My partner came out to me as genderqueer today. We have been together since we were 16 and are now seniors in college. For as long as I’ve known him, he’s been very traditionally masculine. But he admitted to me that he truly hates feeling uncomfortable expressing any femininity and that he no longer wants to identify as “man.” He wants to continue to use he/him/his pronouns and does not plan on coming out to anybody else. I’m just looking for resources on supporting him and similar stories.