im not going to tag everyone because thats annoying

anonymous asked:

Maybe if this group of people wasn't so hateful and disrespectful towards people close to the boys eveyhing would be different if Larries weren't so invasive and stop annoying people close in the boys lives they wouldn't react that way if you stop hating all the women they date if you stop calling the birth of Louis son baby gate idk if you ship them like everyone else ships meaning babies, family, friends and couples are off limits !!!

im going to copy some tags from the post thats got you well ticked off and then turn off my anon because 1) they’re good tags and 2) i dont have the time to deal with your shit and everyone elses today but i feel like you need to be educated because you’re obviously not getting it:

(bearing in mind these tags seem to be about gemma and my post was more a general thing, but it still applies)

#for a ship to be this ridiculed and dramatized by not only media but those related to them is incredibly mind boggling to me#in 2017#there are way way worse things going on in this world than a group of people on the internet believing a band member or your brother is in#a relationship with another band member#i’ve never gotten the dramatics from all sides#in any fanbase really#you are in control of how you act regarding something as insignificant as a ship on the internet#pick your battles and pick how you behave towards them#like i’ve always said if i were apart of a ship or my family member was i wouldn’t be going out of my way to trash it#it’s seemingly harmless just a nuisance#and for you to use your time when you could be doing anything else to talk down and belittle a group of people for believing something or#finding solace in something or creating beautiful pieces of literature of art because of something#then that shows your character not anyone else’s#it’s truly wild to see especially against larries#like get over it if it’s that big of a deal maybe you need to look at yourself and your values instead of throwing ableist slurs at someone#just because they think someone is gay#if thats the worst someone can say about you or your family member and you take it offensively then yikes#grow up man#*** and this is just coming at the situation generally not where it concerns managements and image clauses and iron closeting and contracts#etc etc etc

also… may i remind you anon that there are ziams and narries and xarries and hazoffs and lilos and like… EVERY OTHER SHIP out there doing the same fucking thing we do. obviously the obnoxious and annoying ‘larry’ on every post is not at all ideal and it would be fantastic if people just STOPPED with that shit.. but do NOT sit there and tell me that shipping is off limits when it involves babies and real couples etc because HELLO, why arent the ziams getting the same treatment? with apparently a baby involved? and the other ships who have real relationships? 

im not saying this because i want other the other sub-fandoms to get the same treatment as larries, i want NO ONE to get this treatment at all… but it just proves our point 100% that the treatment towards larries, after what like 6-7 years is just ridiculous when the other sub-fandoms are doing THE EXACT SAME THING… begs the question doesnt it?

now im going to ignore all of your name calling and general grossness but happily publish this to prove my exact point.