I recently met this guy, and i think he's the shit. I have my eyes on him lol but i think he's out of my league. I wanna know if you have any tips on being a little more confident? Even if i havta fake til i make it but i do wish i had that "i'm that bitch" mentality.
you already started out with a bad attitude by saying “he’s out of my league.”
no honey. you don’t think like that.
one thing i NEVER. ever ever ever. ever. let a man do is intimidate me. idc how good he looks, how much money he has, how popular he is, idc about none of that. that doesn’t make him better than me. i still hold more value than he does in my mind. stop fawning over these men and placing them on pedestals. when you elevate a man over yourself and view him as something unattainable it makes you look weak and desperate. don’t be so easily impressed, babe. don’t allow men to faze you. talk to him like you guys are on the same level, because you are. you say he’s the shit but you’re forgetting that you are too.
you’re beautiful. you have a lot to offer. you don’t meet men. men meet YOU. keep that mindset and you’ll be straight.