PSA: DON’T USE FLASH!!!! TO TAKE PHOTOS!!!!! IN MUSEUMS OR GALLERIES!!!!!!!
so i was in front of Van Gogh’s Starry Night at the moma yesterday and this girl in front of me took a picture with the flash on (WHICH YOU DONT DO!!! EVER!!! BECAUSE FLASH IS TERRIBLE FOR PAINTINGS!!!! THERE WERE SIGNS EVERYWHERE SAYING NOT TO USE IT!!!!)
so i said “hey, dont use flash”
AND THIS MOLDY ASSBABY turns around, gives me the dirtiest look, takes ANOTHER photo WITH HER FLASH ON and fucking!!!! walks!!!! away!!!!!! and ive never come so close to beating the ever living shit out of someone before in my life.
Starry NIght is one of the most important, beloved works of art IN THE WORLD and youre such a entitled piece of shit that you risk damaging it just to get a fucking photo??????? and you know what? it doesnt even matter that it was starry night, ANY piece of art deserves to be shown safetly. just because an artist isnt famous doesnt mean you get to put their work in jeopardy. art is so fucking imporant to our histories and cultures, to our very humanity, and it makes me furious when people dont respect it.
this has been a psa from an angry art history student thank you and remember to turn off your flash
EDIT: I’m adding this because if I get one more ask about how im a fucking pretentious art student who shouldnt assume everyone knows about this im gonna rip my hair out. even though I’ve added it before, I didnt know that it wasn’t common knowledge not to use flash, so sorry for assuming, even tho its a rule at almost every art museum in the world, whatever.
Also while im at it, im now aware that the exact amount of damage is debated. didnt know when i posted this. im not taking any fucking chances on it, but go ahead if you want to, im not your mother.
hey if youre a disabled person who doesnt like making jokes about their illness or like hearing other people make jokes about your illness, its okay and youre still valid.
if you have to hear people say unfunny comments about your struggles or pain and try to excuse it with “i have other disabled friends who are completely fine with jokes about their illness”, “its better to laugh than to cry” or “ youll have to get used to it, youre gonna be sick the rest of your life”, im really sorry and you shouldnt have to put up with that.
you are the only person who gets to decide whether youre okay with certain jokes/jokes at all about your illness, no one but you.
youre not overly sensitive or boring for not wanting to poke fun at something awful that is happening to you.
please come @ anyone tryna make that decision for you, your illness has already taken so much away from you, dont let anyone else take anything else away.
HELLO! Are requests still open?!? If so could u please do some headcannons for Jumin, Zen, and V where their s/o stays up late every night doing work and they can't seem to catch a break? (lots of fluff and cute things? *hint* ) I'm completely jammed with homework rn cuz one of my teachers just gave us our books for a class that starts next semester but expects us to have a bunch of work completed by the first day of the class?! sorry for ranting! I hope u r doing great and have a beautiful day!
yes!!! i love this request so much and im very happy to finally write it!!! thank you for this
i hope u dont mind, but in these hc’s they live with their s/o!!!
his keeps reminding MC that its bad for their skin to stay up so late, and staying up always leads to late night snacking
he’ll usually stay up late with them anyway
“Zen, i can tell you’re tired, and the condition of your skin is more important than mine anyway”
Zen would be sitting at MC’s desk with them, head resting on the table
“i dont care about my skin! what if i go to bed and you get lonely?”
“i wont get lonely”
he would sit up and wrap his arms around MC, then talk with a little whine in his voice
“yes you wooouuulllddd”
“stop trying to convince me to go to bed, because i’m not going to sleep until you are!”
20 minutes later, Zen is asleep with his head on the desk
“Zenny? wake up. i really think you should go to bed”
Zen sleepily shifts himself, placing his head right in front of MC to interrupt their work
“fiiine, but you have to come with me”
his voice is like a sleepy whine and its so cute
the next day when its time for MC to get started on work he begs them not to
he’s up late working a lot too
him and MC will work together in his study, sitting at the same desk and holding hands while they work
Jumin always begs MC to go to bed at a decent time, but they just respond with “i will when you will”
sometimes while they’re working Jumin will get up and leave the room without explanation
he returns a few minutes later, draping a soft blanket over MC’s shoulders
sometimes MC will fall asleep while they’re working and wake up in bed next to Jumin
because he carries them back to bed when they fall asleep!
he rarely goes to bed first because he’s a seasoned business man who is used to staying up late working
sometimes he gets distracted by MC and will just stare at them while they work
“Jumin? dont you have something you should be doing?”
“oh, hmm? sorry…i just think you look cute when you’re tired”
tells MC all the time that he’s amazed at how hard they work
“you really are incredible”
“im not incredible, im a procrastinator”
“well I think youre amazing”
he stays up with MC, too
he usually makes warm tea for both of them
V knows MC shouldnt have caffeine at this time of night, but if they’re going to insist on working late they should at least have some tea~
V falls asleep on the couch while MC is working
he’ll wake up half an hour later, rubbing his eyes and yawning
“hey sweetheart, are you still working?”
he stretches and walks over to MC, wrapping his arms around them to hug them from behind
“i think you work too hard~”
“its all thanks to your tea”
“wont it be time to quit soon?”
he keeps falling asleep on the couch, he wont go to bed without MC
THANKS FOR READING!!! I REALLY REALLY HOPE YOU LIKE IT
ahh im so tired of seeing white people being glorified for stealing poc roles lmao…… and im so tired of white people being cast to play poc characters…. im tired of seeing healthy and positive poc representation being stolen left and right and im tired of people trying to excuse it or guilt trip people who are actually affected by this into accepting this kinda stuff. Its not actual rep and we shouldnt be happy w it or accept anything. its time people understand that representation REALLY fucking matters and this half assed attempt to represent us isnt shit. I dont wanna see white people pretending they understand or they live in the reality i live, fuck that. Cast actual poc. Its not that hard.
why i hate the words, "i hope you get better soon"/"i hope youll be healed up soon" as someone with a chronic illness
so, the obvious answer here is that chronically ill means that i wont get better but, theres a lot more to this.
yes, i get that people who say this to chronically ill peeps tend to have good intentions and i know they dont mean to sound ignorant, but the problem is that when they say this, all it proves is that they ARE ignorant, and so are their words, no matter how well intentioned they might be.
i also hate it because it reminds me that im not getting better, and that people dont care enough or generally dont know enough to acknowledge that, so them trying to be comforting, telling me that “itll be okay soon” and “they hope i get better soon” is a lot like giving me a tissue to wipe off spit on my face, but they didnt realize that that tissue is also covered in spit.
like, thanks, the intention is nice and all but it doesnt help and it can make me feel worse. idk if im making sense but honestly im tired of being told that people are just trying to be nice so i should deal with it, like, how about i talk to them and try to make them understand why its not the best thing to say.
i want to tell them that it makes me uncomfortable, that im not sure how to respond because what i was ignorant and frustrating but because they didnt mean to be rude i should just let it be? nah my guy, listen, theres a ton of things you can say that would help, like “im sorry you have to go through that, you shouldnt have to” or “i dont know what to say, but i wish i did” or literally anything else
cause honestly when you say “i hope you get better soon” or “i bet youll be healed in no time”, all youre doing is showing how little you know about my issues and my struggle, because often a part of my struggle is knowing that i wont get better.
what she means:
its september again and i still havent gotten a hogwarts letter and i know i shouldnt have my self esteem reliant upon a fictional school's fictional acceptance letter that i know rationally will never come but its such a worry anyway and i cant control this insatiable wish to go and
I feel really sorry for those with intestinal issues like IBD, IBS or anything like that because it feels like theyre unabled to talk about their issues because its considered “gross” or too “inappropriate”.
or worse, people think that theyre entitled to know what the illness does to them, even if they dont want to talk about it.
theyre either taught that talking about their illness is disgusting or theyre taught that they shouldnt have privacy, that theyre not allowed to say no.
I just really wanna say im sorry to those who have to go through that, because you are not gross and you deserve to talk about your issues as much as you want or to not talk about your issues at all.
you are not gross for having an illness that has to do with your stomach, you should never be ashamed or embarressed to have medical issues.
talking about your issues is not inapropriate.
not wanting to talk about your issues does not make you mean, or rude, it makes you a person who wants their privacy.
You deserve the right to vent and rant and educate
you also deserve the right to privacy.
you are strong
you are important
and you shouldnt never have to feel guilty or apologize for having a medical issue, no matter what that issue is.
sorry if this doesnt sound that good, or if im not explaining well, i hope this comes out well tho.
Hello! If it don't bother you and you have some time for it, would you mind drawing Natsu x Lucy dancing? Or maybe Natsu x Lucy in suit and dress? Whichever you want :D Have a nice day!
I tried to do both but I dont know if it worked out! It’s currently a little after 2am and I;ve been up since 6am so my quality control is a little…something else right now! But yeah thanks for the request! Have a good morning/day/night! I;m sorry for the wait!
these screenshots are weird, im “haruka” in all of them because theyre taken from vinces phone. i didnt have these screenshots because my phone broke recently and i lost all my old convos. karma is “unknown” in some of them because he deleted his kkt and remade literally so people couldnt screenshot him. notice how every screenshot is IN FULL, no weird selective cropping or suspiciously out of context things. you can ask for more screenshots regarding anything, or more context. we have all these conversations in full and can give you whatever