im so tired but i wanted to post this

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names get carved in the red oak tree
of the ones who stay and the ones who leave

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The look of utter horror on Dan Stevens’ face when the journalist said she saw the suit

+ bonus gif

Being nonbinary is nothing to be ashamed of. You don’t have to be bursting with pride, ready to shout it from the rooftops if that’s just not who you are, but nor should you have to hide it, keep it tucked away. It’s a part of you, big or small, and you shouldn’t have to worry about life being complicated because of it, or what other people may think.


You do you. Be nonbinary. Pin the flag to your wall, or just whisper it to yourself in the middle of the night. Lead rallying cries for nonbinary support groups, or just reblog nb posts on tumblr. Be nonbinary, whatever and however that means for you.

im so…tired of “love wins” and “love is love” being the #1 talking point in lgbt+ acceptance campaigns. for one thing, as this post points out, it completely excludes trans people who are lgbt+ because of their gender, not because of who they love

but also….i feel like i’m lgbtqia+ because of who i am not because of who i love, or who i might love in the future. i want people to accept me for who i am, and because this is a part of me, not because of who i love. 

the people i love don’t define me, i define me, and i dont want people to accept me because they think my relationship is worthy of respect. i want people to respect me because they think that i am worthy of respect, no matter who i date, who i love, who i have in my life. 

there he is, that space defending dude keith

this is a long, heavy post, but ive wanted to make it for a while. i hope if you or someone you know has been in an abusive situation, it may help.

when you are abused, the true ramifications of this abuse do not manifest themselves until you are much older.

when you are abused (in any form) as a young person, your first gut instinct will be to turn down therapy/counselling. you might do this because you do not feel you need it, or you do not want to talk about what happened. you need to push past this.

when we experience abuse as young people, we may feel like it was ‘no big deal’. we may compare ourselves to other victims and feel that we are not as bad as them, so that means we are okay. you may feel okay. you may be a young person reading this right now, thinking ‘well, i feel okay.’

i know you do. we all feel like that we’re younger.

you will get older and your untreated abuse will manifest in your life, your body and your emotions. you may develop terrible habits. your body may start to react in strange ways. you may have to struggle with seemingly unexplained bouts of nausea and vomiting as a reaction to ‘normal’ events that have connections to your abuse. you may develop mental health issues and will not understand why. you may grow angry and withdrawn, or deeply depressed for seemingly no reason.

then on one terrible night, you will connect the dots and realise that although you felt invincible as a young person, your abuse affected you.

if therapy is offered to you or you can find it, go to it. abuse does not go away or magically resolve itself. no amount of pretending you are okay will take away what happened. it may hurt to revisit our old wounds, but it is the only way to heal.

it is never to late to heal. if you are an adult who refused therapy and you are struggling, get yourself there, find help, and heal. and if you are a young person reading this, please strongly consider therapy, even if you do not feel you need it.

even if you feel like your abuse did not affect you, let people in. give yourself the chance to heal. do not let your abuser take even more of your life than they already have.

let yourself heal.

like im sure you’re very proud of your wall of text about your own journey to discovering that you’re too smart for  and personally ‘Tired of’ the humor in cool games inc or whatever other projects this guy was involved in but you know that uh….. thats so staggeringly far from the issue here? this isnt a scandal about your taste in youtube videos or podcasts women were victimized by this guy and have to live with it i sooooooooo don’t want to hear your text post dissertation on the troubling emergence “McElroy Culture” or whatever the fuck unless its truly, earnestly, purely, & un-egoistically intended to actually help prevent harassment like this from happening in the future 

pd101 boys as boyfriends

i’m only doing a few aka my faves. if you want to request someone you don’t see, hit me up <3

im youngmin

  • insists on walking you to your door after a date
  • ur whole family loves him
  • super smily around you
  • randomly says things like “you look really nice in this lighting”
  • when y’all say goodbye, he doesn’t let go of ur hand
  • will talk to you on the phone all night

ong seongwoo

  • is dumb
  • but u still luv him
  • “i seriously forreal very a lot really really really… love you”
  • supports you in everything you do
  • your cheerleader
  • switches places with u so he can walk on the part of the sidewalk that’s closer to the street

park woojin

  • tells you to change when u wear a something that more than three inches over your knees
  • “dont you have pants?”
  • “these are my longest pairs of shorts and it’s hot outside”
  • “let’s just stay inside then…”
  • falls asleep while facetiming

jung sewoon

  • writes u songs
  • will run to u in the middle of the night to listen to a new song he made
  • cant romance
  • awkward in public; less awkward in private
  • looks at you lovingly
  • sings “ponyo ponyo ponyo~” a lot
  • probably the type to give backhugs <3

kim jonghyun

  • likes to rest his head on ur shoulders a lot
  • says things like “ur so beautiful. i’m a zero compared to u”
  • and ur like ?/ ?¿¿¿????//¿¿?// ¿dafuq u mean boy?
  • treats u to ice cream
  • wipes ur hands clean when the ice creams melts
  • forehead kisses

kim yongguk

  • plays with ur hands a lot
  • sings u to sleep
  • omg so he’ll be big spoon and he’ll also be singing and you can feel the vibration from his chest on ur back while cuddling im livid
  • gets shy when he sees u wear his clothes
  • buys matching socks
  • ur so confused by him bc one second he’s fLAMING HOT HOT HOT and then 0.1 seconds later he’s giggly and cute like ? ?¿?
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i just like drawing jimin (photo cred)

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“the gems’ palettes are so oversaturated and gross looking now !!!! it’s terrible show design !!!” 

steven universe is actually great with color design and utilizes a lot of specific color palettes for specific SETTINGS. it does so much better with varied palettes than most shows out ive watched (and there’s a LOT). 

what you’re complaining about here is the day palette or “default colors”. don’t quote me on the terminology there. this is what they look like without specific lighting hitting them it’s just white light that;s the point of the day palette i’m sorry charlie please stop crying 

“BUT LAPIS’ OCEAN GEM PALETTe??!!?!”

“peridot’s warp tour palette ????????”