im furious!

anonymous asked:

Doesn't it get a little boring and repetitive to make every single character in every single musical gay for each other? Jeremy literally sings a whole song about how much he wants to date Christine, joins the drama club to get close to Christine, and gets a squid JUST so he could learn how to be cool so Christine would like him. I don't know but making characters that are canonically straight gay is weird to me??

alright, so i initially was just going to delete this ask or just block the person who sent it as i normally do whenever i get messages with underlying homophobia, but i’ve had a rough start today and it wouldn’t sit right with me if i didn’t say anything about this.

let me start off by saying that, no. it doesn’t get boring and repetitive. at all. and regardless of your intent behind the question (asking out of curiosity or to needle in), i’m offended by that question. as a queer person, hearing someone word it in a way that suggests that my life and the way i experience/feel things and that reflecting that onto a character is boring is genuinely one of the most hurtful things i’ve had said to me. the lack of queer representation in media is what’s boring and repetitive -  it’s for that exact reason that we (queer content creators) have to make our own queer representation for ourselves. it’s both exhausting and comforting, because a degree of control there.

straight erasure is not a thing. you have hundreds, thousands, millions of straight characters to pick and choose from - LGBT people only have a specific window of characters to relate to, and even then, a large majority of them are either tossed under the bus, written with their identity as comic relief, killed, or just plain terribly written (that being said, rich canonically being bi did genuinely make me tear up because i was so ecstatic over it). we don’t have a huge pool to choose from like straight people do, and a lot of us come from places where our identities are a source of conflict in our environment, and many of us find comfort in normalizing what we feel through characters.

you can headcanon a straight character’s sexuality as being gay. or bi. or lesbian, pan, demi, etc, etc - literally anything other than straight, because we don’t have a lot to choose from. you absolutely cannot, however, headcanon a queer character as straight, because that’s queer erasure - you’re erasing a subtype that already has next to nothing for it, and it’s homophobic. it’s a terrible thing to do. we’re not hurting anyone with our headcanons or content in the slightest. what we’re doing is enjoying ourselves freely and tossing in our own views and experiences, and it’s incredibly comforting to be a part of a community that’s so overly positive with it all.

as an addition to that - i feel like you’re misinterpreting this. you are aware that there are sexualities other than straight and gay, right? this is a part of the problem, too - people insisting that a character can’t be queer because of canonical attraction someone of the opposite gender.  you can be attracted to members of more than one gender. being queer is a spectrum, and people land all over the place on it.

that being said, part of what bugs me the most is your reaction to this. the cast and creators of B/M/C themselves have responded no less than wildly enthusiastic about the feeling and views people put behind the characters- and have stated as such. you have an issue with this while they don’t, and that makes me uncomfortable.

because the issue that you have right here? people headcanoning a character as queer and making content that’s harming literally no one, and you being hung-up on that because it messes with you viewing the character as straight?

that’s called homophobia, my guy. don’t know how else to break it to you.

i hope phils hairy totties were cold as he lay his meaty naked man shoulders on the table and allowed his exfoliated cheeks to rest upon the cool wood as gentle as a lovers embrace

okay full stop. fuck ryan getzlaf. fuck that. fuck it so much. at this point, there is no excuse, at all whatsoever, not that there would have been before. the use of homophobic slurs is unacceptable in any situation, for anyone, no matter who the fuck they are, how much they get paid, or how special they (and their fans) might think are.

How to make Frozen on Broadway better
  • Give Elsa an undefinable disability
  • Make Hans a priest
  • Change Anna into a ethnic dancer
  • Have Olaf be several voices inside Elsa’s head
  • Get rid of the magic
  • Put it in France
  • Specifically at Notre Dame cathedral
  • Actually just put Hunchback on Broadway

Im literally so furious why on EARTH would you hack a celebrity account with a HUGE FOLLOWING of young people to post a link to PORNOGRAPHY?!!?!! Like not only is that such a huge invasion of privacy and disgusting tinhatting on a whole new level but do you not fucking understand how PROBLEMATIC THIS CAN BE FOR HARRY???!!


YOU ‼️📣HACKED‼️ 📣A ‼️📣CELEBRITY’S ‼️📣ACCOUNT‼️📣WITH‼️📣A ‼️📣HUGE ‼️📣YOUNG ‼️📣FOLLOWING‼️ 📣TO ‼️📣POST PORNOGRAPHY‼️‼️‼️📣📣

if someone tells you that

  • your depression/anxiety is a choice
  • your depression/anxiety can be cured if you just “control your mind”
  • it isn’t worth spending precious time being depressed/anxious and dismisses it
  • there’s an on and off switch in your head and you can choose to flip the switch at any time

RUN. BLOCK THEM. CUT THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE. TELL THEM TO SHOVE THAT BULLSHIT UP THEIR ASS AND FUCK THEMSELVES. you deserve better. i deserve better.

anonymous asked:

Hiiiii~ headcanon where mc's addicted to the dab and the rfa + minor trio's reaction?

A/N: *constant dabbing* (it’s almost like I can hear 626 shouting at me in the distance to stop) ~Admin 404


*YOOSUNG:

           -He’s a college student, he should know what the dab is

           - if not then he’s gon’ learn today

           -He’ll laugh when you do it unless the two of you are in an extremely crowded place

           -If strangers start staring, he gets really embarrassed!!

           -MC pls, those old people are judging us ;A;

           -He’ll join you every now and then for a pose, but usually just smiles at you

           -Sometimes you like to climb up on things and do the dab just so he can take a picture

           -But every time you do that though, he gets so worried?? Like what if yOU LOSE YOUR FOOTING WHEN YOU GO TO POSE AND FALL???

           -Honestly started to pick it up from you- meaning just out of nowhere, if something cool happens that he likes, he’ll dab

           - f CUK MC LOOK AT WHAT YOU STARTED

*ZEN:

           -WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

           -After the first few times, he realizes what you’re doing

           -That’s that weird meme thing, isn’t it!!!!

           -It doesn’t bother him that much, but every now and then he’s like??

           -Stop it MC, I want to see your face

           -Give him the puppy dog eyes and he’ll do it with you

           - damn those eyes

           -You took a picture of him doing it once and he decided, “Hey, fuck it, I’m gonna post it”

           -IT BLEW UP BECAUSE??? THIS HOT ACTOR JUST DID AN INTERNET MEME, HELLO

           -No longer cares how often you do it because you’re the one who got him to do it in the first place, so thanks to you, he got even more attention from fans <3

*JAEHEE:

           -“God bless you”

           -This precious girl thought you were sneezing

           -But?? Were you just quiet about it??

           -Until she realized that….that’s a very odd position to sneeze in

           -Didn’t understand it was a meme thing until Zen explained it to her

           - because you and Saeyoung refused to explain it and threatened Yoosungs rank in LOLOL if he told her

           -MC please don’t do that in public;;;

           -Hopes holding your hand will make you stop please you’re going to hit someone in the face one of these days

           -Will not do it with you, stop begging, she’s strong-willed, will not give in!!!

           -Judging you every time you do it in front of her because? Really MC? I don’t see the appeal

*JUMIN:

           -What the fuck are you doing

           -Genuinely concerned for your health

           -Are you allergic to something????

           -You have to explain to him for a solid hour on what the dab is

           -Still doesn’t understand

           -YOU CAN BET YOUR SWEET ASS YOU HAVE A PICTURE OF HIM DOING IT THOUGH

           -BECAUSE HE COULDN’T SAY NO TO HIS KITTEN

           -You don’t post it anywhere though because you wouldn’t do that to JuJu

           -When you said anywhere, you didn’t mean the chatroom though

           -SAEYOUNG EDITED AND MADE IT AESTHETIC-LOOKING AND JUMIN SECRETLY LOVES IT, HE HAS IT AS HIS BACKGROUND UNTIL SOMEONE MENTIONS IT

*SAEYOUNG:

           -You thought YOU were addicted to dabbing

           -HE’S ADDICTED TO IT MORE THAN YOU ARE

           -The two of you have a competition on who can perform the dab in the coolest place

           -Y'all are so extra, climbing up to extremely high and dangerous places

           -He has you beat though because hello he’s not about to lose this competition so he never tells you the cool places he knows

           -THE REST OF THE GROUP IS SO TIRED OF YOU TWO

           -STOP DABBING

           -Always takes the pictures of you two dabbing and edits it to be aesthetic

           - fuckin meme lord

           - MC, can we dab in our wedding photos

*V:

           -???

           -What’s a meme?

           -That pose is a meme?

           -He has a photo album labeled “MC + DABBING” because??

           -THAT’S THE POSE YOU ALWAYS DO

           -“MC! Say cheese!”

           -Instant dabbing pose

           -He’s so used to it, he’s surprised if you go through an entire day WITHOUT doing it

           -In public he just disregards it, like I said, he’s so used to it now

           - secretly you feel bad so you try really hard to not pose like that in pictures from now on

*SAERAN:

           -oh no

           -pls don’t do this to me MC

           -It’s bad enough he has to deal with Saeyoung and his memes but!!!

           -YOU TOO?????

           -Groans every time you do it

           -Straight up, leaves the house when both you AND Saeyoung do it

           - he’s not gonna have it

           -CAN and WILL restrain you in public. Only he doesn’t hold your hand to do it

           -If his death glare isn’t enough to deter you, he will hug you from behind and make sure your arms are against your sides

           -NO DABBING. THIS IS A NO DABBING ZONE MC. I DON’T CARE IF SAEYOUNG’S DOING IT TOO, I CAN LEAVE HIM BEHIND

*VANDERWOOD:

           - nO

           -NONONONONO

           -DID SEVEN CORRUPT YOU??????????

           -THEY’LL KILL HIM!!!

           -Literally face palms every time they catch you doing it

           -It’s some stupid fucking internet thing, isn’t it?

           -WILL YOU JUST STOP DOING THAT??

           -Hates it, absolutely hates it

           -If they can, they’ll catch you before you do it and physically restrain you

           -“JUST S T O P”