im excused...................

i honestly get so frustrated seeing karamels being like “omg he made her breakfast in bed!!!! so abusive *sarcasm* lmaooo @ antis!!” 

because guess what? abusers aren’t abusive 24/7. my mum also cooks me really delicious meals and tells me she loves me every now an then, but that doesn’t change the fact that she hits me and acts like she owns me and guilt trips and manipulates and silences and yells at me basically every single day. not always all at once and sometimes really subtly, but she still does it. just like mon el. so can you please stop invalidating and making fun of abuse victims?

this is not intended to be hateful in any way, i’m literally just trying to get y’all to understand our point of view and stop treating this as some kind of joke.

i’m sorry i couldn’t help myself

BUT LIKE ALL THE TOUCHING IN THIS EPISODE BETWEEN YUURI AND VICTOR WAS UN-FREAKIN’-BELIEVABLE

THEY WERE NOT “FANSERVICE TOUCHES” AT ALL

THEY WERE ALL THERE WITH A MEANING… CASUAL, SUPPORTIVE, NATURAL… LIKE THOSE BETWEEN HONEST TO GOD HUSBANDS

AND YUURI’S EXPRESSION HERE 

AND THE WAY HE PUTS HIS HANDS AROUND VICTOR, THE WAY THEY ARE BOTH TOUCHING EACH OTHER’S NECK

LIKE

LIKE, I JUST 

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