Tbh I'm disappointed, not in your divorce/early marriage Bri but in the fact that you've gained weight that if I,at your age had been smart enough to keep up with my body so I wouldn't have to deal with the health problems I have now despite losing the weight, would've killed to be at.You were at a good weight for your age/height.You're not severely overweight now but I worry. I'm always going to worry that one day you'll turn into one of those HAES idiots who demads the world fuck/love them.
I honestly can’t believe I got a message this fucking gross. What did my ex send this or something? You’re “worried about my health” because I’ve gained weight but I’m still completely in the healthy range. This is absolutely ridiculous because when I was what YOU consider to be a “healthy” weight for me was when I was constantly dieting, intermittent starving, depressed, and obsessed with exercise. I was 120-130lbs, now I’m now I’m a solid 140-145lbs, eating regularly and doing a healthy amount of physical activity.
You looked at me and saw that I am not skinny anymore and because of that, you decided that I am no longer healthy. You didn’t know what my weight is, you didn’t know what my height was, otherwise you would have known that I’m in a totally healthy weight range. I even look healthy but you looked at me, and saw a girl who wasn’t skinny, and decided that I must be on my way becoming an overweight cow monster.
Feel free to get off my blog. I don’t need this kind of negative bullshit here.