hi! sorry this may seem like a weird question but i wanna use tangles in school like i hate using them under tables bc Im nervous about other pls reactions bbut they make noises and i don't want to bother anyone w them so ive tried to use my fuzzy tangle a few times but away from everyone else,, I wanna use my fuzzy tangle in school but it has bright colours on it and it could get attention from others so idk what to do,, should I stick w normal tangles?? i or still go w/ fuzzy??
It is all trial and error. If you want to play with your tangle on top of or below your desk, do it.
I don’t know what the rules are in your school, so i suggest taking the tangle out while everyone else is busy with something. Just quietly take it out and stim as much as you need or want.
If you’re working in a group though, i suggest only using it under your desk, that way nobody can say you are distracting others.
So because I don’t know the situation, this is what i suggest:
The first time you play with it on your desk, wait until everyone is doing individual work or listening to a lecture. The first time, you should use your least colorful tangle. Just quietly take it out after the lesson/activity has already begun. Start with the least attention-grabbing tangle first, because people will notice gently, maybe ask you about it, but it will become a normal fact that you are stimming during lesson. whatever. Now that people are no longer curious, introducing the tangle fuzzy should be no problem.
If anyone gives you a hard time, don’t get defensive. if you act confident, and show them that you know what you are doing, there are less doubts to be cast,