if i ever get in a relationship

He watched clary grow up, he cares about her. And he says it. Magnus can’t do anything to stop the dark magic from killing her, only to help with the pain. It’s just sad bc you can see it on his face. Magnus wanted nothing to do with Shadowhunters and now look at him, in a relationship with one and slowly starts to create a family will all of them. I know Clary’s going to be fine but still no matter how it all end Magnus is gonna lose these people he’s grown close to….It’s just not fair but when is life ever fair. He knows what he’s getting himself into.

Confession: my husband doesn’t ever make an effort to find anything fun for us to do on our time off or our weekends. He gets upset when I don’t want to be the perfect housewife but sometimes I feel like if I put off doing housework at least I’ll have something to do when he’s off and wants to waste time sleeping. Being a young Navy wife with no friends in my area is starting to make me very depressed.

Dear world

I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not meant to be loved. For as long as I can remember I’ve always wanted a relationship, someone who will look at me like I’m their most precious thing in the world. Someone who will look at me and be like “that’s my girl”. I’ve always said I’ve hated romantic comedies but deep down I want a romance like the ones in the movies. A happily ever after. But unfortunately I was never able to find it. And yes I’m young, only 21, but I’ve been searching for so long and have been heartbroken so many times that it’s already getting old. After my heartbreak a year ago I realized that maybe I wasn’t meant to be loved. But then I met a guy and he made me believe that I could have my happily ever after.

I was wrong. He was just like every other guy I’ve met. He sweet talker me and made me fall for him only for him to dump me when he was no longer interested. And it hurt.

It hurts knowing that I’m never going to find love and that I will only be good for sex. But maybe it’s time to accept and embrace that. Perhaps I just don’t deserve love. And so I have to take what I can get, even if it means I am only good for one thing and one thing only. I wish it didn’t have to be this way but what can you do?

-the girl who can’t be loved

anonymous asked:

If you're still doing those prompts how about nessian #29 "does that line ever work?"

I am indeed still doing those prompts! I’ve still got one in the works, since I plan to do a long fic for it, but this one spawned a drabble it seems. Hope you enjoy some engaged!Nessian fluff :3

“Oh no,” Cassian said from atop the nest of pillows, beanbags, cushions, and blankets he had assembled, “It appears I have fallen and can’t get up.” 
“Does that line ever work?” Nesta asked, crossing her arms over her chest and looking down at the dishevelled moron she was, for some reason, engaged to. 

“You’d be surprised,” Cassian said, smirking. “I’ve avoided many a black eye during fights with Rhysand with this little trick.” 

Rolling her eyes, Nesta sighed. It was a cold, rainy Sunday afternoon, and she had a mountain of work to do. Of course, the human incarnation of a labrador retriever that she called her fiancee had informed her she would do no such thing. Instead, she had been forced to watch from her desk as he carried in comfortable squishy thing upon comfortable squishy thing, constructing what he deemed to be ‘The Best Pillow Fort Ever’. To his credit, it did look damn comfortable. 

Sprawled amongst it all, he held a hand out to her. “Come here, my Ice Queen,” he said, his voice soft, warm, inviting; everything her work and the weather wasn’t. “You’ve worked hard enough all week. Let me take care of you for once.”

It had taken months, well over a year, even, for Nesta to let down her walls enough to allow Cas in. Longer still to be vulnerable enough to let him take some of the burden from her shoulders. Many nights of gentle back rubs and loving kisses had proven it to be the right choice, however. He knew, in the coldest of times, how to keep her warm. 

“Five minutes,” she agreed, not meaning a word of it as she threaded his large fingers with her small, manicured ones. She fell into the cocoon of warmth and cuddles, embraced amongst his strong arms. They both knew they’d awake in the exact same position come dawn. 

After everything they’d been through together, she wouldn’t change a thing.

anonymous asked:

It looks like some people think that we are disappointed with how Malec have been handled because we didn't see their first time and that they don't have hard and strong make out session every episode. Cmon,people there is porn available do you think we are that bitter? It's that Malec don't even have proper conversations scenes it's hard to say that they are in a relationship at this point. And I'm sure there wont be any Malec scene in the next episode

Louder for the people in the back, Anon.

gunsandships24601  asked:

Any tips for an ace (me) person with being in a relationship with a straight guy? I told him I'm ace and he didn't mind but he wanted to know if I would give him things like bjs which I said no to. But basically, what should I do when he wants to fool around and I don't? I feel selfish?

quick note before I answer this: great icon I love it

relationships between aces and allos can get quite confusing. make sure he knows what asexuality is and make sure you set your boundaries and do not let him cross them. ever. if you’re uncomfortable doing something, tell him. you are not selfish for not wanting to do something that makes you uncomfortable.

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name/nickname: isabella/bella

relationship status: single

favorite color: blue

last song I listened to: I’m Still Here from Treasure Planet

favorite TV show: Voltron

first fandom: one direction,,,,,

hobbies: I don’t really have any hobbies

books that i’m currently reading: nothing lol

worst thing I’ve ever eaten: while we were in Poland, my uncles friend gave me this candy which looked and tasted exactly like chapstick

favorite place(s): this barnes and noble in santa monica

I tag: @snakian / @crustysheith / @witchkeith / @lancemcdead / @oceanpaladin / @alienpidge / @k3ithkogane / @acequeenm / @galra-prince-lance / @thespace-dragon

anonymous asked:

Sorry if you've talked about this before but would you say Bellarke (wherever it may lead) was planned from the beginning, cos they have A relationship of some sort, or is it something that developed as the characters did along with Bob and Elizas chemistry? I know they're canon in the books but JRoth keeps saying (for years) he doesn't know if they'll ever become a thing etc and i get confused between spoilers and/or he genuinely doesn't know where he'll take it.

It was a possibility from the very beginning. From when they developed the show to when Clarke and Bellamy met in the drop ship. But the development and pilot are different from the story they eventually landed on. Which turned out to be more adult and less soapy than the pilot. 

But the development of Bellarke has been happening since the very beginning. It’s about THESE TWO. The initial conflict was between Bellamy and Clarke as they wrangled for dominance and found a balance and partnership. 

I think when they decided to go more adult, they decided to push Bellarke romance into endgame and slow burn. To develop the other parts of their relationship first. But the romance was still there. We have evidence. So JR saying that there was absolutely no romance built into Bellarke is subterfuge. Plain and simple. He says it wasn’t there. Yes it was.

And even though he has said he doesn’t know if it will ever happen, he’s also told us he saw what we saw, and it wasn’t the story he was telling just now. 

Telling us he doesn’t know what the story will be seasons ahead of when he writes it is not really lying. Things happen. The show could end before they get there. Who knows? He doesn’t *KNOW* for certain. He can’t tell the future. It hasn’t been written yet. 

All I know is he said a whole lot of things before and during season 3 that did not make sense with the show as it aired. So I took his statements with a grain of salt and always put them through my JR translator, which is based a lot in semantics and word play. If he says “true love,” and people take that to mean “end game,” well…. they can. But that’s not the only meaning of the term “true love,” believe me I researched it. you think there’s one definition for it? there is not. There are bazillions and a lively debate about what actually it means and very few of them end with “end game.” I literally looked up “true love.”

People listen to JR and they get to take his words to mean anything they want. Because they are vague and sometimes contradictory. So all you have to do is pick the emphasis, definition, or current statement that pleases you the most, and ignore all the others. Voila. JR is confirming your bias.

anonymous asked:

I really cherished the friendship Shuu and Chie have together. Like she knows all his flaws and help Shuu relationship with Kaneki a butch of times put a smile on my face. I kind of want Chie to tell Kaneki of the stolen underwear was meant for Shuu and to make both of them embarrassed.

YESSS chie is so important and perfect ;o; i love her. such a good character. and such a good friend to tsukiyama, and to tsukiyamas group

LMAOOOO Christ what about them all at a cafe together and she’s like “oh! Did you ever get your underwear back, kaneki?”

and both kaneki and tsukiyama choke realizing what happened
(tsukiyama: holy fuck it was his underwear

kaneki: holy fuck they stole my underwear)

anonymous asked:

Would you ever get back together with this ex ?


Today, someone suggested that my ex may have borderline personality disorder. It is characterized in part by an extreme fear of abandonment and rejection–and the perception of those things in even benign circumstances. (For example, a person with the disorder may perceive momentary distraction or sleepiness in their partner as rejection of the relationship as a whole.) After reading up on it, I agree with that suggestion, though I am no clinician. I feel bad that my ex may have a serious mental illness, but I cannot treat it by simply being his girlfriend. I cannot even be present for him when he breaks up with me and calls me vicious names. He needs therapy, not a girlfriend.

And furthermore, I will not subject myself to that sort of abuse. I think of the younger women that have called me a role model, and I cannot let them believe that I find this behavior acceptable and tolerable.

Might I continue to communicate with him? Maybe. I do care about him and I want to urge him to seek therapy. But I will maintain tight boundaries.

anonymous asked:

Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)

This is a super inappropriate question. Some lesbians have had sexual relations with men before, some haven’t. You don’t get a “gold star” for not exploring or being unsure of your sexuality at some point in your life; and as I’ve just gotten out of a relationship with a man, and been abused by men, no.. I am not a so called “gold star lesbian”. I identify as Pansexual. Kindly fuck off with your inappropriate questions.

bulk pt. 3


You know how it goes. Unless there’s more this may be the last bulk on here. I can always burp it on mod blog.


Well hopefully his reps comment will cool people off of the whole Dk thing. I don’t agree with the ppl who are saying it’s damage control. Do we think he gives an actual fuck about everyone else’s opinion on who he puts it in? His reps never denied his relationships with HC(who’s legit hbic) or CS. They’ve only done it for DK and EK because it was bullshit. I think that DK is a bit of a shit starter, and she should probably get that checked out but N is a grown ass man who can choose his friends

There is no way I can watch TWD tonight. Not sure I ever wanna see Norman on screen again. :-(

I know Normans people denied it but in your opinion do you think NR and DK are a thing (dating, FWB, or what have you)
I don’t think they are anything more then friends at this point

N is doing serious damage control. Didn’t he do this last time he got caught with that horrid woman?
He denied the make out rumors, I still don’t think that happened, but there were no pictures.

Mod am I allowed to ask you what you personally think about the statement of Norman’s reps? Do you think it’s true and we can trust it and finally let this whole debacle go or just damage control to keep his good image?
Of course your allowed. I personally think it’s the truth. He rarely has his reps deny anything so when they do I tend to think it’s legitimate. I trust it, but that’s just me, I know there’s a lot of people that don’t and that’s ok too. I’d love to let the whole thing go. To be honest I don’t think it’s damage control ever since the rumor first started his rep has taken a hit, if this were damage control it’s a bit late.

This whole DK business has earned Norman a permanent side eye from me.
That’ll happen

Any idea Mod why Eonline edited their denial story to now say an eyewitness saw them kissing, being playful and driving to a hotel?
Nope. Sounds shady tho

Mod, do YOU think we can believe what Norman’s reps said, that they are just friends or do you think it’s more like damage control because he caused some backlash and it was all over the medias?
I believe it. But everyone has their own view and belief since this has been going on for so long I know that it won’t change anything for some people.

anonymous asked:

Dear Aaron, I have this friend. My best friend, we do everything together. Whenever either of us needs a plus one we ask the other. However, I don't know if it's because we are getting older or if because the world decides when and who you get into a relationship, but we keep getting asked why we aren't in a relationship. Maybe because I'm the girl I get it more than him but no matter my answer to the question everyone wonders why we aren't together.. Help

Since you’re writing me about it, I’m guessing “everyone” includes you.

Most of my closest friends are all women. Ever since my dad died, in fact, I’ve hung out almost exclusively with the opposite sex. Everyone always asks me why I’m not dating these girls - but the reality is that relationships are much different from the inside than they are from the outside. Some of my friends and I have given it a shot and dated a little, or maybe got drunk and slept together once or twice, but we quickly both realized that we weren’t good romantic partners. And that’s okay. Other female friends & I would never dream of trying to make our relationships anything more than what they are now. And that’s okay, too. It’s all okay. There’s no such thing as normal.

The issue is not with these other people and what they think you should be doing - clearly, the real issue is that what these other people are saying is bothering you, or you would tell them to mind their own business and go about your merry way. You too are wondering why you and this guy aren’t dating. And guess what? This comes back to my old favorite phrase, “All behavior is purposeful”. If you guys wanted to date, you would. Obviously. Clearly. Of course. The two of you would overcome any fear of rejection or failure and just go for it. But you haven’t, so you don’t truly want to. And there’s ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with that. 

Here’s the deal: I love my friends, male and female. I do. I love them. You can have great love for someone that’s not romantic - and that’s what you and your friend have. That doesn’t make your relationship any less special or any less powerful than two people who are fucking - if anything, it’s MORE special: You actually love each other’s company and you’re not in it just for the booty. There are plennnnnnty of couples I know who (sadly) don’t love each other nearly as much as I love some of my friends. A platonic relationship between people who might otherwise date is a beautiful and special thing. So hold your friend close, and don’t worry about what other people say. They’re just other people. And they don’t matter.

anonymous asked:

any tips/spells on how to get over a boy who was only using u/how to get over a boy at all? i'm trying my best to hold myself back from using black magic on him but at this point, i'm not sure. i'm just in need of some spell(s) to get myself back into shape. tysm love!💗

I don’t normally use magick when it comes to relationships (though I’m not against it). However, I’d suggest doing a love spell on yourself. A lot of the time we think revenge will make us feel better, but that is not true in most cases. Don’t invest anymore time on that person, they don’t deserve it. Instead do some bath magick, or a love spell on yourself. Invest all that energy into you and before you know it you won’t ever remember their name because you’re too focused on loving yourself.

When I want to focus on loving myself I take a bath with the following:
Himalayan Sea salt (or epsom salt)
Lavender essential oil
Any crystals that make you feel good
And the intention to bring love and light into your body

I usually meditate during these baths, but you don’t have to. The intention and atmosphere alone will bring generate lots of love.

Non-magickal response: delete all traces of them, masturbate and move on!

Hope this works ♥

anonymous asked:

Hello! So your gf got an ask about your relationship and someone asked her if she was okay with you having sex with other people. Have you ever thought about it or would you? Would you be mad if she had sex with someone else? I'm really interested in getting into a poly relationship with my man but I'm afraid to ask him because I'm scared he won't want to.

Hey there! So let’s see if I can answer your questions. Also maybe this can double as me coming out as demisexual. If that’s a thing you even “come out” as? lol

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sege-h  asked:


Meme:  Send a 📝 and I’ll introduce you to one of my OCs!

Dakota the Pygmy Falcon!

Look, it’s no big secret that I fucking love the Battle Bird Armada. Ever since they first appeared in the pre-reboot comics, I was sold - hook, line and sinker. I knew I’d eventually have to make a BBA character and that’s where Kadie/Dakota came in. 

Dakota’s one of my younger characters, being only 14 years old. 

Her parents were both top soldiers within the Armada and had a good relationship with the Battle Lord. But unfortunately, they recently left on a mission and just never came back. It’s widely assumed that they died in action, which leaves Dakota in an odd place. 

Dakota has always been described as a firecracker - she’s always been known to get into everything, and for her energy and fearless demeanor. Ever the thrill-seeker, she has ruffled the feathers of many babysitters with her antics. After losing her parents, these daring dos have only gotten bigger. 

Kadie wants to prove herself, you see. She wants to follow in her parents footsteps, to be of use to the Armada and win the Kukku’s praise. She’s trying to find herself and it’s all very confusing and scary! She’s no fighter, but she’s not the self-proclaimed “best pilot the Armada’s ever seen” for nothing. 

Being so loyal to the Armada and unquestioning, she doesn’t really get Speedy and the two often butt heads and bicker. They do develop a strong brother-sister bond (not romantic, Kadie’s super not straight) down the line though. 

okay guys i need you to repeat after me

yes killing stalking is an extremely good and interesting manga

but please please please do not romanticize the relationship Yoonbum and Sangwoo have
we know it’s abusive. that much is obvious. hell, it’s one of the most extreme cases of abusive and manipulation that ive ever seen in my life. which is why we should spread awareness that this isnt a relationship to desire, and that we should help those get out of similar situations. 
appreciate the manhwa art style. appreciate the story and the characters. do not praise the murderous tendencies of sangwoo or the abuse in the relationship between Yoonbum and Sangwoo

there’s a line between thinking a character is greatly written, and thinking they’re a good person. sangwoo is well written, but he couldn’t be farther from the definition of a good person.

a comprehensive list of every harry potter character i want to know more about
  • hannah abbott - is she doing okay? how’s her and neville’s relationship going? do they have any kids? does she make like the best butterbeer ever? i want to know
  • bathsheda babbling - apparently she was the ancient runes teacher at hogwarts and truly i just want to know more about her because look at that fucking name
  • katie bell - how’s my girl katie doing? hopefully not too affected by that whole dark curse thing she had to deal with? also i just want to know more about her like how’d she get into quidditch what were her stats like when did her and oliver wood get married
  • phineas negillus black - truly it’s tragic that whenever i picture him in my mind i see phineas from phineas and ferb with black hair and a very large black wizarding cloak on but like besides that how was he as a headmaster? what was he like? does he take joy in being a little dick head? i truly want to know
  • susan bones - how is she after her aunt’s death? what’s she doing with her life? susan bones sounds like the type of girl who’d be really really good at braiding hair. is she really really good at braiding hair?
  • lavender brown - i hope she’s doing okay and that she’s learning to live with the scars greyback gave her and hopefully she’s not a werewolf and listen she just liked ron is that really such a crime jk rowling did her so dirty!!! also i want to know everything about her and parvati’s relationship “friendship” and all the crazy make-outs shenanigans they got into
  • charity burbage - how’d she get into teaching muggle studies? was she scared those last few moments of her life? was she a good teacher? why the hell did jk rowling never let us witness a muggle studies class
  • alecto & amycus carrow - damn tell me everything about these two what was their childhood how’d they get into the dark arts literally how far were they willing to go because like torturing children is just fucking evil
  • the cattermoles - did they actually grab their family and get out of britain?? i sure hope so
  • penelope clearwater - how’s she doing??? did she get like fucking awesome grades?? how’d she react when percy was being a Dick? important questions
  • dennis creevey - legit how many times did collin write to him about harry? i bet dennis was like “jesus fuck mate shut up”. is he doing okay? i sure hope so. i hope he got into photography too
  • fleur delacour - listen i just want to know MORE what kind of student was she??? how many friends did she have??? i want more elaboration on her relationship with her sister. i want a whole god damn book just about fleur’s life. god damn it
  • dedalus diggle - how did anyone let him become an auror with a name like that
  • the dumbledores - please, for the love of god, i’d die if jk rowling gave us a book on the dumbledores. think about all that information. wow.
  • arabella figg - how did a squib get in contact with dumbledore? how was her life growing up being a squib? what were all her cat’s names? did she go play bridge every night with her friends? these are questions i need answers to
  • seamus finnigan - “me mam” oh you sweet boy how i love you. when was the first time he and dean kissed and was it as magical as he thought?? i won’t rest until i am answered
  • mundungnus fletcher - so like did he become like he is because of his name or did he change his name to reflect the fact that he was an utter piece of shit
  • filius flitwick - how’d he get into charms!!! what were his favorite teaching methods!!! favorite students!!! literally anything!!!
  • florean fortescue - i want to know every single damn flavor of ice cream he had in his shop. also, did he ever reopen it??
  • astoria greengrass - how’d she and draco meet? what are her political views?? her family life??? what kind of mother was she to scorpius?? i bet she was a damn elegant one
  • rubeus hagrid - like i want DETAILS about his life at hogwarts. every damn one. and about his life afterwards. i want a tour of his cottage. transcripts of every date he went on with madame maxime or whatever. a list of every single pet he ever owned. i want stories about him going to romania and visiting charlie. i want EVERYTHING
  • angelina johnson - my BITCH how’s she doing???? how’s life after hogwarts for her?? is she kicking ass and taking names?? i sure hope so. is she playing quidditch? or maybe she’s like a wizarding lawyer or something like stone cold bitch!!!! love that girl. what kind of mother is she? when did she and george fall in love?? does she still meet up with alicia spinnet and katie bell every once in a while for tea and biscuits and a chat?
  • bellatrix lestrange - i honestly just want to know everything about her. how was she growing up? her relationship with her sisters? when did she like fall in love or infatuation or lust or whatever with voldemort??? is like the no nose thing a kink? when’d she lose her mind? important questions
  • frank and alice longbottom - how’d they meet? how’d they fall in love? how’d they get married? they deserved better
  • ernie macmillan - did he ever stop being such a little bitch?
  • minerva mcgonagall - LEGITIMATELY EVERYTHING I WANT TO KNOW EVERYTHING i want a 1000 page essay detailing her time at hogwarts
  • cormac mclaggen - did he ever stop being such a big dick?
  • the patil sisters - listen tell me about like hinduism and magic and indian culture and hindu mythology and magic and also just everything about these sisters and their sisterly bond and how they were both underestimated and taken for giggling girls even though they were smart as fuck i love them
  • kingsley shacklebolt - okay i wanna hear how awesome he was at school and about how everyone loved him and i wanna hear about his adventures in the ministry and him talking to the muggle prime minister and basically how fucking awesome he was
  • dean thomas - his love for soccer!!!! tell me all about it!!!! his love for seamus!!!!! tell me all about it!!!!
  • ted tonks - how did he and andromeda fall in love??? did he try to convince her he was worth it???? was he Smooth As Fuck??? important questions
  • the weasleys - like i KNOW we know a ton about them but i just want MORE. i want more charlie and bill and bill and ginny’s relationship and all the siblings hanging out and i just want MORE of the dynamic