurt but at least she wouldn’t be alone so she’ll get over it. Hopefully she’ll realize that the quality of a friendship is what really matters, not how popular being associated with someone can make you. Maybe then she’ll finally apologize for being a selfish poophead.

Also, I like that despite Sana brushing him off the other day, Isak didn’t take it personally and he isn’t leaving her alone. It’s because he’s been there. When he was figuring out who he was and he didn’t feel like his friends would accept him, he pushed them away until they pushed back. So he’s pushing back if only to let her know that she isn’t alone and someone does care. He’s slowly chipping away at her walls and that’s enough for now.

casper-anklehair  asked:

Hey I was wondering what henrik his mother was talking about when she said that he was being represented by a homophobe? It sounds like you know something I do not!! 😰

Hello, the whole thing is a bit of a mess … Basically, Henrik Holm signed with Panorama Agency a few days ago. Once it was announched, this article was released, and there’s a pretty problematic statement by the founder, Lene Seested, in which she says, “There won’t be any more homosexual characters right this moment. We’ll decline those. Right now he wants to do completely other roles.” There’s been a lot of critique because, as pure as the intention might’ve been, it came out really wrong, and Seested has since made another statement, but it didn’t exactly make anything better. The agency has been quite unprofessional in their handling of this situation - it seems that the more they try to fix it, the worse it gets. But Henrik liked Seested’s Instagram post of Siv’s message in Kosegruppa DK, so although he hasn’t commented on it himself, he is siding with Panorama (which makes sense since that’s his agency now, and this whole thing is hopefully just a misinterpretation that got blown out of proportion).

anonymous asked:

The reason why you won't answer my asks is because I said some truths about shadowhunters that you don't want to share with your hundreds of anti-cc followers. "keep stalking my blog for updates" Like you stalk Cassie? Hipocrite much?

(1) of what i’ve read, the only thing about shadowhunters in my ask box so far is that it’s shitty and that’s an opinion, not a fact

(2) i don’t stalk cc, the mere idea of that is ridiculous. I repeat myself, I don’t wait in front of my computer whole day to post things about her, I only speak up to my followers when I’m upset about something she has done. people tend to update me on her in my ask box (which i do not ask for, and sometimes ignore) because I am vocal and they want to know my opinion / i sometimes see things about her on my dash cause i follow largely tmi blogs.

thehipstermcgee360  asked:

Wow, back when I first found your blog he was still a cool guy. Did I miss something over the past few months- What made him turn around to harassment?

He would CONSTANTLY try to get me in shitty political/social arguments, for example he spent nearly a whole day arguing that gay people can’t raise children.

It got to a point where I just DIDN’T want him interacting with me any more because he’d be downright racist/classiest/sexist/transphobic at times and he’s so convinced he’s right that he doesn’t feel he’s doing anything wrong whatsoever.

After I blocked him, he found my email and sent me an angry email which freaked me the hell out.

So I blocked him there too, and then he started harassing my followers, basically stalking my page and sending asks to anyone who agreed with me in order to start up arguments and complain about how much of a stuck up horrible person I am.

http://jitterbugjive.tumblr.com/tagged/kaiuchiha15

his tag is a treasure trove of bigoted ignorance.

anonymous asked:

My dude. What do you think of Prey?

i am enjoying it so far! ive gotten 14 hours so far and i still feel like ive barely tapped the surface when it comes to fully exploring the game and finding every minute detail, which is exactly what i want from an arkane game. 

the art style is wonderful too, and the writing is a definite step up from dh2 IMO, more attention put towards making sure every character (or the remnants of them) is a fully fleshed out human being with good and bad aspects

the combat (save for battles with mimics) is essentially a reskin of dead space 2, with almost identical zero G mechanics and space exploring just like in that game as well

avoiding combat is actually a stronger part of the game than combat itself, since you are encouraged to improvise and your options grow as you get new abilities like one of the many stealth related powers. not killing the enemies allows you to learn more about them and the setting, which is in itself a benefit, though as far as i know the game has multiple endings so i guess there is a ‘chaos’ meter similar to dh its just not as apparent 

anyway, good game, you can make morgan yu drink from a toilet to gain health