ignore that i'm in my bra

dojikkoo  asked:

I'm lowkey so upset so I stopped wearing a bra recently (3 months ago) for many reasons and I am much more happy and confident without one. However, I found out that boys at school have reduced my identity to the "no bra girl" and they ignore my accomplishments or the fun conversations we have had. I'm just the girl without a bra. So I now plan on never, never, putting a bra back on.

that just sounds frustrating, I can’t imagine having to actually deal with it.

first of all, go YOU! I’ve been wanting to go braless just because they cause a lot of discomfort and add layers I don’t want and I’m tired of hearing silly things like “your bra strap is showing” or “nice bra” or “that’s inappropriate”. (it’s literally a bra, you know a lot of people wear them don’t act so shocked and repulsed gees) unfortunately my confidence isn’t there yet, but the more annoyed I get the more ready I am. so shoutout to you for reaching that point and doing what’s in your best interest: you’re setting a strong, empowering, positive example for people like me (who want to go braless and haven’t yet, and even people who have).

secondly, I can’t believe people you know care about that so much. it doesn’t affect them, and it makes you happy. all they’re doing is pointlessly trying to tear you down and make you feel embarrassed and that’s ridiculous. im sorry they’ve denoted to that, but I’m proud of you for sticking with what you want and dealing with them.

you’re killin’ the game!

anonymous asked:

so im agender and partially out to my mom, and I've recently started shopping in the men's section and it's really relieved dysphoria (I'm afab) but whenever I wear my new clothes, my mom makes comments like "you know you have no ass in those shorts, right?" and "if you wore a pushup bra you would have curves". I'm pretty sure she's deliberately trying to bring down my confidence, despite her knowing I want to present androgynous and that I'm nonbinary. it sucks and I'm sick of her ignorant ass.

Uggghhh!! Solidarity!!

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I FOUND COSTUME GLITTER IN MY BATHROOM HOLY SHIT HOLY SHIT I AM PETER PAN AS FUCK (also it looks like I’m not wearing a shirt ignore that I was wearing a strapless bra and I pushed my tank top sleeves down 2 heighten my Peter Pan aesthetic)

anonymous asked:

yo I need advice so this guy I like texted me asking for ... um well picture if you know what I mean and I thought he wa drunk or it was his friend and I said we can text tomorrow and forget about this ((Because I really like him and I know it was a joke)) and he has been ignoring me and its spring break so I haven't seen him but when we get back in school I'm thinking of yelling at him but it was awkward and it will be awkward and why is he ignoring me? because he's ashamed or cuz I weird? help

I remember I was in 7th grade and one of my good guy friends asked me for nudes / bra pictures and I thought he was drunk or high but it turns out he was not. It was awkward but I set my boundaries with him and he didn’t do it again for about 3 years. It’s been 2 years since that and he’s my closest friend and I remind him of it all the time and he’s usually embarrassed or ashamed. Basically what I’m getting at is that boys are horny from the ages of 12-infinity and sometimes they do stupid shit without realizing it at the time

anonymous asked:

if i like a guy and it turns out he only wants nudes or something & ignores me when i say no, i love to play around w him by not sending him anything for a bit, then out of the blue 'accidentally' sending him a subtle bra picture addressed to 'another guy' and it makes the fuckboy think he wasn't good enough to get one from me and then he wants me again, but i'm over him now and it basically drives them all mad -a sagittarius who lives for reducing fuckboys to sad desperation :)

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13919) While making my breakfast, I had on a bra and baggy sweat pants. My mom had already made hers and was eating, but all she could do was stare at me. I ignored it. After some time, she finally spoke, "You're extremely thin..." I rolled my eyes and laughed it off, "Mom, I seriously don't understand how you see that." She pulled out her phone and said, "I'm going to take a picture of you so you'll believe me." She doesn't know about my ED, but now she's starting to suspect and watches my every move.