it makes me unfomconrtable when people are like “how are you opressed!??? what laws are there??? when have you been a target of violence out for being asexual” like lets just apply that logic to like, my gender for a sec. im nonbinary and ive never been targeted violently because of it nor has the law had any material impacts on me. so by this logic im not oppressed for being trans… but thats just ignoring all the misgendering and microagressions and weird sexual questions people ask me because im nonbinary. YEAH those are forms of oppression and when you ignore those towards asexual people then youre implying that they should be ignored for all marginalized groups.
Okay but like everyone (ahem k/t ers ) keep saying that it’s WEIRD!!11! how she confirmed gorgeous is about joe but like?? Maybe it’s because she’s finally happy? Like she truly wants to love him publicly but keep their relationship private enough to be protected and also like he’s not absolutely wrong for her so there’s that