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hey guys, help me out:

do you think gansey had been to the barns pre-series?

part of me wants to say yes, because he and ronan were best friends, but part of me wants to say no? because, like, there’s a lot of dream things/Obvious Magic at the barns? a lot of stuff that can’t really be Explained? right?

answered! thank u guys!! <3

i honestly cant imagine how frustrating it would be to spend hours working your ass off to put up videos that you put a lot of emotional (and physical) effort into for the majority of the comments to be talking about a mark on your neck or a stray hair or some insignificant thing like that

Rhett (and sometimes Link) commented on this in recent interviews how annoying it is when you work hard on something but its all overlooked because there was a kink in your hair that wasnt there before and thats all people talk about

just goes to show how much of this industry is focused on looks and presentation so much so you share something you put literally everything you have into but people are too concerned about the tiny wrinkle in your shirt

You can call an experience or relationship traumatic even if there’s no one you can/want to blame for what happened.

If you were traumatized by what happened, that impact is real even if it isn’t anyone’s fault. There are situations where everyone involved does their best with the information and abilities they have and someone still experiences trauma.

Abuse is not the only traumatic experience, just a common one. Not having your needs met for totally blameless reasons can be traumatic. Having your autonomy taken away by illness or other random chance can be traumatic. Many traumatizing experiences can happen when you’re utterly alone. Even ‘ordinary experiences’ can be traumatic in some contexts.

There’s no reason for trauma that’s ‘too silly’. If you’re traumatized, it’s not because you’re 'too sensitive’ and it doesn’t automatically mean you’re minimizing other people’s experiences.

You’re allowed to acknowledge your trauma. You’re allowed to look at experiences you’ve had through the lens of trauma. You’re allowed to grieve and process your traumatic experiences even if you don’t understand why they were traumatic or if similar experiences didn’t tramautize others you know.

You’re allowed to acknowledge how badly you were hurt even if you can’t point a finger at one person who hurt you.

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Things to kno about Junkrat’s face:

- He has a little scar on his cheek. Right on the right. It’s v smol but there
- Around his mouth the dirt is kinda wiped away and it looks like rub marks on the side of his face so I guess he likes to wipe his mouth on his arm or something?
- Has a bunch of lil’ moles and birth marks esp on his lower face (maybe we can’t see them higher up because of the scorch marks)
- Actually has visible burn-area on his forhead and a bit on his face, where the skin is discoloured and looks kind of raw (either burned by the sun or explosives)
- His eyes are kind of bloodshot, and around inside of his eyelids are super dark
- His teeth r super gross but not out of place, though he does have an overbite and sharpened canines
- Has 2 “gold teeth” which just appear to be small square cuts of gold lodged between some teeth at the top of his mouth and the bottom of his mouth

ghostofghostspast  asked:

Do you think acceptance of others is more of a Ravenclaw or Hufflepuff trait?? I was discussing this with a friend and I thought it was a more Ravenclaw trait but they were arguing it in favor of it being Hufflepuff because of the "loyalty and kindness" aspect of Hufflepuff.

hmmm good question

Acceptance is a key philosophy of both houses; ravenclaw is full of eccentrics and celebrates our individuality, whereas hufflepuff comes more from the equality standpoint and values fairness in the sense of treating everybody the same

I would tend to associate acceptance primarily with ravenclaw but it’s definitely strongly ingrained in the hufflepuff philosophy as well. However it’s important to note that neither house is immune to judgement

As much as ravenclaws preach about valuing eccentricity, we see Luna being constantly mocked for her unusual behaviour, and hufflepuffs can be equally cliquey as shown by their attitude towards Harry during Chamber of Secrets

However it’s interesting to note that the hufflepuffs make a point of apologsing to Harry and owning up to their mistakes whereas we never see the ravenclaws acknowledging their judgemental behaviour towards Luna, so maybe acceptance is more of a hufflepuff trait after all

The Various Flanderizations of Matsuno Ichimatsu

so I’ve noticed that there are…a couple of issues with the way ichi is portrayed in fan works (and by that I mean he’s flanderized – which means to take one single trait of a character and to exaggerate it until it consumes their entire character – or he’s given an out-of-character portrayal altogether), and this post is here to address those issues as well as cover ways on how to give him a more accurate portrayal reminiscent of the character in the show!

do note that I am in no way trying to boss anyone around on how to portray ichi – you are free to portray him however you wish, and I totally get it if you want to explore all the different ways to do so. on the other hand, if you do want to heed my advice because you find him particularly hard to figure out (and trust me, he is), by all means, go ahead! this is partly for myself, too, as I’m writing an ichi-centric fic and want to have some sort of reference to guide me through.

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Okay though, SERIOUS NOTE,
She’s like ready to pounce on him, and he’s kind of ginger with her and he’s like “baby are you sure you’re ready for this?” And she’s like “yes ” or something along those lines and here are my questions

Is this the first time that they you know, were about to do adult activities since she’s been better!?!?!?

Because I get two vibes from the question like yes this could be the first time since she’s been healed and finally gotten a good night sleep and she’s in the mood and she’s just feeling like herself and Deeks just wants to make sure all their Ts are crossed and their is are dotted

Or is he just being funny when he’s like “you ready for this” like a playful are you ready for all the Deeks you’re about to get