I'm lowkey so upset so I stopped wearing a bra recently (3 months ago) for many reasons and I am much more happy and confident without one. However, I found out that boys at school have reduced my identity to the "no bra girl" and they ignore my accomplishments or the fun conversations we have had. I'm just the girl without a bra. So I now plan on never, never, putting a bra back on.
that just sounds frustrating, I can’t imagine having to actually deal with it.
first of all, go YOU! I’ve been wanting to go braless just because they cause a lot of discomfort and add layers I don’t want and I’m tired of hearing silly things like “your bra strap is showing” or “nice bra” or “that’s inappropriate”. (it’s literally a bra, you know a lot of people wear them don’t act so shocked and repulsed gees) unfortunately my confidence isn’t there yet, but the more annoyed I get the more ready I am. so shoutout to you for reaching that point and doing what’s in your best interest: you’re setting a strong, empowering, positive example for people like me (who want to go braless and haven’t yet, and even people who have).
secondly, I can’t believe people you know care about that so much. it doesn’t affect them, and it makes you happy. all they’re doing is pointlessly trying to tear you down and make you feel embarrassed and that’s ridiculous. im sorry they’ve denoted to that, but I’m proud of you for sticking with what you want and dealing with them.
you’re killin’ the game!