idk i just needed to do this

jessicakimba  asked:

Idk if i should message this or if you even answer but I really need to rant. Why do people force us to be social, or tell us to smile or they think we are afraid of them just because we keep our distance ? Im not comfortable around new people and i take my time to get used to them. Tday I had someone telling me to smile and to come closer and he was pushing so hard. I get why but if people see u r uncomfortable then why would they keep pushing?? I just dont understand. .. and I hate it...

@jessicakimba, thanks for ranting to us. It really makes our day. It can be increasingly annoying to have people push you. Especially if you just told them that you don’t want anything to do with them. To be told to “be more social” is one of the worst things to be told by someone on the outside refusing to look in. I hope you feel better and I hope you remain adamant in the face of extroverted society. Always here to lend and ear if you want to talk again! :-)

yo so i just tried to kill myself then my roommates when i got out alive from the mental hospital for one week were like ‘we’re evicting you bc your mental illness is too much to handle’ and im SCRAMBLING to find housing, my parents are unsupportive, and i really need help. pls donate to me on paypal emi.serna1@gmail.com or “signal boost”, as it were, bc i really am stuck in an extreme shitpile of stress and idk what to do about it ive been unemployed for like 5 months and now is the time when i really really need help so badly

anonymous asked:

Honestly nissi no offence but i just saw the jeonlous compilation u made and we need to talk about how much u do for us like putting in the time to compile it all, finding the links and even giving the exact time i hope u know that we rlly appreciate it ur so sweet 😭😭 same with the fanfics 💖💖😭

SCREAMS i just wiped away a single perfect tear its rly no big deal i like doing this kind of thing but it means a lot that u said this !! ur the sweet one here 

lizmalfoywayland  asked:

Hey I'm having a kinda lonely night. Do you have any cute Sam/Jared pics, or can you recommend any good fluff fic's (I already read all your fics ☺)

Ohh Lord, this is exactly the ask I needed today. I’m sorry you’re having a lonely night. I’m going to post this, then go back and edit it (because for some reason I can’t add photos to this? idk) and I’ll add a ton of pictures and give you some fic recs :)

I’m just going to give you all the Sam/Jared blogs or writers with some Sam fics that I can think of off the top of my head.

Check out @jpadjackles @impala-dreamer @wayward-oneshots @cleverdame @elliewinchesterr @idreamofhazel @bringmesomepie56 (I for sure missed some, I know that and I’m sorry)

(photos below the cut)

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nerds-eye-view  asked:

#25 maybe with Joel going on a tangent about his meteor thing again to the reader? Maybe over the RT podcast where he just keeps getting more and more frustrated because Burnie and Gus are mocking him or whatever and the reader needs to calm him down a bit because (idk man do what you want, I'm gonna love whatever you do even if it isn't my prompt!)

“Joel. Joel!” you raced after your boyfriend as he stormed off the Podcast set before it was even over. You finally caught up to him, grabbing his arm and spinning him around to face you.

Joel was muttering to himself, frustrated and clearly upset, “I swear, I’m not crazy.”

You sighed, upset for him and rubbed his arm softly until he seemed to relax. “I know you’re not. Odd? Completely. Crazy? No.”

Joel’s muttering started to slow and he seemed to be coming back down to Earth. His eyes finally met yours and a small smile creeped onto his face before pulling you into a gentle hug.

okamiwolf01  asked:

I NEED ADVICE, HOW DO I STOP THINKING ABOUT MARK? OR DO I JUST NEVER STOP, AND MY HEAD WILL BE FILLED WITH HIM ALL DAY?

wELL START STANNING HANSOL NO IDK BRUV MY MIND IS 80% HANSOL SO IDK SUFFER LIKE EVERYONE ELSE

softbaz  asked:

combeferre 🌠

oh my oh my oh MY

general opinion: fall in a hole and die | don’t like them | eh | they’re fine I guess | like them! | love them | actual love of my life  ??? What kind of question is this anyways
hotness level: get away from me | meh | neutral | theoretically hot but not my type | pretty hot | gorgeous! | 10/10 would bang
hogwarts house: gryffindor | slytherin | ravenclaw | hufflepuff
best quality: A super nerd? Cares about everyone? A babe? The best™?
worst quality: Has to be taken care of, if not, he would get himself killed of starvation and sleep deprivation
ship them with: Courfeyrac, Enjolras, Grantaire, CER. yes 
brotp them with: Grantaire, Jehan, JOLY, Bahorel
needs to stay away from: Roads, museums, the coffee shop across the street (do not mention the coffee shop across the street)
misc. thoughts: Idk, i just love him so much? He is the love of my life? i need to find a real life Combeferre for myself

anonymous asked:

Hey girl!first of all i adore u so much for helping all those people here thats so sweet of u. I have a problem myself,i'm very VERY jealous when it comes to my boyfriend but i don't really show it when hes around i justhave to swallow all of my anger down because i dont want him to think that im crazy but idk how to handle it, im very sad most of the time because i just have to think about him finding a girl better than me you know?do u know how to stop my jealousy? Thank you very much!!!

His with you cause he loves you, you need to chill out and understand that or you won’t be happy girl xx

Selfie Tag!!!!~
Tagged this cutie @emmie-cb

Stop, Drop & Selfie! i.e. Stop what you’re doing and take a selfie.

It’s currently 8 a.m here in Italy and I’m waiting for my classes T.T
This is just a dorky photo that I took this morning at home when I saw the tag but since I don’t have internet at home (for now) I needed the university wifi 👀

Tag time: @saeyoungs-space-princess idk, just a few people “responded” to my tags so feel free to do whatever you want~
I don’t want to make people angry/annoy them 🌸

|| hey my dudes i may be writing a little more scarcely ( today ). idk what’s up with my brain, it’s not necessarily anxiety but i just feel super??? blank??? in all creative fields at the moment??? it’s bumming me out, bad. it could just be that my work environment isn’t doing it for me, on top of the fact that i’m on like six different medications rip. i’m still here though. y’all know i’m a dash fiend, that bein’ said, you know where to find meme.

Shout out to the people with mediocre talents

The people who can carry a tune but don’t have a remarkable voice

The people who can draw more than stick figures but can’t develop their own style

The people who have a decent imagination but no idea how to write it all out (or vice versa)

The people who can play covers of songs but can’t write their own music

The people who can dance with choreography but not freely

The people who can do sports but never make the team

The people who are good- that just don’t feel good enough

I really do believe that at least part of the problem of people distrusting science has to do with how we as scientists portray ourselves.

We have actively created a system where we derive authority from being seen as better/smarter/more competent than everyone else and then when people ask why they should trust us we respond with a very condescending version of ‘because SCIENCE IS FACT’ or something along those lines.

Like, consider how that would feel from the outside? Here are a small group of people who you have never met/interacted with who sequester themselves in impenetrable ~elite institutions that you can’t access and don’t feel party to who then tell you that what they say is fact because they’re smarter and better educated than you. And if you ever try to question them (no matter how reasonable your objections may be/seem to you) they condescendingly pat you on the head and say something like ‘don’t worry we know better. you can’t possibly understand what we do.’

Why the hell would you trust them? 

No one likes being told that they’re not smart enough to understand something, and no one likes feeling excluded from something they’ve essentially been asked to accept sight unseen. 

I don’t really have a solution to this, except some vague notion about working harder to portray scientists as people working a job, rather than geniuses who are above it all. 

And like trying harder to understand where people are coming from when they question science. And remembering that being better educated than most doesn’t make us smarter than most. It just makes us better trained in certain types of thinking.

I just think we need to keep in mind what we are asking of people. Which is to put a whole hell of a lot of faith in us.

Someone please write me a fic where Person A is a hockey player that rents/plays/practices at the same rink as an elite figure skating school that Person B attends and the hockey team and the figure skaters are always arguing about time slots and hating each other but Person A and Person B fall in love and it becomes like Romeo and Juliet On Ice™