Hey so I saw this post where this mtf trans girl was posting about how she was feeling really feminine washing the dishes and cleaning and idk it just felt really sexist and I'm not sure where the line is because I know it's how they might have been raised before their transition, but I feel like it doesn't make it ok to claim chores as something feminine and idk I guess just where's the line between being comfortable and pushing an agenda..?
Well I’m not really one to ask since I’m not the ruler of said agenda/rules
I’m my opinion, if it makes her feel more comfortable with herself, then let her be. It’s a bit different when she says it than if a cis man/women said it.
It’s like me saying I feel more masculine and manly when I change my car oil myself or x, y, z something society sees as “manly”. I like how it made me feel more masculine and comfortable with myself and in my body.
Yes women can change their oil themselves and do “manly” shit just as men can do “womenly” shit but as a transgender person, it just helps us feel a bit more comfortable in our bodies we were born in.
Sucks that society has bashed into the heads of many that women do this and men do that sort of deal but I don’t think she means it in that way.
Unless she’s simply stating “WOMEN CLEAN AND COOK FOR MEN” and starts calling out women for not doing it then that’s sexist. But if she’s just keeping mainly to herself and not bothering anyone than I believe that she’s completely fine and valid in her emotions.