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Uhhh

So my boss probably thinks im on drugs or something because I had to ask to go home

See I took my meds last night and they can take up to 24 hours to kick in

And they kicked in at work

And one of the side effects of them kicking in is a need to use the restroom

And my dysphoria is super bad today so the thought of going to a mens restroom makes me want to scream and cry

So I asked to run home to grab my meds as an excuse to go use my own bathroom , except instead of “meds” I said “painkillers”

And then he was like “oh I have some in my desk if it’s not prescription stuff” and I just locked up

I stuttered and tried to play it off as a joke but now im freaking out and want to cry a lot help

if we’re friends or at least just friendly and you ever use the wrong pronouns, its fine, because i know you wouldnt purposely misgender me or anything like that BUT if you spend like five minutes apologizing, saying stuff like “OH my GOD i am such a TERRIBLE PERSON you should HIT ME in the FACE, im SO SORRY,” you arent apologizing, youre just making it all about yourself so you dont look bad and imo thats worse than the accidental misgendering tbh

linklyshow asked:

what if Ghirahim and link switched bodies and were completely aware of it Link would probably take advantage of the situation by doing all sorts of cool Ghirahim things like teleporting around and flipping out cause he's so tall, and I feel like Ghirahim would be like oh my goodness im the sky child and do stupid stuff to embarrass link and be rude to people or be super perverted lik "Wow link you smell real bad wouldn't hurt to take a bATH"

oh my god this is one of my fav things, it’s so cliché but it’s so good 

can you imagine link finally finally being tall enough to hold things out of ghirahim’s reach and the sheer satisfaction he’d get from watching ghirahim jump up to try and reach it 

and ghirahim gets annoyed and begins stripping because he knows link will flip and link like screams and his first impulse is to punch ghirahim in the face but he forgets that he’s in ghirahim’s body and how strong he is and accidentally like knoCKS HIM OUT AND GHIRAHIM IS LAYING THERE UNCONSIOUS AND LINK’S LIKE SHIT I PROBABLY JUST GAVE MY BODY PERMANENT HEAD TRAUMA

Why I believe“It’s just pretend” is a bad excuse and you should stop using it. (If you do.)

   Just some stuff I wanted to talk about because oh boy am I tired of hearing this excuse. Keep in mind, I am no authoritative voice. All of this is simply how I feel, even if I feel strongly about this particular topic it is still just an opinion piece.

  One of my biggest writing peeves is when people try to excuse bad writing or senseless head canons with “It’s just for fun” or “It’s just pretend.” Why do I feel strongly about this? Well, I want to do writing professionally when I get out into the world. It’s basically the only thing I’m passionate about. As such, I believe that writing is a form of art. When you mindless turn a character into a slut (Anyone remember that influx of ‘subby’ smut blogs like a year ago?) or blatantly disregard something that the author wrote into that character for what was most likely a good purpose, you are disrespecting both the art and the artist. 

    “Why is this important?” One might ask, “Surely they are given creative liberty as a writer and let’s be real here, a bad handful will not spoil the perception of the character.” And in that, you would be quite wrong. Yes, as writers we do have creative liberty to do whatever we like, however just because we can does not mean we should. We all could become the 90% dota community and have everyone mindlessly fuck each other’s brains out, but why should we? I think we all hold some sort of self respect for ourselves as writers that should prevent us from such.

    Moving onto the next hypothetical point, it does not take a handful of things to ruin the perception of a character, it only takes one. Take Riven for example, a strong warrior troubled with the inner conflict of patriotism versus morality … . In a bunny suit. Desperately obsessed with a sentient goo monster. The former is what she is, and the latter is what so much of the League community has made her out to be. Why? All because of one skin and one cameo.

   “Okay, well why should I care? This is just pretend after all!” Great, detached way to look at thing right? Except with that thinking surely you don’t care about one taking another’s art and claiming it as their own? Or simply posting it without a source to begin with. Once again, writing is an art form just as painting, sculpting, or any other visual art form. One that tends to be under appreciated as well, however that is a entirely different discussion for another time.

   TL;DR: I suggest that everyone stops excusing poor writing decisions and dreadful headcanons (Generally for canon characters, after all OC’s are original work) with “It’s just pretend!” Or the like. It’s insulting and degrading to the character, the same as insulting or degrading a work of art. 

aand last video I swear

Tag :D

I was tagged by the wonderful silverlyy, can-i-baro-your-sandeuls, and shinee-is-my-view THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH if I could hug you I would and I am so incredibly sorry this is so late D:

PUT YOUR PLAYLIST ON SHUFFLE AND ANSWER THE QUESTIONS WITH SONG TITLES.

Title of the first song you land on describes how you die.

Y - MBLAQ

Second song will describe your love life.

Cupid - Oh My Girl (ayyyyy)

Third song will be playing at your wedding.

Growl - EXO (alrighty then)

Add “in my pants” on the fourth song you land on.

Lucifer “in my pants” - SHINee

I can’t stop laughing I’m sorry

Fifth song will be playing at your funeral.

In The Air - B1A4

Sixth song is your theme song.

Cheerleader - OMI which I can totally live with because those trumpet parts make me so happy

Seventh song will be played when you think of someone you love.

Some Day - U-Kiss, this is really sad???

Add “with a shovel & a screwdriver” to the eighth song.

One Day “with a shovel and a screwdriver” - Matisyahu

Ninth song will describe your week.

Zombie Party! - Speed

Tenth song will be played when you miss someone.

Hakuna Matata - people from the Lion King

This was fun I liked this, thank you guys again :D

I tag sugaslostswag, sehunicornbaozi94 (hi :3), baekyeol-heaven, btsarmybabes, areumdaunnnview, tryagainsmileagainouo, hydefromtheluciferwang-gangaji, and seuiho + anyone else who would like to do this but no pressure :D

OH MY GOD HOW DID I FORGET

MY UNCLE CALLS EVERYONE TRASH

I AM NOT LYING OR TRYING TO PULL FACTS ITS A THING IN OUR FAMILY UNCLE CALLS EVERYBODY TRASH well except gran and grandpa since you can’t call them bad words it’s forbidden

HE ALSO HAS AN EQUIVILENT TO ‘SWEETHEART’ LIKE HE CALLED ME 'GARBAGE’ WHEN I WAS SMALL AND HE CALLS HIS WIFE GARBAGE AND HIS DAUGHTER GARBAGE IN THE GENTLEST SENSE OF THE WORD OMG HOW DID I FORGET ABOUT THIS IM NOT MAKING THIS UP OR ANYTHING

HEADCANON: XANXUS CALLS HIS ENEMIES AND THOSE HE HATES 'SCUM’ AND HE CALLS THE VARIA AND TSUNA AS 'TRASH’ BECAUSE THEIR ACTUALLY IN HIS 'PACK’ AND ITS THE CLOSEST HE HAS TO CALLING THEM SWEET NAMES

AAAAHHH

badmcnugget asked: i don’t even know who came up with dad!miles au but i’m having so many feelings about this (esp abt phoenix noticing the similarities, that one was mine btw accidentally hit anon oopS) i just really like dad miles what would their home life be like imagine him helping apollo with homework and watching the steel samurai together like apollo is not even as into it but he’s just so excited to spend time with his dad doing relaxing stuff

IM !!! YELLING !!!!!!!! this is like everything that is good and pure about the parent trap au except theres no bad divorce thrown into the mix there s just. apollo growin up w a supportive father and finding his own path either in careers or whatever else and miles encouraging him 100% along the way aND OH  NO DAD!MILES…..thinking he could never b a father the way gregory was to him but he iS HE RLY T RUL YIS. ..

anon said: Would Edgeworth ever have a scenario with Apollo after he adopts Apollo where he’s constantly called “Miles” or “Mr. Edgeworth”, and one day he’s just like “Please Apollo, you know you can address me as your father.” Or something like that.

abSOLUTELY especially if we’re going w anon’s timeline w/ 25 yr old miles adopting 14 yr old apollo im in such pain rn

anon said: okay but all this talk of Miles raising Apollo made me think of an au, like Miles adopts Apollo and Phoenix adopts Trucy when their mother dies and they move to other parts of the country but Apollo and Trucy meet at a camp for adopted kids and realize they’re brother/sister because they have the same biological mother. Phoenix/Miles meet through their children who start to spend time together and realize they know each other from school. They move in together “for the kids’ sake” and then date

iIIMM M M SC REMMMAMIINNG !!!!!!!!!!!! GI VE THIS TO ME GIVE ME SINGLE DAD P/E AND T/A ACTUALLY COMING TO GRIPS W THE FACT THAT THEY’RE HALF SIBS AND ONE BIG OL MESS OF A FAMILY AT THE END

scrapyardwings asked: Phoenix knew Lamimor and was Trucy and Apollo’s godparent and that’s why he came to have them so young. During Phoenix’s more gruesome cases Apollo stays at the prosecutor’s office with Edgeworth and becomes a favorite among the prosecutors. Franziska even buys him one of his first suits because no future son of her foolish brother will be seen in anything less than his best. (She also gives Trucy one of her whips)

;000000000000; ok so this is actually phoenix adopting both trucy and apollo at a young age buT STILL TH IS I SGOING IN HERE IM SO UPSET RN THIS IS SO GOOOOOOD

i havent said anything about this in a while and thats my bad but i want to say:

i am reeeaally not comfortable with talking about sexual stuff with people other than close friends, especially when ive never spoken to you before and you send me unsolicited nsfw/kink/personal stuff

im not trying to make anyone feel bad here i didnt make it known so thats on me

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tempestsonata asked:

Your Trashety, Snart has a husky named Admiral Peary. I just watched a video of a husky that went into a store and stole doggy treats and bones. What other adventures could these two have?

Oh God, Len training his dog to steal. This is it. The ultimate headcanon.

He probably uses the dog as a distraction when he goes on a particularly difficult heist. Distract people with a random cute dog while he gets in and out

OMG what if when Len has a bad day the dog goes out and steals stuff for him and brings it back? IM SO UPSET

What if the dog loves Mick, Lisa, and Len, but no one else? Like the dog always barks and growls at everyone else but when he meets Barry? He loves him! They’re probably in the middle of a fight when the dog runs up and starts jumping on Barry, licking his face.

Im so emotional, I need a minute.

anonymous asked:

your belly button ring is so cute!!! im planning to get one but im so scared. can you describe your experience and pain tolerance like does it hurt as bad as getting your ears pierced? thank you :D

oh man, I got it done when i was 16, so that was 6 years ago!!! honestly I don’t remember much, but I’m a pretty big wussy baby when it comes to piercings and needles and stuff and I was totally fine! it wasn’t a huge deal for me at all. I’ve had my nose pierced and that hurt WAY more

anonymous asked:

You are one of the few people on here that doesn't glorify everything Sansa does, and that's really refreshing. People are so eager to villainize Arya for what she's had to do during the war, but are totally gung-ho to forget Sansa's involvement with Arya's abuse and Ned's death.

oh well…….thanks lol. i know my can opinions be poorly received on this godforsaken site so its nice to know im not pissing everyone off. the entire fandom has a really big problem with canon tho. they like to isolate the moments that appeal to them (or support their nonsense) and ignore the stuff that doesnt. im biased too but i try to have some perspective at least. with sansa, specifically, its not like her childhood actions make her a bad person but they’re not irrelevant either. like both of those things are still being brought up in the text as of affc/adwd. but they dont work into the stan agenda so we’re all expected to ignore it. 

anonymous asked:

Hi! So in China and in Japan being an otaku is bad and not cool?? Its kinda weurd you know because here in Europe everyone in the anyme society proud of the "otaku" title

why did u assume that im from and represented these two huge asian countries’ cultures when you knew I was chinese lmao

anonymous asked:

@"unconventional kin" anon: oh my god i feel you so much on this. i kinda feel bad for minionkin after the recent minion hate and memes and all the advertising and stuff. i've seen minionkin on here before and i've seen people who scroll past thinking "lmao there are actually kin of minions" but that isn't funny at all and im just really sorry if you're someone who goes through that shit. i think all kin are valid and you are valid i promise. keep being rad.

Anywho this is Terapp and I actually modeled his horns after a triceratops. His quirk involves changing t’s to 3’s and changing “ii/II” or “ll” to “iii/III” or “lll”. He loves reading ancient things that happened in the past and has a knack for staying quiet and observing present things rather than participating. He loves seeing reactions and stuff as if he were watching some odd tv show, especially if its other trolls arguing or fighting. Though he isn’t afraid to be an instigator, and will even say short but rude sentences to piss others off. Because you know! The reactions are amusing to him. 

Also robot legs from below the knees and down :) 


oh man he’s cute, I SAW HIM BEFORE WHEN I WAS ON YOUR BLOG TOO! 
here’s some bad doodles. (im babysitting so i cant really focus uHu) 

But i love the whole “loves peoples reactions” thing, i really feel with that.

anonymous asked:

I keep getting these really deep gut feelings??? And I keep getting dreams about frerard and MCR, and idk if it means anything, but sometimes when I have dreams they come true and I've been auger edgy and nervous for no reason the past few days?? And not a bad nervous, more like a "OH MY GOD IM ABOUT TO SEE SOMETHING REALLY IMPORTANT" nervous, and I'm just ??

look i just hope you’re mcfucking right ‘cause if i die without seeing MCR live, i will come back from the dead to haunt the shit out of them all. fucking assholes, they think they can save my life and then break my heart, and then save my life again with their solo stuff and then be shady and break my heart again. god, i love them.

i h8 seeing stuff thats like ‘oh ur so spoilt if u dont do chores’ bc im terrible n too disabled to do more than a few chores n i cant do them on a regular basis n i already feel bad enough n my mom already tells me that all the time god