ifh

anonymous asked:

Lauren, what's your opinion? SC together or not?

I’m going to say no, they’re not together because that is what they want us to believe. I think there are a lot of very suspicious things about this entire situation but I frankly have no fucks to give anymore. This game that has been played for whatever reason has sucked the fandom life out of a lot of people, has hurt a lot of fans, and seems unnecessary.

Things I will continue to question: gold rings during the Christmas video, NYE and missing PCAs, Sam looking like he wanted to die during the IFH and Kristin doing half of the denying, arm around chair at the Globes, social media times during Venice/Paris with Sam cancelling that appearance and not being at the gym, Cait correcting Sam on what time he gets up in the morning to go to the gym, and their argument about the amount of time men spend in the gym instead of with their significant others.

And finally, if they really aren’t together, I would greatly appreciate them taking social media lessons from Kerry, Tony, and the rest of the Scandal cast.

anonymous asked:

I kind of don't care what the truth is as long as sam & Cait stay fun, flirty and affectionate with each other in person and online. Anybody with me here?

honestly, I think if they aren’t together, I don’t want them being flirty and cute with each other at all. It adds salt to the wound. If they’re not together, they should stop acting the way they do because it confuses the fuck out of people and makes them look like terrible, callous people because they have other S/O’s. You can have a cute friendship with your co-star that doesn’t involve sexual innuendos and calling each other hubby & wifey. But the flirting etc etc since the IFH is the reason most shippers don’t believe any of the denials that have come out. Which is why I still think they’re together. 

anonymous asked:

I feel we've survived worse upheavals in 2015. Do you think shippers just feel SC have been too apart to be real anymore? Am trying to figure out what might be at the crux of today's melt-down. I respect your detail-orientation & figured you may have better insight than me in the latest.

We’ve definitely had worse during this past year with the IFH etc. but this one took people a bit by surprise and those are always the worst hits.
They have actually spent quite a bit of time together during this hiatus but since they are so public about the time they are apart I think some people get caught up in that and it seems that they are never together which is actually not at all true. I think it’s a pretty safe assumption that when either only one of them is posting whereabouts, or neither of them is, it is because they are together, but people want to SEE them together and as long as they are keeping their relationship private that won’t be happening, unfortunately, and all those pictures and fan sightings from their times apart stick in the mind so much more than the quiet of when they are together. And Sam just did a week of “alone in NYC” complete with a bazillion pictures so that is fresh in everyone’s mind- it feels like they have been apart for ages even though it has only been two weeks since the live tweet they quite likely did together, and they were likely together in London for several weeks and had been in LA together even before that.
Also I think a lot of people were kind of invested in the idea that they were currently together in Europe and the fan pic came a bit out of left field for them placing him in Montreal. Though it might be of interest that from the timing of the post and of the poster’s arrival in Montreal it is very likely that he has already left the city, and could well have done so in time to join Cait on her European holiday if the post was delayed even by a day after it was taken. There have been no fan sightings in Montreal from later this week and Sam has otherwise been silent as to where he is so he could very well be in Europe.
Also I think the Shatner stuff has got some on edge as well- he likes to tout how close to Sam he is, though the actual facts show a very different situation between them, but if people think Sam and he are close then they start to doubt themselves when shat goes on about how Sam and Cait aren’t dating etc. and just generally calls us all a bunch of delusional idiots. The doubt is a natural enough response and is certainly one that Shatner is intending to create with all his bluster, but bluster is all it is. He doesn’t know anything.

anonymous asked:

FYI, Pretty sure there is more frustration with Sam than Cait because Sam is the one calling WS a friend and continuing to banter with him on Twitter, not Cait. Doesn't have much to do with where he is or who he's with other than timing.

Oh definitely and while I have my own opinion on that at least I understand it. I know that current state of despare and anger is a result of everything that’s been going on since IFH and not because of that photo. Photo was just a cause not a reason. Everyone is tired and fed up. This is perfectly understandable.

BUT, and I can say this because I’ve been around since the beginning of shipping, people (i’m talking about this group) have always been more frustrated with him than Cait. He brought A to MC, everyone was pissed off at him. Cait brought T to Edinburgh, everyone was upset because Sam wouldn’t look at her. And it happened one after another. They did the same thing but only one of them got hate. It’s a pattern that keeps repeating. I don’t know why. Maybe because he liked more shippers’ tweets than Cait therefore he is more responsible for shippers being hurt? Or is it because of Sam only fans? I honestly don’t know. I just don’t think it’s fair.

We don’t know what’s going on in their lives behind the scene. I still think that the whole Shitner bussiness is far more complicated than it seems. It’s easy for us to say that he should told Shitner to fuck off. We aren’t the main actor in a popular show. Maybe he simply can’t. We all saw just how crazy that man is and like it or not he still has enough power to cause some serious damage.

I know it feels like we are being sacrificed for the sake of a show. We most likely are. But I understand it. A lot of people depend on success of the show. Most of them are just ordinary people. Sure, I wasn’t the one who was personally attacked. I don’t know how I would feel if I was, though knowing myself I know I wouldn’t be angry with Sam because (like I’ve said before) I don’t think it’s that simple and because I feel like I understand how Sam must feel right now. Rock and a hard place. I’ve been there many times so I only feel sorry for Sam.

So, yeah, Sam apologist here. As always. I love that guy, I think he is a wonderful person who unwillingly found himself in a bad situation. I guess time will tell if I’m wrong but until then I’m not letting drama shaping my opinion on  Sam, Cait and who they are to each other. And I already made clear what my opinion is on that.

I’m sorry if I offended anyone with this but it’s something that’s been bugging me for a long time. I’m not pointing fingers or accussing people of being bad fans or whatever. I do understand why people are upset, I really do and I would never take that away from them. I’m just honestly baffle why this group always demends more from Sam than Cait. With or without Shitner.

anonymous asked:

I think we can all agree that Sam and Cait's SM interaction pretty much dried up after IFH. If Cait was seeing someone else all along, why did the banter only stop then? The fact that it did stop is what makes me think they are together.

The change was sudden and abrupt - too sudden and abrupt, and after a fairly unconvincing denial too. Who knows why. Maybe it was out of protest and it just went on so long they can’t find a way back to it…who knows *shrug*

anonymous asked:

Does your head hurt? Mine does because it can't comprehend that S/C may not be together; and if that IS the case - then there are 4 very fucked up, NOT normal people in those 2 relationships. WHO acts this way? FFS - the hand sex a day before the IFH. Got to take excedrin.

seriously! he’s not even touching the trophy, just her hand, and she’s stroking the inside of his fingers. 

that is NOT normal for people dating others. 

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