anonymous asked:

Tbh, when I first met my boyfriend I wasn't sure how I felt about him. I met him at university (we had class together) and then we started hanging out outside of class and I knew he was into me and he sounds kinda like the guy you described (into games, programming etc) and I was like... am I into him?? I dunno? And he told me he liked me and I was like 'yeah I kinda thought so' and then didn't say anything back cause I didn't know what to do. So I took a few days and went back and forth 1/2

about it until finally I was like ‘fuck it’ and decided to give it a try cause I’d probably regret it more if I didn’t… and here we are 5 years later lol. I’m not saying to do that.. I’m just saying be open minded.. if you enjoy talking to him, hanging out with him, if you have lots in common… those are really good building blocks for a good relationship. I wasn’t particularly attracted to my boyfriend at first which is why I was confused but that changed (I love his face, it’s my favorite).

hmm…. i see i see anon….. that is very good advice!!!!! i shall consider and just… see what happens. i mean this might all never even be an issue bc he might not ask me out (or maybe isn’t even interested lol) so… idk!!!