im turning 16 in 2 months

Sometimes I remember that Joshua Rush THE Joshua Rush™ is the same age as me and h's done so much in the same amount of time I've had...

Then i remember I’m turning 16 in 2 days… SO I HAVE MULTIPLE MORE MONTHS OF LIFE THEN HIM AND I HAVE NO EXCUSE EXECPT COLOR GUARD AND THEATRE TAKE UP MY LIFE.

anonymous asked:

age gap question - my girlfriend is 15, almost 16 and im 17. she turns 16 before i turn 18 but only a few months before so i'll always be 2 years older most of the year. we're in a ldr and we dont sext so we're not doing anything sexual but do i need to/should i break up with her after im 18?

Hi !

A 2 year age gap between partners can be seen as big, especially before you turn 18, but in your case it seems more than reasonable. Lesbians are not inherently preying on women ; i know it is something we need to remind ourselves from time to time. You two have been together for a little while now. The fact that you are asking yourself these questions tells me that you are concerned by your partner’s well-being and keeping the relationship consensual and safe.

There’s also the fact that for gay men and lesbians, since our dating pool is smaller, it’s less likely our partners are the same exact age as us. We’re talking wider than yours here, a lot wider. This can be exploited by the older person in the relationship and yes, it can turn into a toxic relationship, but it doesn’t always happen. If there’s good communication between both sides and both partners talk about what they need/want and the other listen, it can be healthy. 

I’d say that yes, the “ideal” would be to be with someone your age, but that that doesn’t mean any age gap at all would spell disaster as long as you keep communication open and the relationship is healthy, especially something that’s not that big an age gap like 16 to 18.

If you have any type of concerns, it would be best to talk to your girlfriend about them. The fact that you’re worrying about this tells me you care about her and are on the right path, so no, you shouldn’t break up with her. Just keep good communication open and trust each other to be able to talk about any problems that might arise because of the age gap

Mod C & Mod M :D

To all of the sjws and special snowflakes let me tell you a story

I was born a poor kid from two drug addicts.
At age 9 i was raped and beaten over the course of months.
At age 11 i tried methamphetamine for the first time.
At age 12 i made my first attempt on my life
At age 14 i realized I am pansexual
By age 16 i had made 9 attempts on my life, 4 more would follow inthe next 2 years
At age 17 I was institutionalized and diagnosed with schizophrenia and severe depression.
Im turning 20 in a few months. My life has gone on a massive uphill track because i have made a decision to better myself, and utterly reject my beginings.

Your skin color, your sexuality, your gender, your social status, and your former adversities are just hurdles for you to better yourself.
As soon as you sit back and expect better treatment for something you were born with/without, you have given up. Get your lazy ass up and better your life. No one else should have to do it for you.
I know it gets hard, but damnit you just have to push on.


LIFE IS NOT FAIR
WE ARE NOT CREATED EQUAL
WE SHOULD NOT EXPECT TO BE TREATED DIFFERENTLY BECAUSE OF WHERE WE CAME FROM. THIS GOES FOR BOTH NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE TAKES.