idk about this

okay but

I don’t Discourse, but I get so angry when people dismiss asexual’s people’s problems as something like “Boohoo, you don’t want to fuck, no one gives a shit”.

But it’s so much more than that. Obviously it’s not homophobia, never was and never will be. It doesn’t even compare, it’s not the same thing at all. 

But there are issues asexual people face like - there is pressure, part of it from society, and a lot of it come for ourselves. And that kind of self-hate and self-loathing and thinking you’re broken and unloveable, developping unhealthy sexual behaviour and self-harm - it’s a thing, it’s definitely a thing, not something 14-year-old kids on tumblr made up for attention. It can really mess you up, mess your relationships up, and people are so afraid to talk about it - I read words of older people - and I don’t mean people my age, I mean people in their 50s, their 60s - probably they don’t even know asexuality is even a thing, they got married and had kids and always felt wrong, because they hate sex and they never wanted it and never felt comfortable around it but they did it, quietly, never said a fucking word, and hated themselves a bit more every single time because they never understood why they felt they were missing what they were always told was supposed to be a fundamental part of themselves. They spent their entire life thinking they were broken.

and. it’s not homophobia, it’s not bigotry from an entire society keeping you from jobs and housing, etc. there’s no stats or anything. And maybe a lot of non-asexual people relate to this self-loathing, too. Things are never completely clear cut - there is always some overlapping. It doesn’t make it any less important. It’s still a thing that most asexual people go through, at least for part of their life, and it can really, really mess someone up. And there’s no need to get into discourse or into any (useless and frankly asinine) comparisons - it just needs to be taken seriously for what it is, because people’s health and happiness are what’s at play and it matters, too.

So, with Frozen coming to Broadway fairly soon, I’ve been actually quite nervous to post about it? Because I know it’s dumb to most everyone, but dang, that movie means a lot to me. When I was in sixth grade, I used to act out the scenes in my room and belt out “Let It Go” over and over, and it really helped me realize that musical theatre was what I wanted to pursue. Not only that, but it came out just around the time my anxiety really reared its ugly head at me. For an 11 year old girl to see the awful feelings and thoughts and the strange habits reflected in a Disney queen…it meant the world to me. So, yeah, it’s overrated, yeah, it’s a flawed film, but dang it, Frozen really means so much to me and is a huge part of who I am today.

anonymous asked:

Weird question but what do you think Jensen's reaction would be if some 'fan' openly hated on Misha/Cas/both at a con? At maybe a cockles or j2m panel? Because I know Jensen jokes around a lot about this kind of stuff, I'd like to know how he would handle it if someone ACTUALLY were hating on Misha and not just as a joke. What do you think he would say/do?

i mean, we’ve seen what he does when people are slightly disrespectful to jared at panels. like that time a lady decided it was a good idea to tell jared that she had started a facebook group called “everything is jared padalecki’s fault” and it was meant to be endearing but j2 totally thought she was insulting jared so jensen stepped in and basically told the lady to fuck off. and we’ve seen jensen shout at rich (or whoever it was??) for being hard on rob, and he straight up grabbed rob to protect him.

but as someone pointed out to me recently, the way jensen is super protective over jared and rob is not really exhibited toward misha. i’m not sure if he’d act exactly the same, but i imagine if someone was being rude to/about misha at a panel, jensen would shut it down real quick. i also know that one time jensen asked the crowd if they wanted misha back and someone said no and jensen’s face looked like someone told him his dog just died. so there’s that. 

if you want people to leave you nice tags on your work… really the best way is to do the same to other creators… a little kindness can go a long way and very often you get back what you give. want kindness and excitement? give kindness and excitement. 

anonymous asked:

Hello, Lestat, have u been to the South Pole? I mean there is polar night and u can stay up all day long! Isn't that amazing?

♛Oh yes, definitely! It’s quite beautiful, the glaciers, the animals you see there, and the excellent sledding, of course. 

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sora-lynn  asked:

34 Young McGenji

Not sure how young you mean but at least Genji’s in his meat suit

“If you keep looking at me like that we won’t make it to a bed.”

McCree snapped out of his fifth-drink daze and glanced over at his neighbor at the bar. He hadn’t even noticed he sat down, which was a damn shame. The green hair was a noticeable feature but all too quick McCree was stuck on his eyes. Those wings even rivaled the ones Gabe had drawn from time to time.

He wished it wasn’t so damn dark in here all of a sudden.

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anonymous asked:

25+11 for victuuri?

The bar was Yuuri’s idea. It had been a grueling week of training mixed with the final touches of unpacking, and he thought they deserved a night out. Victor was excited to show Yuuri his favorite local bar, and took his time introducing and translating for his fiance. The staff fell in love with them, and quickly got them settled into a private booth in the back. 

The evening went well with talking about nothing, splitting a basket of diet breaking deep fried food, and Yuuri taking Victor’s hand while laughing and begging him to dance with him. It was a proper date without skating or training rearing it’s head. By the end of it all, they both had a slight buzz and Victor pressed messy kisses against Yuuri’s neck as he called an Uber giggling. 

“God, you’re gorgeous. Every time you dance you make me fall in love with you all over again. Remind me to send a thank you letter to Minako.”

Yuuri snorted but happily accepted a messy kiss. “She would probably write back with her squat exercise, and then ask if I’m keeping up with proper training. God, we can never tell her I’m doing exclusively Russian style now. Her French classical heart will break.”

“As if Lilia would teach anything else.“ 

The car pulled up and they crawled inside.Victor rambled off his address and pleasantries in Russian before leaning back to grab hold of Yuuri’s hand. He traced over every callous, kissed the bruise on his wrist from a nasty fall, and pressed kisses from his palm up his arm. Yuuri’s heart was going to melt out of his chest. “You get so affectionate when you’re drunk. Even for you.” 

“Do you want me to stop?” Victor pulled back some, but stopped when Yuuri’s fingers moved to the back of his neck. 
 
“Of course not…it’s nice.” Victor giggled and kissed Yuuri breathless while the driver turned on some top 40s pop station. They held hands and talked in hushed voices until they reached their stop.

Yuuri paid the driver while Victor struggled to get his keys out of his pocket. He ended up dropping them, and Yuuri laughed while picking them back up. “Lose something?” 

“Nope.” Victor grabbed Yuuri and swung him around with the ease of over twenty years of training, and then countless weeks of lifting him on the ice. The only thing he loved more than picking Yuuri up was Yuuri picking him up. “I think I just found it.” 

Yuuri threw his head back his laughter echoing down the dark street. “Save some for the ice Viten’ka!” Yuuri was dropped to the ground lightly. Yuuri’s hands traced down shoulders to Victor’s forearms. He leaned forward some his head resting just on Victor’s shoulder. “And you can never lose me. I’m here forever.” 

“And you call me the affectionate drunk.”

Yuuri wrinkled his nose before tugging Victor down with by his own tie. Eventually, the chill of the Russian night sent them inside where a (slightly grumpy from being left alone) poodle was waiting for them. 

I’m not saying Alison is lying but all we know about the baby is what she’s telling us. We never saw her at the doctors.
Whenever Emily wants to go with her something happens and Alison goes by herself.
I actually don’t believe that she is pregnant. What does this have to do with the game? Thats just sick and disgusting.