hey mama goop could you help me?? My 'friend' called me fat after a couple of months of poking fun at my weight (im 130ish and 5'7 so i dont think im considered "fat" or even overweight i carry it all quite evenly) and its really gotten to me and now i cant eat without throwing up and now im hyper aware of my stomach at all times and i know this probably isnt healthy but idk what to do? could you maybe give me some advice??
Yo I hope you can me but your friend is a piece of shit what the fuck!
Its ok if you don’t wanna snap back (tho they deserve it).
Look, my dear, you are doing fine! even if you are a lil over your weight or you have some chub, that’s ok! theres nothing wrong with that! Trowing up your food is not ok, and it can get you in many, many healthy issues!!.
Hmmm… well, a good thing to calm that weird message you are giving to yourself as low as possible is snapping it back! I do that all the time when I am feeling bad with my body, its like “my hair is awful… but its soft and it looks like cotton candy” or “i am chub… but I look like a lil pillow and I am soft!” it’s really helpful, just twist it up to the bright side! it takes time and I started just with a “SHUT UP, theres nothing wrong with that” but I’ve been improving!
About the food issue, I think the best is start eating small portions but like… constantly? in that way you don’t get full in one shot and it may be take away your need to trow up a little, also drink lemon juice (with no sugar and no much water), that helps your stomach calm down when you wanna puke!!
Please take care, but most importantly remember that you are INCREDIBLY GORGEOUS!! Come give mama a big hug, ya fluffy adorable dork!!! Please take care of your body dummy cheesecake, its beautiful and lovely!
okay, so you know how nct is a rotational group and all that,, but what if sm decides to make the rookie girls into a female nct unit? Do you think it'll be cool?
as a person who anticipated sm rookie boys for years and got the bomb dropped about nct— MY HEART WOULD BREAK IF THE GIRLS WERE PUT INTO A UNIT GROUP LIKE NCT 💔 i know nct’s concept of units and rotations isn’t confusing for us, but nct isn’t as strong in korea due to this! if it does happen i wouldn’t mind but if it can be avoided i hope it is…especially with how tough the girl group market is becoming they’ll need to be managed carefully and yeah :( for that same reason people didn’t put up so much on after school and in the beginning suju was formed to become a fixed group bc of it haha idk i just hope sm focuses on our few princesses and make them a good strong group 💓
Before the anons about fredo there was another that said only the date ' April23th' (I don't remember good) and now Louis tweteed and Harry appeared. idk what it means but the other shadys about fredo I think they just took advantage it
Honestly I don’t believe in any shady anons until they’re proved exactly right (which happened really few times so far)
Anonymous said to shadyshit91:So he tweeted to sally yesterday and I know it was to support what she is doing but we know Louis and he did that with the pizza stuff too.So he let us know yesterday he will be soon in the UK (or maybe he is already there) and today he hopes everyone is having a good day which means something is about to happen.I hope it is something good.Louis if you’re reading us just tweet your :) so we know we’re good!
sjhasajhsk omg the :) face is cursed
Anonymous said to shadyshit91:It is going doooooown and antis are gonna have a bad couple weeks. I feel it.
helloo. i am good and i have showered and i am ready for fluff about dan and phil skyping for the first time ?? idk i need some motivation to do my homework :P
comin right up! alright SO, the first time dan and phil skyped was probably not too long after they’d started talking a bunch. I think it was probably phil who suggested it, very casually in a text with like “hey do u wanna maybe skype later?? :P <3″ and dan was just… instantly filled with butterflies, so anxious and excited that he almost forgot to respond. because he’d thought about it before, obviously he wanted to ask, but he was too nervous that phil would say he didn’t want to. but now that phil is the one suggesting it??? as soon as he gets his fingers to stop shaking he rewrites his text four times before settling on, “yeh sounds great!! :) <3″ (I mean we’ve seen their old tweets they obviously were fans of the <3) so fast forward to that evening, dan has literally changed his shirt into one that seems “cooler” and has made sure there’s nothing embarrassing in the background. then he sits and waits on his bed, checking his phone every ten seconds for when phil will say he’s ready. he finally gets a text that says “just a minute sorry! I’m so excited to see your actual face ahhh!!!!” and dan can’t stop the huge grin that spreads across his face as he responds “no worries!!” and then a second later “me too!!!” when they finally do call each other, when they finally see each other’s faces, neither are trying to hold back their grin. “you’re real!!” phil says, beaming at him. “I’m real!!” dan replies, laughing, although nothing seems real right now. how is it that only a few weeks ago phil didn’t even know who he was??? he was just another person that watched his videos. and now they’ve had countless conversations when they should’ve been sleeping, they’ve shared things with each other that they’ve never told anyone else, it all happened so fast and they’ve both been swept up in it, this sticky sweet lingering feeling of happiness since they started talking. they start talking again now and before they know it hours have passed, hours of laughing at each other and themselves, laughing together, sharing links to videos they think the other would enjoy, telling stories and telling secrets, and neither wants to say goodnight. but they do, eventually, once their eyes get too tired to keep open. they say goodbye ten different times, in ten different ways. “goodnight!” “sleep tight.” “talk to you tomorrow” “hope you have a good rest of your night!” “skype again soon?” “definitely.” “text you in the morning.” “have a nice sleep.” “bye.” “byyye!” “should I hang up?” “I guess so.” and then they both laugh, and someone hangs up after hesitating yet again. and then they both push their laptops aside, lay back in their beds, smiling to themselves. thinking about each other. dan is just about to drift off to sleep when his phone vibrates with a text. “have sweet dreams dan <3″ chest warm, he quickly texts back, “will do now. night phil <3″
I started scrolling through your blog and seeing your replies to all these asks (and your awesome art!) and I'm just sitting here like??!? You seem like the sweetest human being ever??? Oh my goodness???
s orry for the late reply anon i suck at replying www I’M ?!?!??!? oh my god ;;;v;;; idk what to say! that’s very kind of you!! i know there’s a lot i need to work on towards being a better person but idk?? sometimes ppl are having a bad time and a little act of kindness can go a long way so i always try to keep that in mind! and ppl like you are too good to me omg??? so i also try to express how grateful i am haha sorry i’m rambling but wow this is so nice???? thank you<3
Hi, I really like your blog, and I was very happy to see that you're a Realm of the Elderlings fan. I got the Farseer Trilogy at christmas and I've been reading them slowly and I'm finally on Assassin's Quest. So, my question is do I read the Liveship Traders next, or the Tawny Man trilogy next? From what I understand Liveship is next but is a side story that only has mentions of the main story. Idk. I was hoping you could give me the wisdom of someone who has read it and help me decide. Thanks
D’awww, thanks, @kangadrew24636291! Nice to meet another fan too! And thank you for the question!
Well, first off, you’ll have to decide whether you want to go on after Assassin’s Quest. It’s pretty much getting your feels punched every… 5-10 pages and it’s just a very… heavy novel, not in terms of pages (though it’s that too), but in terms of content because I mean… Fitz. After Royal Assassin. Hobb really doesn’t skim the consequences of those events which I adore about her stories, everything scars and leaves a mark.
Basically, prepare a ton of tissue boxes.
Well, it depends on what you see as the “main” story. Realm of the Elderlings has an overarching story that just happens to have Fitz’s narrative be a decent chunk of it. Right now, Fitz’s story is localized to the Six Duchies, but as the Fool points out: the overarching story extends beyond the Six Duchies. Whether the Red Ship Raiders prevail or not, the consequences bleed into the rest of the world and vice-versa.
If you’re solely interested in Fitz’s story and his first-person POV, I think you can get by, for the most part, without reading Liveship Traders. You’ll lose a fair amount of pre-knowledge, nuance in a singular character dynamic and definitely spoil an important plot point in the overarching story, but Fitz’s narrative is still relatively self-contained from the rest of the series at this point. I wouldn’t recommend this at all though.
If you’re interested in the overarching story and a multi-POV third-person narrative, Liveship Traders is crucial. You can’t skip it and expect not to get lost in the main arc without it. In fact, I would absolutely recommend reading Liveship Traders first over Tawny Man. It’s a fantastic trilogy and I would actually bump it above The Farseer in terms of writing craft alone. Hobb really tightened her writing and it shows.
You get more world-building, far more lore and a wider variety of characters, especially female characters from all walks of life. And, honestly, Liveship Traders’ villain is far superior than The Farseer’s, in my opinion. It’s a stronger ensemble cast for me. Ship of Magic’s initial pacing is a little slower than Assassin’s Apprentice but I think it pays off in future books.
I would definitely advise reading Liveship Traders if you love wonderful characters. Wintrow, Althea, Keffria, Amber, Etta, Sorcor, Ronica, Paragon, Kennit, and Malta! Hell, just read for Malta alone, if nothing else.
(Though, be warned, you will probably want to drown her at first. I’m dead serious. XD)
as a white™ to other whites™ in the omgcp fandom i feel like a lot of y'all are afraid to write poc because you dont want to get shit wrong but like fr. its not hard. just dont talk about being black or asian or latino if you dont know what its like. thats it. you can still write them, and have them be your main character, and allow them to be complex. you can be white and write a black character!!! all you have to do is not write about the black experience because you dont personally know about it. that means that you can still have them be black, like things that are typically associated with black culture (if thats what the character is like), and still have human emotions!! it can be done well, like if you take a gander at @geniusorinsanity who writes an amazing nursey!! and if you REALLY don’t feel comfortable making content like that, you can always reblog it!! support those creators, like @hoenursey and @omgcphee and @duanlarissa and @oluranurse and like a billion others!! follow accounts like @omgpocplease !! dont be afraid to show interest in those characters because even if you get called out, its a learning opportunity man. if someone calls you out then you just learn about what you did wrong like nobody is perfect but if you recognize your mistakes, own up to them, and strive to be better itll be okay!!! like the characters you want to, but dont be deterred from the ones you do because you dont want to make people angry!! its just a process of life my friends, we are all on a learning curve. (make content for non-white characters broski. it will enrich your life.)