I’ve come to expect it, when being in company with strangers at uni or work or whatever to just wait for the harmful joke/comment. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt/approach people with a positive attitude when getting to know them?? but part of me waits… and there it is, they did it. Im just like wow thats kinda uncool and nasty and the other half is sliding across the field on my knees with finger pistols in the air going “SHE SHOOTS. SHE SCORES. GOOOOOOOAL”.