Something I’ve Noticed
There are a stunning lack of people concerned about the right here and now. No one really asks “can I fix this trait about myself” or “what do I need to do to be better” or whatever. It’s always either questions regarding the past like “do they miss me” “do they regret leaving me” “do they still love me” or it’s about the future with “who will I marry” “are they going to ask me out” “what am I doing in 10 years”
And there’s nothing wrong with that!! But holy, no wonder so many people are upset with their lives or anxious. You need to learn to live for yourself, not for others. Does it matter what someone from your past thinks about you? You’ve changed from then, and they’re in the past for a reason. You want to be with someone? Don’t fret over it, go for it!!! You’ll never know if you don’t try!
Like idk, I just wish more people were confident enough to like get out there I guess. We let fear hold us back so much, and it’s really sad.