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Regarding #SaveBendy

I’m sure many people know what #SaveBendy is by now. If not, then check this neato link here!

The TL:DR version is, kids are going around snagging art from people’s accounts and then talking shit about it on their Instagram. It’s extremely cringy to see a ton of little kids basically get mad at the fact that someone drew Bendy and Alice in a romantic setting.

It’s also extremely hilarious. But that’s just me.

But it seems these guys are trying to cause more trouble by personally hitting up ask blogs that aren’t “up to their standards”. That being if it’s shipping related, they think a certain Bendy isn’t good enough or is “cringy”. They have even been targeting NSFW ask blogs and harassing them as well.

It’s only been a short while since this has surfaced and I think it’s getting to the point where it’s not something I can exactly try to ignore.

As someone who has dealt with their fair share of people trying to control what I create, I completely understand the stress creators are dealing with right now.

There is a certain way people have been treating NSFW or suggestive stuff in this fandom that is incredibly silly in my opinion.

Now I’ve only had my ask blog for little over two weeks now, so I’m still extremely new to this fandom, but I think we should have a level of respect for one another. No one will change what they make because you yell at them. 

If you don’t like a certain thing, you are entitled to blacklist/block the source.

You are not entitled to send hateful asks/IMs to someone cause you don’t like them.

You don’t like NSFW for BATIM?

Blacklist it! Download Xkit and have the proper tags on a list so Tumblr can hide it for you!

This whole #SaveBendy thing is the dumbest thing in the world. And I’ve been in some shitty fandoms.

If you think #SaveBendy is a valid thing that’s doing the right thing, then listen very closely kid.

GROW THE FUCK UP. THIS IS THE INTERNET. NO ONE OWES YOU A N Y T H I N G.

Don’t like that I have this opinion? Then please quietly exit stage left and tap that handy dandy “Unfollow” button on the way out.

TL:DR

Fuck #SaveBendy.

ALRIGHT, DEAR FOLLOWERS LISTEN TO ME PLEASE. It’s time for me to get some shits straight, unpopular opinions about over sensitive Tumblr. It’s long, but I WOULD REALLY LIKE IT IF YOU READ IT. It’s so very important.

1) TRIGGERS: 

Some triggers are absolutely delusional. For example: gifs, eye contact, food, cursing and much more… Excuse me, you’re on the fucking internet, gifs are part of this culture and have been there since 1987. Eye contact? What do you live in, a grotto? Food? Mc donald’s sitting in your country with its balls at every corner of your city. And good news, you have to eat FOOD every day. I first thought the system was good, like if you have phobias or this disease with the flashing lights that gets your body convulsing, but people are being way too sensitive. I have coulrophobia, phobia of clowns. I don’t want any of that shit near me, but you know, like yesterday a clown popped up at a tv program. I coped with it. It really scares me that YOU people who’re supposed to be already adults are this way. You’re probably already in the work industry, and it’s a world where you have to toughen up, my teacher (an amazing woman) always kept repeating me so. I also saw a South park episode, and it represented so well Tumblr’s community nowadays! Basically, there were people hiding in a transparent block, and this block represented their safe zone, and outside was a man who represented “reality” and that thus, the people inside the block weren’t letting reality enter the block, and so never face it. And last but not least, I had that one time someone asking me to tag videos, because apparently “you won’t know if there’s a jump scare in the end or something, and that’s very triggering to some people”. Well again here are some good news from queen obvious: jump scares are MEANT to scare you. The first one I saw was when I was nine years old, I cried, it was scary as fuck… But I’m here, safe and sound. 

2) ABOUT RP THEMES:

There was someone who once claimed that if you’re not a victim, you can’t rp certain themes. Like, if you’ve never been raped, you can’t rp rape RP. This is so… sad. So, if I want to rp incest for whatever reason, I have to fuck with my brother first? Absolutely not. I shouldn’t have the right or not to roleplay something based on my personal experiences. If I want to roleplay female with female fluff, do I have to become homosexual? Impossible.

3) UNDERAGE SMUT:

OOOOO WE’RE GOING ON A TOUCHY SUBJECT. It’s a slippery sloppy slide. Just as anyone would do his or her or their, whatever, coming out. I am telling you that I am 17. Exactly, one year away from hitting 18 years old if you went at least in primary school in your life, you can count. But I roleplay-ED and roleplay smut. Now before making that cringing face and going to talk to your buddies about how much of a liar I am, let me tell you some things. We all did it. For those who like to write this I mean. We all wrote some shitty one liners that went along the lines of: he puts his dick in her belly button and gives her a baby. Maybe it wasn’t that bad, but we sure all once were curious children, who had fun writing about these things. About the legality stuff now, more seriously. The police has other things to do than dealing with those affairs. If both rp partners agree to doing a fictional sex scene, then there’s no problem. You are not your character, you are simply depicting a scene. Now if your partner turns out to be a harasser, here you can do something, but otherwise if you agreed, you both will enjoy writing with each other, no? And how even would anyone even know your real age? Come on, we have no real proof that you are the age you claim to be. I find it strange that 99% of Tumblr blogs are directed by 18+ muns. No but honestly, please don’t be delusional and think about it. So underage writing gore with you is okay, hurting, torturing, guts everywhere, all of that is fine, but a breast touch and WHOOPS IT’S TABOO? Excuse my French (literally) but you’re an asshole. Now I can understand that you don’t feel comfortable, and in this case politely refuse to rp such things. That’s all. But as a matter of fact, I’ve seen so many adults unable to write smut correctly, things like: *moans, *sucks* and the likes.People need to do the difference between fiction and reality. If you want to draw, on a side note, DO IT. DRAW EVERYTHING YOU WANT, no matter how gross. I would rather have someone depicting abuse on a paper rather than relieving their rotten desires in reality. As I know that it sometimes help people. This does not mean that I condone it, far from it. I hate animal abuse, it’s truly the worst for me, but I’d rather have someone drawing a horrible thing rather than hurting a creature. Going to move on, because for personal reasons, this thing really disgust me and makes me sad.

4) ANON HATE:

HEY COWARD. YES YOU, WHO HIDES BEHIND A GREY FACE. GROW SOME BALLS HAH. I can’t fucking stand anon hate, Even if I had the whole world against me, I’d still face you and not go anonymous. That’s how you handle problems.FIN. Now if you decide to unfollow because boohoo, ha-hi-hoo, then do it I don’t mind it is your right. I will know who you are, and probably be disappointed, but apart from this, you can feel safe. I respect your choice to unfollow me if you decide to not enter reality with me.

anonymous asked:

yo my nigga are you black? because your edits are literally the same thing. big lips, big noses. there's light skin people who are black, there's black people with small lips and small noses, round to pointy. im just saying lemme get some diversity kk.

Yes I’m black and I’m fully aware black girls/guys can have different features from the “standard” black person but like????? Let me appreciate the features black girls/guys might find hard to love about themselves????? (Plus this is my my sideblog anyway and only a few characters get drawn like that????)

Cause tbh I get tired of video games/media with the more “pretty” black characters that are lightskinned and look more “white” so to speak.

If you don’t like it that’s cool and all and if you’re tired of me drawing/making edits that way I’m sure you know where the unfollow button is.

Just throwing my 2 cents in since everyone else on tumblr is flipping their shit in some way about this.

I have no idea who the girl with Renner is in those photos, nor do I care. Who he does or does not date, sleep with, etc. or who he’s friends with is none of my business, nor is it anyone’s but his. 

The poor man should be allowed to go out in public with another human being without speculations instantly being made or insults being thrown around toward him or whoever he’s with. We, as fans on the internet, should know better than to blindly trust what some bullshit site says about something. And we don’t need to know who she is, what their ‘relationship status’ is, nor is he ever obligated to tell anyone anything about it (and probably won’t anyway, since we know how private he is). It has zero effect on any of us. He could lie about it right to my actual face and I wouldn’t care, because it still has nothing to do with me or my opinion on him as an actor that I very much enjoy watching. 

As a fan, I just hope he ends up happy, continues to make awesome movies, and continues to live his life however he wants to. Whatever else he does is up to him, and I have enough respect for him to not involve myself in any part of speculating about his personal life that he doesn’t choose to share. 

I don’t understand why any of this is even being discussed more in depth than “Renner looks hot” and “that chick is pretty hot too”. Because that’s pretty much the only accurate deduction we can make out of any of those photos. Amirite?  

You see... one thing nonnies should know about me:

I’m a brat.

I was born a brat. Telling me not to do something, expressing dislike of something I am doing/something I like, is only going to make me do/like it more.

Don’t like a ship I ship? I will respond to your ask and then bury my blog in posts for that ship.

Don’t like something I read? Not only am I going to read more of that genre/series/book but I’ll blog the hell out of it before, during, and after the fact.

Just try me. Go ahead. 

I spent the formative years of my life as the butt of every joke, I’ve got skin like a rhino. All you make me want to do is sink my teeth into you and get them bloody.

Ready when you are.

Omg guys I’m laughing so hard we just lost followers and I assume it’s over the naked Watto saga.

It’s probably because I got hyper aggressive so PSA please don’t take me getting aggressive personally. Don’t take anything I say personally  actually since I’m quite a passionate person and sometimes Jessie isn’t around to reign me in so I get quite bitchy.

But if I ever do offend you let me know yeah?

anonymous asked:

I wanted to follow this blog to gain insight on making my own story more diverse, but I see too late this is just some front to put racism behind every motive a producer/writer/director has for not doing exactly what YOU want. Even when the creator themselves defends their choices, they're "Not good enough" or worse, they're internally racist against their own culture... Sorry that some writers don't want to patronize POC and actually write them as people.

So, let me get this straight, what you’re basically saying is that you followed us, because you wanted to study POC, like we’re some kind of peculiar insects to you, but you didn’t expect that we, POC, are actually human and want to be treated as such. And now you’re angry that we even dare to raise our voices to point out media and fandom’s racial bias.

With all due respect, we won’t even waste our time discussing BS like this. It’s like you’re trying to prove us, fans of colour, that racism doesn’t exist and that’s all in our heads. Okay, good luck with that. 

To quote this meta:

1) we don’t care 2) this isn’t about you 3) do something else with your time and energy than trying to make our anger comfortable for you.

You know where the unfollow and block buttons are.

- Mod P.

anonymous asked:

hey I really like your fics but I read that you're going to go as lara croft to the gay and lesbian parade in sydney and I saw your kickstarter video for the other story and no offense but I don't think you should :/ There's lots of other characters that would suit how old you are and that your a bit bigger better if you know what I mean. pls don't publish this btw

Please specify the exact age and weight cut off that prevent me from being allowed to play dressups as Lara Croft. If you have the time, it would also be SUPER helpful if you could take another quick look at my Kickstarter and tell me all the things I should change about myself so that people won’t judge me for doing it, too.

Are you fucking serious? What is it about cosplay that invites people to volunteer their judgment of women’s bodies?

Is it so incredibly offensive to you that a 32 year old overweight woman is dressing up as your favourite character? What is it about me being 32 and overweight which challenges you so much that you need to tell me to not? Babe, see that unfollow button? Click it. Problem solved, you don’t have to see your favourite character violated by a fat, old chick.

The most hurtful thing about this post is that you actually think you’re doing me a favour by encouraging me to be ashamed of myself. You know you’re doing it, too, because otherwise why would you ask me to not publish it?

Like you probably have, I’ve spent the best part of my life trying to disregard the constant messages all around me that I am not okay the way I am. Instead of trying to squish myself into that ideal and policing others to do the same,  however, I’ve decided to not.

When you tell a girl (or anyone) that she shouldn’t be wearing that because reasons, what the fuck makes you think you have the right to police what someone else wears? Why do you think you have authority over me? Do you think it’s your duty to put me in my place? Where is my place, actually?

Should I be having babies by now, maybe? Should I be locked away from the public eye where no one can see and be offended by my flabby arms? 

When you ‘helpfully’ tell a girl she’s not conventionally beautiful enough to do something, you are actively contributing to her oppression. If you’re a girl yourself, you’re contributing to your own oppression.

And fuck it, I don’t need to be Meagan Marie to cosplay and enjoy myself. I’m going to cosplay as Lara at the Mardi Gras, and I don’t give a fuck if you think I’m too old or do fat to do it. I’m going to have a great time.

anonymous asked:

"rotting animal flesh"? Seriously Ally? That is just ridiculous, i understand you don't want to see meat on your instagram, but hey wake up call: not everyone is vegan! Unfollow them if it upsets you, but don't act like they broke a law or did something offensive like a racist or sexist photo. Meat is a part of the majority of our diets, you can't expect everyone to bow down to your beliefs. They posted a picture of the ingredient for beef soup, not rotting flesh oh my god.

I’m not sure if you realise, but that’s quite literally what meat is. I’m not being overly emotional or exaggerating or making up stories - when we die, our bodies begin to decompose. That picture was a dead body and I’m sorry if my mentioning that upsets you but its what it is. 

As I mentioned previously, I don’t follow them :) I went onto their page to investigate what changes had been made (since the strategy meeting I & some friends had with them last year) to lead them down this strange path. Seeking out random girls online to comment mean things on their photos is unacceptable. My outrage was (and still is) at their cyber bullying someone completely unprovoked and without warrant. To comment on a young girl’s profile and tell her that even though she’s striving to be more globally conscious with her eating choices, it’s not good enough or she’s unhealthy? That angers me to no end and could invite a whole host of issues for the individual if she wasn’t secure in her relationship with food. My and tessbegg‘s reference to the dead animal was because their comment on the girl’s photo was directly about meat, and how apparently she should be ashamed of herself for drinking a fruit smoothie. I was appalled at their choice of action, lack of professionalism and overall choice of posting, given their large vegan following and majority vegan cafe. The photo in question (that I replied on a post by someone else to and added my agreement) can be seen here. I didn’t go and attack them on their page (unlike your choice of response) but rather added that I was surprised at their choice to post such a graphic image, let alone to an audience of many against animal cruelty.

I find it interesting that your advice to me is to unfollow them if I don’t enjoy their content, when your own response has instead been to come here to my personal blog, conceal your identity and criticise my choices.

Your choice of words are interesting too. You refer to my apparent desire for you to ‘bow down to my beliefs’, when in reality the situation is actually the exact opposite. I am taking no action. Veganism is a non-action. Non-veganism (ie meat eaters such as yourself) is choosing to take action in supporting animal cruelty, exploitation and slaughter. Again, this is not be exaggerating, but merely describing the truth. I think it would be fair for me to assume that most others (even if this doesn’t include yourself) are also against animal cruelty and killing innocent beings, but would like to believe in compassion and sustainability. I am not forcing my beliefs on anyone - I’m simply no longer supporting harmful and cruel industries.

I can see you find comfort in the fact that you’re not alone in your consumption of animals, which makes perfect sense. We justify our behaviours by the fact that others are taking no action to change either (look into the bystander effect or even mob mentality in certain situations) and take this to mean that we can’t be held responsible. I urge you to do some inward inspection and reflection of what you believe to be right and fair. Educate yourself, think, read, talk to others, and find out where you stand on certain topics. Even if you decide you’re 100% pro animal cruelty and murder, if you’ve made peace with your values then someone else’s shouldn’t impact you as much as mine apparently have.

My being against animal cruelty and choosing to refrain from supporting the meat & dairy industries shouldn’t affect you, and the only way it can is if my (non) action causes you to reflect upon how you’re living. Contrastingly, while my existence makes no impact upon yours, the way you live is a direct barrier to the world I’m trying to create. Your actions are the very thing that I wish I could prevent and rid from our world, and it’s therefore perfectly reasonable that it would upset me. However, it was you who chose to come here and anonymously attack me, standing nothing to gain other than the knowledge that your words hurt me in some way.

Bottom line: this is my blog. If you don’t like the content I reblog and share thoughts on, you know where the unfollow button is. I don’t wish for you to leave, for experiencing different values is no reason alone to have to end a relationship and my veganism shouldn’t pose any threat to you unless the things I write and reblog are hitting your conscience. 

I hope that if you’d like to further our discussion, you would give me the mutual respect and message me without hiding behind an anonymous face. xx