I just wanted to let you know that i look up to you. Ya see. My parents kinda dont understand or like the whole trans thing so it sucks for me. But when i see you posting i get really happy because you give me hope. Sorry for the long ask. I hope you have a great day.
Hey there!!! Omg this makes me feel??? sO GOOD??? fuck im so glad my lame tumblr where i mostly talk about being gay for dirk is able to help you out!!!!
A thing about being trans that I think about a lot is how people always talk about how it’s “never going to go away.” like. “lol are u sure u want to make this Decision to be trans??? its going to Haunt you for the Rest Of Your Life, and never go away, are you suuuure???” and ok im sure all of us here can understand why its not a decision and also not a ghost cause ghosts r the only things that have any business haunting my ass. But the fact of the matter is thats RIGHT, it DOESNT ever go away, like of course it doesnt go away. what kind of logic is that. What does happen is that it gets so much better!!!!!!!!!! I think a lot of parents don’t understand that, because we get to know other trans people and see other trans people grow and be happy and successful. But if your parents aren’t exposed to the Gay Medias, they never get to see that. and they may even think trans people dont exist in the real world. :(((( I remember before coming out I was so terrified my parents would not understand and tell me it was a phase and stuff (which didnt happen thank god my parents rock u guys) but like??? no matter how much they like to think they do, your parents dont actually know you better than you do. YOU know you best. cause u spend 24 hours a day being yourself every single day, u know???
anyways WHOOPS I RAMBLED but i just wanted to say this is so sweet and i think its so important to have hope and remember that like!!!! the trans experience is not perpetual invalidation and shitty parents!!! there are other great things in store for you like happiness and fuckin uhhhh, all the cool friends u will meet over the course of your Whole Life. hope is real and i love good things. that is all I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ANON!!!!!!!!!