im trying!!!!!!

Les Chevaliers…

i honestly get so frustrated seeing karamels being like “omg he made her breakfast in bed!!!! so abusive *sarcasm* lmaooo @ antis!!” 

because guess what? abusers aren’t abusive 24/7. my mum also cooks me really delicious meals and tells me she loves me every now an then, but that doesn’t change the fact that she hits me and acts like she owns me and guilt trips and manipulates and silences and yells at me basically every single day. not always all at once and sometimes really subtly, but she still does it. just like mon el. so can you please stop invalidating and making fun of abuse victims?

this is not intended to be hateful in any way, i’m literally just trying to get y’all to understand our point of view and stop treating this as some kind of joke.

4

“She went to visit your papa.”

oKAY BUT everyone would be at least double as upset with him because Gracia is an unarmed housewife and also Maes’ wife and everyone knows that they’re literally made for eachother and that she’d never kill him but Roy ‘burned her to death’ despite the few evidences there are and that’s just??? not to mention that he technically ‘turned Elicia into an orphan’

Personal Update Ahoy!

Hello all, it’s your friendly neighborhood Bully, here to just info-dump about my life and progress right now! 

:( The bad news: My depression took a sharp downturn (cant get out of bed, cant eat, etc), Finals are steadily approaching, my contract with Universal costuming expired so I’m technically unemployed, my renter’s lease ends in two months so I need to find new lodgings, and I’m still fighting writers block.

(Whew, isnt that fun to type out all in one place!)

:) The good news: My doctor put me on anti-depressants and referred me to a therapist which I will be seeing once a week, my heart condition is stable, and my cats are healthy.

I know I haven’t been posting as much as usual- I really wanted to participate more in Femslash Feburuary and MLM March- but the “pls update!” messages combined with all the ~fandom nonsense~ that has been rearing it’s ugly head these past few weeks have made it hard to stay active in the ML fandom. Dont get me wrong, I still want to contribute, but I’ve decided a bit of distance is necessary for my mental health. Hopefully I will become more active when season two rolls around!

That being said, I’m still going to be updating @miracusims regularly, since it is my happy, drama-free fandom space. This blog will still have the occasional shitpost or au idea thrown about. As for fics… my update schedule really depends on when I get the motivation/time to write, or when my depression clears up enough for me to do so. Right now I have the most progress done on the next tlatb chapter, but DD isn’t far behind. Sugar is… on hiatus until I re-evaluate where I want the story to go, and roommate au is more of a “write when I feel like it” story. 

Thanks for sticking by me ya’ll, it means the world <3

clueless   .     guys   .     guys   .     guys   .     i  haven’t  done  this  in  a  while   ,   so  let  me  just  say  a  huge    THANK  YOU    to  everyone  i  follow    /    who  follows  me    ————-    honestly   ,   tumblr’s  been  such  a  place  for  me   ,   for  my  writing   .     it’s  a  hellhole   ,   yeah   ,   but  i’ve  met  such  amazing  people  on  this  site  that  i  don’t  think  i’ll  be  leaving  soon   .     anyways  i  hit  my  biggest  milestone  to  date    &    i’m  pretty  excited   .     this  is  my  third  time  playing  nancy    &    i’ve  never  played  her  for  long   ,  or  met  so  many  wonderful  people   .     so  yeah   ,   this  is  the  ol’  bias  list   ,   where  i’m  gonna  list  people  i  love    &    admire  below    :     (     if  i  didn’t  add  you   ,   i’m  super  sorry    !     )

@adawomant   ,   @alleyspat   ,   @presdnt   ,   @fellvaguely   ,   @1sthero   /   @nightsavior   ,   @nexusbeing   ,   @viduamor   ,  @vivamerica   /   @mayaecho   ,   @beastologist   /   @valorhalla   ,   @ichorslain   ,   @valorslain   ,   @kryptonien   /   @codefying   /   @flareworks   ,   @profiling   ,   @bowstruck   ,   @redlocked   ,   @reparate   ,   @frystsnow   ,   @funeralpolished   ,   @girlruin   ,   @gingerspect   ,   @guttersniper   ,   @bleusilk   /   @gildedoll   ,   @sunbruise   ,  @sunworn   ,   @sagacit   ,   @elclest   ,   @ensavaged   ,  @batfright   ,   @rubiedred   ,   @ruinwrapped   ,   @trigonkin   ,   @trckster   /   @keeperisk   /   @swanlimbs   /   @hekateheir   ,   @pygmyboy   /   @sylphboned   ,   @properlycool   ,   @scottiish   ,   @emmorte   ,   @lacecrown   ,   @sansavis   /   @mousaie   ,   @spunstories   ,   @spelmans   ,   @treepined   ,   @testicleleft   ,   @godcoded   ,   @empathyeatings   ,   @vrooms   ,   @meddlingheels   ,   @mysterynerd   ,   @madeleventh   ,   @mysterysolved   ,   @murderchased   ,   @ignte   ,   @ironarmored  ,  @legacyappetite   ,   @telepaf   ,   @lovedfalling   ,   @lacirate   ,  @blindlaw   ,   @deiforme   /  @maskedpride   ,   @searisen   ,   @seacursed   ,   @thousandseye   ,  @stardour   ,   @dangerknocking   ,   @cherryproduct   ,   @carriedatlas   ,   @citysaviour   ,  ,@wagingheart   ,   @highnis    ,   @profiling   ,   @ofvaliancy   ,   @cryoconquer

Local boy still not over Naruto ending for like the third time.

Sonic Boom makes me so happy. I know it’s not a perfect show but it makes me feel like a kid again. Back to when I was so happy all the time and would laugh at the smallest jokes. Honestly thank you so much at the creators for making me feel like that all over again. I really needed it.

HIATUS ANNOUNCEMENT!

so i’m…a very poor planner and didn’t realize my trip to yosemite would run into my potential grad school visit to boston, so that’s gonna run up my time being totally absent to like Announcement levels so here it is! i’m gonna be gone from MARCH 31st - APRIL 10th. i might still lurk when i’m in boston, but yosemite i have 0 signal so i won’t be able to receive or see any kinds of messages. but ya !! no one should let me plan trips !!

anonymous asked:

there's literally nothing wrong with having stevonnie as ur icon omsbdkf dating doesn't have to be sexual and being nb isn't strictly an adult thing?? kids their age can date and be nb?? can anons stop being gross by sexualizing nb ppl thx

^^^