My ex and I tried to be friends but I given up on it because we always fight and makes them depressed but they dont see it ig so they wont let me go. I really want to stop being friends now because if I upset them or something they threaten to out me (im bi) and it just gives me anxiety knowing during class they could be telling our councilor and the counciler tells my mom. Idk what to do, ik they have anger issues but this is messed up.
first off, thats incredibly cruel! youre completely fucking right they have no right to even threaten to out you.
secondly, the councelor shouldnt be able to out you to your mom. the only time theyre able to contact home is if youre planning on harming oneself or another person.
if you found a foolproof way out of this friendship, definately stop being friends with this person, theyre putting your safety in danger, in terms of both your mental and physical. and if you feel safe enough to, or if the situation is even more stressful then i advise getting a councelor (or trusted school admin) involved.
i wish you the best of luck, anon