idk... people are never happy are they

anonymous asked:

Hi I realize this is late but what is your opinion on the whole Phil-not-discussing-politics-and-not-discussing-moonlight drama? I saw you reblogged from one of the blogs that was super angry about it? Don't you think it's a bit harsh to expect him to talk about every social issue even in the movies he watches for fun? Idk. I feel like people can never be happy with Phil, they're always looking for reasons to criticize him. But I would like to hear your thoughts.

I haven’t seen Moonlight so i don’t feel like I can make a personal comment on the movie or worth of his opinion on it, but I’ll make a few points about the situation in general as I see it: 

- It’s not uncommon for someone to identify with the struggle portrayed in a movie when they see it as representation. To have someone view something you consider representation (of you, or just the kind of struggle you feel strongly about) as boring with little further in the way of explanation can feel like a personal rejection. 

- It’s not that people expect him to talk about “every social issue even in the movies he watches for fun” - it’s that the actual plot of this particular movie was a social issue and he neglected to even glancingly acknowledge that. The fact that Dan spoke about it and did acknowledge the social issue and importance just puts Phil in a slightly worse light by comparison. 

- It’s a sign of a bigger issue people have with Phil. We don’t know that he values the struggle that POC and the LGBTQ community go through, so it’s harder to give him the benefit of the doubt and assume by ‘it’s boring’ he meant ‘I recognize the weight of the film and what it represents, I just found the storytelling slow’. We don’t know enough to cut him slack because he doesn’t talk about it. 

- Phil doesn’t talk about anything he values beyond a shallow surface layer of things that relate directly to himself. To paraphrase @europeansoul in a conversation I was in earlier, we know he’s passionate about his family, his career, his partner. We do not hear Phil talk passionately about anything outside of his immediate life and circumstances. Does that mean he doesn’t care about social issues? We don’t know. Are we obligated to assume the best of him because we’re fans? I sure as hell hope not. Down that way lies blind adoration and I’m not here for that. 

- His channel is about telling stories that make people happy. He’s under no obligation to go any deeper than that. In fact, I generally appreciate that he doesn’t because it’s a nice bit of a mental break from the world. But as much as it is his choice to keep us in the dark about how he feels about social issues and reject using his platform to spread awareness, it is the choice of his viewers to appreciate or not appreciate that. 

- It’s ok to criticize people you’re a fan of.  It’s ok to criticize people you’re a fan of.

After a while, you stop worrying about what people think of you. You realize that the most important thing is how you feel about yourself and other people’s opinions begin to fade from the back of your mind. It’s not easy, and it takes a while, but once it happens, it’s liberating.
—  (via fraagmented)
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They’re Going To Be Happy – an upbeat Johnlock playlist

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A playlist for two smart idiots who are in love, and will get their happy ending someday… and for the fandom that’s usually filled with angst, but believes in that future happiness.

I love angsty playlists as much as the next person, but sometimes you really need upbeat, happy music to listen to as you think about your ship. There’s not an overabundance of playlists like this for Johnlock–for obvious reasons–so I decided to make one. Songs are about either one or both of their POVs. All of it’s fairly upbeat, and a solid 85% of it is happy. (The rest is an homage to the end of s2 + s3.)

I hope it brings you as much joy as it brings me! Go forth, have fun listening to a beautiful story arc, picture these two running around solving cases while pining, think about how they’re so in love, and remember that eventually they’re going to be happy. :)

wes: is nice to laurel treats her the way she deserves from day one worries about her all the time team laurel on anything k5 ever did she loves him and is happy around him both had a little crush on each other since day 1 laurel is literally smiling and eye-hearting him all the time and he is never messed up when she’s around

fandom: waurel needs to go

frank: hitman, killed innocent people for nothing, caused annalise’s miscarriage, went away ignored laurel’s calls and texts killed more innocent people killed bonnie’s father then had sex with bonnie then left to idk kill some more people and plot against everyone in an attempt to (REDEEM HIMSELF??? In his twisted universe) stalked laurel at her own apartment watched her have sex with another guy had the guts to threaten her even tho he clearly saw she was happy

fandom: YASSS U GO FRANK RLSH GOALZZZZ FLAUREL FOR LAIF

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POPULAR TEXT POSTS + ASK MEME  (  PART 3  )

❛ i need a reasonable paying job, something like $2,000 an hour. nothing too wild. ❜
❛ idc (i do care) ❜
❛ ‘are you taken?’ yes bitch, taken for granted ❜
❛ half of me is a hopeless romantic and the other half is, well, an asshole ❜
❛ you’re yelling? at ME? the one person who has never done anything wrong ever?????? ❜
❛ you will find your home, you will find your place. you will find your people. give it a little bit of time but it will happen. ❜
❛ in order lead a happy life i’m gonna have to disappoint my parents a bit. ❜
❛ any body else here not good at anything??? ❜
❛ you can’t force people to appreciate you. ❜
❛ *puts on baseball cap* i am the dad now… ❜
❛ i fake smart.. like i’m honestly a dumbass idk shit but i know how to seem like i do.. i’m smart-passing.. ❜
❛ every straight woman who ever called her platonic friend her ‘girlfriend’ owes me $50 ❜
❛ i am a professional at misreading tones and overreacting to problems that most likely don’t exist ❜
❛ honestly if i survive the next 3 years of my life, i will be impressed with myself ❜
❛ you can’t cure sadnesses with a shower but honestly there is no purer place to suffer ❜
❛ patiently waiting for a kind soul to come along and make everything a little softer, brighter. ❜
❛ honestly i don’t even play an active role in my life, shit just happens and i’m like oh this is what we’re doing now? ok ❜
❛ no offense but if i die and no one uses a ouija board to keep me updated on memes i will literally haunt you all ❜
❛ imma start charging people for hurting my feelings $3 an hour ❜
❛ i have finally reached the age of most young adult protagonists yet my life is still uneventful??? where is my cool story??? my cool talents??? @ universe i’m pissed ❜
❛ hello, police? i accidentally stepped on my cats foot and need to be arrested ❜
❛ *tries to watch 45 minute episode in 20 minutes ❜
❛ please don’t just come in my life, take my heart and leave. please don’t do that. ❜
❛ concept: me, 10 years from now, living in a pretty house with my love, sipping a hot cappuccino on a rainy autumn afternoon. our dog curls up next to me in the window bench while our cat snoozes on the bed. i’m financially stable and i’m never tired anymore. the bees are safe. ❜
❛ i can’t believe what walkie talkies are called ❜
❛ the gorilla could have died and been done with in like a week but none of you know how to be normal ❜
❛ me: *is bitter but is also right* ❜
❛ just saw a girl in high heels long boarding to class. godspeed, my queen. ❜
❛ i’ve never belonged anywhere, i’m always just in between ❜
❛ too young for unnecessary stress, i gotta live ❜
❛ i may not be beautiful but at least i know a lot of useless information ❜
❛ i’m like always sleepy. i feel like i should be used to this by now and stop complaining about being sleepy but i can’t. always, i’m sleepy. ❜
❛ lmao no offense… but what’s the point of being mean to people for no reason ❜
❛ drunk me is the me i really want to be. confident, hilarious, and most importantly, drunk ❜
❛ “alcohol isn’t supposed to taste good” buddy watch me drink the fruitiest/sweetest shit i can find and enjoy it because i don’t hate myself enough to even begin to consider drinking like.. beer ❜
❛ tfw you’re already fully aware of the unnecessary self destructive bullshit you’re doing but you can’t bring yourself to do anything to stop it ❜
❛ hey sorry for not replying i didn’t want to ❜
❛ honestly how am i gonna make it in the world???? i get a little teary eyed any time someone compliments my personality ❜
❛ true bonding is when you and your friends are all angry about the same thing ❜
❛ *touches your hand and looks seriously into your eyes* i am a piece of shit ❜
❛ lets play ‘how rude can i be until you realize i don’t like you’ ❜
❛ i love drunk me but i don’t trust her ❜
❛ hate when i am wearing makeup and still look shitty like what else am i supposed to do? get enough sleep? eat right and exercise??? as if ❜
❛ i’m not on a high horse. i’m not even on a horse. i’m face down in a ditch on the road of life ❜
❛ i hate when people ask me what i would do in their situation because 9 times out of 10 i would literally never be in that situation in the first place ❜
❛ i barely remember the last 6 months honestly like am i even alive ❜
❛ you had me at ‘hello’ and lost me at ‘i think your friend is cute’ ❜
❛ i’m pretty sure by now ‘tired’ is just a part of my personality description ❜
❛ wow i really liked that song now i think i’ll listen to it another seventy times in a row ❜
❛ ‘shit it’s 2 a.m.’ i say every day at 2 a.m. as if i’m surprised ❜
❛ i’ve been stressed out since like the third day of second grade ❜
❛ telling other girls they look pretty is like cracking a glow stick full of positivity and female friendship ❜
❛ i want to be sun kissed and also people kissed ❜
❛ about me: glowing, eating peaches, drinking wine in lingerie, not texting your desperate ass back  ❜
❛ i highly recommend never having feelings ❜
❛ due to unfortunate circumstances, i am awake ❜
❛ i’m gonna solve mysteries so fucking good ❜
❛ what did people even wear in 2008 ❜
❛ i’ll just ¯\_(ツ)_/¯  my way through life ❜
❛ you know what sucks? everything bye ❜
❛ me? overreacting? probably ❜
❛ people asking me what kind of music i like is such a stressful experience ❜
❛ honestly if i survive the next 3 years of my life i will be impressed with myself ❜
❛ if you listen carefully you can hear me whisper ‘shut the fuck up’ at least once every five minutes ❜
❛ any time you like a boy just know you played yourself. always keep that stored in your mind for later ❜
❛ hopeless romantic with trust issues and a sex drive out the roof ❜
❛ what i lack in personality i make up for in…….. nothing ❜
❛ me? cancelled ❜
❛ an app that tells you how raven something is ❜
❛ be with someone who will take care of you. not materialistically but takes care of your soul, your well being, your heart, and everything that’s you ❜
❛ i love the infinite multiverse theory because that means there’s a universe where i’ve pulled every single fire alarm i’ve ever seen ❜
❛ name a more iconic duo than the lengths i’ll go to both get attention and to avoid it… i’ll wait ❜
❛ i just want to be treated very gently and smell like vanilla and wear only matte dusty rose lipstick ❜
❛ 2017 is going to be a very healing year because it’s going to force us to accept that 2007 was ten years ago not three and i think that’s the root of our collective issues ❜
❛ i just wanna do cute things with you like crush the patriarchy, fight for gender equality, and help to destroy racism ❜
❛ i may not be that funny or athletic or good looking or smart or talented… i forgot where i was going with this ❜
❛ how is 2016 already almost over?? like this bitch came in, fucked us up, then left like she gave us a gift ❜
❛ supercalifragilisticextentialcrisis ❜
❛ stop breaking your own motherfucking heart ❜
❛ co-napping is a beautiful thing. knock out with me so i know it’s real ❜
❛ *on the verge of tears* ok not that i care, but ❜
❛ it’s not you…. it’s your zodiac sign ❜
❛ i want to be loved so bad it’s pathetic and embarrassing ❜
❛ my heart is filled with hate and swag ❜
❛ ‘i don’t care’ i say, caringly, as i care deeply ❜
❛ i highly recommend never having feelings ❜
❛ we all ugly to somebody, don’t trip ❜
❛ do i have a crush or am i just idolizing this person for being vaguely nice to me? ❜
❛ my parents were arguing today and my mom said that justin timberlake wouldn’t treat her like this ❜
❛ kissing is hella rad but no one is kissing me so that makes me hella sad ❜
❛ everyone’s having their mid-life crisis at like 19 ❜
❛ there are just people out there that are the embodiment of the sun like the things they say do light up the world and make you feel warm they are human sunshine ❜
❛ dermatologists HATE me… everyone hates me. i’m so alone ❜
❛ you know when you realize and you just… realize ❜
❛ a girl can respect herself and still take booty pics wtf y’all talkin about ❜
❛ i’m not badass i’m sadass i cry about everything ❜
❛ inspired by animal crossing, i’ve started doing this thing where i mail my best friends a framed picture of myself and then never speak to them again ❜
❛ i didn’t know double texting was such a big deal?? i have a lot to say ❜
❛ can someone please just be proud of me like fuck i’m trying ❜
❛ cosmo sex tip #367: when you’re in the mood, tell you partner ‘my spidey senses are tingling’ ❜

(  you can find the other popular text posts memes on my old blog: 1, 2 )

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Okay. I. Look, we know you people are all very upset that Sherlolly is actually a contender in becoming canon and having idk status and shit as a ship, but let me tell you, no matter how much we pray for canon we have been the most un-canon ship for ages. Do you know how uncanon sherlolly is? Do you know how people never took it seriously? LITERALLY NEVER? 

You know what I thought when I saw the trailer? I didn’t think go “OH OMG YES MORE SHERLOLLY THIS TIME THIS IS THE BEST.” 

I went, “FFS PROTECT MY BABY MOLLY, ACCORDING TO LITERALLY EVERYONE ELSE SHE IS THE MOST EXPENDABLE.” 

Molly is so so so expendable in the eyes of others. I’m happy we’ve become such big contenders but I swear I don’t have high sherlolly expectations. I just want Molly to live. That’s how less seriously sherlolly has been taken. I get stress and anxiety thinking about her face when she cries. The bar is literally that low. 

And we’re all very excited but there is a part of us that is dreading this. Our favourite character could be dead, and literally no one is going to care. Nobody is vicariously dating Sherlock through Molly, we are dating Molly through Sherlock. Or through an occasional stand in best friend. Leave our Molly alone. She is precious and needs protection. 

i mean. She’s also rad as hell and will be fine protecting herself but pRoTEct her for God’s sake. 


#ProtectMollyHooperSquad - I vote we make this the official Sherlolly s4 tag. 


Cheers, Stress, and Love, 

Ridiculosity 

anonymous asked:

Hey, I know it's probably too late to ask, but I read in some of the earlier chapters that you wanted people to submit kinks for "You Can't Plan for Everything". I was wondering if you can maybe get some double penetration in there? Like Yuuri taking Victor and a dildo or something? Maybe? Idk, just a thought? Thanks, and keep up the good work! I love it so far!

It’s never too late to send kinks! I’m always happy to hear them. I only have a basic plan for what days have what kinks. That doesn’t mean there isn’t space to slip in another few. 

As for DP, I don’t think I’ll have anything ‘hardcore’, but my plan says you should be getting that on Day 2 of his heat. So pretty soon here. 😁🔥

(I’m serious - keep sending me your kinks.)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LIN!!!!! Ahhh idk if he’ll see this but I still want to write something for him, because ya know, Lin and Hammie and writing. Anyway, Lin, if you do see this, I want to thank you for everything. The amount of hard work and effort that you put into things is insane. You’re never scared to speak out and represent so many groups of people (ex. immigrants, the LGBT community). You inspire me and so many other young (and older) people to work hard, and that our background or race doesn’t matter because we can still be successful. Thanks to Hamilton and In The Heights (also 21 Chump Street), I’ve built so many new friendships, both in real life and on here. You’ve also helped me strengthen my passion for theatre and music and the arts in general, and you’ve made me feel proud to be Hispanic.

I know that was long, but Lin has done so much and he deserves it and I hope he has a greatttttt birthday (don’t eat too much cake)

@linmanuel

Love,
Talklessblogmore aka Dani ❤❤

tbh honestly one of the things that hit me hardest in all of op is that moment in marineford where ace is watching his crew and family fighting and dying all around him and he bows his head and starts sobbing but he’s so mad at himself because they’re tears of joy 

because even though the people he cares about most are getting hurt he’s just so floored that they’d be willing to go that far for him and he’s never really thought he was worth anything so he can’t help but be happy that oh my god, they do care, they do love me, they think i’m worth saving 

like what a complex and sad yet sweet emotion idk

i always wonder if people miss me just as much as i miss them, and it’s hard dealing with that when you have depressive thoughts about yourself already. like “of course they don’t” “you had nothing to offer in the first place” and “everything is your fault, it’d be better if you were never around”. idk i just feel that a lot and wish my heart wasn’t so big and vulnerable.

“i don’t understand why gay people are expected to be happy about another straight star wars couple (f*nnrey)” idk maybe because darkskin black characters are never ever given the opportunity to be soft and gentle and emotional while still finding love esp in a major sci fi franchise but werk i guess

it’s sad how we’re growing up in a world where it’s almost impossible to feel comfortable in your own body.

and people say: “if you’re unhappy, do something about it”

but it’s not that easy. determination doesn’t come out of no where. motivation isn’t given–and self esteem isn’t worth it. sometimes our mentality is so ruined by social standards that we end up losing ourselves and all of that with it; and in the end, happiness is never achieved. I want to be comfortable in my own skin and body, but it’s my mind that won’t cooperate and help me become a better and happier person.

my mind just won’t let me, that’s how it’s been my entire life, and that’s how it is now.

the mind controls you.

MOONHYEOKU’S HAPPY NEW YEAR 2017 “THING”

H e e e y guys. I called this a “thing” because I don’t know what else I could call it :) idk if this a Follow Forever bc I’m not quite sure of how a FF is supposed to work :w so let’s say that I’ll just split some words and then tag cute people who I follow and love seeing on my dash.

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Idk man, it’s kinda odd to me that people out there don’t have mental illnesses and it’s like wow, what’s that like? What’s it like to have a normal sleep schedule, or to wake up and want to get out of bed and start your day. To look at yourself in the mirror and not see something gross, what’s it like to feel genuinely happy. To eat normally. And talk to people normally without freaking out about what you’re going to say next. Or what about the fullness and feeling alive, what’s it like to not feel empty and dead on the inside. To feel real emotion instead of being at your highest point one time to feeling like you’re in the deepest darkest hole the next, idk man. It’s a hard thing to explain. I’m curious as to what it’s like to not be the way I am. Cause idk why I am the way I am you know. I bet it’s a whole new adventure.
—  Jayimmy