idk i always like what i don't have

i know this is probably the most predictable post i’ve ever made but here’s why joey’s very relatable and why you guys should stop dragging me for loving him so much

1. very sleepy

goodnight preds

goodnight joey

2. loves dogs

that’s doug. joey bought a giant teddy bear from costco for him and its name is bubbles

and here’s his previous dog lily

3. very affectionate?

(x) boop

(x) now that is what i call a great hug

4. ???

(note the smile too wow)

(both from x)

5. incapable of not smiling

and if you ask me that’s exactly what angels looks like?

6. loves his lineys

laying out the facts

i don’t know about you but personally the jofa line is probably the best thing that has ever happened to me

7. hates kesler

icons only…

(x)

8. always speaks too soon

9. overcame bad hairstyle decisions, as in went from this: (x)

to this:

which imho is… inspirational.

this is maybe just 20% of all the reasons i love him so follow for more idk

Ok but Matt’s mom gave Stephanie a necklace that says ‘family’ on it and I’m lowkey emotional.

i feel like i’m the only one who genuinely likes black paladin keith

So this cat right here let me tell you about this cat. I have seen her roam the neighborhood for years and particularly enjoys my neighbors front yard and yes I already asked it is not there cat but she just really likes their yard.and yeah idk what her story is but she growls at me when I go near her and runs away and yet was right at my front door? Anyways its sorta cool how for 5 years this cat like just goes where the wind takes her sometimes I won’t see her for weeks at a time and then boom she comes back and just hangs around my house…anyway I have named her Amber

anonymous asked:

hello uh;; sorry if this comes off as sudden but i wanted some advice as ive been really down about this. im taking my n levels this year and idk why but for years it makes me feel really inferior knowing that im in the NA stream and so many of the people that are close to me are from the Express stream and that makes me so sad knowing that soon they will be gone and ill be left behind both in education and them being somewhere else. idk what to do;;

hey hey, i understand how you feel but please don’t look down on yourself being in NA! i’ve had lots of friends in NA and I’VE always been jealous of them bc they were given lots of opportunities to try more hands on courses like Design & Technology and Cooking while us express kids were stuck with academic studies.

i’m assuming that you’re not as close with your classmates as you are with your Express class friends? if you have a CCA, try to bond with your juniors and make friends with the fellow sec 5s who’re staying too!

remember, kids in the express doesn’t mean that they’re inherently “better”. you aren’t being “left behind” either, they’re just graduating earlier and you’re doing just fine as you are, with the original structure of secondary school which used to be 5 years anyways! have trust in your friends that they won’t simply leave you either.

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negative thoughts about Tegoshi to stress him out

Sometimes I really wonder how people manage to be larries but also kind of think that louis is some kind of idiot that just accepts whatever ‘nasty selfish Harry’ is doing like he’s some love fool that just accepts things while the fandom clearly sees through said version of Harry like what kind of relationship do people think they have? And do people realise they are basically questioning louis’ intelligence?

anonymous asked:

you always leave such nice tags on reblogged fanart, how do you do that without it seeming repetitive? (i'm not great at giving comments other than 'this is cool' or 'i love this' and i want to show artists how much i like their art)

Oh wow, thanks 😬 I always forget people see all the constant screaming I do about art I like, haha. But hm, I guess if you’re looking to diversify the kind of comments you give artists just try figuring out some specific part of the art that makes you like it to comment on. I know in all my old art classes teachers would always stress that when giving feedback, picking out specific things like “the linework is really dynamic” or “your colors are excellent” gives artists a lot more information about why you like their piece. So that’s one shortcut to finding different ways to say you love something. But also, don’t even sweat it, it’s super nice to tell people you love stuff!

I’m glad I’m at that point where I can handle having mutuals who are mutuals with people who were shit to me

anonymous asked:

heyy !!! since i love your writings so much i wanted to suggest a prompt : if we imagine that sana and yousef are endgame, maybe they could adopt an animal ? or idk, it might be an improvised date where they see each other in a zoo or something idk i don't have much imagination but i really wanted a writing related to animals since we already had this bluebells things, the fauna and flora u know ;-) anyway thank u for ur lil fics they're so good

Heeey!

Thank you so so much for trusting me with your idea

I’m not sure if what I wrote is actually what you wanted, I’m really sorry if I disappoint you. This was what I could come up with. I really hope you like it 

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She arrived home with a smile on her face. Well, she always arrived home with a smile on her face to be honest. She loved her work at the hospital and she loved coming home after a long day and knowing that her family would be there waiting for her.

Since Yousef was a teacher he was always there when she would come home from work waiting for her with smile on his face, maybe dancing to some song in the kitchen while he’d cook dinner.

She opened the front door and heard the music. She smiled to herself and entered the kitchen. There, like she had guessed, her husband was cooking some meal while moving to the rhythm of the music.

Hakim, who was only one year old, was on his highchair.

“Hi, baby” she said as she approached her son and took him in her arms

“Hey, love” Yousef said turning around to look at her “Oh, you weren’t talking to me”

“I’m sorry but you know my kids come first” she said laughing.

Yousef stuck his tongue out at her and turned around to focus on the meal.

Sana gave her son a kiss and put him back on his chair. She approached Yousef and wrapped her arms around his waist, hugging him from behind.

“Hi, baby” she whispered gently

Yousef turned around on her arms and faced her.

“Hey, love” he said giving her a sweet kiss on her lips. “How was work today?”

“Good, same as always” she said “But you know I love it so I’m happy”

“And when you’re happy, I’m happy”

Sana rolled her eyes at the cheesiness of her husband.

“What about you? How was your work?”

“Good, same as always” he said shrugging.

“Are you mocking me, Acar?” she said raising an eyebrow

“I wouldn’t dare”

“That’s what I thought” she said pulling away from the embrace to look at the food. “What are you making?”

“Your favorite”

“Why?” she asked suspicious. “You always make that when you either want something or have done something”

“Can’t a husband just make his wife her favorite dish?”

“Yes, they can, but you don’t”

“You are acting as if I wasn’t romantic, you’re hurting me” he said acting offended

“You’re romantic, but I know you. What have you done?”

“Fine” he said turning the stove off and facing her “Remember that dog shelter that is on my way home from work?”

“Yes…”

“And remember how I always tell you about this cute little puppy who has been there for months?

“Yes…Yousef get to the point”

“Well, the dog is not there anymore”

“Someone has bought it” she guessed

“Adopted”

“Okay? What does that have to do with us?” She asked confused

Yousef didn’t say anything, he only bit his lip and looked at her waiting for her to realize what he was talking about.

“Yousef…tell me you haven’t adopted that dog”

“It’s so cute!!” he said pouting

“Yousef!!” she said exasperated “You should’ve told me!”

“I know, but he’s so cute”

“You already said that”

“I’m sorry, but he was looking at me with these sad eyes and I just couldn’t leave him there”

“Can we bring him back?”

“We could but…I don’t know if Leila and Khaled are going to like that. They seem to really like him”

“Leila and Khaled? Yousef, where is the dog now?”

In the backyard, they are playing with them”

“You left our kids alone with a dog you don’t know? What if he bites them?” she said worried.

She started her way to the backyard. Yousef took Hakim and followed her.

“Come on, Sana. The dog is really small and the girl from the shelter assured me that it has all the vaccinations it needs”

Sana didn’t answer. She got out to the backyard and looked for her kids.

She found them on the grass. Leila, who was almost 6 years old, was throwing a little ball so the light brown pomerian could go and find it. Meanwhile, Khaled, who was 3, sat on the grass and laughed. Sana felt her heart melt at the scene, she loved seeing her kids so happy.

“Are you really going to take him away from them?” Yousef asked as he stood by his side with Hakim on his arms

“I hate you” Sana said

“I love you” he said smiling.

Sana rolled her eyes and approached her kids.

“Mommy!!” Leila exclaimed when she saw her.

Sana crouched in front of her daughter and gave her a hug.

“Hi, sweetie. Khaled aren’t you going to give me a hug?” she told her son

“You’re too far mommy” he said pouting.

She shook her head, that kid was so like his uncle Elias. She sat down on the grass next to him.

“Better now?” she asked

“Yes!” Khaled said hugging his mom.

The little dog came back with the ball on his mouth and run straight to Sana who was a little startled at first.

“Don’t worry mommy, Carrot doesn’t bite” Leila said sitting by her mom and caressing the dog

“Carrot?” Sana asked

“Yes, daddy said that it was a good name because he’s almost orange” she explained

“Daddy said so, huh?” Sana said looking back at her husband who was smiling at her “You really think that just because you named him carrot I’m not going to bring him back?”

“Is Carrot going to go? No mommy please, I love him” Khaled said almost crying

We’ll take care of him. He’s so cute!” Leila said taking the dog in her arms

“I don’t know…”

“Look at him!”

Leila placed the dog on Sana’s lap. The animal looked at her and licked her face. Sana couldn’t help but laugh, he really was very cute.

“He’s giving you a kiss mommy” Khaled said

“Can we keep it? Please” Leila asked

“Okaaaay” she sighed “Carrot can stay”

“Yaaaay” both of the kids said.

They stood up and started to play again with the dog. Sana stayed on the grass and was quickly joined but Yousef, who sat next to her with Hakim on his lap.  He put his arm around Sana’s shoulder and brought her closer.

“I knew you were going to love him” he said

“What can I say? Every team needs a mascot” she said shrugging with a smile on her lips

“And we only need two more kids to have our basketball team completed”

“Don’t push it Acar” she said making him laugh “And you’re going to have to do more than just my favorite meal to make up for this”

“I will gladly do that”

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So this is it!!

I really hope you’ve liked it and that I didn’t make a mess out of your idea.

Also if anyone is wondering what dog I had in mind here’s a picture

Thank you so much for the prompt

And thank you to all of you that read this!!

Hope you like it♥♥

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idek this is so cliche I just I wanted to draw something fluffy for a certain baka because I’m a terrible friend and drawing is the only thing I can do I’m sorry

anonymous asked:

Salam, Idk if you might understand me but I have this little things running throw my mind telling me I should give up in life & just die. I hate feeling like this but I'm always thinking like My Dua will never be accepted, I'm not good enough, what's the point of all this, & I'm always thinking maybe I should go back to my old ways. I feel like since I repented I'm Having so many problems in my life & people think of me as good person who changed so much, but they don't know I struggle so much.

Alikum Salam

I will try my best to answer your question by referring to the Qur’an and Hadith

Wanting to give up in life and die

“And never give up hope of Allah’s Mercy. Certainly, no one despairs of Allah’s Mercy, except the people who disbelieve.” (12:87)

“Do not give up and do not be downhearted. You shall be uppermost if you are believers” (3:139)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “No one of you should wish for death or pray for it before it comes, for when one of you dies, his good deeds come to an end and for the believer a long life will not increase him in anything but good.” (Muslim)

A version narrated by al-Bukhaari says: “No one of you should wish for death. Either he is a doer of good and will do more, or he is a doer of evil but perhaps he may stop.”

Al-Nawawi said: This hadeeth clearly indicates that it is makrooh to wish for death because of some harm that has befallen one, such as loss or distress caused by an enemy, or other such hardships of this world. But if a person fears harm or fitnah with regard to his religious commitment, it is not makrooh to wish for death, according to this hadeeth, and several of the salaf did that.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of people is the one who lives long and does good.” (Ahmad)

Acceptance of Dua

And when My slaves ask you (O Muhammad) concerning Me, then (answer them), I am indeed near (to them). I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me. So let them respond to Me (by obedience) and believe in Me that they may be (rightly) guided. (2:186)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Nothing can change the Divine decree except Dua.” (Ahmad)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Du’aa’ may be of benefit with regard to what has already happened or what has not yet happened, so adhere to Du’aa’, O slaves of Allaah.” (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “No precaution can protect against the decree of Allaah. Du’aa’ is beneficial with regard to what has been decreed and what has not been decreed. The du’aa’ meets the calamity that has been decreed and wrestles with it, until the Day of Resurrection.” (al-Tabaraani)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Ask, and you shall be given it; and you shall be given it.” (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Let everyone of you ask of His Lord all that He wants.” (Tirmidhi)

We were informed by our Prophet ﷺ that Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) fulfills everybody’s wishes so long as a person does not get impatient and say, ‘I asked Allah for so and so and I still haven’t received it’. We are told never to despair of the mercy of Allah (subhan wa ta’ala).

The Prophet ﷺ informed us that there are several forms for the acceptance of dua. One is that you are given what you ask for. Another is that you are given better than what you asked for. A third is that some calamity that was about to befall you has been averted instead. The fourth is that the dua is saved up for you as sawaab/reward for the Day of Judgment. In all cases, asking Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) for things is beneficial. 

Feeling like you are not good enough

He created the heavens and earth in truth and formed you and perfected your forms; and to Him is the (final) destination (64:3)

Indeed, We have created the human being upon the best of forms (95:4)

Allah SWT has created each one of us unique; you will find no two people in the world with the exact same personality, physical appearance, strengths, weaknesses, interests, etc. The way Allah SWT has created you and moulded your personality is for a reason – he has made you this way because he wants you to achieve your full potential and use your abilities for a bigger cause – do not lose heart if the situation looks difficult right now – keep striving and doing your best and, most importantly, keep asking Allah SWT to see you through this difficult time and be by your side – if you have His help, there is no difficult you cannot overcome. Again, remember He has created you the way you are for a reason – Allah SWT makes no mistakes with His creations – you are good enough – you are exactly the way He intended you to be – you only have to work hard to move from strength to strength now.

What’s the point of all this?

(He) who created death and life to test you (as to) which of you is best in deed (67:2)

And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me (51:56)

Going back to old ways,

Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: ‘We believe,’ and will not be tested. And We indeed tested those who were before them. And Allaah will certainly make (it) known (the truth of) those who are true, and will certainly make (it) known (the falsehood of) those who are liars, (although Allaah knows all that before putting them to test)” – (29:2-3)

“And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Saabiroon (the patient). Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: ‘Truly, to Allaah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.’ They are those on whom are the Salawaat (i.e. who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His Mercy, and it is they who are the guided ones” (2:155-157)

And We have certainly revealed to you verses (which are) clear proofs, and no one would deny them except the defiantly disobedient. (2:99)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “No misfortune or disease befalls a Muslim, no worry or grief or harm or distress – not even a thorn that pricks him – but Allaah will expiate for some of his sins because of that.” (Bukhari)

Facing struggles after having repented

The Prophet ﷺ said: “If Allah wills good for His slave, He hastens his punishment in this world, and if He wills bad for His slave, He withholds from him (the punishment for) his sin, until He requites him for it on the Day of Resurrection.” (at-Tirmidhi)

The Prophet ﷺ “If a certain status has previously been decreed by Allaah for a person, and he does not attain it by his deeds, Allaah afflicts him in his body or wealth or children.” (Abu Dawood)

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Great reward comes with great trials. When Allah loves a people, He tests them, and whoever accepts it attains His pleasure, whereas whoever shows discontent with it incurs His wrath.” (at-Tirmidhi)

Narrated by Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqaas (رضي الله عنه) who said: I said: O Messenger of Allah ﷺ, who among the people are most sorely tested? He ﷺ said: “The Prophets, then the next best and the next best. A man will be tested according to his level of religious commitment. If his religious commitment is solid, his test will be more severe, but if there is any weakness in his religious commitment, he will be tested according to his level of religious commitment. And calamity will continue to befall a person until he walks on the earth with no sin on him.” (at-Tirmidhi)

Al-Hasan al-Basri (رضي الله عنه) said: “Do not resent the calamities that come and the disasters that occur, for perhaps in something that you dislike will be your salvation, and perhaps in something that you prefer will be your doom.”

Al-Fadl ibn Sahl (رضي الله عنه) said: “There is a blessing in calamity that the wise man should not ignore, for it erases sins, gives one the opportunity to attain the reward for patience, dispels negligence, reminds one of blessings at the time of health, calls one to repent and encourages one to give charity.

Finally a word of advice from me: it is very common that, once someone finds their way back to the deen and tries to practice it earnestly, they are faced with hardship. Do not fear these hardships as they are from Allah SWT and may be intended to either purify you from your previous sins, help you learn an important lesson and come out of the difficult situation a more mature and improved individual or to test whether you can withstand challenges you face in life and, having gone through them, still maintain your level of iman in Allah SWT and keep trusting Him to take the best decision for you. 

Take this difficult time in life as a challenge you will get through and form an intention that, once this difficulty is over, you would have come out of it a much stronger individual and a much better Muslim in’Sha’Allah. Remember, every night ends and every difficult situation is eventually taken care of by Allah SWT. You will soon witness good times in’Sha’Allah. 

And, behold, with every hardship comes ease (94:5) 

Read all the above mentioned Quranic verses and Hadiths remembering that each of them are intended specifically for you and are a message to you from Allah SWT to help you through this difficult time. Whenever you are faced with negative thoughts, try to remember the above and find hope – I know it is easier said than done but we must strive in Allah’s path and never doubt his decisions and power even for a second. You are strong enough to face this hardship and you will not go back to your old ways - You are strong enough for this! As Allah SWT has stated in the Quran:

Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear(…) (2:286)

Takecare :) 

anonymous asked:

So my friend has recently told me she's ace and it's got me thinking about myself - I get turned on when reading sex scenes but whenever I think abt having sex myself I always get weirded out? Like i can't imagine myself doing it and I don't want to, it seems gross. I feel a bit like I'm copying my friend so idk what to feel?? help???

It’s very common to have a friend of a label and then want the label if it applies to you. It does feel like copying at times. I really don’t know how to help with that feeling besides saying that logically when a friend has a label they make it seem okay and a possible and that makes you are more likely to pick up the label yourself. Fakers don’t worry about being fake, they just fake it to do or get whatever they want.

anonymous asked:

Honestly, at first I thought I was straight because I had crushes on guys, but now I'm in high school and I don't like anyone. I think both genders can be pretty or handsome, but I don't wanna date or do anything sexual. I'm assuming it's just a fear or phobia(as my friends tell me) but I believe I fall under the ace or aro category and I always feel uncomfortable talking about my sexuality cause idk what it is. Ya know? But I just found this blog today and I love it sm! 😌❤️

Originally posted by dailykpopmeme

Aww, thank you!  That’s so nice of you to say!

It sounds like you are doing some searching and learning things about yourself.  Just know that it’s ok to take your time.  It’s ok not to know what your sexuality is.   You have the right to decide whether or not to talk about your sexuality.

It’s ok not to want romance or sex.  There doesn’t have to be a reason for not wanting romance or sex.  Ever.  And if you decide later you do want it, that’s ok too!  Sexuality is fluid and being different later does not change the validity of how you feel right now.

I wish you luck! (and tasty foods to rain from the sky on your plate)

anyhow one thing i was thinking about was the way harry talked about having his band in the slew of interviews he did after dropping ‘sott,’ and when the interviewer asked him whether he felt lonely on stage without the other lads he answered no because he had his band with him, and the way he kept looking back at them on snl. whereas niall’s first few performances were literally just him and his guitar, hashing it out between his voice and this super minimal musical arrangement that’s he’s just sort of growing out now, over time..idk what it means but it’s interesting to think about, like, their differences as performers

anonymous asked:

Do you genuinely think dans okay? Recently there have been many hints towards embedded mental health issues. And the idea of the stress of everything including us getting to him and making him unhappy just makes me feel awful. Do you have like an opinion on it? Idk I just don't wanna be the only one to think that right now he isnt okay

honestly i don’t think it’s anything more than or different from what he’s always dealt with, he’s just been more open about it lately

anonymous asked:

I don't like being protected either cause I'm a pretty independent person? If that makes sense :0 cause I feel the need to take care of myself and do what's best for me vs someone tryna protect me from the mean ol' world or something idk , that could be just me ;0

YEAH, that makes sense, i think it’s the same for me! i’ve always been independent person bc i had to be and then there’s also the fact that i’m short and people have always equated it to me being completely helpless for some reason?? it’s defs not just you, i feel the same abt feeling the need to take care of yourself and do what’s best for you & everything

  • The most common phrase heard in the band room: "God I hate band so much. I'm gonna quit"
  • The least carried out phrase heard in the band room: "God I hate band so much. I'm gonna quit"

anonymous asked:

Do you have a relationship as a lover with anybody?? If you don't want to answer it's fine it's not my business

no i don’t :,00
ive never had a crush or felt any romantic feelings for anyone thus far , so right now idk if im aromantic or not