im not really sure what i was doing

anonymous asked:

uhh wow a lot of people want bts to perform at the super bowl...but why idk im just not up for putting up w the same hate they got from bbma again. and it may be an honor for American artists but it's probably not that important to bts so asking them to fly over to perform for sth that they wouldn't rly care abt is...dumb to say the least. what do you think, Sarah?

Ugggggghhh thats a complicated subject bc many ppl dont share the same opinion
But personally I think the same;;; BTS got so much disgusting racist comments at a music event so i dont even want to think about whats going to happen at a sport event.
Also im pretty sure BTS doesnt really care about the Super Bowl?? I mean I can be wrong but they dont seem like they are really into american football (or whatever it is im not from the us lol). So yeaaaaah

anonymous asked:

I think I really fucked up my life. I am a non trad who decided to pursue medicine after undergrad. I had a poor 2.6 undergrad gpa as a non-science major. I took all my science pre reqs and came out with a 3.2 cum science gpa. Not spectacular I know. I spent too much of my time working to make sure I was able to pay undergrad loans and bills. Now Im 4 years out, Ive taken the MCAT 3x now, and I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like such failure. Do you have any advice for me?

people are not failures. people fail, but it is what they learn from it and what they do afterwards that makes them who they are.

knowing ONLY what you have told me about your path, i would say that it may be time to think very critically about what it is that you want out of a career that you believe you will get out of medicine. getting a medical school spot is a rare and elite accomplishment, but it is NOT an achievement in itself. and that is not to take anything away from the people who have gotten into medical school, but to give you some perspective.

the path to happiness is not a ladder, where if you can’t make it up one rung, you can’t get to the top. it’s a jungle gym. there are many paths to fulfillment. and i would say that, objectively, for you, the path you’re on is not taking you to a good place. you are still young, you can still figure things out, and there is no shame in taking a different path that is better for you.

you can still win. you can still help people in a meaningful way and you can still be a respected person and you can still do whatever it is you believe that being a doctor is. but medicine IS a ladder, and if you can’t make it up the ladder, i’d suggest switching to the jungle gym.

and i say this, of course, as a ladder-jumper. the jungle gym is not that bad. it’s actually a lot funner, and more humane, and i’m still trying to help the people on the ladder :)

anonymous asked:

So I once had a dream that I was spy for a restaurant and I was trying to take pictures of a competitor's food items but I was also trying to date the competitor's main waitress. I woke up the minute she caught me taking a pic of the ratatouille. What do you think this means? Should I make a real life career choice? Is there a life in the business of spies??

im pretty sure being a spy requires like alot of extensive training and you cant really apply to be a spy.. it’s like how the CIA recruits people, you have to be chosen.. at least thats what i think

but that sounds like a very vivid dream haha

anonymous asked:

So- i like to consider myself a bisexual panromantic, but im not sure if that is actually a thing, like???? I like saying it and it makes me feel good but idk, can i be bisexual and panromantic??? And then im gender flued and prefer him/her so like??? What do i refuer to myself as?? And does it count being bi if im only atracted to girls and feminine boys??? Like all boys are amazing but i only really like fem ones and like???? Idk???

YO, BUDDY. BREATHEEEEE. IF YOU’RE COMFORTABLE CALLING YOURSELF A PANROMANTIC BISEXUAL THEN BY ALL MEANS DO IT. Labels are about what feels comfortable for you, use what you like!! Don’t stress so much. 💓💓

anonymous asked:

idk if u know anything about astrology or care but i myself have been Cursed with a scorpio moon so i can supposedly be inclined to manipulate others and im also really afraid of doing so and tend to get accused of it (whether those claims are true or not). i just wanted you to know that i can relate (at least a bit) to your situation. its the scariest thing when others make you doubt yourself, but im sure ur intent is pure and imo thats the most important thing. hoping ull feel better! <3 <3 <3

i actually don’t know much about astrology (tho out of curiosity i looked it up and apparently my moon sign is gemini which idk what that means or if it’s accurate tbh), but i relate in the sense that i have bpd and that’s another one of those “you’re inherently manipulative” things orz i’m sorry to hear you can relate though it’s an icky feeling snbfhsnjs

anonymous asked:

i gotta ask because im 100% sure one of you is playing the dream daddy game.. question is... if you dont get this question pls check it out its rlly great i havent slept last night because of it and if you do know what it is.. who did you date first? im really curious (for all admins)

HOLY FUCKING SHIT DREAM DADDY HAS ME FUCKED UP MAN, I DATED ROBERT FIRST THO BUT WTF IS THIS GAME I’M LIKE A JOSEPH CONSPIRICY THEORIST THO

(I would lay down my life for both Craig and Hugo so far ngl tho)
-Ryou Hyung ♡

how to study as a busy student

i personally go through this a lot because i have to balance saturday band, honor band, auditions, performances, history club, national history day with school and nonexistant friends. so here u go, friend!! this is my advice to keep up with your (busy) studying!! ha see what i did there im so funny

1. have a planning system. this is a no-brainer. but honestly you’re going to need something to help you keep track of all your deadlines AND your afterschool activities. it doesn’t have to be expensive or fancy; heck it can even be on your phone. but make sure you’re keeping track of everything.

2. use all the time you can to do your homework. if you’re really behind or you have a lot of homework and not enough time to do it at home, do your homework when you can during school. this does NOT mean trying to set the world record for fastest writer while your teacher is collecting the homework. this means on the bus, waiting for your food/the bus/your friends, those down periods during and between classes, during sports practice, and even during lunch. however do NOT make a habit of this!! i get that its a lot, but please still try to have a life!!!

3. set aside a day a week to solely catch up on school work, and another day just to relax. i usually have saturday as my school work day and sunday as my day to relax and prepare for the week. this may seem contradictory, seeing as you may have sports practice or rehearsal on saturday or something. but think of it this way: you’re already going to be working your butt off that day. you might as well keep that flow going and get all your school work together and catch up on any missing assignments. you can also use that sunday off as your motivation to work hard because youre being rewarded with a completely free day.

4. do your homework on friday. please. just do it. this kind of follows the same concept as above: you have school that day anyways, so keep working your hardest. now, if you have no friends like me, this’ll be easy. but if you have plans on fridays (which you should, seriously, go out), stop working 1-2 hours before you have to go somewhere. you can continue any work you havent completed on your catch-up day.

5. drop one or two things. this sounds really painful!!! but being in a lot of extracurriculars and having a nice application/resume is not as nice as your mental health. not being able to balance too many things at once will stress you out and make you sick. like, i used to be in drama club and i also had piano class on wednesdays. once i got older, i realized that these things looked nice on my honor society application, but i didnt have time for what really mattered. (plus i didn’t rly like them anyways.) if you can work your way around it, fine. but otherwise, keep the things close to your heart and drop what you absolutely don’t have time for.

6. if worst comes to worst, talk to your teachers. they will understand, if you’re struggling to be a well-rounded student and keep up your grades at the same time. this doesn’t mean lie or use your teachers as an easy way out. but rather, if everything becomes too overwhelming, talk to someone.

i really hope that helped @ the original anon who asked me this question! sorry this was so late! i’m quite the busy student myself hahaha

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throwback to that one time Spencer tried to drag Aleks into the ocean and Aleks turned into a fucking pro wrestler

Inspired by @trashootie and their glowing Ahsoka.

It’s one of the first pieces where I discovered them, and I am so grateful! I hope you’re doing well, my friend!

anonymous asked:

I love your drawings but some of your characters aren't very accurate. Especially with Lin you should pay more attention to his features.

oh no i cant believe ive been subjecting you all to low quality lins this entire time 

from now on my blog will be only the most accurate high quality lins dont you worry

anonymous asked:

What if by some Kryptonian tradition kara marries Lena but doesn't know how to tell her.

“yeah hey kara so im just calling,”

“alex please, im really busy”

“sure sure sure but listen are you done BROODING? im watching you BROOD on national television the people are freaking out because you’re sitting on top of that building and catching lightning like are you done? is it over? what’s going on?”

“…i married lena.”

“okay, well,”

“and she doesn’t know.”

“unexpected turn.”

“what?”

“what.”

“what do you mean?”

“what do YOU mean?”

“i mean we accidentally fulfilled the seven steps of courtship and my marriage sign appeared this evening. what do you mean?”

“oh. accidentally?”

“YES.”

“huh. well i guess it’s not how i expected it to happen but im not all that surprised. how did she take it?”

“…”

“im calling mum.”

“no!”

“kara danvers you get your butt over there and tell her or mum is going to get a call. my thumb is over the button. it’s descending, it’s descending,”

“im going!!”

so lots of people have been asking me my thoughts on laci green’s “red pill” stuff recently. some, in an accusatory way (”why aren’t you a good feminist like laci green?”) and some in a confused way (”help im not sure how to process this”).

i’ve largely avoided commenting on it publicly for personal reasons. i dont like talking about individuals instead of ideas anyway, but there was just some stuff going on for me irl that made me not want to comment on this specifically.

but, at this point, i think laci is doing enough harm that it’s worth publicly saying that i really don’t like what she’s doing or how she’s doing it. i could go into a whole like in-depth thing examining every single point in her two “red pill” videos and analyzing her tweets because there’s a lot to unpack, but honestly that’s not worth my time because it won’t convince anyone of anything. people who want to support her are going to support her, and vice versa for those who don’t. i’ve had my arguments about it already and it’s tired and boring.

as an overarching critique, though, all i will say is that she doesn’t need to 1) throw other feminists under the bus or 2) befriend people who engage in online harassment.

you might not think she’s throwing anyone under the bus, and you might not think the people she’s befriending engage in online harassment – but again, i’m not trying to convince anyone of that. that’s just how i see it.

myself and other feminist creators have gotten a lot of backlash for not being ~open to a dialogue~ like laci, and i don’t think she has done anything to defend us. i think she’s tweeted a couple times that “not every feminist has to debate like me” but then the rest of her rhetoric is full of “i hate how so many feminists refuse to engage in dialogue but don’t worry everyone i’m a good feminist”. and not only does that throw us under the bus but it makes the wildly inaccurate assumption that none of us have ever engaged with any competing ideas which is a beloved anti-feminist talking point but patently false. many of us engage with these ideas, just not in the form of livestreamed debates. we’ve had our arguments, we’ve spent hours arguing over the same points, we’ve wasted our time trying to convince people of things they refuse to accept.

it’s just that she seems more interested in pandering to anti-feminists, complimenting them, and making them feel good than she does protecting the people who are at the receiving end of anti-feminist harassment campaigns.

and when people have said extremely horrible horrible things about me and my friends and tried to make our lives hell for months (or years), it hurts to see a large feminist youtuber like laci defending them and leaving me and other feminist youtubers out to dry.

i personally do not think engaging with anti-feminist ideas is a bad thing. contrary to popular belief, i talk to people with opposing viewpoints all the time (but riley you block people on twitter! yeah, conversations happen off twitter, fucking shocking i know right). but at some point, i’m just repeating myself. the arguments have been had. the points have been made. and i don’t have the money, the time, or the energy to devote 8 hours a day to arguing with anti-feminists. if someone else wants to do that, i think there’s a way to go about it that does not involve befriending anti-feminists or elevating small anti-feminists channels to a larger platform. engaging with the ~other side~ is not inherently bad – discussion and dialogue can be useful – but you have to be careful of the way in which you do it. one aspect of that is the difference between discussing privately and debating publicly. public debates are a spectacle, a show. they’re not conducive to learning or growing or conceding points. they’re conducive to proving you’re right and they’re wrong at all costs and being able to say you “owned” them the next day.

i think laci is approaching this in entirely the wrong way, and it seems to me that she has either fallen for a lot of bullshit anti-feminist talking points or is pretending to in an effort to get closer to them. either way, i think it’s kinda messed up.

anyway, that’s all imma say on the topic. the more we all talk about laci and hype up the little drama she has created, the more she profits from it and is incentivized to continue doing it. im done caring about this show she’s putting on, and i’ll continue doing the intersectional work she has abandoned.

Hello friends! i hope u understand me and treat it right. Excuse my for my
not very good english. I live in Moscow, Russia. And i have diagnosed sever AvPD and SAD (i’m not sure whigh one or if there’s a difference because russian system is different) Psychiatry in russia is terrible, i barely get any help. I really want to stay in moscow bc if i mov back to my shitty city where i don’t even have friends i will just have to kill myslef, i’ve already tried. I even fucking had sex for money and this gross. oh also im gay living in russia one of the most homophobic countries and so on, i’ve been trying to get a job since february but always got rejected. idk what to do :( I hate to do this but i have to ask you for some money. I hope someone who have some extra money will be down to share with me, because we are all people and not everyone got a xgood life so we have to help each other. you can ask me whatever i can do for it. i just will be so grateful if you send even just 1 dollar.

my paypal is adidas-goth@mail.ru

and also i have etsy shop https://www.etsy.com/ru/shop/RUSSIAGOTH I would be so happy if you donate or buy something, either way i’ll have to come back to my little town and i don’t even know what can happen, probably I will just have to kill myself since i have nothing to live off thank you very much, hope for your kindness

anonymous asked:

Hey Viria, sorry to bother you but this is something I really need to talk about with someone and your blog has always been a safe space to me. I'm turning 20 this year and I've never been in love, nor have I had a boyfriend/girlfriend before. I don't know, if I'm too picky or if my standards are to high, but I never felt something like a crush before. I don't know if it's normal but I really just want to feel having butterflies in my tummy. I don't know what to do or what is wrong with me.

there’s nothing wrong with you, please don’t think this way! 

There are few things I can offer about this:

- don’t feel alone if the insecurity you feel is connected to the age, you aren’t alone, there are so many young people in their twenties who hasn’t been in relationship before. Even for me, even though I had minor school crushes, I only had one relationship and it wasn’t serious and I now know it wasn’t love. So for me it happened when I turned 22.

- it might be that you feel the red flags about people and haven’t met someone you connect to yet. I know a few people who are close to their 20s but haven’t had crushes before, it’s normal too, we all are different.

- movies always make us feel like we have to be in love to be complete, because EVERY teenager is in love in the movies. They show the morally high educated girls and say they always have to be in love to be good. Don’t be too pressured by the movies; they aren’t real life.

- as for butterflies: they aren’t always good. I mentioned minor crushes I had: I used to have all the knees buckling, heartbeating too fast, and I have to say that it wasn’t the healthiest. With as much as I had of physical stuff happening, I could never even talk to that person. So..not feeling the butterflies, but feeling warm and cosy and content and just, very secure, is what I think matters more. Deep connection matters more. Attraction is important too, of course, but the physical stuff fades over time, bonding stays.

- THE LAST BUT NOT LEAST. Try looking up aromantiсism, asexuality, demisexuality. I am not the most educated person with this; but there are people who don’t feel romantic or sexual attraction towards others. There are people who need to really spiritually and mentally bond with someone to start being attracted to them. You might be aromantic or asexual or demisexual!

Hope it helps at least a bit, remember you aren’t alone and there are always people who feel the way you do! You will have it all figured out soon, don’t worry<3

Scream It Louder

Originally posted by jeonfhan

Character(s): Reader X Wonho, BestFriend!hyungwon

Genre: smut, slight sexual tension

Warning(s): jealous smut, slow build, praise!kink, rough sex

Length: 8.5 k words

A/N: For the anon that requested a wonho smut similar to the kihyun one. im sorry this ain’t really my best work, but yoooo Wonho got me feelin some type of way


You scrunch up your nose as you stand behind Hoseok, fingers digging into the hem of his shirt as he drizzles cheese onto the nachos.

“Are you sure you know what you’re doing?” You ask, eyeing the mess of salsa, ground beef, tortilla chips, and cheese on the baking sheet.

He groans, tipping his head back, “Of course I know what I’m doing. God, do I look like I’m 12?”

“Nah,” you respond, grinning cheekily, “More like 15. That awkward mid-puberty boy type of look.”

He swats his hand at your grip on his shirt, pointing the wooden spoon in his hand at the sofa.

“Go and sit and be quiet if you want any food,” he says, turning his attention back to the nachos.

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KAZUBISHA WEEK DAY 1: RED STRING OF FATE

What if…..they have their own plaques and kofuku also tied it


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HEY LOOK AT THIS THING I FOUND did you know an unfortunate events game exists

i found it at a thrift store and the instructions book is missing so im not really sure how you’re supposed to play it but it’s still Very Neat 

it looks like it’s mostly count olaf trying to kill the baudelaires’ guardian and them trying to invent, bite, or read things in order to find ways to stop him 

meanwhile mr. poe also exists. i have no IDEA what the poe player does

the count olaf cards do various things to sabotage the guardian 

and the baudelaires do clever things to stop him (the sunny cards are the best)

and there’s also cards with rooms on them but im not sure what those are for