idk how i even love him sometimes

one of my favorite things about the trans!danny hc is that, assuming we’re going by canon here, jack is suPER supportive

like almost every episode we hear jack referring to danny as “danny boy”

like,, think about this for a second

danny coming out to his parents, fidgeting nervously with the hem of his too-big t-shirt

maddie being quiet at first, taking it in, thinking about how she would have to take her son shopping for new clothes immediately.. and a binder. he would need a proper binder.

she gets so lost in calculating all the things she would have to do to help her son feel comfortable she doesnt realize how quiet shes being - but danny does

he starts panicing. his fears had come true - they didnt accept him. of course they wouldnt.. he begins backing up when all of sudden jack’s face turns into a huge grin.

he claps a hand on his sons shoulder, beaming. “oh danny boy!” he proclaims, “why didnt you tell us sooner???”

danny blanches. he hadnt expected his dad to be so accepting. this snaps maddy out of her trance, and she starts talking at lightning speed, how they would have to buy him some new, appropriate, clothes and the seriousness of proper binding.

danny cant believe it.. they? they’re ok with this? he starts to cry - from relieve and from happiness and also from a bit of guilt he didnt tell them sooner - that would have made things a lot easier

from then on jack and maddy try their best to be as supportive as they can be. maddy always cooing about her precious baby boy and jack going on and on about how they need to have more father-son bonding time. making sure hes always comfortable and correcting anyone who ever dares misgender their baby boy. danny couldnt have been happier.

even so, he stills gets dsyphoria sometimes and it really brings him down - and so jack does the only thing he could think

he starts calling him danny boy.

maybe a little reminder is all he needs… besides, he always wanted a son anyways

How NCT 127 + Ten Would Kiss You

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now listen since y'all sleep on taeil  so much that you probably don’t know this but he has really pretty lips and really nice hands so ,, naturally ,, you want them on your waist asap. (the lips or the hands you can decide)(i’m literally five why did i say that) anYwayS kissing taeil is going to be soft at first bc yeah he’s awkward but he also takes his time doing things that need to be done. so slow touches here and there, his hands tracing your curves as he presses kisses up your jawline. he stops right in front of your lips to just stare and you. probably tucks a flyaway lock of hair behind your ear and tells you you’re the most beautiful person in the world. when he fINALLY kisses you, i imagine taeil is very slow and sensual with his kisses. doesn’t use tongue much unless he’s rlly in the mood bc he just likes the intimancy of your lips touching. his hands never stop traveling to places they shouldn’t be tho ngl.

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so i was feeding my bird when i had a random thought: dear evan hansen characters and pets????

evan would totally have a dog (and he’ll name them after a kind of tree smh),,, imagine evan coming home after school and hes having a shit day and the dog is at the door jumping with joy and evan just melts because who knows how long his dog has been waiting on the door mat for him
he cries in bed, and the dog just jumps in bed with him and sleeps by his side and evan is like, instantly comforted
he swears the dog knows when evan is feeling like shit bc it always lies by his side when he is
evan loves his dog so much ok

evan brings zoe over and she just pets the dog and plays with it for hours probably

connor would totally have a cat?? a house cat if u will and sometimes when connor has like those mad mood swings hed just look at the cat and observe how chill it is and he’ll just sit there talking to the cat and asks how it even does that and idk. connor loves the cat. he cant sleep without the cat by his side
he also spoils the damn thing and appreciates it when the cat brings dead rats to him because wow it took all that effort to bring him a gift and at the same time kinda pissed bc “what you think i cant get my own food?? smh cat”

jared ?????? would have a BIRD?? idk man maybe its just me being biased but imagine jared having a talking bird and he just teaches the bird how to say inappropriate things like “penis” and thinks its funny until his mother catches the bird saying “penis” everytime she says a word to it lmao
jared loves his bird to the moon and back,, he put the cage next to his desk so he can have company while working on the computer and it always makes jared snort when its super quiet and he starts typing and the bird just says “penis” in response

PLS ADD MORE DEAR EVAN HANSEN CHARACTERS AND PETS??? I WANT MORE? OR MAYBE NOT BC THIS IS PROBABLY A SHIT IDEA

every time neil gets himself injured on the court, and refuses to go to abby about it because he doesnt like showing people his scars even though shes already seen him and he gets so much shit from andrew about it how stupid do you have to be to hit yourself in the face with your own racket? but then andrew just brings him into the locker room and begrudgingly fixes him up without any more comments. and he sometimes runs his fingers over neils scars, because he sees them as something different, he sees them as beautiful. he’d never admit it, but neil knows. he knows that he sees them as part of neil, and he loves the whole of him, even the things neil sees as ugly.

our posts about jim kirk are really funny but! at the same time idk i feel like the Softness and Mess of him gets to this weird exaggerated point where yall make it seem like he needs a literal baby sitter and its like! yall! hes a star ship captain like i get that a lot of them rely on exaggeration for comedy and like, ive been guilty of this too but its still like hes a goddamn genius and he loves and takes his job very seriously so sometimes i see posts and its just like,,, hes not literally five, even if he does like to have fun, he knows how to take care of himself, hes been through a lot, and frankly the most valid hes not taking care of himself thing comes from his sense of duty to the job before even the health of himself so idk yall. idk. im not saying stop making funny posts about silly jim kirk bc i live for them and i do think hes silly and occasionally a Mess, but at the same time theres this very prevalent joke of “jim kirk has 1000 bad ideas” when hes the youngest starfleet captain for a Reason

anonymous asked:

Tbh I'm happy for Kaneki and Touka and all but it just makes me sad for Hide haha, he depended as much on Kaneki as Kaneki did on him and he felt lonely and left behind when he joined Anteiku, and idk now that Kaneki has Touka and possibly a baby on the way he'll be even more lonely and alienated from him (if he's still alive) bc I feel like Kaneki is finally getting the family and love he wants but Hide will still only have Kaneki. this just makes me wish he doesnt come back at all haha ^^;

Ok, I don’t mean to be rude, I really don’t, but can we stop romanticising this narrative of codependency? ^^’
I hate how toxic the supposed Hide fandom can be sometimes. Why would Hide be sad that Kaneki is happy and has finally found his place in the world? Why would Hide be against it if it’s everything Hide has always been wishing for? If Hide wanted to be Kaneki’s whole support system by himself, he wouldn’t have talked to Touka about how to better read through his lies and half truths. He would have never told her that he’s a good liar and how he became like that as a result of a lonely childhood. He wouldn’t have tried to make Touka into an ally, as it later happened.
Sure, Hide cares a lot about Kaneki. And sure, he was lonely when Kaneki closed himself off, but it was because Hide knew that Kaneki was hurting himself by making bad life choices, not because he couldn’t cope with Kaneki being his own person.
Stop romanticising Hide’s protectiveness of Kaneki and making into a narrative of possessiveness and codependency. It isn’t.
If you’re a real fan of Hide you should value him because he’s his own person, not because he’s Kaneki’s best friend. If you really liked his character, you should wish for him to come back and get a proper character development and a narrative that centers around his role in the story, not wish he was dead because otherwise the story wouldn’t fit your flawed standards for what makes a good friendship (or romantic) dynamic.
Just stop. Or at the very least don’t come to my askbox and make me read it.

anonymous asked:

RFA reactions upon finding out MC has sixth sense and has a little ghost clinging to them? And the ghost would always play pranks from innocent ones to rather dangerous things to the MC because he/she became jealous of being close to RFA?

MOD SAERAN HERE :D here a HC i promised C: *sorry if its short im focusing on the giveaway and everything* 

Zen

  • OKAY SO this poor muffin is believing the world is against him
  • WHY IS HIS PRECIOUS PRINCESS GETTING SHIT THROWN AGAINST THEM
  • GOD WHY ARE YOU HURTING MY LIFE. MY HEART. MY SOUL.
  • You saw him become really REALLLY FUCKING paranoid
  • You decided to sit him down and talk to him that you have a ghost that follows you around
  • He was laughing and he was believing you were joking around
  • But then you just looked at him and said Stop laughing
  • He continue laughing until his picture fell
  • JESUS Christ he became so fucking quiet. He became so quiet that Elizabeth 3rd can fucking walk in and he wouldn’t sneeze
  • You told him that the ghost doesn’t like him because the ghost is really clingy to you
  • He literally was ready to talk to the ghost
  • “OKAY look Mr. Ghost….. I am sorry that I love myself *another picture frame fell* AHHHH OKAY IM SORRY I CAME FROM A FAMILY WHO TORE ME DOWN ALOT I HATED MYSELF OKAY and I can’t control myself sometimes but what I do know MC is the most beautiful person ever. You and me are both lucky to be with such a wonderful person……. I understand you want her to yourself….. but I would love to make a compromise :’).
  • The ghost was silent probably thinking and shit
  • “Please…… let’s make this work *cue the tears*
  • The ghost was good because Zen actually talks to it whenever you are around and you help translate :)

Jumin

  • ever since you started to live full time at his place Elizabeth 3rd became paranoid O.O like that cat became bipolar big time. He was really worried that Elizabeth was jealous that another female was getting his attention.
  • So he decided to control the situation by analyzing every little single thing. One day when he was analyzing by pretending to do his work he swore to JESUS Christ he saw your hair being pulled. He thought he was seeing things till a week later he saw something trying to trip you when you were bringing him some pancakes.
  • Okay this man was full on suspicious. He went online and looked up “ why are strange things happening to my girlfriend” and he found that you may have a demon ! :O
  • He was fucking shook
  • He was ready to call demon busters and shit. He wasn’t gonna let his kitten be haunted by a demon. But he was really nervous because what happens if he is wrong then you are gonna think he is fucking crazy so he decided to ask you…..
  • “Kitten…… I am…..uhh… worried that someone may be trying to play tricks in you… because I’ve been analyzing that..”
  • “ Jumin his name is bob the moody ghost and he is just mad at me because I love you .-.”
  • “Oh um *leans in and whispers* can CAN he he hear everything we do……?”
  • “ yes Jumin the FUCKING the loving and everything”
  • “ oh… :O”
  • “Mr. Moody Ghost, i understand your *cough* implications that you may not like that I’m taking MC away from you but I’m not. MC IS a wonderful person and we can schedule visitations *a lamp fell over* OKAY im SORRY WE can learn how to get along. “
  • You just laughed because he was trying to make a business deal with bob :’)
  • He is a keeper :)

Seven:

  • OKAY he swore he felt that your body was literally ice
  • When he tried cuddling with you at night you were cold but when he turned around you were your regular temp O.O #suspicious
  • So he thinks you are pretending to add some cold weather or something because you don’t want to cuddle with him
  • So he decided to see what else you do O_O
  • So he looked at every previous camera security footage and he noticed that a lot of shit was happening to you from like small to big !!?!??
  • He saw you carrying groceries and he swore he saw your sweater being pulled that made you fall.
  • When you were trying to cross the street he noticed that a rock magically appeared to make you fall right when a driver was about to hit you
  • What in the mother of honey Buddha chips is this
  • He went to church and got holy water and was spreading it everywhere
  • He was just blessing EVERYTHING
  • When you got home… you saw him blessing everything and you asked him what’s wrong and he started to cry because he thinks the devil is trying to get you
  • YOU explained to him that Miss Foxy is mad because you don’t spend time with her because all you do is take care of the family.
  • He was laughing but then he saw you were serious and he started to crack jokes at the ghost and tried to gain its trust
  • LOWKEY he knew he should be scared of you but why the fuck not
  • He had his own demons as well :(

Yoosung:

  • he was playing LOL one day and he noticed that for the past few weeks his computer was becoming really laggy :/
  • He wanted to cry because how can the love of his love BE BREAKING!!! He literally hugged the computer “ baby…. I I love you so much…. WHAY have I done….. have I not been spending time with you baby??? I’m so sorry…. I will spend more time with you now”
  • The FUCKING computer started to work perfectly and he was shook
  • So you let him spend time with LOL while you cooked or did chores around the house but he felt bad so he decided to go to his real life baby C:
  • That’s when his computer started to buzz again O.O he went closer to it and continue to play and it was working just fine…. he left to help you and the computer started to buzz again
  • You knew who was playing tricks on him that you had enough because it was starting to affect your relationship
  • “PATRICIA ENOUGH IS ENOUGH LEAVE YOOSUNG COMPUTER ALONE. WE ARE GOING TO SETTLE THIS NOW.”
  • Yoosung was !!????!?!?!??  You dragged him to the sofa and you told him everything
  • “ so that is why I have the scar on my shoulder because Patricia gets jealous when I have a S/O … and she can be really mean :/”
  • “LOOK PATRICA. I DONT APPRECIATE YOU HURTING OUR MC. YES I SAID OUR. BECAUSE SHE BOTH MEANS ANLOT TO US AND I KNOW OTHERS WILL CALL HER CRAZY BUT I KNOW SHE ISNT. I BELIEVE YOU EXIST PATRICIA NOW PLEASE STOP HURTING HER BECAUSE IF YOU HURT HER I SWEAR I WILL GET A PRIEST HERE AND DO THE EXORCISM… OKAY that may be an extreme but please leave her alone….”
  • Patrica was shook !!
  • Like someone standing up to her !!!??
  • Shit he is a keeper :’$
  • So she left you alone sometimes

Jaehee:

  • she always knew something was off ever since she met you.
  • She didnt want to mention it because well THAT WAS GONNA BE RUDE AND JAEHEE AINT GONNA BE RUDE WITH YOU BOOBOO
  • But she noticed that you were getting gradually sick…… so she thought you had a disease :/
  • She took you to the doctor and everything was fine so she demanded more test to be done with you and she was a crying mess because you …. You… looked dead :/
  • She knew she had to do something so she was going to ask jumin for help
  • The next day… YOU WERE PERFECTLY FINE.
  • JAEHEE WAS SHOOK LIKE HOW TF DID THIS HAPPEN
  • You felt awful for lying to your S/O so you decided to tell her the truth fearing what she will say…. So you put your big girl panties and sat her down
  • “Babe drink this tea…..I I need to talk to you..”
  • “MC i dont feel comfortable about this ii… iiI DONT UNDERSTAND BABE IM WORRIED BECAUSE YOU YOOU LOOKED LIKE YOU WERE DYING MC HOW HOW CAN YOU WAKE UP LOOKING ALL BETTER”
  • “ * grab her hand* look jaehee.. Ive been born with this gift….. I see dead people… and this little boy is attached to me because of my aura and he is a bit… possesive… if i dont pay attention to him 24/7 he likes to play pranks… sometimes involving my health…..
  • “……………….”
  • “Jaehee???”
  • “……………………”
  • “Baby say something please anythi-”
  • “HOW CAN I ACCEPT A REASON LIKE THAT. ITS NOT EVEN LOGICAL… HOW CAN SOMETHING THAT LIKES YOU OR ATTACHED TO YOU EVEN HURT YOU… THATS NOT WHAT LOVE OR LIKING IS”
  • “Jaehee he is here please dont get him mad…”
  • “LOOK IDK TO BELIEVE IT OR NOT BUT LOOK YOUNG SIR… WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS WRONG… YOU CANT ALWAYS BE ATTACHED BY THE HIP BECAUSE ITS UNHEALTHY… YOU ALMOST KILLED OR IDK WHAT YOU DID TO MC *sobbing* I DONT WANNA LOSE HER SO SO IF I HAVE TO GO TO DRASTIC MEASURES TO STOP YOU THEN SO BE IT”
  • You saw the ghost start to cry and it ran to you for a hug and it said sorry
  • weeks later you helped the boy cross the light c: 
Skinship with NCT Ten

-Shy but sensual touches at first
-soothing back caressing
-unconcious hand holding
-like when u look at your hands its already clasp together and u don’t know how or when
-it comes naturally!!!
-FOREHEAD KISSES
-HAND KISSES
-like you’d have your hands sitting comfortably on his lap
-then he’ll randomly brought it to his lips
-bc he fEELS LIKE IT
-PLAYING WITH YOUR FINGERS HAS BECOME HIS HABIT WHEN HIS BORED
- SHY CHEEK KISSING
-small pecks on your lips
-bc i feel like ten is a shy kisser AT FIRST
-He’ll come around
-and when he did
-TEN IS UNSTOPPABLE
-KISSING YOU AT THE RANDOMEST TIMES
-ITS A QUICK KISS BUT ITS FULL OF LOVE
-his kisses may vary from sweet and innocent to wild and hot
-u choose
-holding onto your waist like his life depends on it
-long hugs
-BEAR HUGS!!!!
-TEN GIVES WARM BEAR HUGS
-OCCASIONAL BACK HUGS
-while whispering sweet nothings in your ears
-ANYTIME IS CUDDLE TIME with him
-SHOULDER KISSING
-idk but i feel like he’s into this kind of thing
-like you’d be preparing a sandwich then he’ll suddenly come up behind u and kiss your shoulders
-“hey beautiful whatcha doing?”
-“ idk ten what am i doing?”
-then both of you will laugh bc he can clearly see what your doing yet he still ask lol
-bc he’s a flirt like that
-LIMB TO LIMB TYPE OF CUDDLING EVERY NIGHT
-SPOONING!!
-SMALL SPOON idk i feel like he likes being spooned not the other way around heh
-occasional make out sessions (yes i added this)
-ok let’s move on to spending his days off
-TEACHING U DANCE THAT LATER TURNS INTO SOMETHING HOT
-COOKING YOU RAMEN
-BC RAMEN IS HEART
-AND THAT’S THE ONLY THING HE CAN COOK
-CROSS DRESSING
-TELLING YOU HE LOVES YOU LIKE HOW TGE STARS LOVE THE MOON KIND OF LINES
-CHEESY PICK UP LINES HE LEARNED FROM JOHNNY
-LAYING IN BED
-HIM TELLING LAME PUNS
-PILLOW FIGHT
-STARING AT EACH OTHER
-CUDDLING IN BED IS THE BEST EVEN ITS SOMETIMES IN A WEIRD POSITION
-RANDOMLY SAYING I LOVE YOU
-KISSING YOU FROM YOUR FOREHEAD,TO YOUR NOSE,YOUR EYES,CHEEKS THAT KIND OF THING THEY DO IN MOVIES
-AND AT LAST PASSIONATELY KISSING YOU
-YOU’LL FEEL HIS FEELINGS THROUGH THAT KISS AND IT WAS THE BEST KIND.

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A/N : well this mess turned out to be like a dating would ten be like more than skinship with ten(bc i had major ten feels doing this) im sorry it got out of hand :// tell me if i should change it and do only skinship without the other things that i added. Nonetheless,i still hope you’ll enjoy this but pls pls tell me what you really think . Thank you for requesting *^0^*

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I accidentally watched most of Mewtwo Returns a few weeks ago and was reminded of exactly why I love Mewtwo so much.

Miles strikes me as the kind of guy to enjoy bad movies

Like really bad ones with awful special effects and writing

Takes Waylon home with him to marathon a few sometimes and loves to laugh w/ him the whole while and have a popcorn fight throughout and wrap themselves in blankets

Waylon isn’t as into them but he sits through them anyways bc dang does he love Miles’s laugh, and the cuddles, oh boy. Don’t even get him started on how he loves the closeness

Gets so comfy he falls asleep on Miles sometimes tbh

Idk I just want some fluffy camera boy snuggles please and thank u

Do you also make Warriors Of Hope imagines ? Like in a brother/sister relationship ?

We sure do! The way I decided to do this is that you are the older sibling to the Warriors of Hope, and because you are older or some other reason idk, you don’t get to endure the abuse they do

I hope you enjoy! If you are uncomfortable with any of the abuse that the Warriors endure, I suggest you do not read!

- Mod Kaito

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bandaid girl (soulmate!au)

so this is purely just for me to put it here sorry i suck at writing but i looovoe yuta and this was just one giant brain dump

pairing: nakamoto yuta x reader (ft some sicheng n taeil)

genre: idk what you expect it’s fluff

notes: careful of a lil language but that’s pretty much it

word count: 724

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the-queen-gill-deactivated20160  asked:

I ship it so much I want them to suffer

OK LET ME TELL Y’ALL A LITTLE SOMETHING. 

I LOVE IT WHENEVER KAGOME GETS KIDNAPPED AND HURT. WHEN SHE CRIES OUT IN PAIN. WHEN SHE CLINGS ONTO INUYASHA BECAUSE SHE TRUSTS AND LOVES HIM AND KNOWS THAT HE WILL PROTECT HER. 


I LOVE IT WHEN EVERYONE AROUND INUYASHA, EVEN THE DEMONS THAT TARGET KAGOME BECAUSE SHE IS A PRIESTESS, KNOWS THAT INUYASHA LOVES KAGOME AND THEY USE HIS LOVE BY KIDNAPPING HER IN ORDER TO MAKE INUYASHA COME TO THEIR TRAP. 

The look Inuyasha gets in his eyes, the fear that catches in his voice in the anime when Kagome gets hurt and/or targeted is the BEST. 

I long for Kagome to bleed to the brink of death. I long for her to lay helplessly on the ground, almost dying. I will give Mukotsu my soul as a present for poisoning Kagome and making Inuyasha think she was DEAD. He cried because he was so relieved that she was alive. He cried because he thought he had lost Kagome. Did you see his ANGER when he was going around smashing trees in that episode and rashly yelling at the Band of Seven to come out and fight?

Look at his broken soul. Ok right here, his heart and soul were breaking. He thought he lost her.

Look at those tears. Look at the little droplets that sparkle out of his eyes when he learns that she is alive. The rush of feelings is too much to bear, even for someone like Inuyasha who seems to never cry. (<- omg this sounds like a poem now haha).

I live for moments like these between them. In their married life, my headcanons will make Kagome suffer and cry while stabbing Inuyasha’s soul and making him lose his mind.

Like how did Rumiko write such a perfect feelsy character? Kagome is a strong woman, yet she isn’t tsundere enough to be one of those annoying female characters (idk, to me, female characters that are tsundere like tsundere guys annoy me. I really LOVE cute, nice girls (but not whiny) who fall in love with mean, yet kind, guys). 

I LOVE IT WHEN KAGOME CLINGS ONTO INUYASHA AND HOLDS ON TO HIM AND BECOMES A DAMSEL IN DISTRESS. BECAUSE RUMIKO ISN’T JUST WRITING HER DISTRESS SCENES BECAUSE SHE DOESN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH KAGOME OR BECAUSE KAGOME IS A WEAK, STUPID, WHINY GIRL. SHE WRITES THEM TO SHOW THAT EVEN THOUGH KAGOME IS STRONG, SHE STILL IS WEAK SOMETIMES AND THESE SCENES SHOW HOW MUCH INUYASHA LOVES HER. 

Inuyasha will protect Kagome even if it kills him.

anonymous asked:

YOU CANNOT GIVE DEFINITIVE CONSENT WHILE INTOXICATED. Robert WAS subject to unwanted sexual advances irregardless of his own persistence to perform them. He could under no justification give consent. Bex recognised that he was drunk and was fully aware that he would regret it-Considering the countless times he has soberly indicated that he does not want her YET she convinced herself that requiting the act was acceptable under the circumstances? While having the capability to act APPROPRIATELY?

can i tattoo this on my forehead anon?

i think this is why so many people have such a problem with us saying it was rebecca that took advantage, instead of the other way around. i don’t actually know what he said to her as i actually couldn’t put myself through watching that scene (not because of the actual cheating, but all of this consent stuff hit me straight away.) but i have seen quotes/gifs. i think a lot of people take him saying what he did as direct consent, and if he was sober it would have been, but he was incapable of standing properly, so what he said made absolutely no difference. 

she knew he was drunk, she pushed him off the first time and actually acknowledged it. and if i remember correctly she said something about not putting herself through it again (correct me if i’m wrong) but she knew exactly what she was doing, she said he was too drunk, so she should have stopped it going too far. i’m not saying that robert’s innocent, he shouldn’t have gotten so drunk, but if i’m going to lay the blame on one person for it all, it’s easily going on rebecca.

i’ve been drunk way too much in my life already, and i have never acted appropriately whilst drinking, in fact i’m a mess. so for rebecca to take him seriously, to go as far as thinking she was still in with a chance with him the next morning is something i can’t get my head around. it’s ridiculous to think that she didn’t know he was acting like he did because he was in pain, she knew what he was going through and i personally belief that if The Incident didn’t happen, she would have tried again sometime soon regardless, because she is desperate for him. and it just makes all the ‘forced’ abortion stuff even stranger for me. 

i know a lot of people love rebecca, but i really don’t understand how people can fully defend anything she’s done. 

anonymous asked:

what's your opinion on people who say that alec isn't as into the relationship as magnus is? like, he constantly puts his family over magnus, doesn't seek comfort from magnus in 2x18 after max, has to be prompted to go after him by izzy (even tho he clearly wanted to? idk maybe that was just my impression), etc. bc i do kind of think there's been an imbalance between them, but i don't think that's bc alec doesn't love magnus or isn't as in it, but idk how to articulate it.

I 100% don’t agree. 

I think Alec and Magnus are both as committed to this relationship as the other is. The thing is like people seem to forget that even though they are very similar- they are, in so many ways- they are sometimes very very different.

When Alec and Magnus met Magnus had no outside pressures. Oh, he might take shit for dating a shadowhunter, but the truth was there was no one he had to answer to. He’s the one in charge for the most part, and the only person he has to answer to is himself, really, at the end of the day. The part that’s hard for him is to even open himself up to the possibility of love.

Alec, however, has a lot of people he feels a need to answer to. His brothers, his sister, his father, his mother, the Institute’s heads, Clave Ambassadors, The Clave itself. Alec is on so many leashes that he’s almost constantly being choked by one or the other. He’s so closed off to anything but duty and responsibility. 

They’re coming from too very different places. It all leads to the same middle place, the place their relationship exists in. But people really want to come at Alec for not showing he loves Magnus but… he does show it. He thanks him for his help, when literally no one else does. He asks him about their date like a barely a day after he nearly died? He bought him the gift. A gift Magnus treasures so much he carries it everywhere with him. Even in his own fucking house! He’s literally constantly telling Magnus he loves him. 

But love doesn’t change you entirely. He’s still who he is at his core. And that person is someone who yes, is dedicated to his family, to the Clave. He’s still a little emotionally stilted and still hesitant with showing them. Of course Izzy had to let him know it was okay- which is what I really think it is, not telling him, telling him it was okay, and Alec not sure he could do it even so- for him to go talk to Magnus. And of course he’s going to hesitate. 

The point is that people have spent two seasons talking about how Alec doesn’t love Magnus, but every single thing he does shows them wrong? His mistakes aren’t made for lack of loving Magnus. They’re made because he’s young, he’s privileged, and he spent a long time hiding everything about himself. I mean, I kind of feel like I’m repeating myself, which makes me feel like maybe people will think I’m excusing him. I’m not. I hold Alec accountable to his mistakes. But his mistakes don’t make me think he’s anything less than 100% in love with Magnus.

kryloxen  asked:

*kicks open door* HI LILY ITS BEEN AWHILE HOW ARE YOU???? idk if the fav bots talk is still open but if it is can I just talk about how much I love Breakdown?¿ I loved Knockout first but BD suddenly wormed into my heart and has never left? I love his personality snd I love that he's not that much of an asshole ya know? Sure he's a jerk sometimes but he's my jerk™ I love him so much and I even stopped watching Tfp for awhile bc I knew he was gonna die, I couldnt handle it lmao

Yes dear it’s always open!!! So happy you sent in your favorite darling!!!! Who doesn’t love Breakdown right?! He’s amazing!!!! I know Knockout sure thinks so ;) Anyway thanks for sharing and awesome choice!! 😍😍😍👌👌👌

Originally posted by bammshee

anonymous asked:

ive been reading a lot of meta here and i just wanted your opinion about this (lol i just really like your opinions and blog SO): what do /you/ think about grantaire? like, i love him, but hes also SUCH an asshole (imho, from reading LM.. and a lot of meta) and a lot of fandom kinda glosses over that? like idk. it feels like a lot of the time people will ignore r's canon flaws or( and this is what really annoys me) ise his alcoholism/depression to absolve him of his flaws? which is just +

(p2) really unhealthy and weird imo. but what do you think? how true to r’s character do you think modern interpretations/fandom is, and like.. i didnt really get into this but it kinda ties in- how true do you think fandom is about /enjolras’s/ character? (which I have a Lot of opinions about but this is already two asks lol) anyway, sorry for the thought dump!

hi! wow this is a really interesting question. (sorry for the late-ish response, it’s finals times) 

i’m sure other people could be waaaayy more eloquent on the matter, but generally speaking my opinion of fanon grantaire (and i recognize i’ve internalized a lot of these traits) is similar in some ways, and then so different in other ways. 

fanon grantaire is way more … likable. he’s a lot more sympathetic? compelling? none of those are the words i’m looking for but english escapes me a little rn. 

canon grantaire is an asshole. he’s an asshole. he harasses the waitresses, the way he speaks about women is kinda gross at times, he’s constantly ranting (fanon doesn’t get this quite right because:) he’s super obnoxious and not in a ‘haha ok grantaire’ but in a ‘you’re ruining the whole night someone please shut him up or change the subject anything’. he’s so rude!!! he’s genuinely, genuinely, an asshole. like. a dick. 

canon grantaire’s relationship with enjolras is so unhealthy,  and usually in modern aus it gets toned down or if it’s addressed it’s either really good, or it’s completely brushed off (and usually enjolras’ fault) i wrote a little bit about my opinions on that here actually, but that was very much just within fandom, and my issues with the way exr is often written) edit: i linked to the wrong one, this is the ramble i meant to link to. 

tbh…… fanon grantaire is watered down, and i understand why.

especially with blagden’s characterization (he didn’t have a lot to work with and he did a lot, on the exr relationship but he didn’t have room to work on the other stuff, etc) being so #relatable#unrequiredlove – fandom sees this tragic, queer, depressed/mentally ill man who doesn’t believe anything but he believes in this other man who is the literal sun and who doesn’t love him back

which… isn’t wrong. but it becomes a flat archetype onto which sad/depressed, queer fans can project their own experiences, feelings, etc on to him. I know i’ve done it in the past. that’s where the idea of (financially) poor grantaire comes from; in canon grantaire is very well off, if not wealthy. but it’s relatable to fans who want or do see themselves in this depressed queer character in love with someone unattainable – but who (in fanon) ends up with this person.

but that also means that grantaire can’t be too obnoxious, or too unlikable (because then it’s harder to villainize enjolras justify them getting together if grantaire is genuinely unlikable) and his obnoxious ramblings will actually strengthen the amis’ arguments or whatever fanon does because we want to like grantaire because we see ourselves in grantaire 

i don’t really blame fandom for this – a lot of it hasn’t read the brick, and while grantaire is arguably our best fleshed out amis, he’s just not as compelling/sustainable for the exr fandom that wants to write the fluffy or even angsty fics

yeah i completely agree: fanon uses grantaire’s mental illnesses as a sort of way to be like “but he’s sad!!!!!!! it’s not his fault it’s a coping mechanism to be a total dick and harass the object of his ‘affections’!!!” (a dramatization). but sometimes I see it and i’m just…. grossed out. I talked a lot about that in the link up above because it really bothers me, as someone with a lot of mental health problems, and who spent an entire abusive relationship afraid i was being the manipulative or shitty one. like, people with mental illness need to take responsibility for how we act, and… for some reason it’s okay that grantaire is passive aggressive and/or deliberately aggressive because it’s how he copes or w/e idk idgi

In regards to enjolras……. i really don’t get fanon enjolras a lot of the time. most of this stems from fanon’s need to make everything just so extreme (one example is either enjolras can cook elaborate meals or he burns water. why not… just having a normal level of proficiency….) 

the thing that bugs me most though about enjolras’ characterization is how cold/unemptathetic a lot of people make him? like, the only thing he cares about is The Cause and like, combeferre and courfeyrac (even sometimes only really combeferre?), when that is just so inherently wrong

Enjolras is driven by love for his friends and for the common people, that’s the whole reason!! like, he enjoys his friends’ company, even grantaire’s when they’re not needing to get shit done and grantaire is being a shit. he’s willing to sacrifice the advantage they have with Javert as prisoner in order to save Prouvaire’s life (and when Prouvaire is executed, his grief is so powerful) and how he told the fathers to leave the barricade (remember, they didn’t have that many people to begin with) because he would not want them to grow up orphans or with single mothers unable to support themselves. hell, even his frustration with grantaire i read as his empathy and an understanding that while Grantaire may not believe in their cause, enjolras still didn’t consider him a completely lost cause (there’s also some stuff about the trust between the amis/grantaire bc of legal reasons but like. still.)  

i mean, at the barricade enjolras literally says “Love, the future is thine,” the future means progress for him (remember the 19th century is great but the  20th century will be happy? the future = progress = love for enjolras). anyway, 

enjolras loves people, so i kind of hate the fanon enjolras that is just. cold, only about the cause. there’s been a resurgence of headcanons and stuff that go against that mischaracterization but… i still see it more than anything else. 

also (also this is discussed in the link) I think enjolras’ character gets sidelined in favor of whatever way will show grantaire in the most favorable or sympathetic light? like, if grantaire is being obnoxious, enjolras is will respond/yell at him but it’s framed as being enjolras’ fault and the other amis will yell at him or whatever like…. ok. sure.

idk i don’t even know if this answered all your questions on my opinions. but this is getting so long lol…… you said you had some opinions on enjolras’ character??? please share!! i love to discuss this stuff

igot7anna  asked:

Why is Jaebum so fine?!

I ask @mumbleybummie this same question all the time.. Like he is so fine and sexy and yet still the biggest dork ever I love him lol. Idk how JB stans live because he is literally always on the attack! He’s so extra sometimes like you’re already hot af that’s not necessary jaebum >.<  I mean have you seen those videos where he’s even turned on by himself?!? I can’t lmao 😂😂 

Originally posted by chattyang

Another thing is his singing and songwriting. Talent is always sexy and he has one of the smoothest voices in kpop in my opinion. It’s so perfect for his style of music like on his soundcloud. 

Originally posted by nexttimeisnotthesame

But besides that he also just has one of the sweetest personalities. He is a great leader who loves all his members. He has such a soft spot for animals, feeding stray cats even if they scratch him up. He’s such an adorable mama’s boy and the cutest meme lol I feel like his personality makes him even sexier 💕

Originally posted by kotchop

ANYWAY!!! THANKS FOR EXPOSING ME AS JAEBUM TRASH 😅

anonymous asked:

What would Daddy Yoongi or Daddy Jimin do if you had a bad day and he wanted to cheer you up?

I’ll do Yoongi bc idk rip, but if you ask for Jimin specifically next time i’ll do it~; 

Though he sometimes isn’t as affectionate as the others, when it came to you- everything changed. He loved everything about you, but he adored how similar the two of you were personality wise- so if you were even the slightest bit upset, he knew in a heartbeat. 

“Babygirl..” He’d purr, motioning you over to him; turning to face you the second you shut the studio door behind you. “Come here, come to daddy..” 
With that soft frown painted across your face, you’d stay silent- just nodding in response as you slugged over to him; sitting on his lap. 

Wrapping his arms around you, he’d just hold you; know that even the simplest thing could help make your day even a tiny bit better. 
Your eyes well up with tears as you buried yourself into his chest, and the instant he heard your sniffles he hushed you. 

“Hush, baby, hush..” He cooed, running his hands up and down your sides. “I’m right here, everything’s okay..” 

-Jade 

Catching up on Elementary: rewatch: s1, ep19

I love the small touches they add to this episode to indicate Sherlock is an actual decent human being. He allows Mrs. Hudson to stay after she’s been kicked out by her boyfriend. He gives a homeless man money for a room for the night of a deadly storm, advice on how to make more on stolen cellphones, and doesn’t report him to the police. 

IDK I just … it’s one of the many reasons I love this show. Sherlock is brash and sometimes rude but he’s never malicious, and when he can be he’s quite kind to people. Even strangers, like the homeless man in this episode or the newly engaged couple a few episodes back.