eehhhh i was chatting w my sister about non binary identities (and I have the ability to do that due to our shared interest of undertale) and she things being non binary is a choice? And I'm like no, it's a choice to come out as such, ask people to use they/them pronouns and present as such, and she just didn't get it..... I really don't wanna tell her now and it sucks
ugh im sorry. i am a nonbinary person and i came out,,,,4 years ago? and it is not a choice by any means - i remember feeling this way going all the way back to very early childhood.