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PSA and a story about why I’m making this PSA

So today I ran into a distant relative (I’m pretty sure she’s my grandfather’s cousin) and she was like hey how are you. As some of you know I have purple hair(pictured below) and she for some reason thought it would be perfectly fine to just start playing with my hair and telling me how much she loves it.

I also went to the state fair today. There was a guy dressed up like a transformer to take pictures with kids. My little sister took a picture with him and as we walk past him to go on our way he starts to pet my hair. (Literally like this but on the side of my head)

Originally posted by bringcoffeeorsmth

When I first dyed my hair my friend’s dad would just come up behind me and start playing with my hair.

I have a lot of issues with people touching me (specifically my hair) it makes me really anxious and I generally don’t do well with it. My biological mom doesn’t either so I could be a genetic thing. My dad and his family for the most part all understand that if I don’t go to hug you you don’t come to hug me. My step brothers also understand this. My mom (and most of her side of the family) don’t and I’m not allowed to complain or they will get really mad and try to guilt trip me. Also I curled my hair today and the second you touch it just slightly to much it goes straight and they just felt the need to play with it which made it straighten out more.

So here’s the PSA

Do not go up to people and just start playing with their hair. Colored hair is not an invitation to touch their hair. Just because someone’s hair is different from yours in any way shape or form does not mean you can touch it. Period. There are no exceptions. You ask to touch people’s hair. You only touch it once you are given consent.

This is the last day I’m letting it slide. Next time I’m telling people off.

(This is what my hair currently looks like the back is a more vibrant purple just because it holds color better)(also my little sister is being covered by the moon for her privacy I don’t really want her all over Tumblr)

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Imagine it, the cathedral, all Vienna sitting there, his coffin, Mozart’s little coffin in the middle, and then, in that silence, music! A divine music bursts out over them all. A great mass of death! Requiem mass for Wolfgang Mozart, composed by his devoted friend, Antonio Salieri! Oh what sublimity, what depth, what passion in the music! Salieri has been touched by God at last. And God is forced to listen! Powerless, powerless to stop it! I, for once in the end, laughing at him! 

One thing that a lot of transmasc people struggle with before they fully realize they’re trans is the question of “do I hate being treated like a woman because women are treated like shit, or do I hate being treated like a woman because I’m not a woman?”

and one method (though not entirely foolproof) to figuring that out is asking “would I be upset if another girl was treated like this?”

like, I’d be just as mad if some dude said “you can’t do math because you’re a girl” to a female classmate as I would if he said it to me

however, I never got uncomfortable at waiters calling my female friends “m'am”, I was only uncomfortable when they called *me* that

and obviously everyone’s feelings are different and there’s tons of variables at play, but if you find that there’s a lot of the second scenario going on with you, there’s a good chance you’re not entirely cis

list of important adventure time episodes!

I posted this on twitter and thought I should post it here too!!

adventure time is ending on the 3rd of september, so if you wanna catch up on adventure time but don’t wanna watch all 250+ episodes,, I made a list of all the plot driven episodes, I just saved your life you owe me your limbs now th


WAIT I JUST WANNA ADD THAT I DIDN’T ADD IN S9-S10 BC LITERALLY EVERYTHING FROM THEN ARE VVV IMPORTANT SINCE THEY’RE WRAPPING UP EVERYTHING

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